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After I came back that day, I also went online to check the question of "will ML get pregnant if there is no safety measures in the morning and no safety measures in the afternoon". Now I'm going to enter the palace of marriage with Y, and I will never allow any mistakes. After checking and finding that there was no problem, I cautiously deleted my search history.

In this article, please allow me to interject, there are some very important psychological activities that need to be explained.

When I was single before, I imagined how much sin I would have if I had a significant other in the future who was still entangled with L! You will definitely not be able to sleep at night and be struck by lightning when you walk! But at this time, my mood was not as turbulent as I expected, and I did not bear the anxiety and entanglement of "cheating". I drank my tea unhurriedly, thinking only about the response of all parties before the next date, and not thinking about it the rest of the time. It may be that I have been brainwashed successfully: I believe that the connection of the flesh is limited to the flesh. If handled properly, it won't cause trouble. So I don't think about the existence of Mrs. L and Y. They are real, but our relationship will not shake our respective families. A woman's heart is really very complex, and it can't be explained by logical thinking at all. At first I suspected that this was self-deception, but then my attitude towards L gradually changed qualitatively&mdah;

At this stage, every time we meet, we are as happy as children going on a spring outing. Such a state of mind is undoubtedly pleasant, and has nothing to do with all kinds of love, marriage, firewood, rice, oil and salt that are burdened with heavy burdens.

Well, everyone's question is about to come to popular science: do you know what changes will occur when a woman starts cheating? Writing this, I actually have a lot of guilt in my heart, right.

Most extramarital relationships, under the premise of communication and love, are full of wind and snow, grass and trees, and if the woman's psychological quality is poor and her brain is not shrewd, it is especially easy to be discovered. Most of the incidents are attributed to chat logs or sensitive anomalies in behavior after returning home.

First of all, write about my "unchanged" (I don't mean to teach bad children). At this stage, L and I can only be regarded as friends with a relatively fixed relationship. We don't always make small talk, and even the occasional phone call is a routine one, which is not as long as the time I spend talking to the supplier. Because Y likes to play a game on my phone, and I'm too lazy to install it, I throw my phone to him every day after work&mdah;l has never broken the agreement, even if I miss it very much, I won't take the liberty to contact me at an inopportune time; At most, as soon as I got to work the next morning, he pinched and called me&mdah; Making a phone call is safer than sending a message, and it doesn't leave a handle; If it sounds unusual, you can pretend to be a customer or supplier and continue the conversation. I don't have the number of L stored, there are no two numbers, the caller ID is just a string of numbers, and I have to answer countless calls like this a day. I had already deleted L's QQ and WeChat, but he even advised me not to even send text messages, for fear that there would be some new software that could call up the deleted text message records. However, women's thinking is always emotional, and I can't do it like L, but I take advantage of Y's trust in me.

One day Y joked with me: "It is said that husbands and wives should trust each other, you see that people like us who know each other's account passwords should be regarded as a model couple, right?" I smiled weakly and said, "Well, it's good to be in a state without secrets." "Can I dig three feet into the ground and die to apologize?

I believe that such an "extramarital" relationship, if it is not for the parties who take the initiative to commit it, should be able to last for a long time. There will be cases like this around you, there will definitely be. As to how this conclusion was reached, we will return to it later. I couldn't figure out how to find like-minded same-sex partners if I was a gay person. It was only after the encounter with the l-soldier that I gradually saw the truth of this society&mdah;It turns out that only when you really integrate into a circle, will you find that there are so many of the same kind! It's so much that it will leave you stunned and stunted.

I'll write about my "changes" again. There are still some more or less, which vary from person to person, and some are not easy to detect. Writing it is a wake-up call for everyone, but this is an individual case and is for reference only.

The most obvious one, I remember, was the change in attitude after the Cold War with Y.

Of course, it's not because of L that I like to quarrel with Y&mdah;I'm not that stupid. After the derailment, my attitude towards Y was almost unaffected, neither deliberately flattering nor deliberately finding fault, and I was tired of arguing when I was tired. Even if I am occasionally wronged by my lover, and it is inevitable to go home for comfort or get angry with others for no reason, I will immediately be alert and extinguish the signs&mdah; cheating is definitely an excellent means to test a person's intelligence, emotional intelligence, adaptability, logical reasoning, psychological endurance and other comprehensive qualities, and should be used as a screening method for espionage agencies.

Anyone who has ever been married understands that premarital syndrome can easily lead to conflicts over trivial matters. I can't remember exactly what I had to do with Y that time, it seemed to be because of the date of the license or the wedding gift. Anyway, there was a big quarrel, and the two sides ignored each other for a long time. Y is accustomed to cold war, and I am urgent, hot and cold fast, every time I used to take the initiative to talk to him, give him a step and he will come down. But this time I didn't. My heart was cold, and I thought: You ignore me, it's just right, I'll go to L for warmth. You'd better never ignore me, so I don't feel guilty about being cold to you, we're just living together, and you'll have to cheat or divorce me on the day you can't keep it together&mdah; if you cheat, I'll see the situation and maybe I can forgive you (this mentality is very complicated, I'll show it later).

After a while, Y suddenly noticed something unusual, and he took the initiative to ask me for forgiveness. I asked him how he figured it out, and Y's eyes flashed with sincerity: "I found that my wife has changed and become different." You ignore me. I said calmly, "You know now how annoying you used to be!" That's what you're used to. Y hugged me apologetically and said, "My husband was wrong, I will correct it in the future, I will definitely not treat it so coldly again, I will take the initiative to communicate." "I applaud&mdah; for such an unexpected gain!

Since then, Y has been getting better and better, and I feel ashamed at times, but the guilt hasn't grown&mdah;because I've gotten better and better for Y, and he can't believe he could find a more perfect wife than me. Sounds ironic.

Real life is a basin of dog blood. You never know who it's going to hit in the next second.