Chapter 179: The Lion and the Man
Three days later, Xiang Qixuan left, Mi Zixuan didn't send her, but just sent her a WeChat message with only two words - wait for me!
It's not that Mi Zixuan doesn't want to send her, but he doesn't want to further increase the contradiction between Xiang Qixuan and his parents because of his appearance.
Mi Zixuan, who is a man in two lives, also understands why Xiang Qixuan's father has to take them apart, he is much younger than Xiang Qixuan, too young, what does it mean to be young? In layman's terms, being young means that there is no hair on the mouth and not doing things well, and in elegant terms, it means that he is not mature and stable enough, and he is a child.
The daughter who is willing to raise himself single-handedly and show that he is a pearl when the father is willing to give it to such a person? Few are willing, because they are fathers, so they are afraid that their daughters will be hurt, they are from the past, they know that the shelf life of love is not long, after falling in love, the shortcomings of both parties will begin to expand and amplify infinitely, if Mi Zixuan is a mature man, he will tolerate Xiang Qixuan's various shortcomings, and he will even try to change his shortcomings to stabilize the relationship between the two parties.
But in Xiang's father's opinion, Mi Zixuan is a child who has not grown all his hair, all he wants is to play, he is not mature, he will not tolerate Xiang Qixuan's shortcomings like a mature man, and he will not work hard to change his own shortcomings, he will only quarrel with Xiang Qixuan without saying a word, and then leave from Xiang Qixuan's side like a angry child.
This is a great harm to Xiang Qixuan, as a father, he doesn't want to see his daughter experience a very failed and bad relationship before she enters the palace of marriage, which will affect her life.
In Youxian County, which is too small and open-minded enough, young people are better, but it is difficult for people of their age to accept such a thing as teacher-student love, not to mention that Xiang's father is a teacher, and his circle is almost all composed of teachers, if he lets his friends know that his daughter has found a man who is much younger than her, or her student, to fall in love and get married, will there be less gossip?
There are two skins on the human mouth, but sometimes it is more powerful than a knife, it can kill people in an instant, and it is still the kind that kills people without seeing blood.
Xiang's father couldn't stand these remarks, he didn't want to hold his head up in front of his friends and relatives, and he didn't want to be poked in the back.
So he wants to break up Xiang Qixuan and Mi Zixuan, even if he smashes the pot and sells the iron and sells the house, even if he is cheeky to find students who never contact him, he will not hesitate to do anything for his daughter, as a father, he doesn't want his daughter to be hurt in any way.
These Mi Zixuan understand, so he will not be selfish enough to quarrel with Xiang Qixuan, he has to let her give up the good opportunity to leave the small hospital and fly to the big hospital to be with him, he can't be so selfish, loving someone is fulfillment, not blindly possessing, this Mi Zixuan sees this very clearly, so he chooses to let go temporarily, and agrees with Xiang Qixuan that he will go to the provincial hospital, not to see Qi Xuan, but to work there.
appeared in front of her as a successful man, appeared in front of her parents, used his success, maturity and sincerity to eliminate her father's concerns, and finally got their blessing to be with Xiang Qixuan.
Mi Zixuan is romantic, and in the eyes of many people, he is a personal scumbag and a scumbag, but his rules of doing things and principles of being a person are not personal scumbags or scumbags, but these are originally Mao Dun's, not the standard of a scumbag is single-mindedness, but will Mi Zixuan be single-minded? Apparently not, so he still seems to be a scumbag.
But this is the idea of ordinary people, a man is like a lion, he will have a group of lionesses, this is the instinct of animals, and people are also animals, one of the people - men are also animals, so they will always have the idea of a lion in their bones, rule a group of lionesses, and continue the offspring with excellent genes for him, which will never change no matter how long human beings experience, because this is the law of nature.
But the male lion who wants to rule a group of lionesses is destined to be the most powerful, and so is man, in ancient times, men embodied their strength like animals - force, but in modern times, the things that reflect the strength of men have changed, and there have become more, identity, status, power, wealth, and so on.
And these things are not available to ordinary people, this world is like this, there are many ordinary people who do nothing, but the big people who call for wind and rain are rare, not every ordinary person can become a high-ranking person, but Mi Zixuan is different, it is only a matter of time for him to get these things, so he is destined not to be an ordinary man, sooner or later one day he will fly high and soar high in the sky to see all living beings.
Such a person is destined to have only one woman in this life, when a man is strong to a certain extent, the animal instinct will be awakened unconsciously, and he wants to possess more women and continue his excellent genes for him.
In fact, such things can be seen everywhere, why are there so many women outside those who are rich and powerful? In fact, it's just that the instinct of animals is awakened, and all ordinary people can do is to sour ridicule a few words, saying that such a person is not a thing, and he just knows how to play with women. They are jealous, they are envious, but they do not have the ability to be such people, and if possible, they will not look for less than those who were once despised by them, but will look for more women.
It's human nature, dogs are always dogs, but people are sometimes not human.
At least Mi Zixuan is much stronger than some people, at least he has his morality, and he will not do things that he has to do from the beginning to the end.
After Xiang Qixuan left, side effects also began to appear, and the hospital had rumors that Xiang Qixuan and Mi Zixuan were separated, it was not strange to have such gossip, Xiang Qixuan went to the provincial hospital in the name of further study, but the hospital for further study was found by herself, not the hospital, and the cost was also paid by herself, not by the hospital.
Is it just to go to a big hospital for a year, learn something and come back?
This is obviously impossible, no doctor will spend so much blood to go out for a year of further study in the coming back, it is not difficult to want to study, the hospital has places in various departments every year, especially a young doctor like Xiang Qixuan, if she wants to go out to study, she can wait, it will be her turn next year at the latest, the hospital and the cost of further study are all responsible for the county hospital, how trouble-free is this?
But Xiang Qixuan did not choose to save trouble, but chose trouble, the people in the hospital are not fools, they can see that Xiang Qixuan has paid such a big amount of blood to stay in the provincial hospital and does not plan to come back.
She's gone, but Mi Zixuan is still there, is it possible for the two of them to be together? Even if the relationship is still there, but a year later, Mi Zixuan is at best just a little doctor in a county-level second-class hospital. It is a doctor in a super-large tertiary hospital like a provincial hospital, the identities of the two parties have undergone a qualitative change, the identities are no longer equal, and the two people are still separated from each other, and the unswerving love can not withstand the geographical gap, and the huge gap in status can not withstand it, especially the status of women is higher than that of men, which will cause men's self-esteem to be unbearable.
Therefore, it is certain that Xiang Qixuan and Mi Zixuan will break up, and it is irretrievable.
Most people breathed a sigh of relief for this matter, and secretly rejoiced in their hearts that Mi Zixuan had finally suffered a setback, it was too smooth sailing after beating him to the county hospital, the director liked him, and the dean treated him as a baby, an intern who had only been in the hospital for a few months had the qualifications to dispose of patients alone, and it was specially approved by the dean, and then he picked the courtyard flower of Xiang Qixuan, how could others not be jealous?
When you are prosperous, others are jealous of you, when you are miserable and you can't eat, others laugh at you, human nature is nothing more than that.
In the past few days, Mi Zixuan has also been listless, in the eyes of others, this is the sequelae of broken love, some people hide to the side to watch his jokes, some people shake their heads and smile bitterly, sighing that Mi Zixuan is young, what a big deal it is to fall out of love, as for this?
The reason why Mi Zixuan was listless was not that Xiang Qixuan left, he knew very well that it wouldn't be long before he would see Xiang Qixuan, who was with her in a bright and bright way, making everyone fall to the ground.
The real reason for his virtue is that he is lazy to stay in the otolaryngology, Wu Liqing has not come to work, Sun Jinlai doesn't care about anything except surgery, it's all Mi Zixuan's, he is now an outpatient clinic, and he has to manage the admitted patients in the ward, he is on night shift, out of the emergency department, tired like a dead dog every day, and the money is estimated to be nothing, can he not be listless?
Now Mi Zixuan is living with his fingers crossed, desperately hoping that Su Zhiqiang will quickly find someone to top the tank, he is really lazy to stay in this place.
Two days later, Lan Xintong officially rotated to the ENT Department and became a trainee nurse in the ENT Department, and a nurse at the level of an aunt warmly welcomed Lan Xintong's arrival, not because this girl was beautiful and well-behaved, but because she finally came to help them work.
That afternoon, Mi Zixuan ran to the ward and began to write the medical records of the newly admitted patients listlessly.
Lan Xintong happily followed a nurse to work in the ward, seeing her excitement Mi Zixuan pouted, stupid hat, what do you have to be excited about? Do you think these aunts are doing their best to teach you for your good? It's just that I want to teach them you as soon as possible so that you can do all the work, two hundred and five.
Mi Zixuan finished writing the medical record, stretched his waist and yawned and was about to leave, it was almost time to get off work, so he would not keep it until five o'clock and get off work on time like everyone else, these rules are bullshit for him, he will not arrive late, because there are more patients in the morning, but Mi Zixuan often does this thing because of this point, because there are basically no patients at this point, and he is very tired every day, he has not slept peacefully recently, and he is old in the middle of the night, he decided to go home and sleep first.
Seeing that he was leaving, Lan Xintong was surprised: "Mi Zixuan, why are you going?" ”