153.Bridesmaid Storm (II)
"Confucianism speaks of benevolence, which is the natural empathy that most people have."
Shao Qingyang's voice came from behind, his voice seemed to have a magical power, and the car suddenly fell silent,
The scenery outside the window has also changed from a high-rise building to an autumn field.
"If Shi Yuan's protection is to help all those in need, rather than deliberately emphasizing women, everyone shouldn't think it's machismo, right?"
Fusu said: "Teacher Shao, what you are talking about is a universal value, but you can treat everyone equally, will it be too much love?" ”
This Fusu is much sharper than Zijin, Zijin is still friendly to friends, and even has a soft and cute side, but this Fusu seems to be like this to everyone.
Shao Qingyang replied: "Treating everyone equally is treating everyone equally, but when it comes to behavior, there is also righteousness and wisdom, righteousness can be simply explained as grasping the balance, wisdom can be simply explained as the ability to discern, and then in simple terms, it is to do what you can, and Confucianism is not a simple universal value." ”
Inevitably the topic went too far, Shao Qingyang continued, "Let's go back to the protection of men for women, the protection of men for women, the focus is on protection, not women." ”
Song Shiyuan was puzzled: "What's the difference?" ”
Shao Qingyang said: "Language is such a wonderful thing, the difference is a millimeter, and there are some extreme stories in the novels of the Ming and Qing dynasties, which can be used to illustrate this problem." ”
The example given by Shao Qingyang is the story of Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin sending Jingniang thousands of miles away.
Legend has it that at the end of the Tang Dynasty and the fifth dynasty, the world was in turmoil, when Zhao Kuangyin was just a small soldier, he acted bravely on the way to save a woman who was robbed by a bandit, this woman was called Jing Niang, in order to avoid gossip, Zhao Kuangyin and Jing Niang's brothers and sisters were commensurate with each other, and sent her home.
But after returning to Jing Niang's hometown, everyone there knew that the two were not brother and sister, and Jing Niang finally committed suicide by throwing herself into the lake in order to prove her innocence.
After telling the story, Shao Qingyang concluded, "This is the difference between emphasizing protection and emphasizing women. ”
Song Shiyuan scratched his head, still puzzled, "This is feudal etiquette, right?" It has nothing to do with protecting women, right? ”
Zhang Lixian gently pulled Gu Yifang down, "Come, Great Military Master, explain to Young Master Song." ”
Gu Yifang glanced at Song Shiyuan, and said helplessly, "If Zhao Kuangyin sent a little boy, there would be no such tragedy, the little boy and the weak woman are both objects of protection, and they should be treated equally, and the essence should be the protection of the innocent by the strong, but after deliberately emphasizing that it is the protection of men against women, it will ......"
Speaking of this, Gu Fang paused, and said a little embarrassedly: "There are some ambiguous directions." ”
"Poof", Cai Wei couldn't help laughing.
Zijin wondered: "One party is quite right, what's so funny?" ”
Cai Wei covered her mouth and continued to smile: "It's nothing, you're too pure to tell you." ”
"If you want to put it aside in society, it's quite ambiguous to send a little boy." Fusu's words can be described as earth-shattering.
Lu Ming held his forehead and whispered, "I know ......"
Song Shiyuan said aggrievedly: "I don't have this kind of thought......
Zhang Lixian said: "If you don't have this kind of thought, that's you, if you don't have this kind of thought, you shouldn't deliberately emphasize gender, zero zero thing, the essence is bullying, after emphasizing gender, some people speak more ugly, besides, there are strong people among women." Zhang Lixian said with a wicked smile, "Why don't we break our wrists?" ”
Sanhua said: "I advise you not to!" The boss can already shoot a sixty-five-pound bow, which is too perverted. ”
"How do you speak, is that called perverted? That's called a man. Zhang Lixian protested.
The car burst into laughter.
The driver master in front couldn't help but interject, "You guys are from college?" It was your teacher who told the story just now? ”
Zhang Lixian replied: "Master, there are graduates here, there are those who have not, as for the teacher, he is not an ordinary teacher, he is a professor." ”
The driver's master stretched out his hand and gave him a thumbs up, "Sure enough, it's the professor, what your professor said, I really feel so emotional, in the future, I said to my wife, I am helping the weak, the last time I went out, I was to help a little girl release the ceremony, get out of the car and help her take it, and then the little girl gave me a bag of snacks, oops, you don't know, the snacks were thrown away by her when they turned around, and they read for three days." ”
"Look, living examples." Zhang Lixian smiled, "Master, you shouldn't say something like 'it is right for a man to help a woman'?" ”
"Hey!" The driver's master patted his thigh, "That's right, I said that women have little strength, and men should help them, but she said that I rubbed it, I really can't explain it, it doesn't make sense." ”
Zhang Lixian said: "Master, you just shouldn't say the words 'woman's family', in fact, it is to help the weak, you can also say, I don't pay attention to whether it is a man or a woman." ”
"Yes, yes, yes, in the future, I'll say it's to help the weak." The master muttered, "If it's an old man or a child, I'll help too, and it doesn't matter if it's a little girl." ”
At this moment, Song Shiyuan was completely defeated, admitting defeat, turning around and sitting back.
Seeing this, Cai Wei said: "Shi Yuan, if you have a favorite object, you can still tell her." ”
"Thank you...... Sister Cai Wei advised. Song Shiyuan's voice came weakly.
Gu Yifang looked out the window again, everyone in the car was chatting, Gu Yifang's thoughts drifted away, maybe others would think that Shao Qingyang was too serious, but in her heart, Shao Qingyang was simply perfect.
Emphasis on protection, not on women......
After recalling Shao Qingyang's words, Gu Fang couldn't help but sigh, in Shao Qingyang's heart, is he just the object of protection that treats everyone equally?
I know that I shouldn't have extravagant hopes, but these delusions are like weeds blown and grown in the spring breeze, burning inexhaustibly, and if you are not careful, they stretch for thousands of miles.
The melancholy, entanglement, and a little bit of loss intertwined in my heart were washed away by the new scenery at the moment of getting off the bus.
The scene of the dream appeared in front of me, if there was any regret about the glorious national style day, it was the architecture and scenery.
At this moment, there are no high-rise buildings in front of you, only a town with thousands of years of wind and frost, green vines hanging low to cover the bridge holes, scattered flowers blooming in the gaps of the stone steps, repaired roof tiles and white walls are lined up one after another, behind the wicker, on the green waves, the boats pass leisurely.
This is what imagining the Chinese style should look like, the square outside the ancient town is full of men and women wearing national style, and for a while, Gu Yifang felt that his eyes were a little hot.
"Here!"
Zhang Lixian on the side waved to the people walking in the distance, and the people in the car were divided into two groups, one group of volunteers followed Zhang Lixian, and the other group set up stalls and performed the evening ceremony, led by Yu Linlang.
"This beauty is on the water side, right? looks really like the person in the painting, Sister Yulin, please take a photo. ”
Yu Linlang didn't come alone, he was followed by two people, one of them, a young man with white fake hair, wearing a crane and heavy makeup, stuffed his mobile phone into Yu Linlang's hand and stood beside Gu Yifang.
Before Gu Fang could react, the man directly hugged Gu Fang's shoulder.
This...... It's too self-cooked!