People are really shaped*, there are all kinds of things, but the most basic thing is the kindness of the heart. I now think that more important in society is the crisis of trust! People only trust their relatives and friends! Don't trust other people, or be suspicious of everyone else! What's more, everyone in this society is bad! It is precisely because of this selective belief that MLM can endure for a long time, which is a serious consequence of absolute trust in relatives and friends. Don't trust other people, or be suspicious of everyone else! What's more, everyone in this society is bad! From all the industries I am engaged in now, I have found that the crisis of trust is the biggest obstacle! Why are these problems occurring? Let's start with a few cases!

A customer I served the other day, he thought I was a bad guy from the beginning, someone who cheated on him, and then I found out about this, and I asked him why did he think so? His answer was that there was no good person in this society. I don't know how many times he has been fooled and how many times he has been deceived? I can only be sure that he must be very pessimistic about this society, or feel that the world is hot and cold, and the world is declining. Of course, I have said many times that there is no absolute good or bad in this world! It is all relative, one of the connotations in the book of the origin of Chinese thought and civilization - "Zhou Yi" is relative, of course, Einstein also put forward a similar truth, which is a universal truth. When a person thinks that everything is wrong or bad, it proves that the person's thinking and thinking are deformed. Because this is not in line with universality. A person's thinking and thinking are formed by factors such as receiving books for education, environmental infection, and self-learning, absorption and transformation (of course, there is also a name for this process, that is, brainwashing, the so-called brainwashing is generally derogatory in everyone's opinion, so the result of book education, environmental infection, and self-learning, absorption and transformation is not good, it is called brainwashing, and if it is good, it is called education). That is, there were problems and deviations in the process of his education.

How to solve the crisis of trust after it appears, I think of a word, people-oriented, people-oriented is a slogan put forward by our country, as for how to do it, I don't know much about it. People-oriented, I think of two words, one is selfishness, the other is love, this is universal and mutually compensating, in fact, love can make up for everything. If we often struggle with the right and wrong of a thing, in the spirit of putting people first, when you make a decision to love yourself, it is reasonable, and when you make a decision for the person you love, it is still reasonable. So right and wrong are relative, and there is no absolute right or wrong. All these decisions you make have something to do with your three views. Many people do not have three views, and this lack of three views will make people often entangled and blind. Therefore, I think that everyone should seriously think about and establish the correct three views, because each of us did not establish the correct three views in the process of growing up. I see that in the expressions in the Bible, there are Freud who said, there are also psychology experts, and in "Life and Death in Reincarnation", there are also Mozi, and there are many people who generally believe that the most beautiful thing in the world is love, love is in the heart, and love can solve all problems! "Love is the root of all problems, the root solution of all problems." Why? Because all problems start from not loving each other.

The above is the content and proposition of a question. Let's take a look at the crisis of trust, the educational process, and the relevance of person-centeredness and love. In this process, the proof, counterproof, and hypothesis substitution verification methods in mathematical thinking methods are applied.

Assuming that this person does not trust anyone but his own relatives, does he really have love for at least other people? If the person has love for anyone but his own loved ones, will he not trust anyone but his own loved ones? The conclusion is simple, at least his love is very little, but there is absolutely a serious lack of universal love; On the contrary, he has universal hatred! This lack of universal love exists universal hatred is caused by the acquired process of education, and it will definitely not be caused by heredity. Suppose we substitute love into people-oriented education: if a teacher really loves his students and the profession of teacher, will the teacher be paid to make up for a lot of extra time? If the additional students are learning something that is important and essential, then why don't schools set up these lessons? Or is it taught within the class time? If the class is already full and the students have to make up the class, does it prove that there is a problem with the class schedule? For example, what about eliminating some heavy and irrelevant class hours and assignments? If you need to change, then you can change it with universal love and then change it with people-oriented, then everyone will establish the correct three views, and the crisis of trust will naturally be lifted. (Of course, the Ministry of Education of our country has explicitly stipulated that no make-up classes can be made-up, but it is a fact that the phenomenon of make-up classes is quite unchanged.) ）

The phenomenon in parentheses above can also be used to deduce the cause with the above conclusion, and of course it can also explain this phenomenon, and still solve the problem of the above phenomenon. The order stipulates that it is the Ministry of Education; Violations exist. If you want to change the violation, you need the law to solve it, not the Ministry of Education, which has no legal effect. The root of the problem lies in the lack of legal provisions, lagging. In fact, many bad social phenomena are related to the lag of the law, and the lag of the law is also related to the crisis of trust, people-oriented and love, which has been reasoned to a high level, in fact, the family and the country are the same. For example, why lag, is it because of a crisis of trust, who doesn't trust whom? I do not know. You can think about it. It should be regarded as a people-oriented education, and everyone was assigned an assignment. For example, traffic jams in Dahuangshan, such as pedestrians running red lights, throwing garbage everywhere, spitting, no blackout strips on highways, corruption, governance, national defense, economy, consumption, and so on, any social phenomenon and problem can be answered and solved.

The topics of this chapter—the crisis of trust, education, person-centeredness, and loving relationships and understanding—are purely personal understandings and reflections. Written between 3 a.m. and 5 a.m. in 2018.