Chapter 322: The Problem of Pampering and Pampering

Tang Lixing loaded his son with a bowl of rice as he said, and then put some meat and vegetables into the bowl and handed it to him, "Yuanyuan, be careful when eating, don't spill the rice." ”

"Uh-huh." Tang Yuan held the dishes and chopsticks, stepped on the stool, and began to eat on the iron cabinet.

At first, Tang Lixing was a little worried that he would spill the rice, but later he saw that he ate slowly and methodically, and he ate very delicately; The rice didn't spill out at all, and even the oil didn't spill out, so I was relieved.

At the same time, he was also curious about Chu Tianyi's methods of teaching children, "My younger brother and sister teach the child very well, and watching him eat is completely different from the two of us; Whether you eat meat or vegetables, you take small bites, and there is no sound at all. ”

"Well, Yuanyuan's appearance is very different from before, if I didn't know that he was my son, I would have thought that Yuanyuan had been dropped." Luo Ying watched her son concentrate on eating, even if she listened to them, she just looked up and smiled at them.

How can people not love such a villain?

"It's just too showy, a little girly." Speaking of this, Tang Lixing was a little disgusted, "A man should eat in a big gulp, look at his appearance, I don't know and think it's a daughter!" ”

"Nonsense! My son looks good no matter how he eats, you look at the way he eats, he looks very temperamental; Just like the children raised by those big families, what is this called....... That's right, elegant, pleasing to the eye. Luo Ying glared at him, his younger brothers and sisters taught their children so well, he still dared to dislike them.

Tang Lixing touched his nose and acquiesced; The daughter-in-law hasn't forgiven him yet, so let's be a man with her tail between her legs!

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Led someone to the front of the house, took out the key and opened the door, "Camp Commander Xi, brother and sister, you sit inside; I'm going to get the food out, Retzer and they'll be back soon. ”

"Sister-in-law Lei, let me help you!" When Zhu Hongxiu said this, she shoved her daughter into Xi Chengtao's arms, and followed her to the kitchen.

Chu Tianyi did not refuse, the two walked into the kitchen and brought all the food to the table; I made eight good dishes, and there was a stewed chicken, and the chicken soup had some medicinal herbs in it, and it smelled like Chinese medicine.

"Daughter-in-law, I'm back; Senior Brother Qin also came back with me. "Before the person arrives, the sound arrives first.

Chu Tianyi looked up at the door of the house, and saw her husband walking in with Qin Zhan; They were followed by Yu Kangping, "Brother, senior brother, Xiao Yu, you came back at the right time; Just got the meal on the table! You're in a hurry. ”

greeted him with a smile, took Lei Ce's place, and helped Qin Zhan, "Brother, Camp Commander Xi and Brother and Sister Xi are here, you go and accompany the guests!" ”

"Okay." Lei Ce nodded with a smile, looked up and said with a smile: "Cheng Tao, why did you send it?" ”

"Isn't this Sister-in-law Tang injured! I was out on a mission before, and I only came back yesterday; As soon as I heard Hongxiu say that Sister-in-law Tang was injured, I went to visit Sister-in-law Tang. Unexpectedly, I happened to meet my sister-in-law after surgery. Xi Chengtao smiled and squinted, stepped forward and hugged Lei Ce, "Senior Commander Lei, now is the time for you to be proud of the spring breeze." ”

"The spring breeze is proud, it's true that you're tired of being a dog." Lei Ze patted him on the shoulder, "Your body is getting stronger and stronger, and now the flesh on your body is diaphragm." ”

"Hehe, what Senior Commander Lei said, the flesh on my body was no longer a diaphragm before?"

The two looked at each other and smiled.

Chu Tianyi helped Qin Zhan to the dinner table and served a good meal to everyone, "Sit down and eat, don't just talk; Xiao Yu, hurry up and sit down, don't stand over there. ”

"Okay, sister-in-law, I'll come here." Yu Kangping replied, rushed to the bathroom to wash his hands and face, and then returned to the table.

This has become a habit, every time I come here to eat, my sister-in-law has to ask them to wash their hands and face when they eat; Even if the chief has to listen to his sister-in-law, he naturally has to listen to his sister-in-law.

After everyone sat down, Chu Tianyi beckoned everyone to eat.

Xi Xiyangyang sat on a chair, holding chopsticks to reach the meat dishes on the table.

Xi Chengtao saw it in his eyes, it was not a taste; glanced back at her daughter who still had to be fed by an adult, "Hongxiu, put Yaoyao down and let her sit by herself; It's like to eat with it when you're so old. ”

"The child is still young, so let her eat it herself when she is older! Besides, the height of the table and chair is not the height of a child. Zhu Hongxiu didn't listen to his words, and continued to hug Xi Jiayao to feed.

"What a small one! Xi Xiyang is not much older than her, look at how well they eat now; If you continue to be so used to it, Yaoyao will still have to be fed when she is seven or eight years old. Xi Chengtao's face flushed, usually he is rarely at home, and the children are all taken by his wife; He has never put much thought into his daughter, he just usually plays with his daughter.

Zhu Hongxiu saw that he was angry, and also glared at him.

Chu Tian sighed silently when he saw this, and pulled the sleeve of Lareze's coat, "You persuade, don't quarrel." ”

Lei Ce nodded and patted her hand, "Cheng Tao, eat, the child is indeed still young; Seeing that she is not tall, it is really difficult for her to let her sit and eat. Besides, the daughter has to be pampered, and the son is solid and rough. ”

"I know, just seeing that Xi Xiyang is so well-behaved, I never have to worry about your sister-in-law when I eat; Yaoyao is so old, and she still needs adults to feed her, so it is not a way to get used to it, but it will raise her daughter badly. Xi Chengtao sighed, and stopped looking at Zhu Hongxiu and the child, out of sight and out of mind.

Zhu Hongxiu is a little embarrassed, she just likes to be used to her daughter; I haven't seen him talk about children like this at home on weekdays, but now seeing Lei Chuxi and Lei Chuyang's two sons, it makes him have other thoughts in his heart.

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After lunch, Qin Zhan went back to his room to rest.

Lei Ce and Xi Chengtao sat on the sofa, chatting and talking about things in the army; Occasionally, I would talk about the children's problems, and the two chatted energetically.

Zhu Hongxiu took the initiative to help, cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks with Chu Tianyi, and sent them to the kitchen for cleaning.

Zhu Hongxiu said while cleaning the dishes and chopsticks: "Sister-in-law Lei, you say that my family's mouth is too much, my daughter has been raised like this since she was a child; I didn't see him say anything, but now I see Xi Xiyangyang, but I talk about my daughter. ”

Chu Tianyi choked, "Hehehe, this, maybe it's Camp Commander Xi's daughter Chengfeng!" ”

"What a phoenix! For people like us, are they still phoenixes? Zhu Hongxiu continued to clean the dishes and chopsticks disappreciably.

Chu Tianyi also stopped talking, at this time, there were many mistakes in saying too much, and whose children were distressed; It's just that Zhu Hongxiu feels different from three years ago, and she is selfish for the sake of her children.

She can't say that such selfishness is wrong, but motherhood is strong.

"Sister-in-law Lei, tell me, he said that his daughter was pampered at the beginning; I can't let her be wronged, I'm not just pampering! Now it's my fault. Besides, how cute Yaoyao is! No matter how pampered he is, he can't be pampered, he has to say Yaoyao in front of so many people. Zhu Hongxiu got angry when she thought about it.

This is the first time she has seen such a Zhu Hongxiu, the previous Zhu Hongxiu was shy and introverted, and she didn't like to talk about this; Three years, after all, too many people have changed.

"Hmm." Chu Tianyi responded absentmindedly, did Zhu Hongxiu transfer her anger to her and the child?

Pampering doesn't mean pampering! In later generations, many parents misunderstood the meaning of pampering, resulting in their children's personality being too selfish and selfish; By the time they found out, it was too late.

"Really, talk to your sister-in-law about this, sister-in-law don't be surprised; I'm just so angry, my family has never said so about my daughter, every day I come back, I hold my daughter and coax her, teasing, and sometimes let her ride a big horse! I don't know what happened to him today. Zhu Hongxiu sighed.

Chu Tianyi shook his head, "It's okay, Camp Commander Xi is also for the good of the children, and it's right for girls to be pampered; But she should be taught or taught, and her sister-in-law said something that should not be said, pampering does not mean being pampered. Jiao is the sincere love and love for children; If you add a habit, it is conniving and permissive, and being spoiled since childhood, habitual is not time-consuming. The younger brother and sister are already spoiled to Yaoyao like this. ”

Zhu Hongxiu glanced at her, and felt angry in her heart, just now her husband said that she would forget it; Now even an outsider says this about her, her daughter was born to her, and she can be spoiled as much as she wants.

Chu Tianyi glanced at her face from the corner of his eyes, knowing that she had drilled the tip of the horns, and suddenly had a headache, "Brother and sister, don't blame me for saying so much, I'm just talking about my opinion; If your younger siblings still want to raise them like this, then raise them like this! Anyway, it's not my child, and it has nothing to do with me. ”

It's really too early for this godmother to admit it.

Zhu Hongxiu heard her words, but she didn't want to recognize her daughter, "It has nothing to do with my sister-in-law, I support it if I raise it well or badly." ”

"That's what my brother and sister said." The corners of Chu Tianyi's lips hooked lightly and smiled; At this moment, she completely let go of the friendship with Zhu Hongxiu.

also gave up Xi Jiayao's daughter, Xi Jiayao is very well-behaved now, but no one knows what will become of her; In addition, there is a mother who does not listen to persuasion, and the future of this daughter's development is worrying!

After tidying up the kitchen, Chu Tianyi went to the living room with Zhu Hongxiu on his feet; As soon as she arrived in the living room, Zhu Hongxiu immediately held her daughter in her arms and coaxed her to eat.

Lei Chuxi and Lei Chuyang saw that their mother's expression was a little wrong, so they put down their pens and walked to her; The two little guys tugged at her trouser leg and frowned, "Mom, what's wrong with you?" Not happy? ”

"Mom is not unhappy, Xi Xiyangyang go play! Mom made you Uncle Xi and Dad a fruit platter and brought them to them. Chu Tianyi patted their little heads.

"Then we'll do it with Mom." The two little ones intimately ran behind her ass.

Chu Tianyi went to the cabinet in the living room and took out pears, oranges and apples, returned to the kitchen, and asked his two sons to peel the pears and apples; She peeled the oranges out and arranged a flower-shaped platter.

Putting the pear and apple on it, the two little ones couldn't help but eat a piece of it, and then smiled at her.

"Alright, let's get out! Dot. Chu Tianyi's eyes were full of love, waved his hand, and let them go.