Chapter 178: Arrogance

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Xia Bicheng was robbed by Xia Chuchu After thinking about it, he felt that what she said was also very reasonable: If you just talk about it in terms of character, appearance and talent, Ye Ming is indeed a pretty good young man

But although Ye Ming is good, Xia Bicheng still feels that he is too far away from his daughter: if Ye Ming has a complete family, his parents have a half-official position, or he works in a provincial capital and has a certain material foundation, it is reasonable

But now, he is still working in that small Xinleng county, and his position is still at the deputy unit level, and if he wants to transfer him to the provincial capital, he has to start again, and he has no material basis now, and his daughter marries him, and he has to post a lot upside down, and he, the director of the provincial bureau, still has to say hello and find a way to deal with his job transfer and promotion

On the contrary, if Chu Chu finds Wang Xu as his boyfriend, not only is his family superior, but his father can also play a great role in his career promotion, which is a great thing to kill multiple birds with one stone......

Thinking of this, Xia Bicheng, who had always had a good impression of Ye Ming, suddenly felt disgusted with him in his heart at this time: This young man looks hearty and sunny and upright, but he didn't expect that his scheming was so deep He actually came to pursue his daughter quietly, and I don't know what means he used to make his baby daughter, who is above the top in finding a partner, moved his heart Thinking about it makes people angry......

He estimated: Ye Ming must have used a lot of brains and spent a lot of thought in order to pursue Chu Chu, and his purpose is also very clear that he wants to become a veritable "horse master" of the Tianjiang Provincial Local Taxation System by falling in love and marrying Chu Chu Lay the foundation, set up a ladder, and pave the way for him to climb up in the system in the future......

After analyzing Ye Ming's motives, he decided to remind his daughter, and said to Xia Chuchu earnestly: "Chu Chu, you have also worked for so many years, and it stands to reason that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, and your ability to read and observe people should also improve, I estimate: Xiao Ye must have spent a lot of effort in order to pursue you, and also used a lot of means that are enough to make you have a good impression of him I don't know if he is clever or not, but since you like him now, it proves that his methods are indeed effective."

But have you analyzed: why did Ye Ming pursue you What is his purpose in pursuing you Is it because I am the director of the provincial bureau that he pursues you so hard If this is the reason then is he sincere to you Will he be good to you as always in the future The gap between the two of you is so big Will you be happy in the future I hope you will think about it carefully Don't be confused by his temporary diligence and enthusiasm Don't be carried away by an illusory love

I have always believed that there is no pure love in this world that can be completely separated from the material foundation, the kind of story that can abandon all external conditions, abandon the huge family and status differences between the two parties, abandon the basic material conditions, and desperately search for the so-called true love, which can only exist in movies and television or in real life, and that kind of pure love, in my opinion, is an unrealistic fantasy, an ethereal castle in the air

Therefore, Chu Chu, I advise you: In the matter of interacting with Ye Ming, you must think carefully Don't be confused by his momentary rhetoric or vows Don't just pay attention to appearance and ignore the huge gap between the two sides in terms of family, social status, economic conditions, etc. This gap is sometimes unbridgeable, insurmountable, and impossible to eliminate Do you understand what I said?"

Xia Chuchu listened to his father's long lecture The central meaning is that Ye Ming pursues himself with ulterior motives It is to take a fancy to him, the father-in-law who is the director of the provincial bureau She couldn't help but be angry and anxious: she just tried her best to coax and scare Ye Ming to drag Ye Ming to her home Thinking about how to be nice to him in order to let him leave Chen Mengqi to be with him If his father waited to talk to Ye Ming and showed a little bit of contempt for him With his bullish temper and self-esteem and arrogant character, it would be strange if he didn't brush his sleeves Maybe it's weird It's going to be difficult for me to meet him in the future......

Thinking of this, she was so anxious that she stomped her feet and said: "Dad, don't you spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain, okay People are not the kind of person you imagine I remind you again: his character is very arrogant and his temper is also big If you wait to say these words to him, he will provoke his bull temper He doesn't care if you are the director of the provincial bureau or not, maybe he will hit you against the south wall on the spot, so that you can't get off the stage, don't blame me for not reminding you then."

Xia Bicheng saw his daughter protect Ye Ming like this, and he shouted and was angry in his heart, but he was helpless, so he had to sigh and compromise: "Okay, I won't say anything to offend him today, but he and Xiao Wang have a chance now, and they should compete fairly, so you can't say anything ugly to Xiao Wang later, you have to take care of both sides a little bit, do you hear it, if you offend Xiao Wang, I won't agree."

At this moment, Xia Chuchu's mother pushed the door in, said that it was time to eat, and asked their father and daughter to go out to prepare for dinner

Ye Ming originally planned to give the bag of candy to Xia Chuchu and leave, but he didn't expect to be "kidnapped" by her and come to her house And as soon as he entered the door, he noticed that Director Xia didn't seem to welcome him And the reason for this is naturally very obvious: Director Xia thinks that he is not worthy of his daughter He and Chu Chu are in love Purely because a toad wants to eat swan meat

Especially after seeing Director Xia calling Chu Chu into the study with a blushing face, this kind of meaning of looking down on himself is even more obvious......

Ye Ming is a very face-loving and strong person, belonging to a typical "spring character": you follow him, don't move him, he is stable and does not move; But if you press him, if you press him, he will bounce back strongly, and the harder you press and the harder you press, the more he will bounce back......

For example, today, he didn't intend to treat Xia Chuchu as a girlfriend, but he was a little curious to see what the boyfriend that others introduced to her was like

But now, when I think of Director Xia looking down on myself like this, and calling Xia Chuchu into the study alone to interrogate and do ideological work, I can't help but feel arrogant: Don't you look down on me, don't you think I'm not worthy of your daughter, I'm going to do it with her affectionately and affectionately today, and show you that it's not that I'm here to slap you, the director, but that your daughter wants to be with me and want to have sex with me......