Li Chunnan said with a smile: "First of all, what I want to tell you is that Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi are grasshoppers on a rope, in other words, they are difficult brothers. ”

"Brother and brother? What does this mean? Xiang Tianliang asked curiously.

Li Chunnan said: "Liu Changgui is five years Chinese New Year's Eve old today, a native of Lantian County, Qinghe City, graduated from Dongjiang Provincial Agricultural University, three years ago before he was transferred to Binhai County, he was the director of the Agricultural Technology Division of the Municipal Agricultural Bureau, and he was a good haode, but I don't know what the reason was, offended the director of the Municipal Agricultural Bureau, and was kicked out of the Municipal Agricultural Bureau, three months later, the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee transferred him to Sanwang Township, Binhai County, as the head of the township, in August last year, he was transferred to our Jinchuan Town as the secretary of the Township Party Committee, so, Liu Changgui is a lonely person in our Binhai County, and no leader of the county party committee dares to pay attention to him, let alone want to help him. ”

Xiang Tianliang smiled slightly, and said in his heart, isn't such a person exactly the person he needs?

"Brother-in-law, you go on, what is the situation with that Ji Weiyi?"

"Ji Weiyi just turned 30 years old this year, is our Binhai County Xiaogang Township, graduated from Dongjiang Provincial Teachers College, has been working in the Municipal Party Committee Office before, four years ago was the head of the secretarial section of the Wen County Party Committee Office, but he is highly short-sighted, at the end of last year, that is, a month and a half ago, when reviewing a speech by Zhang Heng, secretary of the county party committee, the person in charge of drafting a number was wrong, a few points to the back, the county's annual output of 400 million jin of grain became 4 billion catties, Ji Weiyi was dazzled, this fake number was passed, When Secretary Zhang made a report, he read it out in front of thousands of cadres in the county, and as a result, there was a big political way, and the outcome can be imagined, Ji Weiyi was demoted to our Jinchuan Town as the mayor. ”

"Okay, okay...... That's great. Xiang Tianliang clapped his hands and shouted.

Li Chunnan said with a smile: "Tianliang, you won't, people are in trouble, you still have to gloat?" ”

"Huh...... Brother-in-law, you don't understand, this is politics, politics. ”

"You're saying you're going to take them for yourself?" Li Chunnan asked.

"Yes, such a person is the most reliable."

Xiang Tianliang needs people, and he needs to rely on many people to build his own network.

Some people rely on intuition to build "relationships", while others have to work hard to expand a little "relationship", the former is often difficult to predict the outcome, and the latter is more aware of the "right time and place" to win over the relationship.

"Relationship" usually takes a little effort to obtain.

In fact, "guanxi" is the lifeline for an official, and to maintain a certain degree of "relationship" with the outside world, the information will be well-informed, if you ask them how these "guanxi" came about, I am afraid they will not be able to answer, this kind of thing is not sneaky, unsightly deeds, but the secret of the success of ordinary people, they understand the principle of "unity liliang great", zuihou, practiced the magic of getting information in the most unlikely places.

For these "communication masters", life is an adventure, meeting rooms, bars, street corners, restaurants, and even in bathhouses, everywhere can "broaden your horizons", so always keep your ears up and listen to the inside information or a short run, as long as you move around more, you will be rewarded.

The people who are the most good at relationships, not only spit lotus flowers in their mouths, but also can't escape his eyes at any clues, they are natural detectives or journalists, otherwise they should also be awarded an honorary doctorate of "sociology".

All in all, people are always thinking about the usefulness of the "relationship" around them, and see if they can do something from the needs of both parties to make the relationship tight.

This is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it.

Xiang Tianliang's approach is nothing more than getting something for nothing and picking up talents that others don't want.

"Brother-in-law, it looks like you're getting along well with them."

Li Chunnan smiled: "Then do you need to talk about it?" First of all, they are leaders, I have to have a good relationship with them, secondly, I am the party branch secretary of Jinchuan Street Village, where the Jinchuan Town Government is located, and they in turn want to please me, and secondly, I found that these two people are very level, very capable, and usually intend to make friends with them, so I call them brothers and sisters, and the relationship is very iron. ”

Xiang Tianliang asked: "Brother-in-law, let me ask you again, what is the reaction of the two of them after knowing that I was transferred to Binhai and knowing my relationship with you?" ”

Li Chunnan scratched his head and thought about it, "This reaction is bigger, at least more enthusiastic than before, and more sticky, I feel that it seems that they are very eager to meet you, and they really want to associate with you, especially Liu Changgui, he is demoted from Qinghe City, and the mood to meet you seems to be more urgent, these days, it is almost an average of two calls a day." ”

"Oh...... That's right. ”

Xiang Tianliang fell into thought again.

There will be many changes in a person's life, from school to unit, from here to there, from good times to bad times, from the old environment to the new environment, everyone is indispensable to such an experience, every time there is such a change, will be faced with a strange communication space, to get involved in a new communication circle, to reconstruct a good interpersonal relationship, this period is the run-in period of interpersonal relations, in this run-in period, if you do not handle it properly, it will be incompatible with the new environment, and if you deal with it properly, you will quickly dissolve into it.

How to effectively survive the run-in period of interpersonal relationships? Everyone has a corresponding position in communication, which is a reflection of the laws of communication, but also the requirements of social norms, can not correctly correct their communication position, in the communication circle will inevitably appear abrupt, reckless, don't feet, will also be blamed by social groups, resentment, resistance, ridicule, blows, communication relations are complex and changeable, communicators are difficult to see at a glance, it is not easy to correctly grasp, what kind of position they are in the communication circle, how to adjust their position, it is not easy, so, in the face of the new environment, new friends, The first step is to know yourself well, evaluate yourself, determine what face, what kind of communicative tone into the new communicative role, correct your new position, is a profound process, not everyone can do successfully, which requires communicative understanding, the need for conscience of psychological literacy, maintaining a normal heart often plays a prominent role in their own position adjustment.

The run-in period is a process of gradual familiarity between the two sides, adapting to each other, agreeing with each other, accepting, there are thousands of differences between people, there are always such and such contradictions and conflicts, as a new face, when entering the unfamiliar field of communication, at the beginning of the scruples, empty eyes, teeth and claws, is unable to run in with others, this seems to be an extroverted personality, young people often have a phenomenon, but also a problem that should be overcome, to take a calm and simple communication posture is appropriate, more conducive to the realization of your run-in with the new environmentIn your self-retention and moderation, you will make a comprehensive, detailed and in-depth observation and grasp of the new communication environment, so as to achieve a targeted and effective fit and integration with the new environment, which seems to be a negative way on the surface, but in essence it is a strategy, and it is a more positive and effective technique.

The closeness of interpersonal relationships is usually manifested in interpersonal distance, the two sides have a close relationship, the distance between each other is closer, the relationship between the two sides is dredged, the distance between each other is farther, and the new colleagues and new friends are at the beginning, they are not familiar with each other, do not understand, the relationship has just formed, the distance is naturally larger, if you are stiff to get close to people, it is against the law of communication, the other party will not only not make friendly expressions, but also will produce disgust, this counterproductive effect, will put you in a passive position, keep an appropriate distance, Can give the other party a calm observation of you and the opportunity to know you, you will gradually become familiar and understood, to achieve the communication of thoughts, the blending of emotions, your relationship is slowly intimate, the distance between each other will quietly disappear, keep the distance is appropriate, grasp the scope of the other party's recognition and acceptance, and can effectively promote both parties to attract each other.

If you can't adjust your psychology and can't recalibrate your behavior, you won't be able to adapt to the new environment, you'll run into a wall, and others will have a lot of misunderstandings and criticisms about you, so you will inevitably become a person who is incompatible with the new environment.

People are active, the environment is not transferred by human will, people should take the initiative to adapt to the new environment, there is no reason to ask the new environment to accommodate you personally, therefore, the role transformation should be an automatic behavior, and especially should be effective on the word some efforts, to achieve the role of timely and appropriate successful transformation, to be complete, timely and reliable into a new member of the new environment.

The highest state of communication, is the mutual absorption between people, inseparable, to seek a way to run in in this regard, of course, to find a way, a person in the communication to form an attraction to others, manifested in his communication efforts, this is a rich content of the complex, including human image, knowledge, morality, ability, language, humor and other multi-level and multi-faceted content.

A person full of communicative charm, others will take the initiative to get close to him, accept him, adapt to him, interpersonal differences, contradictions will be effectively eliminated, interpersonal relations will be a natural trend, therefore, in the face of a new environment, new friends, the fundamental main thing is to cultivate their own unique communicative ability, create a favorable communicative environment for themselves, and bring themselves an ideal communicative status.

Xiang Tianliang made an unbelievable decision.

"Brother-in-law, you call Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi immediately and tell them that I have something to do and go to the countryside, and I can't see them today."

"No, it won't, Weishenme?"

"Huh...... I'm still the same agreement, and when I get home, I'll see you. ”

"I don't understand." Li Chunnan scratched the back of his head.

Xiang Tianliang smiled and said: "Brother-in-law, you are still a person who has been a soldier and fought, do you know if you want to capture and indulge, and if you want to capture and indulge?" ”

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