Chapter 323: Encouragement
Chapter 323: Encouragement
"Don't bully the young man to be poor" Song Lei lowered his head and muttered to himself, savoring the words that Gu Zhicheng gave him.
"Song Lei, tell me what you lack, you don't lack technology, you have your own technology. You lack resources, I will help you find resources, you lack buyers, I will find you buyers. As long as you can cheer up and prove yourself" Gu Zhicheng's words rang in his ears, but it was easier said than done.
"But my parents don't support me, they, they don't want me to be a fisherman." Song Lei had a painful and difficult expression on his face, as if there was a rope in his life pulling him.
"I don't believe you because I don't see hope, you have to give them hope. You want to let them know that you are not a child, that you are an adult. Could it be that you are also at the mercy of others when you prepare for your next relationship, you don't even have the courage to choose your own marriage, what dreams do you talk about, what career do you talk about" Gu Zhicheng's words sounded in his ears like a thunderclap.
He was right, he had always been in the impression of his parents as a child. A child who needs their protection and maintenance, he is obviously tall and strong, and he can already support himself. But when he encountered a setback, he still had to ask his parents to come forward, and he could only worry at home.
"You're right, thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, don't bully young people into poverty. I'll let them see if I, Song Lei, am I a nerd or not" The fighting spirit was rekindled, and Gu Zhicheng seemed to see the raging fire on a teenager.
When everyone is in their early twenties, they are full of fighting spirit and hope to go out into society. Some people fall and get up, and they don't hit the south wall and don't look back. Some people fall and can't get up, so they resign themselves to going home and being that ordinary person.
Others said that Zhang Cuilian was restless, that she was too capable of tossing a woman, and that she was too strong. Some people even muttered to themselves that such a daughter-in-law can't be kept. Zhang Cuilian earned twice as much money as his allowance at first, then tripled, and then dozens of times. People in the know are laughing behind his back, saying that he is a little white face and is supported by his wife. Later, many people said that in fact, Zhang Cuilian's businesses were all slept out by her, otherwise it would be ridiculous for a woman to make money so easily without a background.
I don't know how many people look at him with sympathy, pity and even mockery, and laugh at him for wearing a green hat on his head and not knowing it.
He wasn't angry, he knew these people were jealous of her. He also knows what kind of person Zhang Cuilian is, and what she does everything for. When something happened at home, he was disheartened and insisted that Zhang Cuilian close the store and live with the army.
Everyone disagreed, father-in-law and mother-in-law disagreed, and parents did not agree. It was Gu Zhiqiu who called three times and twice, saying that he was now bent on going his own way. even asked: "My sister-in-law earns more than you, your face is dull, you don't earn money, accompany you to that place to suffer, if you have the ability, don't sprinkle this anger on your sister-in-law, you come out to do business and make money."
Only Zhang Cuilian believed in him and transferred the store without distress. It was much more simply than when she was in Suiyuan, and at that time she went to work with a big belly and enthusiasm. Can you really give up these hard-won careers, and say that you will let go of it, and you really don't feel aggrieved at all
She said: "The days when I can't be reunited as a family are the most aggrieved, and I am even more aggrieved by suffering from these bad things all day long." ”
The value of a person is not measured by money, and women in the family do not have to earn less than men. Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, who knew that one day he would earn more than her at once, and he could support her
Gu Zhicheng shook his head and eliminated those things in the past. Listen to Song Lei said: "Our fish pond is too small, and we can't see much change if the technology is improved." The best thing now is to be able to expand the area of the fish pond, but the family doesn't have that much money."
"There is no money to help you apply for a loan, and there is no interest on a start-up loan. As for contracting more fish ponds, this matter is also easy to do, and I can handle the approval procedures for you. It's just that I still have to go to other people's homes, and I can't take care of you just because you're a professional student. "A bowl of water is flat, and there is no special treatment. Song Lei nodded understandingly, it was enough to help him apply for an interest-free loan. A man must be content in order to be happy.
The guarantee given by Gu Zhicheng made Song Lei's parents a little embarrassed, and Song Lei's mother said bitterly: "Secretary Gu, I know you are kind. But my son, although he studied this major. But you say, this is a good college student who goes home to raise fish, doesn't it make people laugh?"
Song Lei saw that his mother was about to stop him again, so he jumped to his feet angrily: "Mom, can't you let me do what I like?"
"You know what, Mom, it's for your own good. What is the interest of fishing, how good it is to sit in the office, the wind can't blow and the rain can't dry. What are you doing here, I didn't agree with it when I first studied this major. You said how good it is to learn to be a doctor or something, you child, disobedient" Just like the mother of all families, Mother Song began to talk about the past.
In the eyes of these mothers, it seems that the child will never grow up. They want to come out of one way, let go of the well-arranged road, and do not go way, but go willfully to other roads. even feels that children will always be children, without dignity, spine, and face.
Song Lei was anxious by what his mother said, so he stood up and kicked off the stool and left. When he entered his room, he shouted loudly: "Don't you just dislike me for not having a job and embarrassing you, I'll go out to find a job now, I won't come back for a day if I don't have a job." You don't have to worry about dying outside, you think I'm embarrassed."
He is a motivated child, and he has had a smooth journey from childhood to adulthood without letting his parents worry about it. Before graduating from college, I was always proud of my parents, and I had the confidence to do anything. It's just that because of work, these two people have a little bit of a bad taste.
Now Song Lei suddenly lost his temper and even had to leave home to look for a job. put cruel words in his mouth, which scared the two of them enough. It is said that people with good tempers don't get angry, but it is very scary to lose their temper suddenly.
Now Song Lei is like this, and he has just been inspired by Gu Zhicheng outside. In less than fifteen minutes, he was directly extinguished by his own mother. Such a mood can be imagined, and the belated rebellion finally broke out on this day.
Without waiting for Gu Zhicheng to put down his embarrassed face, the two of them had already rushed to the next room. saw Song Lei wiping tears while puffing out his clothes and packing his luggage. The old couple is such a son, and it is the first time in more than 20 years that they have been so angry. Where do you dare to say anything, hurriedly go over to coax.
"Your mom is like that, willing to nag and nag. Don't be like your mother" Father Song stepped forward and pressed his hand that was cleaning up, and Song Lei's mother also persuaded: "That's it, what kind of work are you looking for, what can you do, and you can also move bricks and serve dishes."
"Hey, why are you still talking. Shut your mouth" Song Lei's father scolded his wife, and Song Lei's mother hurriedly shut up. But it was too late, Song Lei cried and threw the things in his hand to the ground. The crying was breathless: "I just serve the dishes, and I don't stay at home, and I am disgusted by you." ”
Knowing her son Mo Ruomu, she is very clear about Song Lei's pressure in the past few months. The gossip outside, the ruthlessness and unrighteousness of the Yang family, and the gloomy future all made this child very stressed. It's just that he is sensible and obedient, and never tells his parents this.
Today, I don't know how to touch the child, and I vented it out. squatted on the ground and cried, and Song Lei's mother also wiped her tears.
Father Song pushed his wife: "You are really, why are you so stimulating the child, he is not stressed enough, you want to force him to death"
Song Lei's mother was also aggrieved: "I'm just talking, and I don't usually say the same." Who knows what's wrong with the kid today, I, I didn't say anything."
At this time, the two of them remembered Gu Zhicheng and found him standing at the door of the room. The old couple hurriedly walked over and said embarrassedly: "Look, Secretary Gu made you laugh." This, hey, our family is not usually like this. ”
Gu Zhicheng walked into the room and looked at Song Lei's awards spread all over the wall. said lightly: "It's good to vent negative emotions, and sooner or later you will get sick if you hold it in your heart." ”
The old couple nodded awkwardly and said yes again and again, Gu Zhicheng sighed and said, "I don't blame you for this, I just talked to Xiao Song." It was I who gave him a lot of hope and encouraged him to start his own business. I made a decision privately without consulting the two old men, and I was not careful. ”
These words made the two old men a little embarrassed, and Song Lei's father waved his hand: "Where, where, we know that Secretary Gu has good intentions." Oh, I, the two of us are afraid that the child will not be able to endure this hardship. ”
"What is going to school for" Gu Zhicheng suddenly opened his mouth to ask the two of them, Dad Song was slightly stunned and then smiled: "In order to have a good future." ”
"Then what is a good future, being a soldier in my era was a good future, but being a non-commissioned officer is still a minority after all. Most of them have been working for a few years and have returned home, some have jobs, and some are still the same. After a few more years, going to work in the factory was an iron rice bowl. But as you know, those factories in Q City can't pay wages and don't work. Isn't that a good job?"
Mother Song muttered to herself when she heard this: "But, no one can say this." We don't know what's good and what's bad, and who knows what's going to happen in the future."
Gu Zhicheng asked rhetorically: "If one day he opens a restaurant and becomes the boss, do you think this school is a loss?"
Mother Song was stunned: "Where can we open a big restaurant, how much does it cost." ”
"No matter how big the restaurant is, isn't it also a restaurant, even if he enters the agency, isn't it a character, can you guarantee that he will become a cadre and go to the official career" Gu Zhicheng's words silenced the Song family's parents, who can guarantee this
Their own children understand for themselves, whether they can see that piece of material. Song Lei's personality is more introverted, otherwise his parents would not be strong in everything. If such a child is put in the compound of the institution, he will be at the bottom for the rest of his life.
"Let him do what he is willing to do, his life has just begun, and it is only right to apply what he has learned. Rather than being able to get ahead elsewhere, it is still easy for him to become a big fish farmer in the county at the moment. The meal should be eaten one bite at a time, and the road should be taken step by step. Other people's paths may not be suitable for your children, and your children's talents are not something that others can learn in three or five years. ”
I don't know when, Song Lei stopped crying. He slowly stood up, and said to his parents with a firm look in his eyes: "Dad, Mom, you believe me once." Just support me this time, and I'm sure I won't let you down. I will pick up the face of the loss."
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