The lighting of the café was a little dim, and the music that flowed easily diluted the dim atmosphere.

This is a good place for couples to go on a date, where two people can talk softly without being disturbed by the melody, and this soft voice merges into the melody so that others will not hear it.

Such an occasion made Gu Yifang even more nervous, and walked into the tea house side by side, but this time, there was no happiness when he was in Xietang, and Gu Yifang's heart was entangled with an anxiety that seemed to be about to be executed.

"Let's have something to eat." Knowing that she had a belly to talk about, Shao Qingyang thoughtfully ordered some sweets to make her relax.

The delicate little cake and the sweet black tea made Gu Yifang a little less stiff, she looked at Shao Qingyang, and didn't know how to speak, she didn't want to complain, but she wanted to explain things clearly, but she was afraid that she would fall into sensationalism, although she ...... The truth was that it was very uncomfortable for her.

My home is terrible......

I have an unreliable mother who is instigated by my aunt all day long......

Or, Mr. Shao, I'm not worthy of you, and I'm still right about this kind of thing......

The above seems strange to say.

"Worried about family affairs?" Shao Qingyang took the initiative to speak.

Gu Fang was taken aback, it seemed that since everyone knew that she was self-taught, everyone vaguely felt that she had an unusual family.

"Well, I quarreled with my mother......" Gu Fang had no choice but to answer.

"What's the noise?"

"Blind date ......"

"Isn't there me? Do you still need to go on a blind date? ”

Gu Fang's face was hot, and she wanted to cry a little, she said timidly, "Teacher Shao...... What do you think about this? ”

Shao Qingyang seemed to have anticipated this problem, and said bluntly, "It depends on the individual's attitude towards marriage, some people think that marriage is a matter of two families, and some people think that it is a matter of two people." ”

Gu Yifang was very grateful, she always felt that between her and Shao Qingyang, it was not to the point of talking about this topic, but Shao Qingyang took it very seriously, and the way she spoke did not embarrass her.

Teacher Shao thinks...... Which one should it be? ”

"There is no should or should not, this is a choice, how to choose, always look at both sides first." Shao Qingyang is probably used to his profession, and he is not in a hurry to express his opinion, but encourages and inspires Gu Yidao, "What kind of marriage do you think is the union of two families?" ”

After being ravaged by blind dates, Gu Yifang has long had a deep understanding of this, "The combination of two families is equivalent in economic conditions, for example, the man and the woman are both from Yinhai City, with similar educational qualifications and ...... incomes, generally the man is higher than the woman, and usually requires the man to have a house ...... at home, and then there are considerations of personality and hobbies......"

The more Gu Fang spoke, the quieter his voice became, and such a philistine thing made her feel ashamed to say it in front of Shao Qingyang.

Seeing her burying her head low, Shao Qingyang teased: "So, it's not easy to take you away." ”

Gu Yifang's heart couldn't help but become sweet, but this sweetness was quickly suppressed by anxiety, and she was very embarrassed to say, "I always feel like this...... It's a business, can you be happy if you get married like this? ”

Shao Qingyang replied: "When talking about marriage like this, the first consideration is stability, stability is the foundation of happiness, and the man's provision of a house is the key to it, which is marriage, if the woman provides a house, it is a profit." Although it is a union of two families, it is actually biased. ”

Gu Yifang understood what Shao Qingyang meant, the so-called combination of two families, the focus is either on the man's family or on the woman's family, and the mainstream of society is centered on the man's family, so whoever has no son will suffer a big loss.

Remembering that Grandma Gu was still worried about Uncle Gu's marriage before she died, Gu Fang sighed and couldn't help but say, "This is the same as the feudal era...... It doesn't seem to make a difference......"

"Thousands of years of social inertia are not so easy to change." Shao Qingyang analyzed, "What's more, this kind of marriage has a very big advantage, that is, you can get the support of the family, but on the contrary, many things have no autonomy and have to listen to the parents." ”

Gu Yifang deeply understands this, she suddenly no longer hates the seven aunts and eight aunts who sell her as a pound wheel, and her parents still continue this kind of marriage, which is right in their eyes.

"If you don't listen to your parents' ......, you have to be financially independent, right?" Gu Fang sighed, if she had a house to live in, her salary expenses would still be enough, if she wanted to consider a house, how could she be independent.

Shao Qingyang said: "Yes, this is the marriage of two people, although they have autonomy, they may not get the support of the family, this is the new marriage, during the Republic of China, such a new marriage caused a lot of tragedy, especially women, because the man died suddenly and left, and the women in the new marriage fell into poverty." ”

Gu Fang twisted his hands, "Therefore, girls also have to be independent before they can ...... Is that ......."

Shao Qingyang stretched out his right hand and gently covered her hand, "Independence is also relative, I think, modern urban women are much more independent than in the past, but social resources as a whole are still inclined to men, so independence should not be too harsh on women...... I bought a house in Jiangzuo, a year later, the house was delivered, some partial, but the scenery is very good, one of the sections of Xiaoqinhuai is over there, ten minutes north of the bus is the farm, there is a permanent cultivated land reserve, at least thirty years will not be developed, the bus is twenty minutes south is the city center, That's the great thing about being small in the city, you can do what you like over there. ”

Tears fell, and all the anxiety and uneasiness flowed down the tears at this moment.

In retrospect, all his changes were caused by Shao Qingyang, so it seems reasonable that the fate of his fate is on Shao Qingyang's side.

Shao Qingyang pulled the tissue, Gu Fang took the initiative to reach out and catch it, and wiped it, but the tears were wiped more and more, Shao Qingyang teased again, "Can you stop calling me teacher now?" Although you are not my student, it will make me feel guilty. ”

Gu Fang couldn't help laughing, but she was still embarrassed to call out his name, she always felt that it was too fast, which made her uneasy.

Shao Qingyang was not reluctant, and after putting her on the bus, he watched her leave.

This night, with infinite longing and hope for the future, Gu Yifang slept very soundly and sweetly, as if she had never slept so peacefully in her life, although she felt ashamed, but when she woke up, she couldn't help but hug the quilt, imagining that she was hugging Shao Qingyang.

At breakfast, Shao Qingyang's WeChat came, it was the scenery of Xiao Qinhuai, the color of the river, like the flowing light and shadow on the jasper, which was a scene that had never been seen in Yinhai City.

The next picture is Xiao Qinhuai in autumn, the golden ginkgo leaves are sprinkled on the ground, and the mottled light and shadow form a natural treasure.

This is love, right......

Gu's mother's voice coming out of the bedroom made Gu Yifang quickly put away her smile, but that smile had an aftertaste, which still made Gu's mother catch the unusual, Gu's mother complained, "I know giggles all day long, and I'm so happy to do day jobs." Do you know how angry your aunt is? ”

Gu Fang thought about his rhetoric, he should be able to have a showdown with Gu's mother.