Ang Lee can definitely be called a charming person, no matter from which point of view, he is a very attractive existence, his character is needless to say, his appearance is also first-class, and his temperament is incomparable to ordinary people.

For some superficial people, appearance is the most attractive place, they only like beautiful people, but completely ignore the flaws behind this beautiful appearance.

For example, the plastic surgery fever in later generations is because almost all people attach great importance to appearance, people with good looks will have a better future, and people with bad looks will be rejected by everyone, and appearance has even become a shortcut to a person's success, especially women, a beautiful woman is always easier to succeed than a woman with average appearance, and it is easier to get good luck.

In fact, this kind of practice of judging a person only from a person's appearance is very undesirable and very superficial, but it is also an indisputable fact that most people in the world are superficial.

Of course, after all, the vast majority of people rely on their eyes to judge things, and all the eyes can see is the appearance of the person, and the eyes cannot see the heart of the person.

Some people will say that a good-looking person may be dark in his heart, so a person who looks very bad, his heart must be sunny? I'm afraid this is not necessarily the case.

And since a person's heart cannot be judged, then, at least, you should also like a beautiful appearance! After all, character and heart can be disguised, and if an ugly-looking person is disguised as noble, wouldn't it make people who like him lose a lot.

People who like appearances are undoubtedly the most numerous, followed by people who like money and power, and some people especially like to associate with rich and powerful people for the sake of living a prosperous life.

Many seventeen or eighteen-year-old young girls will choose to marry fifty or sixty-year-old old men, of course, these old men are not ordinary old men, but rich and powerful diamond kings, they are very rich, and some are people with great power, they can make a little girl struggle for decades without a word, so, of course, these little girls are not willing to follow the young man to suffer, follow these rich and powerful old men, how happy should be.

This also caused many young men in later generations to not be able to find a daughter-in-law, the reason is too simple, that is, because they have no money, and they do not have the power to make themselves rich, they have been poor all their lives, and it is not easy to live, where is it possible to give a woman the quality of life she wants, which is simply a fantasy.

Looks will add points to a person, money and power can add points to a person, maybe a person is old and ugly, but especially rich, so, some people will feel disgusting in their hearts, but for the sake of power and money, they will also choose to swallow this disgusting.

People who are slightly smarter will choose to look at a person's character and judge how a person is from his character.

So, what exactly is character? Character refers to a person's morality, such as this person is very kind, very noble, transmits positive energy for the society, etc., which can show that the person's character is very good, otherwise it is a bad character.

Ang Lee's character is of course very good, at least, when treating his relatives and friends, Ang Lee's character is absolutely first-class, which is incomparable to anyone.

The ancients said that as long as people have good virtues, there is nothing that cannot be carried, on the contrary, people can not achieve great things without great virtue, that is, to warn future generations to be willing to suffer, more for the sake of others, in order to achieve careers, at the same time, virtue is a blessing, to be kind, in order to get the respect of others.

Kindness, of course, is also a very important character of a person, kindness is the key element of good character, people must always have a grateful heart, in order to make people admire, there is a famous saying in ancient times, 'the so-called good people, everyone respects them, God blesses them, blessings follow, all evil is far away, the gods defend it, the heart starts from the good, although the good has not done, and the auspicious god has followed, the heart has started from the evil, although the evil has not been done, and the fierce god has followed. ’

Therefore, we must have more kindness and do more good deeds, only in this way can we be a person calmly and calmly, and achieve the realm of not doing bad things on weekdays and not being afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night.

There is another aspect of character is also very important, that is, trustworthiness, the ancients said, people without trust, do not know what it can be, if a person does not have credit, nothing can be done well, the key to interpersonal exchanges, the key is to talk about credit. The ancients regarded trustworthiness as one of the very important qualities of life, and paid attention to words and deeds. The tail was born to break the blue bridge for love, and Zeng Zi killed a pig for his son because of a sentence, all of which are trustworthy stories through the ages. If people are not trustworthy in society, no one will want to associate with them, let alone win the trust of others.

Tolerance is also an important aspect of evaluating a person's character, as the saying goes: "tolerance is great". People must have a tolerant heart, and they must be able to tolerate things that are intolerable in the world. We need to learn to be tolerant of those who disagree with us, especially those who contradict us.

Tolerating others is actually loosening one's own mind, otherwise, it will only put pressure on one's own mind, and it is still oneself that suffers. It is necessary to recognize the differences between people, look more at the strengths and strengths of others, tolerate the shortcomings of others, and look at others in two ways. If you fight for everything, you will lose, and if you give up, you will benefit both.

As the saying goes, "take a step back and open the sky". Zhang Ying, the secretary of the Ministry of Rites of the Qing Dynasty, replied with such a letter when he wrote to his relatives about the dispute with his neighbors: "Thousands of miles of books are only for the wall, so why not let him be a few feet, the Great Wall is still there today, and I don't see Qin Shi Huang back then." This is such a tolerant realm, life in the world, it is rare to be confused.

Honesty and modesty are an indispensable part of character, but sometimes you can't be too dogmatic, if a person is ugly, you directly say that he is ugly, it is very bad, and there should be some white lies.

Since ancient times, honesty has been the foundation of life, and honesty is a virtue. If people are not sincere, they cannot be friends. "If you want to be a big responsibility, you must be honest." Only by being honest and honest can we win the respect of others and gain a firm foothold in society. We treat our work the same way, whether it is reporting work or reflecting problems, we must seek truth from facts, and we must never deceive and lose trust with the people.

Humility is an important part of a good character. Later generations of Taizu once said: "Humility makes people progress, and pride makes people backward." It is always a good thing to look down on yourself whenever you are, on the one hand, it is conducive to your own progress, and on the other hand, it is conducive to getting along with others. The ancients said, "No matter what kind of person you do, you must not be snobbish, no matter what kind of industry you practice, you must not be careless." Do anything, don't always think that you are virtuous, indispensable, this is not good, it is easy to be annoying. A humble person is loved by all.

The last point of character is integrity, a person may not be able to become a great person, but he can be a person of integrity. An upright person must first act according to his conscience. The pigtail is cloudy to Wang Yongbin: "Ask for a conscience to manage me, and leave some room to be a man", this is the truth. If you can start from your conscience, you will definitely be a noble person and an upright person. People must also have a correct concept of right and wrong, and when they encounter problems, they must have their own opinions, and they must not be good to you, me, or everyone. We must adhere to the truth, and we cannot say that wrong is right because of a good relationship, nor can we say right because of a bad relationship.

Regarding character, Ang Lee never thinks that his character is bad, but, compared to these requirements, Ang Lee found that there are not many qualified projects, after all, there are too many requirements for character, and some requirements are too dogmatic, if it is operated mechanically, it is easy to do bad things with good intentions, and if it is too dogmatic, the whole person is about to become a robot, and it will become meaningless.

is a particularly noble character, Ang Lee does not dare to pursue it, but what can best reflect a person's charm is actually a person's temperament, that is to say, the better a person's temperament, the more popular he can be with others.

So, what is temperament? Temperament refers to a person's relatively stable personality characteristics, style and bearing. Enthusiastic and cheerful, chic and generous people often show an unrestrained temperament, quiet and gentle people, more noble temperament, straightforward, spicy and bold people, more rough temperament, and gentle, beautiful and dignified people, more quiet temperament.

Whether intelligent, noble, rough, or quiet, it can give people a sense of beauty, on the contrary, it can only make people disgusted by being mean, arrogant and cold, and despicable and sluggish.

In real life, there are many people who only pay attention to dressing up, and do not pay attention to the feeling of their temperament, indeed, beautiful appearance, fashionable clothing, careful dressing, can give people a sense of beauty, but the beauty of this appearance is always short and superficial, like a meteor in the sky, fleeting, if you are a caring person, you will find that the beauty of temperament is not limited by age, clothing and dress.

The true charm of a person lies mainly in his characteristic temperament, which is attractive to both the same sex and the opposite sex, which is an intrinsic personality charm.

The beauty of temperament is first manifested in the rich inner world, and having ideals is an important aspect of inner richness, because ideals are the driving force and goals of life, without the pursuit of ideals, the heart will be empty and poor, and it is impossible to talk about the beauty of temperament, and character is another important aspect of temperament beauty.

It is indispensable to be sincere and kind-hearted, and the level of education also affects people's temperament to a certain extent.

The beauty of temperament seems intangible, but it is actually tangible, it is expressed through a person's attitude towards life, personality characteristics, words and deeds, etc.

Everyone is pursuing beauty, pursuing beauty without misunderstanding beauty and blaspheming beauty, which requires each of us to understand the true meaning of beauty from life, combine the appearance of beauty with the temperament of beauty, the conduct of beauty and the language of beauty, and show the beauty of temperament from the inside out.

Of course, the beauty of temperament also needs a certain economic foundation, if you live in a very poor life, and you are tired every day in order to fill your stomach, then it is difficult for this person to maintain temperament, how can a person who walks impatiently and impatiently, how can he have a temperament at all, but a person with financial constraints, how can he not walk faster? If you walk slowly, how can you still work, and how can you earn money to support yourself.

Ang Lee's temperament is of course first-class, because Ang Lee is rich enough and smart enough, no matter what he does, he doesn't have to be too impatient, and he can maintain his good image very well.

And this is not easy for ordinary low-status people to do, low-status soldiers can't wear gorgeous clothes, they don't have time to dress themselves, and they don't have the opportunity to improve themselves, so they can only maintain that appearance, but Ang Lee can live a very leisurely life, which is not comparable to them.

Therefore, a person's temperament is also related to his identity, different identities will inevitably have different temperaments, those who are officials will have the temperament of officials, those who work will have the temperament of workers, actors will have the temperament of actors, soldiers will have the temperament of soldiers, and the temperament exuded from a person can often judge a person's identity.

Of course, in ancient times, it was like this, and in later generations it is not very accurate, because later generations of people are very good at pretending, obviously a poor person who is about to eat, but he has to disguise himself as a rich man, obviously a village woman, but he wants to dress himself up as a princess, obviously he is a jobless vagrant, but he wants to make himself look like a rich boss, that is to say, from a person's appearance, it is completely impossible to see his identity, let alone whether a person is rich or poor, which is very magical. It is also a phenomenon peculiar to later civilized societies.

Li An remembered that when he was in the Ming Dynasty, there were regulations in the imperial court, people with different identities had to wear clothes with different identities, dragon robes could only be worn by the emperor, what level of ministers wore what kind of clothes, and merchants had the lowest status, so they could not wear gorgeous clothes, otherwise they would be in violation of the rules and would be punished.

And there is no such problem in the civilized society of the later generations, everyone can wear clothes according to their preferences, even if you wear a dragon robe every day, wearing exactly the same as the number one leader of the country, it is no problem, no one will come to investigate you, let alone punish you, such benefits are also obvious, the society is more equal, at least in terms of clothing.

And this has also caused the problem that a person's identity cannot be seen by clothes, because everyone's clothes can be worn casually, except for the uniforms of some special industries.

Ang Lee's narcissistic behavior did not disgust Li Xiaolu, but made her feel that Ang Lee was more attractive, after all, Ang Lee's identity and appearance, as well as character and temperament are all placed here, no matter from which point of view, they are incomparable to ordinary people, even if they say something that should not be said, it is normal.