He loves you, and you have to believe in Him
"Do you think Wan Xiaogu likes you?"
"Eh, you've asked me this question several times, no, he won't like me, and I won't fall in love with him."
"How is that possible! He's got it all for you. ”
"Hey, I didn't say it, what if I gave it to me?"
Si Wan nestled on the sofa, yawned lazily like a cat, and said, "What if you give it to me?" He never seemed to ask me if I needed it. ”
"You can't stay here," Ling Qingran said to Nunu, the uniform he used for work, "You also saw it, the last time Wei Chengbao's brute said that he wouldn't let them get close to you, they really didn't talk to you." ”
"They're hostile to you, don't you notice?"
"Ah," Si Wan scratched her head, "After all, he is the boss, and everyone is afraid of him." ”
"Your status is already very low here, very lowly, why don't you go with Zhuang Haotang who likes you or live with Wan Xiaogu?"
"Wan Xiao Gu is engaged, and there is a lot of uproar in the newspapers."
"And," Si Wan tilted her head in thought, and said, "Have you read the New Testament?" ”
In the Gospel of Luke in the New Testament, Jesus Christ tells a parable about a Jew who was robbed by robbers, seriously wounded, and lying on the side of the road. There were priests and Levites passing by, but they didn't care at all. Only one Samaritan passed by and kindly helped him, despite sectarian barriers. At that time, the Jews were contemptuous of the Samaritans, believing them to be mixed-race aliens. Jesus used this parable to illustrate that the criterion for judging a person is the human heart, not the person's identity. ”
"They discriminated against me, in fact, just because of Wei Chengbao's coercion."
This kind of behavior is similar to hypnosis, which uses authority and collectivity to make you believe what you didn't believe before, and to support what you don't support. In particular, the will of the authority in the collective is more capable of changing the behavior of the group. ”
"Why are we so susceptible to brainwashing? Why is our herd mentality so heavy? Why is the individual will so at risk in the face of the collective? ”
Because we're afraid of loneliness. A person is miserable and not conducive to survival. So it's easy to rush to the "majority".
"Imagine, standing with the masses, you call me, the mountains call the tsunami, although it is not smart, but how safe, more safe, how light, how warm...... This huge "we" will give you the illusion that you are not alone, you have a group of partners. What a sense of belonging! Unfortunately, Mark Twain said harshly: when you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to stop and reflect. ”
"When you reflect, you can ask yourself, like Chris, what am I doing? Even if you don't approve of it in your heart, you will obey the group at that time. ”
This is our blind obedience to the collective. ”
In the same way, when everyone in the group is doing strange things, saying strange things, and doing things that are contrary to morality and legal principles, as long as they give you strong hints, you will not stop them, and even follow them. Because he feels inferior and can't fit into the scene, he will please and want to obey the will of others even more. ”
"So," Si Wan looked at Ling Qingran and said, "I'm fine here, it's just that Wei Chengbao has a problem, that's all." ”
"Really?" Ling Qingran looked at Si Wan and stopped talking.
But that night, an upturn completely changed the fate of the two.