Chapter Eighty-Nine: The Warm House
"Old Tang, Battalion Commander Xi, Company Commander Luo, and Company Commander Feng hurry up and come out, it's time to eat." Luo Ying stood in the courtyard and shouted.
Tang Lixing walked out of the bedroom with a few people, "It's here." ”
"Take a seat in the hall, my brother and sister made a lot of delicious food today; You'll have to eat it later, and you can't have any leftovers! ”
Feng Jixun responded with a smile, "Sister-in-law, are you still afraid that so many of us won't be able to finish eating?" ”
Luo Ying smiled knowingly, turned back to the kitchen, and the dishes, chopsticks, and meals were served one after another......
Chu Tianyi looked at the people in the hall and asked suspiciously, "What about Mr. Song?" Brother, did you go to invite Mr. Song? ”
"Seeing that I'm busy and forgetting, I'll go now." Lei Ce slapped his forehead, walked to the outside of a room, and knocked on the room, "Mr. Song, it's time to eat." ”
"Hmm."
Song Yuan opened the door and walked out, taking the lead towards the hall.
Lei Ce followed behind and entered the hall, "Old Mr. Song, you take a seat." ”
Song Yuan walked to the upper seat and sat down, and looked at the people present, "Let's eat!" ”
Song Yuan slowly picked up the chopsticks and started, eating like a gentleman.
With an outsider, everyone's atmosphere is not as good as before; They each put away all the crazy statues, drank and ate.
"Come, Mr. Song, I respect you; Thank you for your accommodating and understanding during this time, and thank you for selling me the house. Reitzer picked up his glass and raised it to the center of the table.
Song Yuan glanced up at him, silently picked up the wine glass and touched it; Take a sip and sit down.
Lei Ce didn't care, and poured a glass of wine again, "This generation respects the big guy, thank you for your help today, otherwise my daughter-in-law and I may not be busy." ”
"Lao Lei's words are too polite, don't say anything, come and raise a glass." Tang Lixing reconciled the atmosphere, there was an outsider, and everyone couldn't let go.
Xi Chengtao and the other three raised their glasses, touched each other's wine glasses, and drank them all in one gulp.
"Mr. Song, you eat, let's have a few drinks." In order to take care of him, Retzer stopped him from drinking.
"Whatever you want." Song Yuan waved his hand and lowered his head to eat the food.
At this time, everyone let go, toasted each other in turn, and the atmosphere slowly reconciled.
After Song Yuan finished eating, he put down the dishes and chopsticks, took out a handkerchief and wiped the corners of his mouth, and walked away with his hands behind his back.
Feng Jixun let out a big breath, "Who is this old Mr. Song?" I always felt a kind of pressure in front of me, and I couldn't even eat comfortably. ”
"I don't know, I just know that it's an old man who has been living here, and I haven't even bothered to inquire." Lei Ze shook his head, "Come, come, drink, and put the rest aside." ”
"Drink." Tang Lixing picked up the cup again.
Luo Tianjun hurriedly stuffed a mouthful of food into his mouth before picking up the cup, "Come, drink." ”
There were no strangers, and the hearts of several people were completely opened, and the atmosphere was the most high-spirited in this meal.
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"Sister-in-law, let's go to the yard and sit down! Give them the space, the men. Chu Tianyi pushed the stroller with one hand and said this to Luo Ying, who was sitting next to him.
"Okay, these people are drinking endlessly, and the noise hurts my ears." Luo Ying plucked out her ears and walked out of the hall with her.
The yard is spacious, with four flower beds on both sides with several trees planted in it; Now in winter, the trees are dead.
"Brother and sister, let's do it here! It's spacious. Luo Ying swept the dead grass on the flower stand with her hand and pulled her to sit down.
After the two sat down, Luo Ying lifted the thin quilt on the stroller, and the two boys hugged each other and rolled, "Look at these two boys, they can play like this, and no matter how old the younger brothers and sisters are, they will be worried." ”
"Hehe, I don't have to worry, if they want to fight, let them fight; If you don't fight them, I won't help them. Chu Tianyi smiled and said his intentions without any burden.
Luo Ying looked at her in surprise, "You don't care if the two children fight?" How can it be good to bump into something? ”
"Sister-in-law, the children have their children's solutions to their problems, and I will not interfere with them; It will only be guided a little at the right time to let them play their true nature, which will be very helpful for their acquired growth. ”
"How?" Luo Ying was stunned, and then became interested.
Chu Tianyi stretched out his hand and straightened out the clothes on their bodies that had climbed up to their waists, "The nature of children cannot be suppressed, let them grow up to their heart's content; When I was in the countryside, I saw that many adults disciplined their children by beating or scolding, which actually caused physical and mental harm to the children. Children in rural areas are generally afraid of their parents, and they are timid when it comes to their parents. ”
"This timidity is because their parents are stronger than them, and they are afraid; When they encounter stronger beings than them in their future growth, it is easy to develop fear, which is a chain reaction. ”
Luo Ying carefully recalled the situation in her hometown and nodded approvingly, "Listening to what you say, this is indeed the case; Although the child is very well-behaved after being beaten and scolded, he gradually no longer reveals his true nature, but becomes a little wooden. ”
"Yes, children are lively by nature, and it mainly depends on how their parents teach." Chu Tianyi smiled and watched his sons play, "If you beat and scold the children in front of outsiders, the children will feel embarrassed; This hurts their self-esteem, and once their self-esteem is hurt for a long time, either the child will fight back or become inferior. ”
"And children with low self-esteem, their psychological development will become incomplete, and even appear in a distorted state."
Luo Ying was dumbfounded, "There will be such serious consequences?" ”
"It's still light." Chu Tianyi thought of the newspapers and news reports in his previous life, many children had an inferiority complex because of their parents' random beating and scolding, so they didn't like to communicate with others, and gradually became silent.
"When I have children, I will definitely not beat and scold them at will; Brother and sister, how do you know so much? Luo Ying stared at her in surprise, "I don't know, I thought you had many years of experience in educating children!" ”
"Hehe, because I'm a doctor! Doctors don't just learn the art of medicine. "It's a very useful shield," and Peking University also has psychology, and I listen to the lectures of those professors when I have free time. ”
"I see! My younger siblings know a lot, and I will learn from my younger siblings in terms of educating my children in the future. Luo Ying was not jealous of this, but there was a faint envy in her heart.
Chu Tianyi smiled and bowed, "No problem!" My sister-in-law can also put it with me when she has a child in the future, I am his godmother, and I can help you teach him. ”
"Stinky girl, I really don't know how your Lei deputy group can stand your temperament." Luo Ying blushed, "However, you will definitely help me teach the children in the future, my experience is not enough after all." ”
"It's no problem, it's just that when the time comes, don't blame me if my godson doesn't kiss you." Chu Tianyi agreed very happily, but there was a seductive joke everywhere between his words.
Luo Ying held her hand and said sincerely: "Don't be afraid, if he really doesn't kiss me, I'll clean him up." ”
"Hahaha, just kidding! How embarrassed am I to rob my sister-in-law of the responsibility of motherhood. "Teach children that it is easy to say that it is simple, and that it is difficult to say that it is difficult; See if you have a pair of eyes that are good at finding problems.
Luo Ying held her hand tightly and glared at her, "I'm serious." ”
"Sister-in-law, teaching children is a pleasure, and a woman will regret it for the rest of her life if she loses this kind of fun in her life." Chu Tianyi was unmoved.
Luo Ying also understood this truth, and after a moment of silence, she raised her head, "That brother and sister should teach me more, so that I know how to teach children." ”
"That's no problem, what my sister-in-law wants to know, I must know everything."
"Brother and sister, thank you." Luo Ying shook her hand excitedly.
Chu Tianyi's eyes narrowed slightly, his smiling eyebrows and eyes were crooked, and he teased, "Do you really want to have a child now?" ”
"Brother and sister, you're really getting worse." Luo Ying's excited mood was difficult to calm down, and she was teased by her again, so she could only laugh and ask her to teach more attentively in the future.
Chu Tianyi responded, if it was someone else, she wouldn't necessarily pay attention to it, but Luo Ying was different; Luo Ying was straightforward from the beginning of contact, and her temperament was also excellent, and she didn't say anything to her, she would not be stingy with some common sense she knew.
The two women listened to the noise coming from the hall, holding hands and chatting.
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Lei Ce and the others drank until after one o'clock in the afternoon, and Xi Chengtao and the others fell drunk on the table; Only Lei Ce and Tang Lixing are still a little sober.
The two looked at each other and smiled, Tang Lixing pointed at the three drunks leisurely, "They are too drunk, so they are drunk." ”
"Huh." Lei Zer stood up crookedly on the table, and walked out of the hall step by step; Seeing a familiar figure in front of him, he grinned, "Daughter-in-law." ”
Chu Tianyi looked up and hurriedly greeted him, "Why are you drunk like this?" ”
"Happy, daughter-in-law, I'm happy." Retzer grinned.
"Okay, don't say it, I'll help you back to the house and rest." Helped him into the bedroom and threw him on the bed, "You sleep well, don't move around, I'll go see how the others are doing." ”
Lei Ce watched his daughter-in-law leave, whimpered, turned over and fell asleep with the quilt in his arms.
In the hall, there were three drunk, and one was already drunk, "Sister-in-law, you help Instructor Tang to go to the second room of the south room to rest, and I'll see how to get Camp Commander Xi and them to the guest room." ”
"Wait, I'll settle Don and come back to help you." Luo Ying glanced at him and dragged Tang Lixing away.
After a while, Luo Ying came back sweating, "Brother and sister, let's help them to the guest room one by one!" I thought it was just a simple drink, but I didn't expect to get drunk again. ”
"Oh, sister-in-law, don't be angry; Instructor Tang is good, but they were drunk last night, and they are unusually drunk today, so I'm afraid they will have a headache when they wake up. ”
"It's no wonder if you're not angry! There is no consciousness at all. Luo Ying reached out and grabbed Feng Jixun's arm, and helped Feng Jixun up with her.
The two walked back and forth three times before they were settled.
The two of them looked at the table full of dishes, and they both smiled bitterly......