Fang Qi returned to Lin'an this time, no uncertain prophet foresaw that her grandfather would let her go to Fuchun again, Xu Mingxi never thought that there would be such a miracle, so Fang Qi left the grange, and even E Ni followed back to Lin'an, of course he would not still insist on summer vacation in the suburbs, so he also walked with Fang Qi yesterday, but today he came to visit the Xiang Mansion, in order not to meet Fang Qi.

At this time, Xu Mingxi was in Qin Xun's study, respectfully bowing.

"Grandpa, Mingxi came to see me today to ask my aunt and grandpa for consent...... Xu married his third sister to Mingxi as his wife. ”

Qin Xun almost didn't choke on a mouthful of cold water, and he coughed so terrically that he almost missed the cup and smashed it on the ground, hurriedly placed the Longquan cup that he regarded as a treasure of his heart, and took a few deep breaths of cool air, until he was "frightened Fang Ding", and then he could speak: "Erlang, you have always known etiquette and acted steadily, how can you not know the truth that marriage must not be child's play?" You're ...... I came to me alone and begged to marry the three girls, so rash and reckless, I don't believe that you can do it. ”

It's too hot, I'm afraid this kid isn't evil?!

Of course, Xu Mingxi understands that the marriage event is about the orders of his parents, and he came to his aunt and grandfather alone to propose marriage, which is not only a violation of etiquette, but also a neglect of the third sister, but he really has to be so distressed.

As soon as he came home yesterday, he planned to ask his mother for permission to marry his third sister, but he was stopped by Mingjiao.

"Second brother, I just heard from my sister-in-law that Weng Weng and Grandpa are planning to marry the Xin family, and ask for Xin Chengzhi's daughter Xin Wuniang for the second brother. I have to ground the second brother! The second brother knows me, of course I am looking forward to you and Ah Qi's lover finally becoming married, so I quickly informed the second brother of this danger, and the second brother still has to find another way. ”

When Xu Mingxi heard about this change, he was naturally anxious, where else could he think of any way?

Or Xu Mingjiao risked being taught a lesson by his mother's golden stick, and gave advice for his brother: "My aunt doesn't like Ah Qi since I started, let alone the eldest aunt, the two of them will never help the second brother, and what the eldest aunt said doesn't work, so the second brother can only ask for the approval of the aunt, maybe the aunt and grandpa help the second brother find a way, there is still hope." ”

Xu Mingxi completely adopted Mingjiao's suggestion, but since he wanted to try to convince his aunt and grandfather at this time, he couldn't hide the predicament he was facing, so he had to tell the truth, plus express his feelings directly: "Auntie, Mingxi and the third sister have known each other since childhood, and they have long been devoted to the third sister...... Persuade your parents to marry the person you like. ”

Qin Xun had completely regained his composure at this time, with a kind and harmless smile on his face: "Yesterday, the third girl mentioned to me the changes that happened to Fuchun, but I didn't hear her say that you have made a private agreement with Xi'er for life, this child, such a big thing, she is impenetrable." ”

Xu Mingxi was immediately alert, and hurriedly defended: "The third sister has always respected me like a brother, and I have always followed the rules, how can I behave against the etiquette law, even Mingxi does not dare to induce the third sister to violate the etiquette, my aunt and grandfather must not blame the third sister for Mingxi's recklessness." ”

Qin Xun sighed secretly, where did he not understand that Xu Mingxi was moved by his own yellow-haired girl, but it was no wonder, a child of a family like Mingxi was born without setbacks, and thought that as long as he was motivated and learned to be born with a full stomach and tried to be raised, he would definitely be able to show his ambitions in the future, and he never thought about relying on marriage in exchange for the help of the east wind.

But how long can the teenage years last? He soon understood the necessity of being a child of a family and a child of a family.

He is still the son of a big family, and he should be an example for his children, sacrificing his ego for the interests of the family, and if he wants to fulfill loyalty and filial piety, he can't do whatever he wants.

But Qin Xun didn't want to teach his in-laws, he just needed to find out if his yellow-haired girl was messed up.

So he waved his hand and said: "I know better than you whether Sanniang is following the rules or not, and you don't have to say good things for her, but I won't punish her for this." But Mingxi, marriage is a major event in life, and you can't avoid the life of your parents, I just agree, and it has to be the head of your Xu family who is willing to marry Xiangdi, so you can't do it without first asking for the approval of your family. ”

Xu Mingxi was originally anxious, and he was even more anxious, he didn't discuss countermeasures with Mingjiao again, because he felt that his aunt's words were indeed reasonable, if he couldn't convince his parents, even if his aunt and grandfather proposed marriage first, it would make his parents despise Fang Qi, but this was definitely not what he was happy to see, he was the one who asked to marry, he should let Fang Qi get the recognition and favor of his relatives, Fang Qi married into Xu Men's life, it should be carefree and happy, he wanted to give Fang Qi such a life, to be qualified to be her husband.

Xu Mingxi, a young man who was not deeply involved in the world, fell into the trap dug by his treacherous aunt and grandfather.

Xu Wang's family heard that her son actually asked to marry Qin Sanniang, which was called a depressed fire, but of course she understood that blindly blaming words would make her son have the determination to "break the kettle", Xu Wang's had to think about ways and means, she knew too well how stubborn a teenager at this age was to get up on the ground.

She has a cousin, but because the marriage never went well, she ran away from home and eloped with the person she liked, what was the result? The woman couldn't bear the hardship, when the initial passion faded and remarried someone else, but the cousin had no face to return to the family, so that half of her life fell, and after the fall of Kaifeng City, there was no news of life and death.

You must know that the cousin was impeccable in literature and morality, and was regarded by his uncle as a disciple of Zhilan, but because of an affair in his youth, he finally went astray, if the cousin could never leave the woman he liked, Xu Wang's family would probably not be so indignant, but the result was the opposite, the cousin who had a great future, and finally ended up in a lonely end, Xu Wang's family would of course take warning.

It's useless to be grounded for a son, because if you have been grounded for a while, you can still be grounded for a lifetime?

Therefore, Xu Wang's strategy is to appease: "Don't hide it from Xi'er, the relatives have already made other arrangements for your marriage, but I also understand that the twisted melon is not sweet, and the relatives will definitely consider it for your intentions, I will discuss it with your father first, and then discuss it with the elders of the Xiangdi." ”

Since her mother is so reasonable, Xu Mingxi is of course excited.

Xu Wangshi really discussed this matter with her husband Xu Di.

Xu Yan frowned and thought for a while, and then said: "The children of our family, although their careers do not rely on marriage, they can't mess with their concubines, but they ...... Qin Sanniang is not as good as other women in the end, we still know the roots, if it is a peaceful time, this marriage is not impossible to do......"

Before he finished speaking, Xu Wang's family was anxious: "It is precisely because I know the root cause that I don't approve of this marriage!" I have long seen that the third mother of the Qin family is full of hypocrisy to her cousin and second mother, and for her own interests, she used to deliberately cater to her cousin's mind and Qin Siniang-for-tat, she has a utilitarian mind at a young age, I see that she is indeed in that situation, I have to fight for myself, and in the end I have never acted a vicious and despicable thing, so I did not stop Mingxi from being close to Mingjiao and her, but I will never agree with her as a daughter-in-law. ”

Xu Li did not stop his wife from continuing to expound his opinions: "The eldest woman is straightforward and gentle, she never likes to be more interested in calculating the interests and harms, and the second wife should also be a lady with the general temperament of the eldest woman, so that the concubine can be harmonious and friendly in the future, and there will be no contradictions." But the Qin family's Sanniang also has too many eyes, although it seems that there is no yin in her heart at this time, how can she be sure that she will not be tempted by wealth and power in the future? What kind of temperament Erlang is, the officials and I know it, there is no room for sand in his eyes, if he ...... in the future When you find out that your wife is completely violating the rules he believes in, how do you let him behave in front of his brother and sister-in-law's family! ”

"Madame, this is too long-term, Sanniang may not be ......"

"Yes, Sanniang may not become unbelievable, but I, who am a mother, will be partial to my son after all! Sanniang is not worthy of Erlang! Let's not talk about family background, just talk about knowledge and talent, Sanniang is afraid that she hasn't even read even half of the scriptures, and she doesn't know anything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, can I expect her to be able to teach her husband and children in the future? Not to mention where the current situation can be compared to the old times? Why did Father Weng first consider marrying the Cen family, and then considering marrying Xinmen, in order to rely on the marriage to take a step forward, so that when the situation is critical, the official family still insists on retreating, and the Xu family is expected to unite the ministers to desperately advise the Northern Expedition to resist Liao! Of course, the Qin family has prestige, but Qin Sanniang is a concubine after all, would her uncle really value a concubine so much and change his political opinions? ”

In the eyes of Xu Wang, there is no need to marry with the Qin family, she actually supports Weng Dad's opinion, in such a situation, in order to save the society and the country, and prevent the whole territory of China from becoming occupied by foreign people, it is necessary to marry a family like the Cen family who has meritorious service from the dragon, and a family like the Xin family who commands the army!

Mingxi is the son of the great sect and must be an example.

"Then why did Madame discuss it with me?" Xu Tong shook his head and sighed.

"It's not because Mingxi is not as old as Mingjiang, and he said bluntly to me that he is already emotional about the Qin family's Sanniang!" Xu Wangshi glared at her husband angrily: "The official doesn't know Mingxi, looking at the gentle and elegant provoking him, but he is a little bit of a bullish left-minded, we just want to stop it, don't we have to pay attention to ways and means, and can we force our son to go astray?" Erlang's marriage is related to the court situation, so it is not a matter for me to make an idea as a woman, and the official wants to keep singing white faces, so I can beat the mandarin ducks. ”

Xu Tong held his head, but he didn't dare to say anything.

Although he is married to a virtuous helper, he sometimes has to sigh - the women of the Wang family are indeed strong, although his wife is not jealous, but it really makes people sometimes inevitably feel awe.