Xu Haodong said: "Xiao Lao, I am very proud of this, I basically insist on exercising every day, mainly running. Now that the conditions are good, the family has bought a treadmill, once in the morning and once in the evening, no less than 10,000 meters each time. So since I was a kid, I've never been in the hospital for getting sick, and I've hardly ever had a cold. I have a lot of energy, a clear head, and a quick mind every day, so I don't need tea or coffee. My diet is basically fixed, weighing 120 pounds, fifteen years, plus or minus error of no more than 3 pounds. ”

Xiao Zide asked, "Secretary Xu, can you talk about your experience in educating children?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "Yes, but my experience in educating children may not have much reference value for you. In fact, every child in every family is unique, and in addition to school education, there should be different family education, that is, teaching students according to their aptitude. Our family's education of children is mainly divided into two parts: word and example, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law are intellectuals, and they are mainly word and word. My father and mother are workers and peasants, they are mainly teaching by example, my father and mother also rented dozens of acres of land in their hometown, if my daughter and son go to my hometown during the summer vacation, my father and mother will take them to work in the field, if they don't go, they have to go with their ears and buttocks. I mainly combine words and examples, and I communicate with them as friends, teach by example, such as optimism and fitness. ”

Yang Liuren asked: "Secretary Xu, why do you say that your experience in educating children has little reference value for us?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "My statement was inspired by my father-in-law and mother-in-law. My father-in-law and mother-in-law believed that when a person comes into the world, he will be surrounded by a circle. Just like in the novel "Journey to the West", the circle that Sun Wukong drew for Tang Seng with a golden hoop stick is safe in the circle and dangerous outside the circle. Our education of children is actually to draw circles, to educate them that what is right in the circle is good and can be done, and what is wrong and bad outside the circle is not allowed to be done. ”

"But you are a special group, a family with great wealth. So, the child born in your family, in addition to the natural circle, has another circle. For example, Yang Yongdi, as the eldest grandson, was born as the heir of the Yang Group, and he must grow up and mature according to the trajectory designed by your elders. ”

"But I personally believe that life can be planned, imagined and imagined, but life cannot be designed, especially designed. Planning and design are two different concepts, planning can be adjusted or even canceled, and once the design is implemented, it is difficult to adjust, in this world, it is difficult for a child to grow up according to the designed life trajectory to graduate from college, it is difficult to be adjusted. So, and my experience in educating children is that I will never design for them, so I really don't have much reference value for you. ”

Lin Chufeng said: "Secretary Xu, can you say more about the two circles." ”

Xu Haodong smiled and said, "It's okay if you let me say more, but I'm going to take your baby son as an example." ”

Lin Chufeng said briskly: "No problem, anyway, my son has changed his ways, if you give an example now, then he is a positive example." ”

Xu Haodong said: "Seniors, the sons of the Lao Lin family, and your children, the starting point is about the same, once you come to this world, in addition to a basic circle, there is also a special circle. But Lao Lin is different from you, you are both tight in both circles, while Lao Lin is loose in the front and tight in the back, making the basic circle useless, so that his son has become a problem teenager. Now Lao Lin's son is in the junior military academy, and he is studying while training in the military, which is tantamount to tightening the basic circle again, so Lao Lin's son has become a good teenager. ”

Lin Chufeng sighed, nodded and said: "I understand, this basic circle is to be a person, to be a good person, whether it is poor or rich, the basic circle must be circled well." ”

Xu Haodong said: "That's what I mean, but this basic circle can't be dragged too tightly, your old Lin is nothing." And like Yang Yongdi, the eldest grandson of Yang Liulao, I think it's too tight, and the two of you are just at the two extremes. ”

The old man Yang Liuren asked: "Secretary Xu, how do you say this?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "Elder Yang Liu, the basic circle on your Yang Yongdi's body must have such four words written on it, and follow the rules. The basic principle of your family's education of Yang Yongdi is to follow the rules, and once you make a mistake, even if it is a small mistake, you will definitely wield the stick of following the rules. ”

Yang Liuren nodded, "But, isn't it good to follow the rules?" ”

Xu Haodong smiled and asked, "However, is it necessarily good to follow the rules?" ”

Yang Liuren was stunned for a moment, "Oh, it makes sense, it makes sense." ”

Xu Haodong said: "There is no child in the world who does not make mistakes, there is no adult in the world who does not make mistakes, and there is no person in the world who does not make mistakes and succeeds. Old Yang Liu, people grow up in the process of making mistakes, and what your Yang Yongdi lacks is this lesson, setbacks and failures. ”

Yang Liuren asked: "Secretary Xu, now that Yongdi has graduated from university and entered his own company, if it were you, how would you train him?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "It's very simple, try to kick him out of the company and let him go to the society to break through, only twenty-two years old, don't be afraid to make mistakes, young is capital." ”

Old man Yang Liuren smiled, "I want to, but everyone knows that he is my grandson, and there is no value in exercising anywhere." ”

Xu Haodong said: "Actually, I communicated with Yongdi online, and he has a clear direction, but he is worried that his elders will not agree, so he doesn't dare to tell his family." ”

Yang Liuren sighed, "What direction?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "Your family Yongdi is very smart, we often discuss economic issues, and we have a common understanding in many aspects. For example, how to understand the market, we all agree that to understand the market is to understand the customer, and the customer is the person, so to understand the market is to understand the person. ”

Yang Liuren nodded and said, "And then?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "Yongdi wants to be a self-employed entrepreneur and set up a stall. ”

Yang Liuren smiled, "Haha...... Good idea, good idea, it coincides with me. ”

This time it was Xu Haodong's turn to be stunned, "Old Yang Liu, do you also have this intention?" ”

Yang Liuren said with a smile: "Yongdi proposed to his family that he would not go to work in his own company, borrow 10,000 yuan from his family, start from a stall, and start a business with two classmates, but my family objected, but I expressed my firm support." ”

Xu Haodong smiled, "Yongdi still hasn't said a word, he wants to start a business in partnership with two classmates, and hire me as their consultant, and the consultant fee is zero." ”

Yang Liuren laughed, "Okay, it's decided, it's decided." ”

Xiao Zide said: "Old Yang Liu, you are finished, it's my turn, right?" ”

Yang Liuren said: "Old Xiao, you say, you say." ”

Xu Haodong smiled and asked, "Old Xiao, what's the matter with your precious grandson?" ”