"Where is he pampering me?" Yun Fenghuang has not had anyone who can speak to his heart since he entered the palace, and the people around him are not sure if his speech is true or false.

At this time, he did not hide it in front of his mother, and said some things about getting along with the emperor, including the previous experience of being in the wilderness, and pouted, "This is useful for keeping your daughter, so be more tolerant." After all, in this palace, there is no one of the four concubines, and I have no family background to support me, even if I am opportunistic and become a concubine, he does not favor a few points, who knows if I can support it and give him a handy? ”

"You don't have to be so pessimistic." Jiang Shi listened, frowned slightly, and pondered for a moment, but persuaded her, "This Son of Heaven has a good reputation, not such a cold-hearted person. Since he wants to use you, you don't have a better choice now, why don't you do things for him sincerely, and he won't treat you too badly when he turns around. ”

Yun Fenghuang smiled and said, "Why is my mother confused? The Northland used to say that I was virtuous, virtuous, gentle and considerate, and that I was the daughter-in-law that everyone in the world wanted! ”

What kind of honest and filial piety, that is not the Empress Dowager Yuan in order to let the concubine inherit the title, and make a small business for him?

The Jiang family had done this to Xie Fengfeng and Yun Fenghuan, so Yun Fenghuan didn't take this rumor to heart at all.

"Why aren't you virtuous, gentle, and considerate?" Hearing this, the Jiang clan glanced at her and snorted lightly, "Let me ask you, if you marry Qi Jiulu smoothly, will you respect the elders of the Qi family?" Will you take care of the inner house for him? Will you raise his children with heart? ”

Yun Feng said, "Didn't you say that? After all, he had to save face for his elders, and he was really unhappy to ask Qi Jiulu to go out in private, and no matter how noisy their family was, they would break their bones and tendons; It is necessary to take care of the inner house, this is the foundation of my Qi family, and I can't allow others to get involved! As for raising children...... How can I not care about my own flesh and blood? Even if he changed his mind later, he had a concubine and a child, and he could help my child if he arranged it, right? ”

"Isn't that the end of it?" Jiang said calmly, "What are the requirements of ordinary people for their daughters-in-law? Isn't it just honoring elders, taking care of the house, and raising children? You've done it and you've done it well, don't care what you think in your heart, why aren't you virtuous? As for being gentle and considerate, how did I teach you? ”

"If it is said that virtuous and virtuous is the requirement of the husband's family to be a daughter-in-law, gentleness and consideration is the husband's own requirement for his wife, can Qi Jiulu eat the set of gentleness and thoughtfulness? He wants to eat that set, Chao Jingyou has already hooked up with him! ”

"So don't listen to that nonsense that you don't understand, as if a woman has to be tender and obedient in order to please her husband!"

"You can make your husband like you, happy to see you, and willing to work for you and your children, that is gentle and considerate!"

Jiang said of course, "Some families don't know how to teach their daughters, but their daughters' families are gentle and gentle, and they can't win the love of their husbands when they leave the cabinet, that is, they don't want to meet people like gold, pearls and jade, and other things, and there are still people who claim to be clean and high, let alone the so-called gentleness and thoughtfulness?" ”

"These goddaughters tell me that they are all misguided children!"

"Because teaching children to be ignorant and the world's approved character can have an advantage in reason, so that people can't blame parents for not being careless. At that time, if the child is not doing well, it is his own life and his responsibility is completely gone! ”

She glanced at her daughter, "It's like me and your grandmother, teaching your daughter to be angry first!" Why do you spoil you and your sister more than your brothers? Because in this world, I always feel that women are weak, and over time, as a woman, I have acquiesced to that cheapness! I just want to spoil you with that self-respect and self-love, not self-esteem! ”

"Of course, if you have only the heart but do not have the corresponding ability, you are arrogant."

"So the second is to cultivate your talents, increase your knowledge, and enrich your experience......"

Jiang said with some interest, "I am not as good as your grandmother, she has six daughters, each of whom is not badly married, and after getting married, she does not care whether her husband has changed her mind or not, and her position is as stable as a mountain, and her children are also valued in her husband's family." I just want you and your sister and two daughters, obviously in the way they were exposed to when they were girls, but they didn't teach any of them well! ”

According to her mother's heart and lungs before she left the cabinet

Teach, teach your daughter, first use spoiling to cultivate a bit of self-respect, reserve, and almost arrogant mentality, so as not to be too supple and unable to stand up, and then teach various skills, cultivate talents, and imperceptibly change the vision and open-mindedness.

In this way, even if the mother's family is blind when she helps to choose her husband, or if she encounters any changes after marriage, she still has the power to deal with it, so that she will not lose the support of the family and the love of her husband, and she will fall miserably.

This line of thinking, the Jiang family thinks it's no problem, and she has been doing it, Xie Fengfeng went wrong, she reflected afterwards, and felt that it was understandable, because this daughter was not her biological after all, this is not to say that she hid her selfishness in her upbringing, but the influence of Aunt Qin, as well as the unavoidable discussion from childhood to adulthood, which led to Xie Fengfeng's indecisiveness and lack of confidence, so that people took advantage of it.

But Yun Fenghuang, as her biological daughter, no one dared to talk about her discipline.

Why is it long and a little crooked?

Jiang thought about it carefully, thinking that this was not a means for him to learn from his mother and daughter, and he didn't learn home, and it was estimated that the child came to Dijing when he was only twelve years old, and the level of Xie's sister-in-law was not good, and the family was confused, which brought her daughter to ......

After settling down, Jiang returned to the truth: "Public opinion is turbulent, although it can be guided to a certain extent, but the so-called fake cannot be true or false." For a long time, it is true and virtuous, and no one can see it? This is also the reason why I used to spread your reputation to you, and at the same time told you that it is okay to make mistakes in private, and you must be thoughtful in the scene. ”

"Let's just say that the six songs of Wei in the previous dynasty, he was able to win the six songs all the way back then, in addition to the family for him since he was a child, he himself is the world's first-class talent, otherwise, the article is posted, does it show its original form?"

"I think Your Majesty is about the same, he has a reputation for tolerance and benevolence since he was a child, and his nature is easy to change, even if he pretends to be after so many years, it should be faked and turned true. Otherwise, with our family background, he is a dignified son of heaven, and he wants to clean up your concubine, and he is afraid that he will not have the means to make you suffer but he can't say it? Since he is willing to indulge you, it can be seen that he is not a harsh person. ”

"Then Yu Gongjun and his ministers have a share, and you have to count on his care for the comfort you want to think about in the future, why don't you pay a little attention to him?"

Speaking of this, Jiang narrowed his eyes, "Do you still think about Qi Jiulu?" What did I tell you before? People and things that are impossible should be put down immediately. People have grown very long in this life, that is, they are born rich and noble, who doesn't have a dozen or dozens of regrets? ! The regret is over, and the days will go on after all. ”

"It's not ......," Yun Fenghuang pursed his lips and said, "It's just that Your Majesty is afraid that it is not as kind as you think, you don't know that Yue Jieyu......"

She briefly talked about the fact that Yuan Neem Niang grew up in front of the Empress Dowager Yuan since she was a child, but she couldn't even compare with ordinary ladies, "Yuan Neem Niang's fool can't see it, but we still don't know why the Queen Mother and His Majesty did this?" ”

Because Yuan Neem Niang is the niece of the Empress Dowager Yuan, because the rule of the dynasty is that the vassal king has no sons, except that if a vassal king is destined to have no children, there is no way.

But what if there is a problem with the wife you marry, and the concubine gives birth to a concubine, or the concubine can't give birth to a son?

For example, the Empress Dowager Yuan tried every means to ask for the princess to be crowned a prince in the end, and there were only a few exceptions since the founding of the country.

More often than not, it is to reconcile and divorce, or, simply, to lose his wife and remarry.

This is also the reason why the daughters of the Ji family, the Zheng family, and the Cui family have married into the clan, and they have all entered the palace, but they have not produced a princess: after all, the powerful position of these families, even if their daughters can't give birth, it's not so easy to get rid of......

When Chun Jiacai was born, he was raised by the Empress Dowager Yuan, but the concubine of Fuyangzhuang was still not satisfied, and Bacheng was moved to let her son marry again.

It was also King Duan's weak body that left within a few years, making Concubine Zhuang scruples.

Otherwise, I am afraid that the prince of Fuyang will not fall on the head of Gongxiangji, let alone succeed Xiaozong as an heir.

In Yun Fenghuang's view, Empress Dowager Yuan obviously doesn't know how to teach children, but she still allows Yuan Neem to be capricious and unsympathetic, and she feels that she has never given birth in her life, in case her niece is the same as herself, then, although her niece is related by blood, the concubine raised by herself is more related to her own interests.

If Yuan Neem Niang has been out of the picture, for

Let the prince of Fuyang pass on, and he can only let this nephew give way.

"Yuan Neem Niang's pie, grab a lot of mistakes." Yun Fenghuang said, "If Your Majesty had not ascended the throne, she would have become the princess of Fuyang." Once you have no children, you have to abandon her, the reason is so easy to find! About the Empress Dowager Yuan and His Majesty still think that they are kind, because since they deliberately pamper people and can divorce their wives at any time, they obviously do not intend to harm her life. This is the daughter of the Queen Mother's niece, and she is a serious cousin with Her Majesty, even if she is not related by blood, she grew up together...... They even made Yuan Neem feel that she was favored by the Queen Mother and Her Majesty, mother, you said that such a person, what do you really mean to play with him? ”

She said contemptuously, "They deserve it too?" ”

Jiang glanced at her and said, "If you are a child, do you think I will treat Qi Jiulu better than the Queen Mother to Yuan Neem?" This is still him pouring out his heart and lungs to you, Yue Jieyu doesn't seem to be very good to Your Majesty! If I were the Empress Dowager Yuan, I would be able to do it even more ruthlessly. Whoever raised the child is distressed, and the blame can only be blamed on the incompetence of Yue Jieyu's mother's family, either she didn't see the intentions of the Queen Mother and Her Majesty, or she just didn't feel sorry for her daughter! ”

"......," Yun Feng said wistfully, "but Yuan Neem Niang grew up in front of these two, even if she has raised a dog for more than ten years, she is reluctant to treat her like this?" ”

"According to what you said, and what I inquired about, how can this Yue Jieyu be compared to a dog?" Jiang looked at her inexplicably, "A dog can be raised for more than ten years, it must be sensible, well-behaved and loyal, otherwise it would have been slaughtered and eaten for meat a long time ago!" Although this Yue Jieyu entered the palace in a hurry, she did not add to Her Majesty the Queen Mother...... When it comes to her anecdotes outside the palace, it's really a treasure! ”

"What is not good with the concubine, the hand can't reach anywhere else, and he will work hard to grind his own palace people, but he will cause trouble, but he can't solve it once, and let Her Majesty the Queen Mother help her deal with the aftermath again and again...... If you had to choose, would you have a dog or her? ”

Yun Feng Huang laughed.

Jiang snorted: "I taught you before, what you have done to your husband, you must let him know, but you must not mention it from time to time. Because there is no love that can be used for a lifetime, if it can really be used for a lifetime, it can only be said that it is lucky to meet a sincere person. But we can't put our hopes on luck! ”

"This Yue Jieyu has been reckless in the palace all these years, nothing more than relying on her love for many years with Her Majesty the Queen Mother, her blood relationship with the Queen Mother, her marriage contract with Her Majesty, and the courage to enter the palace for Her Majesty despite the difficulties and dangers...... These touches for a while, three years and five years are enough, she really thinks she can eat for a lifetime? ”

Jiang's face was mocking, "If this were my daughter, I wouldn't have agreed to her entering the palace in the first place!" I really can't stop it, then I'm going to beat her to death, and I'm going to press her to change her sex. Son, not to mention how to do a low-pitched and gentle and considerate method, at least you can't bring trouble to the mother and son of the heavenly family from time to time...... Especially the Queen Mother! ”

She raised her head, looked at her daughter, and said cautiously, "You are so young that you haven't personally experienced the days after marriage, so you may not understand: in terms of His Majesty's life experience, Empress Dowager Yuan's status in his mind is probably more important than anyone!" ”

"So Yue Jieyu's most wrong thing is not to let Your Majesty be wronged for her three times and twice, but to let Empress Dowager Yuan worry about it!"

"In the future, you must not be disrespectful to Empress Dowager Yuan!"

“…… That's not what you say at home. Yun Feng Huang blinked.

Then he was twisted by Jiang's ears: "At that time, I only said that you would marry Qi Jiulu, Qi Jiulu's relationship with the Chen family was unfamiliar, and he was dead set on you, so I asked you not to have a direct conflict with the Chen family, what is there to make Qi Jiulu ...... Not to mention that Your Majesty looks at you now, can you compare to Qi Jiulu's attention to you?! ”

Seeing that Yun Fenghuang was aggrieved, he let go of his hand and sighed, "There is another one, judging from the actions of the Empress Dowager Yuan, this is not a fuel-efficient lamp!" She is not her niece, and she will live her life by relying on the kindness of her original nurturing of His Majesty and the credit of seeking the king's title. Look at it, His Majesty didn't have a pro-government before, and she followed a low profile. Your Majesty has come out at this time, who has made Empress Dowager Yuan unhappy all these years, there will definitely be no good end in the future! ”

"This queen mother has a way to take revenge with a loving and amiable face!"

Yun Fenghuang pinched his chin and pondered: "Mother, what you said is strange and terrifying...... So, what if you have already offended? ”

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