Chapter 601: A Problem Through the Ages
"Than what?" Jiang Yu thought he had misheard.
Sun Linghao repeated it again: "Patriarchy." ”
That's right, it's more patriarchal than this. Patriarchy has been an old problem for thousands of years, and if Jiang Yu can deal with this problem, it will be really awesome.
These are the exact words of the old horse. But Sun Linghao thinks it makes sense, indeed, if he can deal with thousands of years of old problems, he can become a great figure in history.
After Jiang Yu listened to it again, he was sure that he was not wrong, so he said, "Then how can you compare?" ”
Sun Linghao explained: "Although science and technology have become more and more developed and people's minds are becoming more and more open-minded, the phenomenon of preference for sons over women has not changed much. Especially in the countryside, there is more than that. ”
Speaking of this, Sun Linghao paused for a moment before continuing: "There was once a family that gave birth to 12 in a row in order to give birth to a boy, but these 12 were all girls, this family will definitely not be able to raise so many children, and they will continue to have children with perseverance. So what to do? They had to throw all 12 girls away. ”
When he said this, Sun Linghao's face showed a hint of imperceptibility, and then he said calmly: "It wasn't until the thirteenth, finally a boy, that the family finally stopped giving birth." ”
After speaking, he looked at Jiang Yu.
"In the past, family planning was quite strict, aren't they afraid?"
Jiang Yu frowned and asked, patriarchy is indeed a bad habit, and he knows that there are still many places in the countryside where this phenomenon exists, and he thinks that boys will be more productive than girls.
But in fact, it is the same for both boys and girls.
As long as this child and grandchild are filial, even if it is a girl, it is a blessing, but if an unfilial child or grandchild is born, it is a boy, so what?
Besides, isn't the reproduction of human beings dependent on the union of men and women? If there are only men, how can they continue to reproduce?
Everyone understands such a simple truth.
But as soon as it came to me, I couldn't figure it out, and I couldn't turn this corner.
And the most terrible thing is that it is often not men who are so malicious to girls, but women, who often think that a boy can bind a man's heart more, and think that giving birth to a girl is an unlucky sign.
As a mother, she is still so ruthless, let alone the people around her.
Sun Linghao touched his nose and said, "Deputy Director Jiang, this is not the focus of our discussion today, what I want to compare with you today is ......"
After speaking, as if he was worried that Jiang Yu would regret it, Sun Linghao immediately said: "There is a town under Qingshui County, called Xiaotian Town. The people of this town have a very serious patriarchal mentality, and after so many years, the ratio of men and women in the town is seriously imbalanced. Nowadays, many men can't marry women and fight singles. But the people here don't feel like there's anything wrong with them at all. And many young people still think that having a boy is a good thing. ”
Jiang Yu snorted and continued to listen to Sun Linghao talk about the situation here.
"In this year's census, the ratio of men to women in Oda is getting worse. What we want to compete is who can solve this problem, and whoever wins. ”
Jiang Yu thinks this is a bit funny, the imbalance between men and women is not something that can be corrected all at once, it must take more than ten years to see the clues. How does this compare?
Sun Linghao seemed to see what Jiang Yu was thinking, smiled faintly, and said: "We don't need to take a town as a unit, just a family unit, I know that there is another place in this Xiaotian Town that has almost become a man's village called Mixin Village." ”
A village of men? Jiang Yu frowned slightly, he had only heard of the women's country before, and today was the first time he had heard of the men's village.
"All the women in this village are proud to have boys. As long as a girl is born, she will throw it away, so one year, at the peak of childbirth, the hospital was able to pick up an abandoned baby every day on average. Of course, I'm exaggerating. ”
At the end, Sun Linghao immediately added.
These things were told to him by Lao Ma, and he didn't know whether it was true or false, but he just told Lao Ma and told it again.
However, it is true that there are a lot of abandoned children in this Mixin Village every year.
"We chose one of the families in Mixin Village, and if we can successfully convince the parents and even grandparents of this family to accept their abandoned children, it will be considered a success, what do you think?" Sun Linghao said.
If he can really succeed, it can be regarded as a meritorious thing he has done.
"How do you accept a child?" Jiang Yu asked.
There is no standard for judging this, if Sun Linghao doesn't admit it at that time, then he can only be blind?
Sun Linghao seemed to have thought about how to determine this problem a long time ago, and said directly: "Of course, I am willing to take the initiative to hug and kiss my child." If a person is already willing to accept his child, he must be willing to have physical contact with the child. ”
In fact, hugging is very revealing, just like men and women fall in love, if the other party is not even willing to let you touch it, it means that this person does not love you at all, on the contrary, if this person does not even touch you, it means that this person does not love you at all.
When you genuinely like someone and accept someone, your body won't lie.
Jiang Yu thought about it and felt that this judging standard was very good, so he said, "Okay, is there a time limit for the competition?" ”
Sun Linghao shook his head and said, "No, but I have one condition, you must agree." ”
Jiang Yu frowned, looked at Sun Linhao and said, "You say, what conditions?" ”
There's no time limit for this, so it's a bit of a pitfall.
Sun Linghao said: "The condition is that you choose a family first, and then after you succeed, I am choosing a family, what do you think?" ”
"According to what you say, if I don't succeed all the time, I can only work in this Mixin Village, and I won't be able to come back in the future." Jiang Yu said half-jokingly and half-seriously.
If it is really according to what Sun Linghao said, this family has always been unwilling to accept their children, then he really doesn't have to come back.
"Is Deputy Director Jiang not confident in himself?" Sun Linghao said with a smile, which was very exciting.
Jiang Yu is also a person, this agitation method is all rotten by him.
Therefore, at this moment, he shook his head and said very sincerely: "No, I just think that this condition is unfair to me. ”
"That's okay, it's limited to seven days, if you haven't finished it in seven days, it's a failure, and then I'll find this family to continue, if I don't finish it within seven days, then I've failed, let's choose another project to continue the competition." Sun Linghao said disappreciatively.
Jiang Yu thought for a moment, raised his head, looked at Sun Linghao and said, "Why not do it at the same time?" ”
"Because the factors of instability in different families are different, if you choose the same family, the conditions or aspects are the same, I don't have to worry about any unfairness, isn't that what you said? Since it is necessary to compare, then it is a fair comparison. ”
Sun Linghao actually makes sense when he says this, every family is different.
In some families, the mother may be reluctant to abandon the child at all, but the father is very ruthless to abandon the child, when he sits in the family and tells the mother, the mother is happy to really pick up her child, come back and give a hug, he wins.
What Sun Linghao encountered was that both parents were hard-hearted, and they were unwilling to take the child back no matter what, let alone have any physical contact with the child, that was Sun Linghao would definitely lose.
Therefore, it is still a good way to choose the same family.
"Okay, then do as you say." Jiang Yu nodded and asked, "Then have you chosen which family?" ”
Since Sun Linghao had already thought about everything, he must have made full preparations, so Jiang Yu asked this sentence just to wait for the answer.
In fact, about this matter, Sun Linghao had already discussed it properly with Lao Ma.
"Of course, there is a family in Mixin Village that has four children, but except for the first one who is a boy, the other three are all girls, so this family abandoned all three girls."
Jiang Yu's brows furrowed slightly, and he said: "Since he was the first boy, and although he gave birth to a few girls later, it can be said that he is at home, so why abandon him?" ”
Sun Linghao said: "That's because the family wanted to give birth to three boys in a row, but I didn't expect to give birth to three girls in a row, so I abandoned all three girls, and now I am ready to give birth to a fifth child." Do you find it challenging? ”
Jiang Yu snorted and didn't say anything, but asked, "When will it start?" ”
"Let's start tomorrow." Sun Linghao paused after speaking, and continued, "This place is not far from Mixin Village, and it will take you an hour to go by car, are you planning to drive there by yourself?" Or do you want someone to help you drive? ”
Jiang Yu smiled: "Of course, I drove it myself." After all, I've just arrived and I don't know a few people. ”
Sun Linghao was stunned for a moment, this sentence was a pun, but he didn't plan to say anything, but planned to go out. But at this time, I heard Jiang Yu behind him say, "Why don't you drive for me?" ”
Sun Linghao's body was shocked, and he turned his head to look at Jiang Yu in surprise, what fxxk who wants to drive for you?
Of course, he won't burst out of this foul language, but just say it in his heart, just vent it.
But after venting, he frowned slightly and looked at Jiang Yu's serious eyes.
He couldn't help but froze.