Xue Lian smiled and said, "Figured it out? Okay, let's go, let's go to the park and have fun! We must not let those hundreds of dollars affect our good mood. If you lose anything, you can't lose optimism, and if you lose optimism, then what if you can win the world, right? Later! Think about everything, and when you can't figure it out, change your perspective so that you don't have to worry. Here today, gone tomorrow! Annoyance is also a day, happiness is also a day, and in a few decades we will turn to ashes. To be alive should be happy. Be optimistic from the bottom of our hearts, we live for ourselves. Let me tell you about the article I read the other day! It is said that a young man in the countryside wore a pair of cloth shoes to go to the city to look for a job, but he saw that everyone in the city was wearing suits and leather shoes, and his colorful skirts were fluttering. He felt very unbalanced, always felt inferior, just when he was depressed because he had no leather shoes, but found that there was a barefoot man on the street rummaging through the garbage can, and his mood was relieved a lot. After a while, he found a footless man selling balloons in a wheelchair. He also thought about it and noticed a legless man under a tree on the side of the street shining someone's shoes. At this time, the young man was immediately stunned, and no longer complained about the unfairness of life, and even thanked God for his favor. So we don't always complain about others, and don't always feel that we are wronged, there are more people in the world who are more wronged than you are more wronged than you, we must learn to resolve the contradictions by ourselves, and face them with ups and downs and setbacks with strength and optimism. It's easy to say, but it's hard to do, because it requires a very high level of life as support, and to be honest, sometimes even I can't do it. As I get older, some worries are really hard to get rid of for a while. I don't know why I occasionally feel upset, when I was a child, I never knew what troubles were, I was happy all day as if I had eaten eighty-two suns, sometimes I took a big zero egg, and I smirked and took the test paper to show my classmates: You see that the zero egg that the teacher drew for me is not round at all. As soon as the teacher criticized me, I pouted and said, 'Hmph, I'm not stupid!' Every year at this time of May Day, it is the season when the rural acacia flowers are in full bloom. After class, I climbed to the wall with my classmates to eat acacia flowers, and wore a pair of small cloth shoes with open toes on my bare feet. There are two little sheep's horn braids crookedly on his head, and he is snorting and humming a song while stroking the strings of locust flowers with his little hands. What shoes are torn, hats are torn, and the household veils on the body are torn...... Looking back now, I especially envy the life I had when I was a child. At that time, although I didn't eat well or dress well, I never had any troubles, and I was stumbling blindly all day long with my little flower pants that were not elasticated, and now although I am happy, I can't dream of getting back that carefree and heartfelt feeling. ”

Zhicheng couldn't help but hug her and sighed: "Little sister, whenever I hear you talk about your childhood, I think you are richer than ten Bill Gates." ”

"I think so too. Hmph, spiritually speaking, I am the richest man in the world...... So throwing five or six hundred is a fart! Wang Limin once said such a sentence in his article "The Rich Man with No Money and the Poor Seed with Money", he said: What a person can really have is not material wealth, but spiritual food. The former can only be used for temporary domination, while the latter can be owned for life, forever. When we are dying, everything is everything! Including the body must be returned to nature, only the ups and downs you have experienced these spiritual wealth can be taken away in the soul, and the rest can not be taken away even if you have a family property, so in a sense, spiritual wealth is the only criterion for measuring whether a person is rich in a lifetime. I don't know if you still remember this article he published in the "Chaoyang" newspaper. ”

Zhicheng bit his lip and said, "Why do you like to quote him so much?" Is he that authoritative? ”

"Hmph, if the authority is not authoritative, just say it reasonably! Bite? Are you not convinced? In fact, what is authoritative is not necessarily the truth, and the truth does not have to be authoritative. When I mention him, do you have a little pantothenic acid in your stomach? Jealous, right? Don't be jealous! ”

"Hehe...... Zhicheng grabbed his scalp and said, "Anyway, when you mention him, I don't feel good in my heart." ”

"Really? Then if I mention Marx, are you still jealous......" Xue Lian glanced at him affectionately and said, "Brother, I can understand your feelings." Everyone has jealousy, and if you are jealous and jealous, it means that you have me in your heart and I care about me. But you must not have jealousy in all aspects, it is a bit abnormal, and you must learn to resolve the jealousy of others. Don't let jealousy distort your heart. In this era of rampant materialism, mutual comparison and admiration for vanity, it is really difficult to maintain an indifferent heart. Don't talk about the intrigue in the lawsuit, and don't talk about the deceit in the workplace. Even today's high school students are particularly jealous. Especially girls, it's just to the point of being sick. I saw a report a while ago that struck me. It is said that the two sophomore girls in a middle school in the south have particularly good academic performance, and they usually do very well. can be said to be a pair of good friends who talk about everything, but the two have a tragedy that shouldn't have happened because of jealousy. On the eve of the National Day, the two went together to run for the host of the National Day Gala, but one girl was selected, but the other girl was not selected. What a big deal! But the eliminated girl is always unbalanced in her heart, and she feels that she is no worse than the other party at all, why choose her and not me, which is very angry for a while. Especially when I saw that my girlfriend and the handsome boy I had been secretly in love with for a long time in the National Day Gala, I had such a tacit understanding. It made her even more jealous. So he slandered his girlfriend everywhere behind his back. said how low her morals were and how bad her style was. In short, she always spoke ill of her in front of her classmates. Later, when the girl found out, she was very angry. found her and yelled at her. Since then, the relationship between the two has naturally collapsed, but I didn't expect the girl to hold a grudge, and then she took advantage of the girl's evening day to go home, and poured a bottle of sulfuric acid on the other party's face, so that the beautiful girl was unrecognizable, and the jealous girl was naturally severely punished by the law. Two girls with excellent character and learning had such a big tragedy because of jealousy. Pathetic don't you say? In fact, tragedies like this are often played out among middle school and college students. Some are because the other party surpasses them in their studies, some are because the other party's interpersonal relationship is good, some are because the other party's girlfriend is more beautiful, and some are because the other party's family is rich, in short, they can't tolerate others being better than themselves. As long as you have a little strength, he will begin to envy, jealousy and hate, and think that he will harm you behind his back. ”

Zhicheng was shocked at the same time, and said in disbelief: "Then this girl is too hot, no matter how jealous she is, she can't destroy people!" ”

"So! Sometimes jealousy is fiercer than the tiger. Xiaoice Slipper, if you were replaced, what would you do? For example, you have a special relationship with a beautiful girl in the class, but since your iron buddy appeared, this girl got along with your iron buddy and left you out in the cold, what is your heart? Will you be jealous and hateful ......?"

Seeing that Xuelian said very solemnly, Zhi Cheng pursed his lips and said, "Then I will definitely feel uncomfortable in my heart, but I will never harm others...... As long as that girl isn't you, I'll never be jealous. ”

"What if it were me! For example, I got along with someone else. Are you going to the extremes and throwing sulfuric acid in my face? Don't kill me in a hurry......" Xue Lian asked as she looked directly at him.

"Oh my God! What nonsense are you talking about? No matter how jealous I am, I won't kill anyone, let alone hurt you! I might kill myself. Little sister, don't scare me......" He hugged her tightly in his arms, as if he was afraid that others would snatch her away.

Xue Lian gently wrapped her arms around his neck and smiled calmly, "Brother, at this time!" Whether it is suicide or killing someone else, it is unwise, for what we will not accept for a while, we must reflect on what is the main reason for this matter, whether it is caused by our own mistakes, if so, how to change it, if not, how to extricate ourselves from it. Be sure to find out if it's a subjective or objective cause. At the same time, you should also consider it from the other party's standpoint, and don't go to extremes at this time. One misstep becomes a thousand years of hatred, and looking back is a hundred years. In fact, everyone has jealousy, we don't need to avoid it, and we can't avoid it at all, let alone us mortals, even those great men and saints have jealousy, even stronger than ours. So first of all, we must correctly understand our jealousy, control it within a suitable range, don't let him dominate our thinking, then it is easy to make a big mistake, in fact, to put it bluntly, jealousy is a manifestation of selfishness and narrow-mindedness, the more selfish people are often the stronger their jealousy, if they meet a better than their own popularity for half a year can not eat. You say this kind of person is ridiculous! is like Zhou Yu and Zhou Gongjin, who was angry with Zhuge Liang to death, and in the end there was no strategy. So much so that in the end, he issued a life sigh of 'both Shengyu and He Shengliang'. This guy is too small-bellied and not as open-minded as a girl like me. In fact, I must have jealousy, who wants to say that I don't have any jealousy at all, it's pure fart. But I really rarely get jealous of others...... Because of me! Since I was a child, I have no heart and lungs, and I know the silly music of hip-hop all day long, and I am not as eager for quick success as others. Whenever I am jealous of others, I will nip my jealousy in the bud and never let him grow stronger, because for me I have a set of very effective solutions, but this solution is only suitable for my character, and it may not be effective for others...... I remember when I was a child in the countryside, nothing was uncommon, except that I was jealous of the 'little calf' in the little boy's legs, which was my little brother in childhood. Giggles, really, because with that inconspicuous little play, you don't have to squat down to relieve yourself, you can pee while standing, so when I saw the little boy shaking his own calf cow to pee, I was very jealous and red-eyed. So much so that I can't secretly unscrew them down and put them in the crack between my legs. Giggle......"

After Xue Lian finished speaking, her cheeks turned crimson and stuck out her tongue, and then she waved two fists at Zhicheng and said, "Hmph, don't follow my words and think nonsense, do you hear?" Cluck...... In fact, you've already seen the crack on my body. She said and twisted him affectionately twice, and then sighed at the blue sky and white clouds: "Hey - in fact, life is only a few decades, think about it carefully, what is there to be jealous of, right?" As long as our hearts are filled with laughter and happiness, filled with kindness and calmness. Then you don't have to be jealous, because no one has as much happiness as you, and the most expensive thing in the world is not money, but joy and happiness. Similarly, the most beautiful thing in the world is not the face, but simplicity and kindness. ”

Zhicheng and Xuelian held hands and walked around the park for a long time, and then sat on a chair next to the flower garden to take a nap.

Xue Lian looked at the pairs of young couples in the park, and couldn't help but say, "Brother, do you know? In the past, when I came here by myself, I was very envious of the little couple who hooked up their shoulders. Seeing them snuggling up to each other, that happy sweet look, my heart is always sour. It's not a taste. Now, I can enjoy my first love to the fullest. Xiaoice Skate, are you tired? Lie on me and crook for a while! Come, put your head on my little sister's lap......"

Zhi Cheng was embarrassed for a long time and lay on his back on the leg of Snow Lotus warm grease, and there were indeed many young couples lying on each other's lap in the park to talk about love.