Chapter 016: A Sad Misunderstanding
Pengcheng in mid-September, the night is a little cold, the temperature difference between morning and evening is large, and it is close to the coastline, and there is still some chill in the evening wind.
The turbid gas in Li Shuai's chest slowly spit out, took off his camouflage shirt and bent over to drape it on Chen Xiao's body. Chen Xiao squatted in the corner of the west of the fourth floor, his two forearms folded on his knees, his head buried deeply, and his shoulders shrugged.
It must have something to do with the phone call at night.
Li Shuai was relieved, as long as he didn't run, as long as he didn't leave this building, no matter how big it was, it would be a small matter.
He sat down against the wall and didn't speak, looking at the starry sky for a while, and Chen Xiao for a while. Chen Xiao cried for a while, and held back his breath for a while.
What is it that makes this nervous female recruit so sad?
He was guessing, how could he, who had never been in love, understand that a young man of this age was as sad as love.
"What's going on at home, tell me about it." Li Shuai asked softly.
Chen Xiao buried his head, shook his head wildly, and cried.
Sighing lightly, Li Shuai said softly, "Tell the instructor, if it is indeed an important matter, I will apply to the leader for you to take a few days off and go home to see." ”
He analyzed that there should be an immediate family member who has passed away, and probably only such a thing will make the most disciplined Chen Xiao hide in a corner at this moment and cry alone.
"I don't, I don't go back, I don't go back!" Chen Xiao raised his head and looked at Li Shuai resolutely.
The baby-faced pear blossom with rain, red and swollen eye bags, clear water and snot, white lips, and a twitching neck, obvious sequelae of excessive sadness and crying.
Chen Xiao hurriedly wiped off the snot and tears on his sleeves, adjusted his breathing deeply, and said, "Instructor, I don't have something at home, it's something else." ”
"Talk to the instructor." Li Shuai breathed a sigh of relief.
If an immediate family member dies, according to the current regulations, he can apply for a seven-day leave to return to his hometown for funeral, but after all, it is only the eighteenth day of enlistment, what kind of result will it be or what impact it will be, Li Shuai has no bottom in his heart. When he joined the army, he was not allowed to go home to visit his family for two years, for whatever reason. People think that the greatness of soldiers lies in the greatness, not only in many visible places, but also in many invisible contributions.
At present, many regulations of the armed forces are becoming more and more humane, various systems are becoming more and more perfect, and there is a great improvement compared with the past, and there are many policy bases and regulations for resolving the practical difficulties of officers and men.
Chen Xiao lowered his eyebrows and said, "My boyfriend broke up with me. ”
After saying that, tears poured out like a flood again, which was called a heartbreak.
"This ......"
Li Shuai was taken aback, "Breakup, break up?" Oh, your boyfriend broke up with you, it turned out to be this, I thought it was something, it scared me......"
In the end, he reacted and said that he was bald, and Chen Xiao cried even more.
But Li Shuai really doesn't know how to comfort him, he has never been in love, he doesn't know the taste of love, and he hasn't tasted the taste of falling out of love. Now he is a little numb, what can he do, the political and ideological education training has not trained in this aspect of ideological work skills......
It seems that there is a real ......
Li Shuai remembered, it is indeed there, and when the new training instructors were training, Political Commissar Yuan talked about this problem when he was teaching.
Political Commissar Yuan said this, "Today's children are precocious, some fall in love at the age of sixteen or seventeen, but now it is different from the past, comrades, when they are eighteen or nineteen years old and go to college, it can be said that those who are not in love have become an outlier." According to last year's survey of recruits trained at the base, 37 percent of the recruits had girlfriends, which is a very high percentage. ”
"What are we facing? After recruits enlist in the army, it is basically equivalent to being isolated from society, and most of the so-called love of these children cannot be maintained, and our pre-non-commissioned officer training will talk about how to deal with the ideological work of soldiers after falling out of love, that is, as a squad and platoon leader, as an instructor, how do you enlighten your soldiers. The previous set still works, but we also have to keep pace with the times in this part of the work. ”
"How do you keep up with the times? First of all, our instructors should understand what the situation of young people is in love and what the concept of love is, and carry out ideological enlightenment work in a targeted manner according to the psychological characteristics of the current recruits......"
The leader's speech is relatively loud and empty, but after thinking carefully and comprehending the spirit, he can understand the spirit of the instructions very well. The problem is that for instructors who have no experience in love, this thing is really difficult to do.
Li Shuai had no choice, so he could only bite the bullet, racking his brains to think, according to the books he had read and heard, he flickered and said, oh no, enlightened, "Who has lived since ancient times...... Haven't experienced a few vigorous but fruitless romances? ”
Chen Xiao wiped his tears and looked at Li Shuai, Li Shuai took out a look of the vicissitudes and deep appearance of a person who had been hurt by love, stabilized himself, and said in a calm voice, "The reason why love is desirable is not precisely because it is both fascinating and painful?" Chen Xiao, you are still young, it is not a bad thing to experience a fruitless love, instructor, I am from here, I can understand your mood very much. ”
He began to ramble and recalled, "I still remember the night I broke up with my first love, it was similar to yours, but I received a breakup letter from her. In the year I enlisted, I strictly controlled telephone calls, mainly by letters. She sent me two photos of her as a souvenir, and she wrote in the letter, Li Shuai, I know that I am in pain after you join the army, I can understand your choice, but I can't follow your choice. Do you go like this, a year, two years, or three years? I heard that the army is very strict and will die, what if you die I do? I'm a woman, a woman's youth is just a few years, I can't wait for you, I can't do it, I'm sorry. ”
"After reading the letter, I feel that the whole world has collapsed, I love her very much, I have been thinking that I will apply for family leave to go home to find her in two years, and when the non-commissioned officer starts to get paid, I will marry her to give her happiness, but unfortunately Luohua is ruthless, and she finally chose to give up. At that time, my company commander said to me that two years of enlistment in the army means a two-year test period for your relationship, and if you can't even pass this level, then the relationship is not strong. In the same way, I would like to say to you that he proposes to you to break up in what I think is the best case scenario in a bad situation. ”
"Would you like to come home two years later and find him dating another woman? Two years is enough to change a lot of things, and a person who has experienced two years will also change. For you, Comrade Chen Xiao, a recruit of the Chinese People's Liberation Army Army, use these two years to test the feelings between you, and at the same time have a relatively ample time to continue thinking, and you are growing up, maybe later you find that he is not your final choice. ”
"From the instructor's point of view, I hope that every recruit will devote their whole body and mind to training, your age is not the time to find a partner, there is a saying, as long as you are good enough, more excellent people will take the initiative to approach you."
Chen Xiao was a little stunned when she heard this, isn't the instructor a simple straight man, and he doesn't even know sanitary napkins, it turns out that he has such a lot of experience, she listened to it, her mood was much more stable, and she said, "If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come." ”
"Yes, yes, that's what it means." Li Shuai breathed a sigh of relief, and secretly thought in his heart, it seems that it is beneficial to read more books, no, it came in handy at the critical moment.
Chen Xiao noticed that Li Shuai's relieved movements were relatively large, and he was puzzled, and asked, "Instructor, have you really been in love?" ”
This question made Li Shuai really panicked in his heart and almost showed his stuff, but what kind of person is he, an excellent soldier of the 404th Special Force, his psychological quality is not ordinarily good, even if his heart is churning, what should he be like on his face.
"Of course, the instructor has experienced an unforgettable first love."
Li Shuai's deep expression was slightly self-deprecating, relieved, and faintly painful.
His acting skills can get an S card.
Chen Xiao asked, "But you don't even know sanitary napkins." ”
Li Shuai frowned and asked, "What sanitary napkin?" Don't talk nonsense. ”
"We all saw it on the first day." Chen Xiao finally laughed, pursed his lips and snickered, and the little dimples came out again.
Li Shuai was completely relieved, and smiled and said, "This has nothing to do with whether or not you have been in love, right?" Okay, don't think too much, just let the past blow away, what a big deal, you're a strong warrior. ”
"Yes! I'm much better, thank you instructor! ”
"Go back to sleep, you must not run out of the row room without permission in the future, and you will not be an example!" Li Shuai did not forget to reprimand him seriously.
Chen Xiao stood up suddenly, "Yes!" ”
"Don't go yet, give me back your clothes." Li Shuai shouted to Chen Xiao.
Chen Xiao was embarrassed for a while, quickly changed his clothes back, his heart was warm, and he trotted downstairs. After confirming that Chen Xiao entered the row room and lay on the bed, Li Shuai was completely relieved, but he didn't sleep well in the second half of the night, and he got up an hour to check the bunk at a time, which made Chen Xiao a little nervous.
Tonight's incident scared him enough, and it also reminded him that he did not have a comprehensive grasp of the situation of female recruits, especially the ideological aspects, which showed that there were still many problems in his work.
What is it like to be scared? It's not an exaggeration to say that it's a fart and urine, and it's more appropriate to describe it as a flying soul.
When taking recruits, the squad platoon leader is most afraid of the appearance of running soldiers, to put it mildly, if you threaten your recruit squad leader to say that you don't treat me better, I will run, he will definitely be very polite to you in the future, and at the same time list you as a key focus object, of course, your impression of the squad platoon leader or even the company commander is extremely bad.
Li Shuai felt lucky, but there was a sad misunderstanding.
I thought that I would be able to sleep until the last hour of wake-up sounded, but at 5:30 in the morning, Li Shuai was awakened by a gentle footsteps, and several female recruits were walking lightly from the row room to the corridor and then going downstairs.
Li Shuai rushed out in a summer physical training uniform that served as pajamas......