0025 It's better to drop the yellow nest

Shangguan Wan'er still didn't confess to His Majesty the Divine Emperor in the end, and some rhetoric prevaricated this question.

She is not greedy for the title of the joint poem of King Yong'an, but she just thinks that more is better than less. At first, I didn't make it clear to the female officials, but I didn't expect this aftermath to happen, and if I wanted to make it clear, I don't know how much it would take. Moreover, there are many female officials present, and not everyone may be frank and kind to others, so it is useless to hook the yin lips and tongues.

The God Emperor did not exhaustively pursue this, at the moment she was at the most critical moment in her life, and taking time to feast on the old and new female officials was already a rare reward to reward these humerus helpers, and there were many affairs to work on the government and the opposition, and she would not forget one or two idle poems at the banquet. After all, no matter how good the poems are, they do not have the special political significance contained in "Ciwu Poems", and they are not worth worrying about.

Shangguan Wan'er hid this matter, but it was not good to treat it as nothing. She didn't like to go to Renzhiyuan too often, and because she was judged by the God Emperor that her poems were not as good as those of King Yong'an, she was ashamed to meet for a while.

After thinking about it for a long time, Shangguan Wan'er felt that she still had to express herself, and took advantage of her position to send some Confucian classics to Renzhi Yuan by giving Zeng Shen the afterglow, which was mixed with poems and essays such as "Anthology", hoping that King Yong'an could learn from his predecessors and benefit his poetry.

Although the Divine Emperor's comment made her feel a little frustrated in her heart, the failure of a poem is not in her field of expertise, and it does not make her feel inferior.

Talent is born, but learning needs to be accumulated over the years, King Yong'an has such an endowment, Shangguan Wan'er feels that it is a pity if he does not cultivate and excavate it. As for the apology for stealing poems, he naturally hides in this intention, and he is ashamed to speak out, hoping that King Yong'an can understand and understand.

Shangguan Wan'er sent the book, and the concubine Fang was greatly moved, and wrote back to thank her.

Although Fang's family is also from a famous family, the reality of the situation has exhausted her, and she is inevitably negligent in her children's upbringing, and there is no lack of guilt in her heart.

After moving to Renzhiyuan, the family's situation improved, especially the young son Xunnu had a strange experience, and his temperament changed greatly, and even made Fang feel that he had someone to share in the family affairs, so he really paid attention to the education of his children.

After receiving Shangguan Wan'er's gift of books, Fang's asked his children to be summoned, pointed to those scrolls and said: "Even if your father does not say that he is from a noble background, he is also a learned and talented person known as the court and the public. Born as a son of man, he must not be ridiculed because of his own shallowness that affects the reputation of his ancestors. Doom riddled with misfortune, only self-improvement, after every day to learn the scriptures here, if you don't learn well, it is unfilial! ”

Fang's tone was quite stern, the four children in front of him, Li Guangshun was just respectful, and the other three had a bitter face after hearing the words, especially Li Shouli couldn't help but cover his face and lament: "I am detained in the courtyard every day, there are not a few people in the house, and the leisure is boring, why bother the mother!" ”

The little girl Li Youniang didn't dare to disobey her mother, and only arched her head at Li Tong, who had a good impression of her recently, hoping that the third brother, who was becoming more and more assertive, could persuade her to save them from the hard work of practicing Chinese and writing every day.

As for Li Tong, he was so tired every day that he analyzed the situation and thought about the way out, and he didn't have the heart to bury his head in the pile of papers every day.

But he agrees with Fang's idea, young boys and girls are energetic, and if they don't study, they will cause trouble. Especially Li Shouli, a living treasure, as the diet has become better recently, he jumps up and down between the courtyards every day, and even dies to climb the wall to look at the Qianbu Pavilion covered bridge guarded by the guards outside the Renzhi Hospital, Li Tong's heart is shocked, for fear that one day a stray arrow will fly and shoot this boy with excess energy.

In line with the idea that friends of the dead will not die and the poor will not die, Li Tong pressed the top of Li Youniang's smooth hair with his backhand, and said: "The family style lies in learning, people do not learn and do not stand, so they do not raise and do not show up, and I am completely in favor of the arrangement of the school." It's just that my mother also knows me...... Alas, although reviewing the past can learn the new, it is not always as good as seeking a new one. ”

"Saburo doesn't have to learn with him, but he needs to make a plan every day."

There is no husband in the family, Fang's is the head of the family, and when it comes to the issue of family education, it is undoubted, glared at Li Shouli, who was complaining, and then said to Li Tong. She believed in Li Tong's soul and didn't think that her education could be better than that of her deceased husband, but she was also curious about Li Tong's knowledge, so she still assigned homework.

Li Tong suddenly felt that his head was big when he heard this, if Fang's examination of his poetry talent, he would be able to produce good articles every day without repeating the same thing, but let him make decisions every day, it would really cost him his life.

In the Han Dynasty, the examination needed to be asked, and the political affairs and economic questions were written on the simple policy for people to answer, and later generations gradually became a fixed style called the policy essay, that is, the ancient argumentative essay, which has a very comprehensive test of the comprehensive quality of people.

Li Tong has the accumulation of university majors, and famous sayings and aphorisms such as Han Fu prose and prose notes can come easily, and it is not difficult to make a policy, or he can't bluff a real university scholar, but it is not difficult to deal with his mother-in-law Fang's family.

But the difficulty is that the ancient texts that he can remember must be famous texts that can withstand thousands of years of refinement and shock the past and the present.

But seeing that Fang's demeanor was solemn and did not give him room to refuse, Li Tong could only agree to it. I originally wanted to get along with you as an ordinary person, but in exchange for only suspicion, forget it, don't pretend, it's a showdown, I'm the champion talent with both talent and appearance!

Fang's words and deeds, even if the idle people in the room retreated, he started teaching, teaching the "Book of Rites", and assigned Li Tong homework, he could freely draw questions and try out strategies, and use the screen to separate an area for him, and complete it in the room.

The knowledge of the children of the Li family is actually not so unbearable, in the memory that Li Tong received, their enlightenment was in charge of the deceased father Li Xian, even if Li Shouli, who was the most uninterested in learning, basic literacy and hyphenation could still be done.

Aside from the miserable circumstances, Li Xian is not just a gentleman who only knows how to fight cocks and lackeys, especially after becoming the crown prince, he presided over the commentary of the "Book of the Later Han", which has a high academic level, although the main body is completed by the bachelors, but Li Xian also contributed to it as the host. Even in later generations, Zhang Huai's note still has the value of research and adoption.

Originally, in history, Li Shouli, as the only surviving son of Li Xian's fruitful fruit, survived after the catastrophe, lost his sharpness, drunk and dreamed of death, and was ridiculed and corrupted by the times, and the great loss was his father's style, which has to be said to be a kind of sadness.

In the past, it was just a story, but now that he is here, Li Tong does not want to see his brother indulge himself again, even if he can't become a model in the world, his basic quality should still be maintained.

Li Tong sat alone in a corner of the room, searching his intestines and scraping his stomach to pick up the ancient literary skills in his mind, while listening to Fang's lectures outside, and occasionally looking at Li Shouli with a dull-looking expression through the gap in the screen.

In ancient times, before women flourished in science and became completely vassals of the family, both social status and family status were very important.

The acquisition of this status has nothing to do with the current political phenomenon of the heroine in the country, and there are many pastoral feminists in later generations to praise Wu Zetian, but in fact, Wu Zetian itself is really not feminism, she is a typical feudal emperor thinking, and even to some extent deliberately suppresses the protection of women's rights and interests in society.

The acquisition of a woman's status lies in the independence of her own economic status, the Tang people have a strong style of marrying, and those who have a little family background must prepare a dowry when their daughter gets married, so as to increase the daughter's right to speak in her husband's family.

In some Tang notes, there are many deeds of women who cannot marry or are neglected by their husbands because they have no makeup. Even if the distribution of property is not discussed, this attitude shows respect for women, and the view of daughters as formal family members, rather than losing money or waiting for a price.

On the other hand, it lies in the importance of women in family life, the status of the housewife has both moral guarantee and legal protection, and spoiling a concubine to kill a wife or even supporting a concubine as a proper family will not only be morally criticized, but also violate relevant laws.

It is precisely for this reason that after the Ming and Qing dynasties, when we look at the behavior of women in the previous life to fight for their legitimate rights and interests, and call them jealous women, this is actually a kind of male power attempt to get rid of the idea of maintaining normal family relations.

Of course, if a woman is too strong, the family relationship is not normal. Not to mention the current Wu Zetian and the later Empress Wei of Zhongzong, in addition to Fang Xuanling's jealous wife, there is also an anecdote.

Wang Duo, the prime minister at the end of the Tang Dynasty, went south to guard against the Huangchao rebellion, and left his wife in Chang'an when he took office, only bringing his concubine with him. As a result, the lady came to the south to ask for the guilt, and Wang Duo asked the staff in a panic: Huangchao gradually came to the south, and the lady came from the north, so why should she be safe? The staff joked that it was better to lower the yellow nest.

This is naturally just a joke, and Wang Duo did not surrender to Huang Chao. But in the conversation, Mrs. and the famous Huang Chao have been compared, which shows that Wang Duo is indeed afraid of guilt.

This kind of family relationship is naturally abnormal, but it is only an outlier, and if the story is not curious, it has no value in spreading. In fact, most Tang family relationships are relatively normal.

Like the current Fang's education of children, it is also an important role for women in the family. There are many examples of celebrities in history who lost their fathers and were raised by orphan mothers, which shows the important role of women in family education.

In the middle and late Tang Dynasty, it was said that the great luck in life was to marry a woman with five surnames, in addition to the social prestige of the family with the five surnames, the excellent family style was also an important reason.

In particular, Li Tang's royal family tutor is difficult to explain, marrying a princess means a time bomb, daily arrogance and friction are still trivial things, and they may suffer at any time. In the upper-class marriage circle, it is even more reflective of the preciousness of the five surnamed women.

Marrying a wife and seeking a virtuous lady, no one wants to worship a living ancestor in the family every day. Although the women of the clan are noble, they are the next choice. Then the five-surnamed woman with a strict family style and social reputation naturally became the best choice for marriage proposals.