Chapter 141: The World Is So Big
Summer Heat: It's so late, aren't you done with your work yet? Or did you also go to the disaster relief? I don't have anything to do, I'm just bored and want someone to talk to.
Summer Heat: My son has grown up and has his own goal in life, and he is working hard for this goal every day. He became very autonomous, and he no longer needed me to wake him up and dress him; I no longer need to pick me up and drop off from school; Even my love meal is useless. Is it that when the child grows up, he will become lost when he becomes a mother, am I hypocritical?
Three days later, a touch of olive green replied, "Only when a boy leaves his mother's arms can he grow into a real man." Dongdong is a child who grew up in a single-parent family, and you pour double your love into him, so there is a sense of loss. ”
A touch of olive green: "You should be happy that your child has become independent and independent, why should you be disappointed?" Everyone will have different goals at different stages, children grow, you can also grow, change your point of view, find something you are interested in to do, your energy is scattered, you will have different perceptions, you will not be irritable. ”
Summer is scorching: Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years. I've been experiencing something recently, and I'm a little impetuous, like you said, find something interesting to do, and my energy is distracted, maybe I'll be in a better mood.
A touch of olive green: Can you tell me? I have always been the hollow of your tree.
Summer Heat: ...... The child's father appeared.
A touch of olive: ???
Summer Heat: ...... I told you that the child was born after my divorce, and I was not sure that the father would have this child. I'm so lonely in this world, I want someone who won't abandon me at any time or under any circumstances, this person can only be related to me by blood, so that I won't be disappointed.
A touch of olive: ...... There's nothing wrong with thinking so, but raising a child alone can be hard.
Summer Heat: Yes, most people think that it is hard for a single mother to raise a child, but I don't think so. When you are abandoned by the whole world, and there is a little angel smiling at you, you will feel that everything you have paid is so insignificant.
A touch of olive green: Great Mother, salute to you!
Summer Heat: Thank you.
A touch of olive green: Let me pry into your privacy, since you don't find it hard to raise a child, you shouldn't be depressed by his autonomy and independence. Is there any secret in this?
Summer smiled bitterly, Brother Fang still hit the nail on the head: The child's father appeared, and he was so good to the child that he borrowed it from me by the way.
A touch of olive green: don't you like it? Or, not used to it?
Fang Dahan is an excellent soldier, his excellence is not only reflected in military quality, but also in emotion, from the few words in the summer, I feel that she has a lot of trouble.
This distress must have been caused by her own whims, he wanted to confirm further.
Summer Heat: All of them, right? I'm not so sure. I was afraid that my child would hurt his young mind by thinking that he was an abandonment, so I made up a white lie that his father was a soldier who was stationed on the border all the year round and could not come back to visit his family in order to defend his country. My purpose at that time was just to fear that the child would be harmed, but by mistake, the child's father was really a soldier.
A touch of olive green: You can choose to break up before the child is born, can I understand that you don't know much about it, and then you don't have too deep feelings?
Summer Heat: ......
A touch of olive green: OK, it's about your privacy, I'm too abrupt, I'm sorry.
Summer Heat: It doesn't matter, we were all forced to be together at that time, and it was natural to separate, so there was no need to apologize.
A touch of olive green: You're a little emotionally confused right now, and you're afraid that the child's father chose to be with you because of the child, not just because of you, right? In fact, you don't have to think so, 90% of the world's families are together because of improvisation, some care about children, some care about career, and some care about face. No matter what you care about, as long as he wants to be responsible, and you don't get tired of him, why not make do with it?
Summer Heat: ......
A touch of olive green: there are risks in doing anything, and the feelings are the same, some people are together for a lifetime, and they are also passers-by; Some people may just be a casual look, or a lifelong partner. If you still have the slightest idea about him, you can put it into action. Take 10,000 steps back, you care about Dongdong very much, and you should make a sacrifice for your child to have a normal family.
Summer Heat: I can sacrifice everything for my son.
A touch of olive green: If he threatens you with a child, it means that he is still a man of affection, why don't you gamble?
Summer Heat: A Gamble?
A touch of olive green: what if you win?
Summer Heat: ...... I think about it.
A touch of olive green: You are a wise woman with a mind of her own. In fact, you already have an answer in mind, but you just need someone to push it.
Summer Heat: ...... Why is it so straightforward!
A touch of olive green: Okay, I won't tease you. Any plans? I mean, if there is anything you're interested in, you can take advantage of this time to do it, divert your attention, and take a hard look at your current relationship, and I'm sure you'll be able to get out of it.
Summer Heat: Chatting with you always gives me a feeling of seeing the sun.
A touch of olive green: huh? It seems that I should take the "Psychiatrist Qualification Certificate", and when I change jobs, I can open a psychological clinic to support myself.
Summer is scorching: You should be a good People's Liberation Army, Dongdong admires the soldiers the most. I'm probably going on a trip recently to redefine my goals. For so many years, I have been circling around my children, and I am about to lose myself. When my child was young, I would give it my whole heart, and now, he doesn't need me anymore, and it's time to realize my self-worth.
A touch of olive green: That's right, you and your children grow together, there will be a better tomorrow, if you don't want to forge ahead, blindly revolve around the family, you will be out of touch with society, look forward to your mother and son perfect transformation.
Summer Heat: Thank you.
After chatting with Brother Fang, there was a sudden feeling in the summer, yes, I have been blindly revolving around the child for so many years, the child has grown up, has his own opinions, and has already moved towards a real man; As for her, she gradually lost herself and became a woman at home, company, school, and three points and one line.
I used to think that the company's treatment was good, as long as I worked hard, didn't make mistakes, kept this pretty good job, and raised my children well, it was all about life; Rong Chengyao's appearance has brought ripples to her peaceful life, not only Dongdong must have a new education, but also be proactive.
If you don't want to forge ahead, you will be eliminated.
Her son is improving, she is improving, it's time to give herself a new position!
Jiabao's brother is a relative, Rong Chengyao is his son's father, and they are the same person!
This change of identity is not something she can adapt to for a while, the mentality of the summer ostrich prevails, and she really can't continue to wander, she has to fight back, put her to death and live later, and there will be a new beginning!
Summer thought about it again and again and submitted his resignation report.
Mr. Zhang didn't understand what she meant, Xia Ri has been in the company since he was an intern, and he has always been a diligent and enterprising good employee, although weak, but very self-reliant. I've always had a good work attitude, so why quit? Could it be......
"Does your resignation have anything to do with Mr. Rong?"
"......" Xia Ri didn't understand why Mr. Zhang asked this, and his clear eyes were confused for a moment.
"Mr. Rong doesn't agree with you coming out to work and wants you to be a full-time wife at home?"
Xia Ri shook her head, it was too late for Rong Chengyao to please her, how could he interfere with her?
She doesn't like people to pull her and Rong Chengyao together, although it is a bit self-deceptive, but she just doesn't want to have anything to do with him, especially after knowing that he is Jiabao's brother, when she hasn't figured out what attitude to use to face him, she can only escape.
"No, Mr. Zhang, it's my own meaning. I spent the first 20 years working hard to have a stable and quiet life, and after having a child, I devoted myself to him. Now, he is from his father, enjoying very high-quality educational resources, every day is fulfilling, he is working hard for his goals, and I ......"
Summer smiled a little embarrassedly, "On the other hand, I have been taking care of you all these years, and I have done nothing, which is very different from my original intention. I want to go out and take a walk, take a look, think about my life, and set a new goal while I'm not too old now. It's not that there is such a sentence, the world is so big, I want to see it. ”
As she spoke, she smiled first, "I also want a trip that I can just go." Seriously, my long-standing wish is to read 10,000 books and travel 10,000 miles. Before, when there was time, there was no money, now there is money, but there is no time. I want to go out and see that summer day with a dream. ”
Mr. Zhang listened quietly to Xia Ri's speech, and never interrupted her, when Xia Ri first came to the company for an internship, she was still a young girl. A few years have passed, the little girl who was ignorant of the world at the beginning has now grown into a strong woman who can take charge of herself, she is still not satisfied, and she will continue to struggle?
Does she want to be a woman who is always as good as Rong?
Mr. Zhang shook his head and regretted, not that he looked down on strong women, but the common disease in the bones of Chinese men, women are independent, but they can't be too independent, otherwise, what do they want men to do!