Chapter 109: Cliché
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Song Yufang only smiled, greeted several elders separately, and went in with her parents to ask Bao for peace.
When she came out all the way, she heard the eldest lady chattering about her: "I heard that the wife of the speaker and the wife of the chief may not know that there are people like us in Sijiu City now, but they must know that there is a bank lady surnamed Song." In these years, the wife club has sprung up. Listening to my mother's brother and sister-in-law, whether it is business or officialdom, the concept of parents has changed. thinks that there should be a wife and grandmother in the family who doesn't let the eyebrows go, that's really ......" Speaking of Xingtou, he happened to see Song Yufang coming out, so he hurriedly stepped forward and grabbed him, "Yo, this is not talking about Cao Cao, Cao Cao is here." ”
"Auntie!" Song Yufang called out to her, "I heard that you also started to make coffee and drink?" ”
The smile on the eldest lady's face froze for a moment, and she snorted coldly: "Yo, Xiaoyu, don't have words in your words. Say that I learn from the style of your new-school characters, but my thinking is old, and I can't draw a tiger into an anti-dog, right? ”
Song Yufang smiled and shook her head, but she didn't deny it.
At this time, the third wife also stood up to play a round and explained to Song Yufang: "Okay, Xiaoyu didn't mean that. Of course, Xiaoyu, your aunt naturally doesn't mean that way. When it comes to marriage, a character like you must practice free love. But is there love in freedom, obviously someone still needs to match the bridge, there is a chance to meet, let's ......"
A year has passed since I dared to love, but I haven't let go of this idea, and I still want to set Song Yufang's marriage according to the old rules.
Although compared with last year, Song Yufang is more and more confident in taking control of her life, but the hesitation of not wanting to argue with her family on Chinese New Year's Eve has not changed. She blushed and excused herself with a smile: "My mind is on work, and I really don't have that time." There is no time to communicate. Could it be that when two people meet each other, they have eyes and make a direct decision? That's not appropriate. Let's talk about it in two years. ”
The third lady shook her head like a rattle: "No, no, you don't understand, the higher the position, the less time you have to get along with others." But the older a woman gets, the more she should think about the next generation. You want to be strong for the rest of your life, and no one will ...... when you're old."
Before the word "end" was spoken, the corners of Song Yufang's eyes had already drooped.
The eldest lady hurriedly intercepted the unlucky words and said with a smile: "In short, what your aunt means is that it is okay to be strong, but to have a long-term vision." Fighting outside is not a woman's destination after all. You are still young now, don't think, but when you are old in the future, you will know, everyone wants a home. You are in your youth now, and the people you can match are much better than when you are old. Besides, our family also knows some dignitaries and dignitaries......"
"My own daughter, I don't know about myself, and she didn't say she didn't want home." Mrs. Song, who had never spoken, walked between the two concubines, curled the corners of her lips, and looked a little proud, "You two think, what is the threshold of the bank?" Sweepers have to be literate. As for those staff, what college students, international students, doctoral students, Xiaoyu has seen a lot, where is there no chance. She has a daughter's family, so it's not easy to tell the two elders directly, after all, you also mean well. ”
The eldest lady saw her eyebrows dancing like this, how could she not understand, and asked repeatedly: "Speaking of which...... Someone chosen? Who, a local, what is his family background, have you ever been together? ”
Mother interrupted, Song Yufang didn't know whether to thank her, or to feel annoyed. A perfunctory question has attracted more people's attention.
Mrs. Song was still selling Guan Zi with a smug face, and her voice became more and more raised: "Don't worry, you're still young, let's pick again." ”
The third lady smiled with relief, and used words to find fun: "Listen to the words of the second sister-in-law, when there is no shadow, she is in a hurry, but now she is on the shelf." ”
"What's not to understand here, it's the meaning of picking eyes." On the one hand, she looked at her mother and daughter's expressions curiously, wanting to find some clues, and on the other hand, she was unwilling, and deliberately said to the third wife, "However, when you become a mother-in-law, it will probably be like this." When the time comes, we will have to repair the threshold. ”
Mrs. Song slapped her eyes to the sky, turned around and sat down in a chair, looking unhappy.
Song Yufang was too lazy to take care of it, with an involuntary smile, she was silent.
It happened that Bao Shi came from the house and heard several daughters-in-law talking. turned his head, looked at Song Ziming, and his face sank: "Your daughter-in-law is so lively, do you know who it is?" If you look like that, you don't even know it. Half of my old bones are in the ground, one day on a safe birthday, just a day on a peaceful birthday, why do you still want to hate this, isn't it just afraid that the children's family is not sensible, so it doesn't matter. ”
"I'll go back and ask." Song Ziming agreed, and arched his hand with a guilty face.
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Because of the fear of poor security on the road, Song Ziming's family of four did not stay in Damucang to keep the New Year this year.
But when I returned to the small yard of my home, I didn't have the warmth of a small home, but I felt a lot more deserted. No one was noisy, but no one was talking.
At this time, Song Ziming coughed lightly and got up, as if he was going to talk about some important topics.
Song Yufang yawned, held her palm at him, and took the first step: "Okay, save you from being so embarrassed, I'll start." It's just a matter of getting married, and I haven't left this topic for a day today. ”
Song Ziming was caught off guard by his daughter, and when he saw his wife laughing beside him, he wanted to show some momentum more and more, and said with a straight face: "It's all for your good, what are you bothering about." ”
Song Yufang sneered and sighed: "In the first year, I was wondering if I hadn't worked hard enough to let you see that even if I didn't get married, I could make myself live well and let you live well." So I worked hard to develop my abilities and ambitions in the bank, not only hoping to earn money to support my family, but also hoping to learn all aspects of the operation and management of a bank. In the past second year, I was satisfied with my work results, but I still failed to fight for freedom in terms of family. ”
Song Ziming flicked his sleeves, stood up, and walked up to her to reason: "Don't be in a hurry to buckle your hat, you also think about this matter from beginning to end, no one is forcing you, we are just reasoning with you and giving you a choice, no one knocked you out and stuffed you into a sedan chair." It's you, dead or alive, always on your lips. ”
Song Yufang was not intimidated by this momentum, and became even more sharp-tongued: "Yes, now is the era of talking about civilization, let's no longer directly put the power of parents into violence." Gradually, the use of verbal and spiritual oppression began. Endless talking, coercion or inducement, until the day I get on the sedan chair, I will not stop talking about this. That's all that, according to your reasoning, no matter what the elders do, as long as I'm unhappy, it's my crankiness. That's still the old question, is what the elders do and say necessarily right? ”
Song Ziming slapped the table at her and said: "When you talk about marriage at a marriageable age, why is it coercive and tempting and mentally oppressed?" What do you have to talk about when you sit as a family, but people just talk, it's not okay? ”
Song Yufang stood up and gestured, looking very excited: "Of course you can, chatting is also a way of communication." But after I expressed my wishes, you didn't seem to hear it, and you didn't take it to heart at all, and said the same thing as usual. Do you respect me, is this democratic? I know what the newlywed view of love is written in the newspaper, and if you can't get used to it or don't want to change it, then don't ask, why bother talking about it......"
At this time, Mrs. Song, who came over with supper, stood between the father and daughter, and persuaded: "Okay, what's the toss for the New Year!" In my opinion, if you make a big noise about no candidate, that's no way. As he was talking, he tugged at Song Ziming's shirt sleeve, and said with flashing eyes, "There is one in front of your eyes, you can't say a few words?" ”
When Song Ziming heard this, instead of being angry, he became more and more angry: "Listen to you, do you know some shadows?" I'm the head of the family, is it appropriate to hide such a big matter from me? ”
And Song Yufang had already blushed, and she didn't know what to do.
Only Mrs. Song said complacently: "Isn't it the shame of the girl's family." ”
Song Ziming walked up to his daughter, shook his fingers vigorously, meaning that he would settle the accounts separately later, and then turned around and shouted at Mrs. Song: "Then it's okay if you tell me in private, I have to inquire about the whereabouts." ”
"It's her who is on the peak, the person who can manage her, and the one who holds the golden rice bowl, can there be any mistakes?" Mrs. Song chuckled disapprovingly.
Song Ziming said that she was really confused: "The background is high and low, and the work is good, but it is not next to the character." Are there still fewer scum who have literati and ink writers and progressive young people deceiving women this year? ”
Mrs. Song was asked at once, and she seemed to be a little afraid, so she explained repeatedly: "I know what the surname is, I said Xiaoyu, ......."
As soon as the couple turned around, there was no shadow, and Song Yufang had already hid back in the room.
"You see, you see, it's all what you're used to." Song Ziming pointed at the courtyard and walked away.
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I saw Song Jinfang sneaking in, pulled the book in Song Yufang's hand, and said to her seriously: "Sister, you said that the citizens of a country don't even have the freedom to marry, where is there still sovereignty and freedom to talk about." ”
Song Yufang, as a person who has come over, has nothing to understand. sneered, and began to talk about her reasoning: "I know what is circulating on campus, and I also know that students of your age have a desire to talk about doctrine." But I must say that your sister and I are indeed a person who is more silent, but silence does not mean that there is no position in my heart, I am just more willing to prove my determination with actions. The student years are a time when it is easy to accept ideas, so you are often full of theories, and when you start to do something, you will not solve the problem. You have to remember that the knowledge you have may not be really useful to you until it has been tested by society. ”