150. Violent Communication (I)
I don't dare to bet, Gu Fang has already made up his mind that his feelings for Shao Qingyang will never take such a step.
As for An Jiaqi, Gu Yifang thanked her from the bottom of his heart, which reminded her of Miss Ma, Tracy, and Ivy.
There is always an impression in society that female bosses are unreliable, timid, incompetent and like to suppress subordinates, and ambiguous with their bosses.
Maybe there really is such a boss, but it has nothing to do with gender, and it is still the majority who choose kindness within their ability.
When he arrived at the bank, looking at the 10,000 yuan coming in, Gu Yifang thought to himself, what should I buy for Grandma Gu? But she was really afraid of Aunt Gu, and it seemed that what she did was wrong.
A week later, when Gu Yifang was training in the company, he received a text message, it was Gu's mother who asked her if she could ask for leave in the afternoon, and her grandmother may not be able to do it well, and she is now in the hospital.
Gu Yifang's heart tightened, and he didn't know what had happened.
In front of the conference room, Lao Gao was talking about "non-violent communication", and under the podium, Gu Yifang frowned.
There is a lot of training in large companies, from professional skills to business etiquette and interpersonal communication, which are very useful at work but not at home.
Objective description, expression of feelings, experience needs, and specific requirements are important skill chains for nonviolent communication.
But these are completely reversed in Aunt Gu.
This time, Grandma Gu will enter the hospital, which is Aunt Gu's violent communication.
Taking advantage of Uncle Gu's kung fu to go out to play mahjong, Aunt Gu slipped to Grandma Gu's house and asked Grandma Gu to make a will.
"You all bully me, I don't have a house!"
"What should I do if my mother dies? I have three long and two short mothers, and I can't go back! ”
"This house must have a will, Mom, you have been eccentric for so long, you should always think about me!"
But the fact is that when the room could be divided, Aunt Gu refused to fake a divorce, and moved back to the household registration with Qin Yumeng, thinking that everyone was cursing her, and when she really divorced later, it was too late.
In the afternoon, after asking for leave with Ivy, Gu Yifang consulted Zhang Lixian on his mobile phone, bought some nutritional products temporarily, and arrived at the hospital in the afternoon, in the corridor, Uncle Gu propped his hands on his knees, lowered his head, and heard Gu Yifang's voice, Uncle Gu raised his head, and his face was even more ugly than last time.
Gu's mother pushed Uncle Gu and said, "Weiguo, you go back to sleep first, and you will come to accompany you tomorrow." ”
Uncle Gu shook his head and said, "Today is a dangerous period, what are you asking Fang Fang to do, she still has to go to work tomorrow." ”
Gu's mother said: "Where is it important to go to work, it doesn't matter if you don't go for a few days, the leader can understand, besides, the old lady usually loves Fang Fang so much, Fang Fang should take a few days off." ”
Gu Yifang's face sank, it was impossible to take a few days off in a row, but now that he refuted Gu's mother's words, it was likely that he would quarrel again.
Fortunately, Uncle Gu is still sensible, "Nonsense, there are still people at home who don't go to work, how can you ask people who go to work to accompany you?" Why didn't Qin Yumeng come? ”
Gu's mother said: "Qin Yumeng is a foreign company, and he has children ......, he is not as idle as Fang Fang, and he still has time to work part-time, and he doesn't know how to spend time to find a reliable man to marry, and there is a lot of manpower at this time." ”
At this time, Gu's mother didn't forget to find an opportunity to count down, Gu Yifang's heart was also panicked, those "non-violent communication" were not used at all, Gu's mother had already chosen "violent communication", didn't she?
Uncle Gu scratched his head and said, "Sister, please don't do seven twists and threes, Fang Fang, help us buy some dinner in a while, and you can go back with your mother after dinner, and I will guard it tonight." ”
Gu Fang nodded and gave the bag to Uncle Gu, who rummaged through it and sighed, "Fang Fang is still sensible." ”
Gu's mother muttered, "I haven't asked the doctor if I can eat it, so I spent money indiscriminately." ”
Gu Fang finally couldn't help but say: "I asked a friend who studied medicine, these are ordinary maltolin paste nutrients, and the weakest patients can also eat them." ”
At the mention of friends, Gu's mother became vigilant again, "What friends, it shouldn't be a lie to you to buy something*!" ”
"Bought it at the supermarket?" Uncle Gu interrupted Gu's mother's words.
The plastic bag that Gu Yifang brought was a hypermarket plastic bag, and there was a barcode on the product, which shows that Gu's mother's statement is completely untenable.
When he saw a doctor walking by, Uncle Gu specially squeezed out a smile and asked, does the patient have a problem eating the nutritional products that Gu Fang bought?
The doctor looked at it and only said that it was used as an ordinary nutritional supplement, and there was no big problem.
Gu's mother stopped talking, and after a while, Gu's mother's mobile phone rang again, she looked at Uncle Gu nervously, got up and went to the stairwell to make a call.
Gu's mother thought that she couldn't hear the stairwell when the door was closed, however, the empty stairwell had its own echo amplification function.
"Tonight, tonight, Wei Guo is watching."
"You don't want to come over just yet."
"You too, the old lady is still rescuing, not when she said this."
"No, no, how good Lao Sun is to you, Sun Chen also treats you as his own mother, you are still Mengmeng, how good a son and a daughter are blessed, unlike me, life is hard, how good can a daughter be."
"Yes, she doesn't marry, it's me who suffers, and I can't help now."
"Don't think about it, even if you want to say something, wait until the old lady wakes up, besides, this disease won't go so fast."
Uncle Gu couldn't help but stand up, Gu Fang grabbed him and said, "Uncle, forget it......"
Uncle Gu took two deep breaths, took out a cigarette from his coat pocket, took out a lighter from his trouser pocket, lit it, and took two puffs hard......
After a while, a medical staff came over to remind "No smoking here", and it happened that Gu's mother's phone was also over, and she opened the stairwell door, and came out and said, "Okay, okay, I won't go back today, if there is any news, I must follow you——"
Uncle Gu walked up and puffed out a cigarette, choking Gu's mother speechless, and before she could react, the mobile phone in Gu's mother's hand had been snatched away, and then, Uncle Gu poked her head and threw it down the window.
"Ahem...... Wei! Gu's mother opened her mouth and choked again, and then, in Uncle Gu's anger, she couldn't say a word.
"From now on, I'm in the hospital! Don't want to step into the old lady's ward at this thirteen o'clock! Uncle Gu glared at Gu's mother viciously as he spoke, and went to smoke in half an hug.
Gu Yifang took Gu's mother downstairs to pick up the broken mobile phone, Gu's mother was still like that, insisting on repairing it, until the store said that the money for repair was enough to replace it with a new mobile phone, then she gave up and bought a second-hand mobile phone.
When I got home, the phone rang, and when Gu's mother ran in to answer it, the phone rang just off, and then the mobile phone rang again.
Knowing that Gu's mother had returned home, Aunt Gu was furious again, and she had to go to the hospital to guard Gu's mother.
Aunt Gu was still worried about the inheritance, she was afraid that Grandma Gu would not be able to hold on, and when she explained the future, only Uncle Gu was present alone and swallowed all the inheritance.
Even though Gu's mother said that the dangerous period had passed, Aunt Gu still didn't give up, and she was still crying about the lack of a house on the other end of the phone.
Gu Fang was sitting in the utility room, feeling very tired, she knew that this farce had just begun.