"Look, I'm right, right?" With a smile on his face, Mr. Huang touched Shenghu with his elbow, and then said, "No wonder I recently asked you to come out to play, but they said that they didn't have time, so they were busy with their girlfriends!" ’

"Haha, Mr. Huang, where are you talking about, I've been on a business trip a few days ago, didn't I just come back!"

"That's good, that's good, it's time to test the brotherhood, just three are missing one, can you go?" Mr. Huang seemed to be deliberately embarrassing him, but Shenghu didn't have any look of consideration, and he didn't look at Su Shi, just one word, "Okay."

Su is eyes were faintly showing a little loss and helplessness, "Then you go play, I'll just go back alone." Su thought that he was so generous, but without waiting for the other party to give him praise, Shenghu pulled her hand hard, "Let's go together, anyway, you have to learn to integrate into my circle."

This was not just Mr. Huang and his party, even Su is himself opened his eyes and looked at what Shenghu meant, "I don't know how to play cards, it's useless to go, what's more, don't spoil your interest, go quickly." '

"You can't learn, and you don't have to be able to fight, it's the same with me."

Su is look at the few people on the side who have drunk a little wine and are smiling at her, and a nameless fire suddenly rushes to the top of her head, but she still tries to keep smiling, shaking the person holding her hand, and softly explaining that she is not going, so that they can also play more freely.

Before the hands could be pulled back, Su had already begun to wave goodbye to them.

"Mr. Li, what's wrong? You can't be really angry, right? Seeing this kind of girl smiling all the time, her temper is not easy to handle, or, you go and coax first, and we will make an appointment to play next time. I was joking just now, but I didn't expect you to ......

"I'm sorry, let you see the smile, then we'll make an appointment next time, by the way, Huang He, your sister will go back!" He turned to a young man who was following after Mr. Huang and asked, "You can help and persuade more."

The young man named Huang He didn't pay attention to his words, just looked away, but Mr. Huang leaned closer and patted him on the shoulder, "Hey, your brother-in-law is talking to you, oh, I'm sorry, ex-brother-in-law, ex-brother-in-law."

Shenghu smiled indifferently and hurried to catch up with Su Shi.

"I said I would go back myself, you don't have to follow me. Su is hand stretched out from behind Sheng Hu, "You can play whatever you want, but I don't have time to accompany you, please don't drag me to these places in the future." '

Shenghu was not angry, nor did he speak, and when he was halfway there, he remembered that the car was still parked in the basement, but Su just walked forward, and he could only let him follow the footsteps and get into a taxi.

Still angry?" He helped her hold the handbag that fell from the taxi and handed it over with both hands, I thought I should have been angry, but I didn't expect that in the end it was me coaxing you.

Su didn't speak, walked to the living room, poured a glass of warm water and drank it.

'Don't watch the movie?' So what can we do to pass the time? I guess, don't have to guess, you must be reading books, and I, well, you read your books, I watch my women read books.

"Shenghu, I like to watch movies, and I like to read books, I like both, and I can't say which one I like better, but when I watch movies, I can't spend energy or time reading books, and when I choose to read books, I don't think about movies, there is only one heart in people, I decided to be with you, so naturally I won't think about anything else." I want you to trust me instead. ’

'Forgive me, I really wanted to pull you with because I was angry, but I also want you to understand if you can sometimes compromise my mood and feelings, it turns out that before you get angry, I made myself sad, so I still don't want to do such a stupid thing. By the way, would you forgive anyone for hurting you?

Over time, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us. '

Su is thinking of Rushuang, the female colleague who deceived her and caused her to break up with Chengfeng, and also remembered the mentor leader who trained her and promoted her, maybe that's not forgiveness, that's forget it, that's a kind of forgiveness for others who want to let go of themselves.

Some people stabbed you, but it wasn't enough, and when they pulled out the knife, they cut it around by the way, and finally sprinkled salt on your wound, so painful that you knelt down. And how to forgive? Obviously, I am the victim, but there are people who do not know anything about the situation and stand on the moral high ground to persuade me to be generous, if I don't forgive, I am stingy and mean, if I forgive, the other party is relieved, but I am still struggling in the pain of memory, and it is still me who suffers. ’

'Hey, girl, it's not that serious, is it? I've made you angry like this, no, hatred has become like this, you have hurt me very seriously before, how can I be so easily indifferent? Do I deserve to be wronged by the hurt and pain I have suffered? Then I'll just say a few words that make you angry, and you're going to kill me. '

"I'm sorry, I didn't just talk about you, don't sit down, we just discussed the topic of forgiveness."

"If you can't love, then it's good to let you hate so much, at least it's on the tip of your heart. Sheng Hu didn't say this, but just put it in his mind for a transition.

Su picked up the book, glanced at him casually, and entered his obsessive world. Shenghu remembered that Su Shi once told him that the happiest way to get along is that after two people eat Chinese food, that is, in the afternoon, open a good book in the warm sunshine, smell the faint fragrance of ink, gently touch the smooth pages with your fingers, and take those philosophical and flowing words into your eyes, and project them in the heart lake, you will have an indescribable appropriateness and comfort. A good book is like a good tea, fragrant and mellow, with a long aftertaste. Immersing yourself in the words of a thousand sails and a light breeze is like listening to a wise man tell the philosophy of life, at that moment, your heart calms down and is happy. A good book is like a good confidant. When I read the words that match my heart, I can't help but wonder: there are people in the world who understand me so well! What you have buried in your heart for many years, and what you want to say but can't say, the author has said it for you, and it is concise and concise.

Shenghu watched her read, recalling the scene when she read the book before, and the corners of her mouth couldn't help but raise happiness. His happiness is not in the book, but in the place where he can see her at a glance.

The normal line of work and off-duty activities has resumed. Su was unaware and remembered the young man he saw at the door of the movie last time, and he seemed to be deeply hostile to her, so he opened his mouth and asked him. His words are true, but they understate a lot, Huang He's sister is Huang Yan, who was engaged to him, is his cousin, and Huang is always a family relative of the two of them, because in Dongcheng, there are still shares of Huang Yan, half of which are invested and half are given by him, and the management rights are no longer in the company, which is also an obstacle for him to let Su Shi enter his company, but he didn't tell Su Yes, Huang Yan seems to have appeared in the company a few days ago, and women who are not noisy are sometimes terrible, He was afraid of what emotions she would have when she came this time.

"Watching a movie at night? I see that you like palace fighting dramas very much, and I noticed that there is a new release tonight.

"I'm not looking at Gong Dou, but about workplace management rules.

"Let's listen to it, so that I can understand what high level you girls can see when you girls watch a TV series and movie?

"I found that you men have a problem, that is, they underestimate us women in the workplace, but the reality is similar to the plot, such as bullying all the way to the counterattack, that is, when we think we have a certain "status in the rivers and lakes", and practice a set of workplace treasures, the reality will slap us hard and tell us: still believe in the treasure book? Don't be silly! There is no less thunder that should be stepped on, no less pit that should be dropped, and finally each of us in the workplace will experience a small sprout from obscurity, and after hard work, we will enter the stage of standing alone. ”

"You're okay, at least I think you're going well."

"You're not me, how do you know I'm going well"

"Yes, you're not me, how do you know I don't know you" Su glanced at him and found that this man also understood dialectics, "It's impossible for you to know how strong my sense of crisis is in the workplace, the most pitiful thing is my own mood, those endless anxiety, diminishing self-confidence, steadily declining wages, and the panic of being laid off at any time." I must accomplish my work goals before I reach 30. ”

"It's good to complete life and work at the same time, that's to grasp it with both hands, before thirty, to say goodbye to singleness is the most important plan you should have."

"After the age of 30, I have to say goodbye to the professionalism that I am good at, and learn to think about "people", everyone who is engaged in HR knows the importance of professional knowledge, which everyone never doubts, but this is what I have to be proficient in before the age of 30. After the age of 30, I want to clearly realize that the profession is always just a method, a tool and a means to solve problems, not an end. To solve the problem, the key is no longer to rely on professionalism, but the essence behind the problem, the game of interests between people, and the reconciliation between people's self-centeredness and awareness of the overall situation. Therefore, after the age of 30, HR should bid farewell to the solidified circle of professionalism, go to the crowd, study "people", ponder "people", and learn to put "people" in the first place when solving problems, and secondly, it is necessary to rank the people involved in the interests of all parties in the problem, which people's interests should be maintained, and which people's interests should be weakened.

"Learn to deal with "people", so that you can mix well in the workplace. Shenghu summed it up for her, work is the same as love, someone has to pay first, and there must be strong psychological tactics.