Xu Haodong leaned over to open the passenger door, but Xiao Yanan didn't get up, but walked around and walked to the other side.

This girl is not good, Xu Haodong moved to the passenger seat and gave the driver's seat to Xiao Yanan.

The speed of the car was very fast, and he drove until he reached a Western restaurant called "Ai Simei", and then made Xu Haodong nod and break the bloodstream.

Xiao Yanan said: "Haodong, I invite you to eat Western food. ”

Xu Haodong said: "Yanan, you don't know, I don't eat Western food. ”

"Today I'm up to me." Xiao Yanan got out of the car with the car keys and entered the store with his ass twisted.

Xu Haodong had to follow up, it's not that he can't eat Western food, he just doesn't like to eat.

A woman who was dressed very little and very thin came up to chat with Xiao Yanan.

Xiao Yanan introduced: "Haodong, this is my best friend, returnee Ai Simei. ”

Xu Haodong smiled and said: "The store is good, the name is good, and the people are better." ”

Ai Simei couldn't help but wonder, "Hello Secretary Xu, good official, good person, better words." ”

Xiao Yanan smiled and said: "Simei, be careful of being confused, Secretary Xu is a master of fooling, if he can sell you, you have to help count the money." ”

Xu Haodong followed the two women into the private room.

Xiao Yanan asked for an American steak, a sugar sauce pancake, and a cocktail.

Xu Haodong asked for an American-style steak and an apple salad with a glass of water, but he emphasized that the steak must be very cooked.

"Secretary Xu, Yanan, I'll be absent for a while." Esme smiled and exited the private room.

Xu Haodong couldn't help but turn his head and glanced at Ai Simei's hot body, "Yanan, does your best friend have a master?" ”

Xiao Yanan smiled, "What, you have an idea?" ”

Xu Haodong said seriously: "I have no idea, but I am worried about the male compatriots, there is no master, it must be a serious unstable factor, even if there is a master, it must be an unstable factor." ”

"Giggle......" Xiao Yananjiao said with a smile: "Haodong, you really said it." Simei is my neighbor, five years older than me, and other people's lives are really vigorous, singing and crying. I started falling in love at the age of fifteen, and the results of falling in love were not even connected, at least there was a strengthened platoon. Got married and had children at the age of 20, divorced at the age of 21, scored twice at the age of 22, got married and had children, and divorced again at the age of 23. At the age of twenty-five, he crossed the ocean and traveled thousands of miles to the United States, and in less than five years, he scored a hat trick, got married three times, and divorced three times, all of which were American macho men, two of which blossomed and bore fruit. At the age of thirty-two, he returned triumphantly with three fake diplomas and two mixed-American children, plus eight million dollars of fortune from three foreign husbands. ”

Xu Haodong almost laughed angrily, "Hehe...... Elite, elite, absolutely successful people. ”

Xiao Yanan said with a smile: "Successful people, this is a particularly well-defined person. Simei now has four children, fifteen houses, six cars, a jewelry store, a beauty shop, three western restaurants, seven pharmacies, and tens of millions of deposits. If such a woman is not said to be successful, how can there be any successful woman, people live too chic and comfortable. So, she doesn't need a man now, she doesn't have a man, no, she can have a man at any time. ”

Xu Haodong was speechless, because Xiao Yanan was right, the experience of a woman like Ai Simei certainly cannot be summed up by the word failure.

Esme knocked on the door and entered, followed by two waitresses with plates.

After the two waitresses withdrew, Ai Simei not only didn't leave, but also sat down, "Secretary Xu, did Yanan say bad things about me again?" ”

"No, no." Xu Haodong smiled and said, "I heard an inspirational story just now, at least that's what I think, that's all." ”

"Thank you, thank you, Secretary Xu." Ai Simei smiled and asked, "Secretary Xu, can you make a more specific evaluation?" ”

After thinking about it for a while, Xu Haodong said: "Objectively speaking, there are no two absolutely identical people in the world, so it is impossible to have absolutely the same life trajectory. Subject to the law and morality, everyone can live their lives in their own way, just like wearing shoes, as long as they see fit. ”

Xiao Yanan said: "Haodong, please use your favorite way to give an example. ”

"For example, Yanan, you are outgoing, bold, and dared to bully male classmates when you were in high school, including me. In fact, this is an appearance, you are here to protect yourself, and it may also be to attract attention. Therefore, you are actually not very bold, if you are asked to learn from Ms. Ai and go abroad alone, you will definitely not dare. However, now you are also satisfied, your happiness is still very high, and both others and yourself will think that your life is a success. ”

"For example, your family Zijian, he never forgets his original intention, has no intention of pursuing a career in office, is in the officialdom, cleans himself, does his duty, and does his duty. In your spare time, you can read some books and write some small articles, and live freely, contentedly and happily. If he is allowed to work in the real power department, and insists on being the first or second in command, I think he will have to mess up, because he is good at scheming but not good at decisiveness. If he is allowed to go out into society, he may not be able to get along because he reads too much and practices too little. So Zijian is also successful, and he is also a successful person. ”

Ai Simei said: "Secretary Xu, tell me about yourself." ”

"As for me, at least I think I'm successful. Of course, from the perspective of personal enjoyment, my life is not perfect, and I really have very little to eat, drink, play, and have fun. But this is determined by the characteristics of my profession, and at the same time determined by my habits, for example, smoking, I naturally hate it, I can't learn it, for example, I drink, but in small amounts. In short, I'm like everyone else, I lost something, but I also gained a lot of things, looking back on my past ten years, I'm still very successful, so I'm also a successful person. ”

After a pause, Xu Haodong said: "Let's put it this way, Ms. Ai, your life is high-profile and wonderful, Yanan, your life is low-key and wonderful, Zijian is the same as me, our lives are decently wonderful." ”

Ai Simei said: "Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years." Secretary Xu, thank you, I thought you would look down on me, because I have been living in other people's saliva, and even my parents don't approve of me. ”

"This question should be looked at in two parts." Xu Haodong said: "People can live for themselves, or they can live mainly for themselves, regardless of worldly opinions. However, people should also try to adapt to the environment, and they should not deliberately be mavericks. Adapting to the environment, blending in with the environment, succeeding in this situation, and at the same time winning a little recognition, changing the environment a little, that is the highest level of success. ”

Ai Simei said: "I heard it, Secretary Xu advised me to restrain my edge a little and work hard, but I compromised. ”

"That's what I meant." Xu Haodong said: "Ms. Ai, when you have time, you might as well look back on your past, or rather, you can reflect on yourself. You will find it interesting to find that your success is also full of adaptation and compromise, and you are constantly correcting and changing. ”

Ai Simei got up and said, "Secretary Xu, thank you again, and I will have the opportunity to listen to your teachings in the future." ”

Glancing at Ai Simei's back again, Xu Haodong asked, "Yanan, you dragged me here not just to give your girlfriend a lesson, right?" ”

Xiao Yanan said: "It's for Wu Peilin and Wu Fatzi, and it's also for my family Li Zijian." ”