Chapter 220: Life and death are as people wish



"What do you like to do?" Mo Shengquan asked again.

"When I'm free, I like to go shopping, buy something, listen to songs, and read books." Song Qiyue said truthfully.

"Shopping, well, girls love these." Mo Shengquan nodded, and said with a smile, "This is the same as your second uncle's daughter." ”

"This girl's family just has a lot of things, and she looks like her mother, either buying this or that, and she can't wait to move the entire department store home." The second uncle said with a smile, and the eighth uncle also had a headache, and also smiled, "No way, there is really no way at all." ”

"What do you buy when you go to the grocery?" The second uncle chatted with her about shopping, which made Song Qiyue stunned.

"It's not specific, sometimes I just want to relax when I go shopping, and sometimes I think it's a kind of feedback vent, which can also calm me down." Song Qiyue said.

"Venting? Calm down? How so? The second uncle was curious about her words.

"You see, after working hard to earn a salary, and staying up for a month, you always have to buy something to treat yourself, so that you know that the effort is worth it and can be rewarded, such as the things you bought. When times of stress, shopping is also a way to release. But it can also make me more calm and know that in this world, there are highs and bottoms, how many shortcomings there are, and how much can be obtained. Song Qiyue said.

"So you want to buy as much as possible?" Uncle Eight asked.

"It depends."

"What do you think?"

"If I'm in a good mood when I go shopping today, then I'm probably a little bit happier, and if I'm just stressing out too much to vent, then maybe it's just pure release. Whether you buy more or not too much is not completely conclusive. Sometimes, I went to a few department stores and didn't get anything. ”

"You must be in a bad mood on that day." The eighth uncle looked at her with a smile and made a conclusion based on her words.

"Not necessarily." Song Qiyue smiled, "It's also possible that I was in a good mood that day, I just wanted to go out for a walk and take a look, I don't go shopping every time for the sake of shopping." ”

"Isn't this a boring and time-wasting activity? There is no purpose, no results, doing useless things. Eighth Uncle said.

"In this world, many people may be useless at the beginning of everything, who can guarantee that maybe the next ten years later, it will actually become meaningful?" Song Qiyue smiled and asked, "It's like Newton, if he hadn't been sitting under the apple tree, if he hadn't been hit by an apple, then he might not have thought about why the apple fell, and then he wouldn't have come to the conclusion that gravity is the right thing." ”

"If he didn't succeed later, then probably, everyone would think that it was useless work, but he succeeded, and everyone ignored this and only focused on his success." Song Qiyue said.

"So, you mean, life is all about doing useless work?" Uncle Eight asked.

Everyone looked at her, Mo Shengquan also looked at her with a silent smile, Song Qiyue thought about it in front of them, "It varies from person to person." ”

"It's like shopping on the street, you haven't bought anything for a day, Uncle Eight, you may think it's useless, you think it took half a day, but you ended up empty-handed, it's too much of a waste of time. But what others gain may be a happiness, a good mood, and a enjoyment, which are free and unpaid, and sometimes they are not just hard work can get feedback. Song Qiyue replied slowly.

"I think we need to make money happily, we need to spend money happily, and we need to be happy to know how to waste." Song Qiyue thought about it again, and she summed up a sentence.

"No wonder the one in my house has a headache, and he runs out to buy things every day." The eighth uncle laughed, and everyone laughed too. The First Queen

"July, you just said you like to listen to songs?" The fourth uncle asked.

"Yes, I like it." Song replied.

"Your fourth uncle, he is also a lover of music." Mo Shengquan said with a smile.

"Where can I compare to these young people, I'm old-fashioned." The fourth uncle smiled and waved his hand.

"What does the fourth uncle usually like to listen to?" Song Qiyue asked.

"I love to listen to dramas."

"Peking Opera, Ping Opera, Henan Opera, Yue Opera or Huangmei Opera?" When Song Qiyue said this, it made the fourth uncle's eyes light up, "You also know? ”

What Song Qiyue said just now is the five core dramas in the drama.

"I know some, but I don't know too much." Song replied.

"What drama have you heard?" The fourth uncle asked.

"When I was a child, I accompanied my grandfather to see a few Peking Opera performances, and I was most impressed by Facebook at that time." In the young generation, few people know this, let alone talk about this, and the fourth uncle seems to have found half a bosom friend now, and chatted about drama.

“…… This national opera is from the pre-Qin Haiyou, to the Han Dynasty's hundred operas, the Tang Dynasty's military opera, the Song Dynasty's miscellaneous operas, the Southern Song Dynasty's Southern Opera, and then to the Yuan Dynasty's miscellaneous operas, until the Qing Dynasty's local opera, there was prosperity, derived from the formation of Peking Opera. The fourth uncle said.

"The pre-Qin period should be the embryonic period, the Tang Dynasty is the formative period of the middle and late periods, as for the Song and Jin dynasties, it is the development period, and then the Yuan Dynasty is the mature period, and the Ming and Qing dynasties are prosperous periods, and the history is indeed very long." Song Qiyue said.

"There are many outstanding creators in this Ming Dynasty, and Tang Xianzu is one of them." The fourth uncle said again.

"He has written many legendary scripts, and "The Peony Pavilion" should be regarded as his masterpiece." Song Qiyue said with a smile.

"You also know the Peony Pavilion?" The fourth uncle was even more surprised, "Which sentence do you like the most in this drama?" ”

"Life and death are up to one's wishes." Song Qiyue vaguely read it out, and said with a smile, "It's probably this sentence, it's been a long time, and I don't remember the original sentence very clearly." ”

The fourth uncle guessed that most of the girls' families who watched opera remembered those two sentences, either "The beautiful scenery of a good day is the sky, and whose courtyard is happy", or "I don't know what to do, and I go deep", but who expected that it would be such a sentence!

The original sentence of this sentence is: Like this, flowers and plants are loved by people, life and death are according to people's wishes, and no one complains.

That means: in this world of emotional imprisonment, people can't let themselves love like flowers and plants, if they can live and die as I wish, even if they are bitter and bitter, they will not complain about others.

At this moment, she is good, she used the words of the drama to show her mind at the moment, and only said this sentence "Life and death are as I wish", putting aside the tenderness of the girl's family, but she has a little bit of iron courage.

"That's a good sentence." The fourth uncle thought for a moment before he opened his mouth.

"Fourth, you have this drama, let's talk to her well in the future, if you want to talk about it again, I'm afraid you won't be able to finish talking about it for three days and three nights." Mo Shengquan interrupted them with a smile.

"As soon as the fourth brother talked about the drama, he forgot everything." The sixth uncle also said, "I see that July is still very good at studying books. ”

"Sixth brother, if you robbed me here, what are you going to talk about with July?" The fourth uncle asked with a smile. [Li Xunhuan] Mingzun burned the shadow

"If you look at July, you talk about Newton in the front and drama in the back, you should have read a lot of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign books." The sixth uncle said with a smile.

"Usually sometimes it's boring to chat, but I like it, so I watched some." Song replied.

"And do you know Murphy?" The sixth uncle asked.

"Sixth Uncle, do you mean Edward Murphy?"

"Looks like you do." The sixth uncle smiled, "This Murphy has a very famous saying, you must know it." ”

"If there are two or more ways to do something, and one of the choices will lead to disaster, someone will have to make that choice." Song replied.

"That's really a mouthful, July, what does it mean? You explain it to Uncle Five. The fifth uncle asked.

"Fifth uncle, what Murphy said, this means that if there is a possibility that things will go bad, no matter how small the probability is, it will always happen." Song Qiyue replied simply.

"That's what it means, if it's going to turn bad, and we're going to see it, then why let it happen?" The fifth uncle asked again.

Everyone also looked at Song Qiyue silently at this time, and at this moment she suddenly understood that this group of uncles' city mansions, their old scheming, none of them are simple characters, but they always revolve around her and Mo Zhengyan in the subtle chatter, and they are not embarrassed or harsh, but every sentence can poke the key point at the end, and even test her.

"What Master Murphy said made me know a few things, one, nothing is as simple as it seems, two, everything will take longer than you expected, three, things that will go wrong will always go wrong, and four, if you are worried that something will happen, then it is more likely to happen." Song Qiyue sat quietly and greeted them.

"I know it's not that simple, and I know it's going to take longer than expected, and I know it's going to go wrong, it's going to happen, but if that's the case, then I'm not going to worry about it. There is an old saying in Chinese that what comes is what is safe, and I have always liked this sentence. Song Qiyue replied, "It's like now, I'm sitting here chatting with my uncles, since I'm here, let's have a good chat." ”

"What would you do if you were in a situation like this in your life and in the company, and what Murphy said came true?" Uncle asked.

"If something bad happens, and then it causes the greatest possible loss, then I want to treat mistakes correctly, not be afraid of failure, and grow in error correction, and find a way to succeed from failure. Quality management, crisis management, risk control, making mistakes, dealing with failures, correcting errors and stopping losses, all need to be balanced, deeply understood and effectively solved. Song Qiyue said.

"Is this really that useful what Murphy said?" Uncle Seven asked with a smile.

"I think it's probably a probability." Song replied.

"What are the probabilities?" Uncle Seven asked.

"Every day there are good and bad results, and the possibility of the two exists at the same time, but the good results, no one pays attention, but once the bad results appear, if the results are too strong and too impressive, it will cause a kind of inevitable conclusion, as if it is so bad, and this is where Murphy's Law comes into play." Song Qiyue said with a smile.

"That's too abstract, why not give an example?" Uncle Eight asked.

"Let's say, let's go to speculate on stocks, if there are five trading days a week, the first three days go up, all the way up, we don't pay attention, but the last two days, fall, two days continue to fall, lo and behold, the law of law works, and the head of the dealer is something that many people have not thought about. Even if you bet your stock on a bank, you can't help but think that it might bounce one day. Since it is possible, there is a chance to make it happen. Song Qiyue said, "It's just that everyone focuses on the bad point, or it may be because of this world, heaviness is more memorable, and happiness is too short." "The bloom of Hallyu

"But I think it varies from person to person." Song Qiyue said again, "The main purpose of Murphy's law is to put people first, so that events can happen." ”

"Father, uncles, do you believe in fate, or do you believe that man will conquer heaven?" Song Qiyue asked them with a smile, which made everyone slightly stunned.

Seeing her, she is only twenty-five or sixteen years old, and it is really strange that such a young girl can talk and laugh with their group of old people so casually and naturally.

"Okay, this is a good chat, why did we talk about the company, and then talked about the stock, this is really far away." Mo Shengquan finally spoke up, he interrupted their conversation with a smile, and said, "July, I heard Zhengyan say that you can play chess, do you want to play the next game?" ”

"Okay." Song July responded.

……

"Young Master." When Steward Zhao saw Mo Zhengyan coming from the annex, he immediately shouted.

Mo Zhengyan had just visited his mother and uncles and their wives from the annex, but he just sat and waited for a while, and he didn't see Song Qiyue coming. He stayed with him for a long time before he got up and left the table temporarily. Finally, he couldn't rest assured, and he turned back to the side hall to take a look.

"Father, they're still in there?" Mo Zhengyan asked.

"Yes, the old man and the second master are all there."

"She's in there too?" Mo Zhengyan asked again.

"Is the young master talking about the young lady who came with you? She was also in the side hall and never left. Steward Zhao said.

Mo Zhengyan was also surprised, since he left, it has been more than an hour, how can he talk for so long? He knocked on the door, and the servant inside immediately pushed it open. He walked in, but found that everyone was no longer in the side hall, and when he looked over, there was an amazing dispute, and they were in the hall behind the curtain!

"You fool, you said don't go down here!" That's the voice of the fourth uncle!

"Who says it's bad here? Lo and behold, this is the best location! "That's Uncle Six's voice!

"July, you're too bold!" This is the voice of the second uncle!

"How dare you? That's how it should be! "This is Song Qiyue's voice!

The constant sound of the argument made his eyes streak! When Mo Zhengyan thought about it, he couldn't help frowning and walked towards that room! But when the curtain was opened, he was frozen again!

"What a failure of yours!" It's still the second uncle.

"There is no failure, look at it, a large area here is connected together." Song replied.

Mo Zhengyan was stunned!

More than ten of them gathered in this square hall, but they were around a table, only to see Mo Shengquan sitting on one side, Song Qiyue was opposite him, they were playing chess, and the uncles were around them. But somehow, it sounded like a quarrel, and when I walked in, it was clearly not like this!

They huddled around the chess table, discussing the game lively, and the relationship didn't seem bad, and it was good?

"Zhengyan, you're here! Come and judge it, is she terrible! The second uncle saw him and hurriedly shouted.

"Zhengyan, the second uncle bullies people."

What's going on? Ren is Mo Zhengyan was also stunned, and Song Qiyue shouted again, "Zhengyan, you come to help me." ”