301 Settle down or start a family?
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"Okay." Huo Jin'an's milk voice was milky, and the sound was not very accurate, and after he got off the ground, he threw himself into his mother's arms.
Although Huo Jinan is a crazy girl and very lively, she is also very well-behaved when she is well-behaved. The little girl is smart, she will act by looking at her eyes at a young age, shrinking in her mother's arms, but her eyes have been looking at her uncle An Yiyang.
"Mom, what are you crying about this New Year." An Yiyang turned around, smiled, and showed a mouthful of neat big white teeth, "Come on, come on, my son will wipe your tears for you personally, don't cry." ”
"Stinky boy." Shu Ya wiped the tears from her eyes, gradually stopped crying and said, "Tell me yourself, how long has it been since you saw your mother?" Is school that busy? No matter how busy you are, you can't see each other once every three months before. This time it's good, I haven't seen each other for half a year. ”
"The rules in the school can't be changed for me alone. Besides, I'm not good, people are fine. An Yiyang looked at Huo Jiangcheng, "If you don't believe it, ask your brother-in-law, he knows." ”
"Mom doesn't ask your brother-in-law, every time she talks about your brother-in-law, Mom is not as good as you like." Shu Ya didn't pick up the stubble, "Mom knows, I haven't seen you for more than half a year, I miss you." After this goodbye, I don't know when I want to see you next time. ”
It's still at school, and it's so hard to see each other. Later, when I went to the army, there were more rules and stricter controls, so what could I do if I wanted to see it.
Even though Mrs. An is reluctant in her heart, she is old after all. Moreover, she felt that her grandson was winning glory for the family. When she dies in the future, she will go there to see the old man, and she will have a face to see, and she will have glorious things to say.
"For the New Year, don't talk about these sad things. Yiyang, how many days can you stay at home this time? Mrs. An diverted the topic, "I accompany your mother at home, I live here, and I happen to accompany my grandmother every day." ”
An Yiyang said: "In a week's time, I left early on the eighth day of the new year. ”
"A week...... That's a few days away, that's good. Mrs. An thought that there would be so much time to get along, and she was happy in her heart.
Ye Xue said: "Our family hasn't been together for a long time, take this opportunity to eat, talk, and play cards." The old lady likes to play mahjong the most, and when she finishes eating, we will accompany the old man to play a few games. ”
Someone outside rang the doorbell, and Ye Xue said: "I'll open the door, it must be Mu Yang who is back with Tingyu." ”
"Sure enough, it's you, I was talking about it just now." Ye Xue opened the door and invited Qi Tingyu and his wife to come in, but when she didn't see Xue Rong, she asked An Muyang, "Where is your mother?" ”
Ever since An Mushan followed Han Jing, Xue Rong was unhappy.
Originally, she was satisfied with Qi Tingyu, although the Qi family was far from being better than the Huo family, and when An Muyang married Qi Tingyu, the Qi family had gradually declined, leaving only an empty shell. But at that time, An Muyang ruined his appearance, and although the Qi family was a little defeated, the emaciated camel was bigger than the horse, Qi Tingyu was in his prime, and he was motivated, and he may not be able to revive the family business in the future.
When she got married, Xue Rong showed off for a while.
But now, she looks down on Qi Tingyu a little.
Not to mention whether An Mushan can marry Han Jing in the end, at least now Han Jing has no wife, and there is only one An Mushan by his side, so An Mushan's current status is equivalent to that of Mrs. Han.
There is another reason why Xue Rong gritted her teeth in anger, she was ruined by someone back then, but Ye Xue is now living better than her. And Ye Xue's daughter has now become someone else's mistress, and she is still showing off her power like this.
Is there no justice in this world? Let these little three and four be in the limelight.
On that day, Xiao Jin'an was one year old, Xue Rong was scolded by An Mushan and didn't dare to reply, and she fell ill on the spot when she went home. An Muyang and Qi Tingyu accompanied her to the hospital to see a doctor, but it was not good.
The doctor said it was a heart disease. Heart disease has to be treated with medicine, and the general doctor can't see it well.
Gradually, An Muyang also knew why his mother was sick. But she can't help it, she just goes to see her every day and lets her live her own life, don't think too much about it, but Xue Rong can't listen.
An Muyang had no way to persuade his mother, Qi Tingyu was busy with work, and he had no time or way.
"She's not feeling well, she's lying at home." An Muyang didn't say anything else, but he was also afraid of the embarrassment of everyone during the New Year, "We went to her before we came, cooked for her, and she ate it herself at night." ”
Ye Xue also understood in her heart, so she didn't poke it, and smiled: "Then you have to go and see her often." ”
"I know." An Muyang changed his shoes and went in, and saw An Yiyang, "Oh my God, are you Yiyang?" ”
"Big sister." An Yiyang said hello, the sturdy son was not shorter than Qi Tingyu, his body was straight and sturdy, and he looked like an adult.
An Muyang walked over, pinched his arm and circled around the person: "That school is so good?" It can make people reborn. Look at you now, where is still the stinky boy in our family before, you are an adult. ”
Qi Tingyu said: "Originally, I was also an adult, twenty-one, right?" ”
"Look, the eldest brother-in-law is attentive to me, eldest sister, you don't care about me as much as your brother-in-law." An Yiyang said with a smile as he asked them to sit down.
An Muyang said: "I haven't seen Yiyang for a year or two, and you have grown up really fast in the past two years." Also, do you think your brother-in-law knows about you? He knows, and not all I told him. ”
An Yiyang told forgiveness: "That's because I wronged my eldest sister, and I will make amends to my eldest sister after dinner." And he said, "When you got married, I couldn't take a leave from school, so I didn't come." I will toast you at the dinner table for a while, and wish you a hundred years of good luck and early birth of a noble son. ”
mentioned the words "early birth of a noble son", An Muyang's good mood gradually disappeared.
If you say you don't care, you can't really not care.
When she was old, she wanted to have a child. In fact, no one forced her to have a child, it was her own desire to have a child.
Ting Yu said, it's a big deal to go to the orphanage to raise one, and take care of the kind that is still very young and treat it as a biological one. Little children don't remember and don't understand.
An Muyang knew he was right, but he just couldn't do it. It's good to be raised, but where is it better than a biological one.
Only after experiencing the pregnancy in October, the pain of giving birth to a child, and the feeling of experiencing that feeling, she feels that she has fulfilled her responsibilities as a mother.
An Muyang is a typical classical conservative woman, and the happiness she feels is to stay with the man she loves. Husband and child, settle down and work, do not seek to be rich and rich, only to seek peace and security.
An Shutong saw the abnormality, and hurriedly diverted the topic: "Yiyang, you are not young, even if you enter the army in the future, you will have to get married and have children." Are there any girls you like in school? ”
An Shutong's words made everyone interested.
Shu Ya is also very concerned about her son's lifelong events: "Your sister is right, you are at school, do you have a person to talk to?" If you talk about it, there's nothing to be embarrassed to say. Take advantage of the Chinese New Year now, let us see each other. ”
"No, not really." An Yiyang scratched his head, "The training in school is very hard every day, and I don't sleep enough, so how can I think about those things." ”
"These are two different things." Mrs. An also quipped, "Yiyang, you are the only boy in our An family." You went to military school to enter the army to protect your family and defend the country, and your grandmother is proud of you. But there is a good saying, to start a family, you have to start a family first. ”
"I'm only twenty-one, and I'm not yet the legal age for marriage. Besides, now in Jincheng, the average age of marriage is about thirty-one years old. I'm catching up with the big army, and I still have ten years to go, so I'm not in a hurry. ”
To deal with the family, An Yiyang naturally has a set.
"Nonsense! How can you wait until you are thirty years old? Mrs. Ann was startled.
At the age of thirty, there were still ten years, and she didn't know if she would live that long.
"Who counts this? I think it must be a fake, a fool. Mrs. An didn't believe it at all, and she didn't understand the young people now, "At that time, we got married in our teens. When you're your age, your dad can run away. Like you, one or two waited until thirty to get married. Yiyang, grandma doesn't care, what about your sisters, grandma is gone, but you can't. ”
An Yiyang said: "Now there is a lot of social pressure, and after four years of college, I have to continue to work hard. How can you gain a firm foothold in your career without ten or eight years? It's okay if the family conditions are better, at least you can rely on the family. Those whose family conditions are not good, who can't afford to buy a house and a car when they get married, even if they have children, they are three people who suffer together. I think it's okay to have a baby, but you have to have that condition. ”
"You're talking nonsense. Although our home is not as good as before, but if you give birth to a child, we are afraid that we will not be able to raise it? Mrs. An felt that she couldn't say anything, "You can make your own decisions about other things, but when it comes to getting married and having children, grandma makes the decision for you." ”
An Yiyang smiled, stopped talking, and just quietly looked at his sister.
An Shutong said: "Don't look at me, even if I don't mention it, do you think that if you stay at home for so long, grandma and mother won't nag you?" ”
An Yiyang gritted his teeth with a smile: "Life events, don't be in a hurry." If I come across something I like, I'll definitely bring it back to you. ”
"So, at school, it's talking?" Mrs. Ann is not dead.
An Yiyang said: "No, no. Many of the girls in the school are more resolute than me, and I treat them as buddies. ”
"If you like those little birds who are gentle and virtuous, this matter is wrapped up in grandma." Mrs. An knows a lot of old sisters, and the granddaughters of the old sisters' family are also older, and there are one or two of them of the same age.
"Grandma, my affairs are still not sure that you have worked hard." An Yiyang felt that he had a bad year, and he was afraid that he would have to embark on an endless blind date.
"It's not hard, grandma is happy to be able to do something useful for my eldest grandson."
Shu Ya also said: "Your grandmother has this heart, you can't refuse." ”
An Yiyang held his forehead, laughing more ugly than crying.