Body Chapter 1470 - The Best Condition
Regarding the reason why Huang Xindai wants to have a child, Wu Yun once said to Zhang Wending, so Zhang Wending can understand what Huang Xindai said.
After Huang Xindai married into the Rong family, she never had children, and the gossip must have had enough.
Her divorce and lack of children are also a very important factor.
This matter, for a woman, is still very stressful.
She wants to have a child, tell the Rong family with practical actions, or slap her face with practical actions, which has almost become her obsession.
Such thoughts, such thoughts, are easy to become a woman's obsession.
Once you have such an obsession, if you want to break the obsession, there are only two ways, the first is to really have a child, and the second is to see it completely and not take this thing seriously.
At the beginning, Huang Xindai chose the first way and wanted to have a child of her own.
Now, seeing that the first method is about to succeed, unexpectedly, she seems to be ready to move on to the second method.
Zhang Wending was still a little unhappy in his heart, but he didn't hate it.
He looked at Huang Xindai and said, "Then are you completely looking at this matter now?" Won't you take it to heart anymore? ”
Huang Xindai hesitated for a moment, thought about it seriously, and said, "If you want to say that you have completely seen it, then I am deceiving myself." But I can't really have a baby just because I can't see it, and I have always had an obsession in my heart, right? Then I gave birth to this child for others to see, not for myself. In the future, I don't think I will be able to face it. ”
"What the hell are you...... Is it that tangled? Zhang Wending really didn't know what to say.
O woman, woman!
Sure enough, a woman's heart is a needle, her thoughts change for a while, and her thoughts are one out of the other.
Huang Xindai glanced at Zhang Wending and asked, "Am I very hypocritical?" ”
Do you know that you are hypocritical? Zhang Wending replied in his heart, but said: "This matter has bothered you for a long time, and it is normal for you to have this entanglement now." ”
Seeing that although Zhang Wending was not obviously unpleasant, his mood was not very high, Huang Xindai hugged his arm again and said, "Okay, don't be angry." I didn't say that I would resolutely not give birth in the future, but I wasn't ready yet, and I had to think about it again, would you give me some more time? ”
Listening to her words and looking at her attitude, Zhang Wending couldn't get angry.
Think about when he was in Suijiang, Wu Yun chased Huang Xindai, didn't it take a long time to catch up? This Teacher Huang may be hurt by the first relationship, so when facing the relationship, he is very hesitant and dare not believe it easily, and he needs to grind hard.
"I'm not angry." Zhang Wending patted Huang Xindai's hand and said, "I can give you time, and it's no problem to give you as much time as you want." The problem is that you have to grasp the time yourself, having a baby is not a joke, you have to think it through. ”
This word is reasonable, but in the ears of people, it is always missing the previous feeling.
Huang Xindai thought that Zhang Wending was probably still angry, she was still a little sorry in her heart, and felt that she had really done too much just now, so she thought about making up for Zhang Wending, so she leaned over him and kissed him on the face.
Previously, Zhang Wending wanted to kiss Huang Xindai, but Huang Xindai avoided him, but now, Huang Xindai took the initiative to kiss him.
In this regard, tonight was still very rewarding.
It's just that if you compare it according to what should happen tonight, this dragonfly kiss is quite a loss.
Zhang Wending felt the entanglement in Huang Xindai's heart, and didn't want to push her too much, nor did he want her to blame herself all the time, so he reached out to hug her and hugged her into his arms.
"If we keep doing this, that's fine." Huang Xindai was in Zhang Wending's arms and whispered.
Zhang Wending didn't know whether her words were casual emotion or true thoughts in her heart, so he just rubbed his face on her head and didn't speak.
Huang Xindai ignored Zhang Wending's reaction and continued: "It is said that between men and women, if you want to be long-lasting, want to tolerate each other, want to think about each other everywhere, want not to quarrel often, and even do not turn against each other, the best way is to ......"
At this point, Huang Xindai stopped.
Zhang Wending already knew what Huang Xindai was going to say, but since she stopped at this time, he could only follow this sentence and ask: "What is the best way?" Why don't you say it? ”
"The best thing to do is not to have a relationship." Huang Xindai said the answer that Zhang Wending expected in his heart, "It is to treat each other as friends, but one step deeper than friends, so that they will not be like lovers, hoping to possess each other, nor will they be like lovers, because they interfere too deeply with each other, and make each other feel tired or even disgusted." ”
"Friends are above, lovers are not full." Zhang Wending said these eight words in a somewhat strange tone, and then said, "This state is actually an ideal state, not very realistic. ”
Huang Xindai said: "I know it's unrealistic, but you can't blame me." ”
Zhang Wending said: "That's to blame me?" ”
Huang Xindai wasn't sure if Zhang Wending's words meant a little tantrum, she came out of his arms, took his hand, and said, "Let's drink first, talk while drinking, you see if what I said makes sense." ”
Zhang Wending didn't want to leave now, so he drank and drank.
If you drink too much for a while, and then you can't help yourself and everything that should have happened, then you can't blame me, it's all the fault of the wine, and you told me to drink.
With such thoughts, Zhang Wending and Huang Xindai drank two sips of wine in a row before letting her reason.
"Actually, I said I can't blame me, more precisely, I can't blame women." I don't know if it's because of the drink, Huang Xindai's eyes looked abnormal, "If you really want to talk about it, in fact, women like this state very much, and, in general, women like ambiguity, like men's love, but they don't want to have a relationship with men casually." However, men are different, men approach women, in fact, they are going towards a goal! ”
This is a fact that everyone understands the meaning, and it seems that there is some truth to it.
"?" Zhang Wending rolled his eyes and spit out two words.
"Look, you admit it yourself, right?" Huang Xindai smiled and said, "Am I making sense?" ”
"What do I confess, admit it?" Zhang Wending said angrily, "I admit that there are such people among men, but you can't overturn a boatload of people with one shot!" ”