"Still thinking about her. Qingcheng said with a smile.

Wang Xu is indeed a little, but it is different from when it first happened, and the big things will slowly become dull with time.

It's not ruthless, it's not ruthless, it's reality.

A big event happened today, a big thing for a person, but as long as people are alive, they will suffer today, tomorrow will be painful, and the day after tomorrow will be painful, but you will find that the pain will slowly fade away when it is slowly numb.

Time can destroy everything, and time can change everything, which made Wang Xu think of the concept of time.

To put it simply, time is the difference in motion, and with the difference between the moving objects, this is time.

Wang Xu looked at Qingcheng a little embarrassed, no matter what, being with a girl, facing another woman, this is not good.

"Some people care about the ending, some people care about the process, I don't understand feelings, but I know that feelings are not as beautiful as I imagined. Qingcheng said with a smile.

"What do you say?" Wang Xu asked with a smile.

"Some people love very humblely, some people love very presumptuously, beautiful and fair love is difficult to exist, and it is difficult to last, because this is what human nature decides. Qingcheng said with a smile.

Wang Xu didn't speak, but he understood.

"People always like challenges, like to be better than themselves, but people who are better than you also like to be excellent, so this is a vicious circle, that is, what you can't get is always the best, which is why Buddhism lists the suffering of not getting it as one of the eight sufferings of life. Qingcheng said with a smile.

"But there will still be a lot of people who will get their wish and get it. Wang Xu said.

"Yes, I got it, no matter what means I got it, one of them actually felt that he was taking advantage of it, and the other party felt wronged, do you think there would be happiness in this way, and it won't last long, because over time, this kind of thing will definitely go wrong, because it feels unfair, and one side will do ridiculous things to balance this inequality over time. ”

Although Qingcheng has no feelings, she has seen many people and read a lot of books, and besides, this actually belongs to human nature and normality.

But it's not a balance, because if you get what you don't deserve, you lose what you shouldn't lose. Wang Xu said.

Therefore, love and marriage are actually coming to an end with time, and people are the animals that are most likely to be lonely, in fact, they are partners, companions, and make themselves not lonely. Qingcheng was moved.

Why praise love, love is indeed beautiful, but love is love, marriage is marriage, these are two concepts, marriage is not love. Starting a family is also not necessarily a union of love.

Wang Xu knew that Qingcheng was actually enlightening him, perfect crystal-like love was only short-lived, and it was already a great blessing to have it, and it was a luxury to want to have it all the time.

There are too many in reality, for example, when I was in love, I felt how much virtue I had accumulated in my previous life to meet her, and after I got married, I would sigh how much sin I had in my previous life to meet her.

Although it is a bit exaggerated, it is also a true portrayal.

Human nature, time, will make perfect things disappear slowly, it doesn't have to evaporate, it is to disappear, just like people, they will change, and finally they will change, and they will become different from the person they once knew, the appearance is still the same, but everything else has changed.

Qingcheng nodded, Wang Xu's words are very true to her, in principle, it is impossible for her and Wang Xu, but now it is possible, but she will also lose a lot.

For example, in order to be with Wang Xu, she lost her marriage by herself, and there are some things she doesn't want to think about, which are actually more testing a person than marriage.

Especially a person like her.

People have changed really big, very big, and over time, many things will be thrown away by themselves little by little, in order to survive, some are voluntarily thrown away, and some are forced to throw away.

But whatever the reason for throwing it away, it's for the present, for the sake of adapting to the present.

Willing, willing, the simplest word, in fact, not many people can really understand, and even fewer can do it.

Therefore, people who know how to give up and choose are not ordinary ordinary people.

Qingcheng gave up, she knew very well that she looked down on it, and even more relaxed, really relaxed, so she was very happy and didn't feel a little wronged.

This is a state of mind, if you correct it and see it through, you will live a little easier.

Ordinary people don't have any special skills, but they pay more attention to other people's opinions, which is actually normal and a need, because they have a good reputation and are easy to get help from everyone.

But this is also a kind of burden, to take care of the so-called reputation, it is said that the reputation is tiring, it is an ordinary person, and it is necessary to worry about this false and useful reputation, in short, success is also the same, failure is also the same, being in it, it is not good or bad.

Just as whether a person lives for himself or for others, what he just says may be saying that he lives for himself.

In fact, most people live more or less for others, perhaps the two do not need to choose, both live for themselves and live for others, can be merged, do not give up extremely.

The ancients said, parents are not far away, parents are destined to matchmakers, parents must listen to them, etc., this is handed down by the ancestors, people at that time and now are actually living without self, whether this is good or bad, there is no need to discuss, the times are advancing, science and technology are developing, ideas are also developing, and the old are being abandoned.

The more developed the society, the more open-minded it is, and the more self-conscious it is.

Is freedom actually freedom under the premise of self-restraint with morality and conscience, which is true freedom.

Freedom is not indulgence, and living for oneself does not mean having no regard for other people's feelings at all.

It is just a kind of self-choice on the premise of not harming the interests of others and not violating the law.

Choose a lifestyle that makes you happy and relaxed.

Qingcheng can have such a choice because of her experience, otherwise it would be difficult for a woman like her to choose like this, and now she sees it more thoroughly and knows what she wants.

"Take it easy, maybe it's not as complicated as you think. Qingcheng looked at Wang Xu with a smile.

"Yes, life is more than just love. Wang Xu looked into the distance and said this, and he didn't know what kind of mood it was.

Although Qingcheng has never been in love, she sees people very accurately, and she has successfully taken the first step, so she will not force it, because that may be counterproductive.

The tighter the grip of the sand in your hand, the more it leaks out.

Wang Xu is the sand in her hand, she knows that the looser she puts it, the more she will get, give him complete freedom, and she doesn't want anything, this is the best way to get along with him.

She knows that she has changed, but she has not changed, but the world has changed, and it is the world that has made her change, but she is still her.

(End of chapter)