Chapter 529: Tricking the Heart
Chapter 529: Tricking the Heart
When she first gave birth, her family knew that Gao Na had a boyfriend. It is said that they get along well, and my aunt has always felt that the conductor introduced by Fu Xin is more reliable.
After all, the income is stable, the working hours are also fixed, and when you get off work, you go home after getting off and off the train. Once you go out for three or four days, you can rest for a few days when you come back.
Gao Na has no formal job, and if she gets married in the future, she will open a small store. On vacation, the conductor was still able to help.
As introduced by Xie Jun before, Gao Na dislikes people who are one year younger than herself. This time, there was another three-year-old junior, and Gao Na didn't say anything but disliked the child's father working in the crematorium. said that he felt bad luck and was afraid.
The old aunt didn't eat two meals, and only said that she had gold stars in her eyes. Zhang Cuilian and Dong Lihua persuaded her, saying that she hadn't been there for a while. Maybe that kid's character is a little lacking somewhere else, and the two of them have no fate.
Xie Mei cried: "I am a widow before I am thirty years old, and I am looking at sixty people. I just want her to have a home, not to be like me for the rest of her life. But look at it, how many objects are there, this one doesn't work, that one doesn't work. I'm really afraid that she will be dazzled, and after thirty all of a sudden, it will be miserable. ”
At this time, Gao Na is already an older leftover girl, and she really can't get married if she drags it on.
Everyone also knows Xie Mei's worries, for fear that her daughter will marry a second marriage. In the end, I became a stepmother, and I had a hard time for the rest of my life. But this matter is not artificial, what can Gao Na do if he doesn't like anyone.
Xie Mei, who was still worried a few days ago, suddenly told everyone. Gao Na is getting married, which is a surprise. Gu Zhicheng even said: "If you want to get married, you don't have to worry about it for a while, let him come to the house and let's take a good look at that person." ”
Xie Mei said that this was Gao Na's early morning match. Xie Jun didn't succeed in the people he introduced, just because of this kid. For the sake of his good to Gao Na, she agreed.
Dong Lihua thought that Xie Mei was broken and broken, and wanted her daughter to marry off as soon as possible. wanted to persuade her, but she didn't expect Xie Mei to say that this was sincere, and it was also Gao Na's choice.
Zhang Cuilian was suspicious, and muttered in her heart that the people are now open. It's not that the two of them have made their stomachs bigger, just like when Fu Xin got married.
She told Dong Lihua about this idea, Dong Lihua was startled and said instinctively: "Don't talk nonsense, your sister is still a girl." But then she thought about it, Gao Na had never lived in their house. They said that there was a staff dormitory outside, but no one had ever been to that staff dormitory.
If you live with someone outside, it's normal for your family to know about it. The two of them are just guessing, and the men don't bother with it so much.
Xie Jun saw that it was not easy for this sister to pull a girl alone, so he discussed with Dong Lihua to add some dowry to this niece. Of course, Dong Lihua can't say no, even if she opposes it, can she stop it?
Discuss with her to respect her, if you don't agree. Xie Jun is not without money, he gives money to the child behind his back, and he will not know.
Rather than doing this, it is better to be generous and take out the face of your aunt. Everyone is busy marrying off their children, and this matter is considered a success.
It can be said that getting married is not a marriage after getting a certificate all at once, and the two families sit together and start discussing.
The first time they met, the man's parents invited the woman's family to dinner, because Gao Na had only one widowed mother. On the woman's side, Xie Jun, Dong Lihua and Gu Zhicheng came out for an interview.
Zhang Cuilian is at home with her children, but fortunately, Kangkang, a little guy, is very keen on making milk powder for his sister and does not dislike changing diapers for her. With his help, Zhang Cuilian can also be more relaxed.
Soon after eating, the family came back. Zhang Cuilian couldn't help but ask Gu Zhicheng: "How is it?" But he didn't dare to rashly go next door and ask Gao Na herself.
"Don't go yet, it's not a pleasure to talk." Gu Zhicheng couldn't help but complained: "If my daughter gets married in the future, I have to pick a good family." I have to embarrass that stinky boy, really, a good girl to your family, dare to bully her, I will beat him to death! ”
Zhang Cuilian ignored Gu Zhicheng's brainless words and inquired about the details again.
"Gao Na's eyes are not good, what are you looking for?" Gu Zhicheng sighed: "When we got married, the conditions were so bad, and we still had the etiquette that we should have." You said that my aunt took Gao Na alone and raised her with hard work. What's wrong with asking for a bride price? ”
The man's parents said that they didn't want any bride price for selling their daughters. The kid also said that he would raise his mother-in-law in the future, and it was useless to give a bride price. Unless the mother-in-law is old and doesn't live with them in the future, then give some bride price.
Xie Jun was not happy at the moment, saying that the bride price did not matter. The point is that this is the rule, and it is a custom for you to give a bride price. Don't say where you don't want a bride price, that's all. Since ancient times, Chinese have had a dowry and dowry when marrying a wife and daughter. Even when there is no harvest in a disaster year, the poor family still has two loads of millet as a dowry. Besides, we also have a dowry if you give the bride price. The inside and outside are the children's own, who will lose?
As soon as the bride price was mentioned, the man's family fell apart. said that his conditions were not good, and he couldn't give much of the bride price.
Xie Mei also didn't know what to say, so Xie Jun helped: "Anyway, that's the case, how much dowry does your family have." Then there will be as many dowries as our family, anyway, it's up to you, depending on your conditions. ”
The man's family also knows that Gao Na has such a rich uncle, and since people can say it, they can do it.
In the end, they discussed and gave a bride price of 8,000 yuan, plus three gold.
"Eight thousand dollars?" Zhang Cuilian was speechless, and she also had this money when she got married. But this was all ten years ago, when it was still popular to get married and buy a sewing machine, but now it has been changed to DVD.
He also talked about where to live after getting married, and whether there was a marriage house. Xie Mei insisted on having a house, whether she lived with her in-laws or by herself.
But the man's family was waiting for demolition and resolutely did not agree to buy a house. It stands to reason that when a man marries a wife, this house is the big deal. Because the man's family has a house with an area of only 40 square meters, where to live when he gets married in the future is a problem.
Fortunately, there is also a bungalow, so Xie Jun asked whether this wedding house was a building or a bungalow. According to common sense, this building must be for newcomers. I packed up, bought new appliances and moved in.
But the man's family said that the bungalow was about to be demolished, and now it was empty and could not be lived. The building is for the old couple to live in, and they want the newcomer to rent a house outside to live.
Xie Jun won't do it, then buy a house, why rent a house? How come such a large family of people who also have jobs, don't even have tens of thousands of yuan in savings? The man said that because it was going to be demolished, the demolition would divide the house, so he lived in the house now.
Xie Jun said that the man is not sincere, and you will not delay the division of the house if you buy a house. When the time comes, the demolished house will be sold, isn't it the same? But the man's family felt that it was not good, saying that the new house could not be sold at a price, and no one would buy it.
"When I got married, why didn't my parents ask for these things?" Zhang Cuilian couldn't help but smile: "It seems that I still haven't taken a fancy to anyone." ”
Gu Zhicheng said matter-of-factly: "The person looks very good, white and clean, and he looks very gentle." But he wasn't a man at all, and he didn't dare say a word when we said so much. ”
After speaking, he said: "Besides, I didn't have anything at that time, my salary was all in your hands." Although I don't have a house, don't we live in a military family home? Our dad understands the situation and won't come randomly. ”
Zhang Cuilian still wanted to watch the excitement, and watched her daughter sleep again. He told Kang Kang to watch the child, and ran next door to watch the excitement. As soon as he entered the door, he saw Gao Na crying again, and Xie Junqi's brows were furrowed. Dong Lihua persuaded on the side: "Your third uncle said, it's not easy for your mother to take you." We paid for the cost of this wedding. We will pay as much as the bride price is given by the in-laws. If they can give you fifty thousand, we will give you fifty thousand. If we give you 100,000 yuan, we will grit our teeth and give you this face. ”
Gao Na cried and said, "You know that you can't, what's the use of saying this? ”
Xie Jun jumped to his feet angrily: "Then what do you want?" Nothing and just get married bare-chested? ”
Gao Na began to cry again, and Xie Jun waved his hand: "Forget it, I don't care about you anymore." If it weren't for your mother begging me, I wouldn't have left you alone. Something that doesn't get angry! ”
Dong Lihua was also angry enough: "I don't think anything else is bad, it's just that the kid didn't say a word after this meal." Even if I say it, our family's conditions are not good, and I can't give Gao Na anything now. But I will give her what I should in the future, and I will not treat her badly. You see, there is not a word of this nice word! ”
Gao Na covered her face and said, "He's not the kind of person who talks flatteringly. ”
"Pull it down, your brother-in-law isn't a rhetorical person. When I first got married, I promised your third uncle that I can still think about it now. And he's done it all, so it's not a matter of whether he can speak. ”
Xie Jun didn't look at Gao Na, turned his head to look at his sister: "What do you mean?" Do you agree? If you don't have a house to rent a house, you will be given a bride price of 8,000 yuan and three gold. That's how the marriage ended, wasn't it? ”
Xie Mei rubbed her hands and said uneasily: "What can I do, my daughter is happy to do it." ”
"Humph!" Xie Jun pursed his lips and turned his face away unhappily. Zhang Cuilian saw that everyone's faces were not good-looking, and she was stunned to become like this.
walked over with a smile and comforted Gao Na: "Don't cry, it's not that you don't agree with your marriage." Talking about relatives is like this, find a family member who can talk to make a request. I was like this when I first got married, and your third uncle was just red-faced. It's some to ask for more for you, mainly because you don't want people to look down on you. ”
Xie Jun said angrily: "Cuilian, you stay and go." I don't know anything, don't be greedy. Zhang Cuilian was burned by the nameless fire, and hurriedly dodged away without speaking.
Xie Jun said angrily: "I'll talk to you today, why do I have this attitude." This kid doesn't have a decent job, and he's a fool. Look at his hair, his clothes, that's also a person who doesn't walk properly all day long. Tell me, what is he doing? ”
Gao Na sniffed and said, "It's just a popsicle factory that delivers popsicles everywhere." Third uncle, I don't want him to be rich, really, I just want him to be good to me. ”
"Fart!" Xie Jun didn't give Gao Na a good face at all: "You don't want money? Then why did you want your mother to come to our house, and why haven't you married yet? Don't you just want to find a family with good conditions, so that you two can live a good life? If you don't look at the conditions, why don't you agree with the children you introduced at the beginning? Isn't it because the conditions are not good? ”
Dong Lihua pushed Xie Jun: "Don't talk nonsense, people fall in love for feelings." If you don't understand, don't talk nonsense. ”
Xie Jun snorted coldly: "Okay, okay, feelings, feelings." Can feelings be eaten? Don't you know what your mother has been doing all these years? Do you still want to live that life with that kid? Are you crazy, aren't you? An unemployed vagrant, swaying around. Can he still give popsicles at the age of forty? ”
"Why can others find someone who is honest and honest, but I can't?" Gao Na was also angry, and looked at Zhang Cuilian as she spoke.
"Don't look at your sister! Are you like your sister? Your sister can do business and earn money, and she doesn't rely on her parents or husband to support herself. Can you do it? I ask you, if I don't give you some money, will you be able to do something in the future if you don't have any money? ”
Xie Jun, this is the big truth, young couples spend money on everything they do in their lives. The bride price given by the mother-in-law's family will eventually be spent. If the man is not enterprising, the woman is not able to earn money. The final result can only be to sit and eat nothing, and nothing can stop it.
"But, but, I'm pregnant. I have to get married, otherwise what should I do? After two months, you won't be able to hide. Gao Na was anxious and told the secret.
As soon as these words came out, the old aunt covered her face and didn't look at everyone, Gu Zhicheng looked at Zhang Cuilian in shock. And Zhang Cuilian, Dong Lihua, and Xie Jun didn't seem surprised, especially Xie Jun's heavy cold snort.
"I knew it was going on, huh, their family knew about it, right?" Xie Jun said angrily: "I'm just angry that their family doesn't do anything. ”
Gao Na was stunned, and the old aunt looked up and asked in surprise, "Third brother, what do you mean?" ”
"I mean, the man knows that our child is pregnant. It's because I'm pregnant, I don't vomit anything, so I see if you're in a hurry. Gao Na shook her head again and again when she heard this: "No, I am pregnant with the old Li family." They don't need to embarrass me, right? ”
There is no need to embarrass you, and I sincerely want to marry you into the door. But everything is simple, and it's best to let you in without spending money.
They are not afraid of dragging, but the woman is afraid. On the first day of the month, everything was revealed. This is also a very common practice, and many people can figure it out.
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