Chapter 257
Seeing Yu Xiling nodding, Xu Zhaodi's chest was suffocated, thinking of her son's original persuasion, as well as Xi'an's phone call, she was just stuffy in her heart, but in the end, she really couldn't help it, and still read Yu Xiling's two sentences, she shouldn't take Gu Jun to an outsider's house for the New Year.
Yu Xiling followed her, and listened with a smile, anyway, Xu Zhaodi couldn't help but say, and it would be fine after listening to her.
Sure enough, after talking for a while, seeing that Yu Xiling didn't care and was still smiling, Xu Zhaodi had no choice, and patted her shoulder with hatred, "You two are not married yet, you give me some points in my heart!" ”
"Yes, yes, yes." Yu Xiling smiled.
She didn't expect Gu Jun to really go to Peng to pick her up.
Xu Zhaodi couldn't help her, she scolded with a smile, and let her go, and when she arrived at Grandma Song, she counted the things that Yu Xiling brought back, but she couldn't help but sigh.
"It's because of Xiling and Gu Jun." Grandma Song glanced at Xu Zhaodi, Xu Zhaodi, the daughter-in-law, has obvious shortcomings and outstanding advantages, but as a mother-in-law, she is satisfied with Xu Zhaodi.
It's true that I don't have knowledge, and it's true that I have a small family, so for so many years, Song Qingyu has taken Xu Zhaodi to live in Qingyuan, Grandma Song has no opinion, and really insists on letting them go back to the capital, Xu Zhaodi will definitely not be able to adapt to it, and I am afraid that I will not be able to live my life.
However, Xu Zhaodi has a gentle and soft temperament and will take care of people, Song Qingyu himself is a very assertive person, and he doesn't need a stronger person to dominate his life, Xu Zhaodi is very good in this way, and the days of their young couple over the years have indeed lived a harmonious and beautiful life, and Grandma Song is very satisfied.
Xu Zhaodi mentioned this and sighed again, Grandma Song had never had any mother-in-law in front of her, and Xu Zhaodi did not have that sense of restraint towards Grandma Song, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very harmonious and she could speak.
From the time Yu Xiling and Gu Jun were together, everyone around her seemed to be standing on the opposite side of her, she fought alone, and finally reluctantly accepted this matter.
But she is only neutral, accepting but not approving.
She thought that Grandma Song was also a mother, and she would probably understand her thoughts, so she couldn't help but want to talk to her, "Yes, Mom, Gu Jun is so much older than Xiling." ”
There is no way to solve the problem of age, but fate is rare, and it is good for children to break through the resistance and look at each other.
"You probably don't know that Qingyu's grandparents are thirteen years old, and the old couple finally helped each other to old age, and Qingyu's grandmother lived to be more than eighty years old, walking ahead of his grandfather." Grandma Song smiled and told Xu Zhaodi about her in-laws, they were all old things, and they were a bit legendary.
"In the compound, there are a lot of old husbands and young wives, and it is not uncommon to miss a round, no matter how we get to one place, you see if they are still doing well now."
"......" Xu Zhaodi, even her mother-in-law stood opposite.
"There are not a few couples who are much worse in age, and there are not a few couples who are living well and helping each other to grow old, and there are not a few couples who are close in age, friction and quarrel, and there are not a few who break up halfway." Grandma Song glanced at Xu Zhaodi with a look of grievance, and simply gave her a ruthless face, "You see that you and Xiling's father are close in age." ”
The result?
"......" Xu Zhaodi was speechless.
Grandma Song smiled, took Xu Zhaodi's hand and patted it, "I know, you are a mother, you only want to be happy, but the main thing a woman has to look at when she marries, don't you say?" ”
Xu Zhaodi nodded, she wanted to say that Xiling was different from her, and those who were close to her age may not have a good youth, but she didn't know where to start, it was undeniable that Gu Jun was really good, not to mention age.
"Besides, the issue of seniority that you mind, it's not your family name, it's just an in-law relationship that can't be along, and this in-law relationship was concluded later." Grandma Song put the gift that Yu Xiling brought to Xu Zhaodi in the palm of her hand, "You, relax, the days are happy, you have to believe her." ”
In addition to relaxing, what else can I do, Xu Zhaodi didn't dare to sigh angrily, forget it, let her go.
Qiao Zhiliang had already boarded the plane to Feihai City when Yu Xiling and the others flew from Pengcheng to the capital, and he went to the capital on the morning of the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, accompanied Grandpa Song and Grandma Song to have a reunion dinner, rested at home for one night, and left directly the next morning.
It happened to be staggered with Yu Xiling.
With the assistance of Grandma Song, Gu Jun's visit to see his future father-in-law and mother-in-law was very smooth, Xu Zhaodi did not make it difficult for him, nor did he talk to him alone, after confirming Gu Jun's mind and plan for the future, Xu Zhaodi acquiesced to the matter between the two of them.
is probably awkward and can't completely let go of agree, but Xu Zhaodi can do it to this extent, and Yu Xiling is already very content.
As for Yu Xiling going to the Gu family, it will be smoother, after all, this meeting is the New Year, the juniors of the Gu family are basically there, and I don't know who opened the mouth first, Yu Xiling directly became their "little aunt" and "little uncle and grandmother".
Gu Jun's eldest nephew was older than Yu Xiling, and when he called out to his little aunt, his expression was naturally respectful, and he also taught the child to call uncle and grandmother, but Yu Xiling was a little embarrassed.
This time, Yu Xiling gave a large amount of New Year's money, and she was also given New Year's money by Gu's mother, which was very thick! And there's something else in it.
"......" Yu Xiling, she seemed to see Gu Jun's sister-in-law squeezing her eyes at her.
Gu Jun sent Yu Xiling home, because the car was parked at Song's house, Gu Jun took her hand and walked slowly to Song's house, Gu Jun was actually a little old-fashioned at first, thinking that under the public, young men and women should keep a proper distance, not too close, and so on.
Until he met Yu Xiling, his principles and standards retreated step by step, and finally he was completely defeated, and finally had no principles.
Wei Dang stood by the window, silently watching them walk away side by side, his mouth was bitter and his heart was also bitter, Lin Mumian looked at Wei Dang strangely, completely unable to understand his thoughts, "I heard Professor Song talk about you, I don't understand, why did you choose to give up, she is very good and brave." ”
Lin Mumian is the girl who originally arranged a blind date for Wei Dare in the Wei family, with a prominent family background, and she is a genius girl, but she has a very direct way of thinking about things other than academics.
After Wei dared to refuse the blind date, Lin Mumian obeyed the family's arrangement and went on a blind date with another young man, but the other party thought she was boring, soaked in the laboratory for a long time, and was always unkempt and unkempt when dating, so he told his family that he would do it.
That's it, Lin Mumian didn't want to think about getting married, but the family urged her hard, and after that time, she was relieved about her experiment until Wei dared to find her.
Wei Dang said very clearly, he needs a wife with a similar family background, and she also needs a husband who can reassure his family, the two hit it off, and the family arranged a new blind date, and now it has been determined that the relationship is boyfriend and girlfriend, calm and indifferent, more like a stranger's boyfriend and girlfriend.
"Because ......" Wei dared to smile bitterly, because that night, he heard the truth that made him fall into the abyss.
Grandparents, including fathers, have such a strong sense of family, why would they look at their mother, who was from a mediocre background, but who joined the party with her own efforts, it seems that no one has ever thought about this problem.
The death of his mother, as well as his mother Song Yun knew that she was pregnant, why her first reaction was to kill the child, and after the family learned that there would be a little sister, why did the grandparents be like a big enemy and guard him so deeply, these are not without reason.
Since he was a child, Song Yun and his aunt have been protecting him.
Later, Wei Dang remembered that he lived in the capital, and it seemed that his grandparents had never taken him, and he had never had too many memories related to his grandparents, and he always thought that his grandparents were busy with work, but then he thought about it, no.
Whenever Song Yun was busy with a new topic and his aunt was busy with her studies, they would send him to his grandfather's house in Qingyuan, instead of handing him over to his grandparents, who had been like this since he was a child, including his grandparents' retirement after he was six years old.
That's why when my aunt left, I would tell him to let him live his own life, do whatever he does when he becomes an adult, don't go to the army, and don't be sad because of his father and grandmother.
That's why he was entrusted to Gu Gu...... Uncle Gu, instead of handing it over to the Wei family, including his father.
Wei Dang never understood, but that night, he did.
's mother came from a mediocre background, but she had the ability to fight hard in the army, and marrying her was of great help to Wei's father's work at that time.
As for his mother's sacrifice, Wei Dare covered his face in pain, although the accident was an accident, it was also artificial.
Later, they also forced to death the little aunt who really loved him, as for why the family would pay attention to him, Wei dared to laugh self-deprecatingly, probably because he had a very good development momentum in the army, and they saw the potential.
"I'm sorry." Lin Mumian didn't expect to hear this, she really felt a little sorry for the man in front of her.
The corners of Wei Dang's mouth were bitter, "Don't say I'm sorry, the person who should say I'm sorry is me, such a me and such a family, are you still willing to be my wife?" I may not be able to give you anything, and I even feel like I'm just as cold-blooded as they are now. ”
Lin Mumian sighed, she might not be able to give Wei Dang anything, after all, if it wasn't for the family's urgent urging, she really felt that her husband's existence was not necessary.
She is also afraid that her other half will have feelings for her, which will be a big burden for her.
"It's okay, I have the Lin family behind me." Lin Mumian smiled indifferently, the Wei family took a fancy to the Lin family's family background, and the parents at home felt that Wei Dang was a good child worthy of being entrusted for life, and she was not disgusted with Wei Dang, and was very pleased that he didn't have to work at home for many years.
It's good that they each have their own place, but she sympathizes with Wei Dang and Yu Xiling in her heart.
The scientific research institute belongs to the military industrial unit, and she happened to see the scene at the airport when she was going on a business trip to other places.