Chapter 22 Conversation Communication Skills

Before Chen Wan got married, she sent her younger brother to private education for enlightenment.

I have listened intermittently to Han Dynasty children's enlightenment books such as "Urgent Chapter" and "The Book of Filial Piety".

If she is purely illiterate, Wen Cheng will not talk about these haves and don'ts...... That doesn't work.

It's like if you talk about "cosmic speed" to an old peasant, and others just call you human...... What's the matter?

If you were to teach advanced math to a junior high school student, he might be confused...... Looking at you with great reverence;

At this time, you say: dry mouth. There's a good chance he'll rush to buy ice cream for you...... Maybe it's a three-piece popsicle for a dollar – don't care about the details.

- You must quote the scriptures and chew the words, because the other party is still ...... Not dizzy enough.

"My wife, do you know: the current world has been corrupted, morals are reversed, and etiquette is extremely bad!"

Wen Cheng licked his lips: "For the husband to sell the field, the foolish man and the stupid woman will naturally gossip." That kind of situation was predicted, scorned, and despised by the husband!

What is a foolish woman? The mole is staring at the place in front of him!

If people have no foresight, they must have near-term worries, and the words of the sage are conclusive.

Mortals can see the three points of heaven, how can the thirsty saints in the world come again?! ”

Wen Cheng waved his arm, making an awe-inspiring and decisive appearance.

As the so-called layman looks at the lively, the insider looks at the doorway.

In Wen Cheng's words just now, it contains: implying that you and I are one, forcibly binding the interests of both parties, and the fate has been shared...... My wife who is whoever;

With the overwhelming momentum of Mount Tai, the other party cannot refute ...... "today's general trend", implying that who dares to use the mantis arm as a car?

Pull the tiger skin to make a big tent...... Sage's words xxx; The most powerful thing is to imply that "whoever opposes and talks about me doing this is a fool and a stupid woman"-

No one wants to equate themselves with stupidity...... Although it is very likely that I am a part of it.

Since you don't characterize yourself as a fool and a fool, then subconsciously, you have to choose to stand in opposition to this kind of person - who is the opposite of a fool and a fool?

Of course, it's your husband, the graceful jade tree opposite you...... I'm here!

This is the art of conversation that belongs to the category of psychology, how can Chen Wan bear it?!

If the judges don't believe in this power, try it in the criminal police team?

At that time, I'm afraid that even the eraser you borrowed in the third grade didn't return it, the little ass of the female classmate at the next table who secretly looked at it, and the hair on the arm of the class flower that you secretly observed will have to be explained.

……

Wen Cheng finally said: "Wan, the troubled times have come, and it is difficult for my generation to cultivate and read heirlooms; It is better to save land than to save people. Let's believe in Rufujun once! For the sake of my husband, am I willing to sell my ancestral property?

It's not what I wanted! However, the way of heaven is like this, and non-human beings can compete with it! It is a wise move to obey the heavens.

My wife, listen well: in less than ten years, I will teach you ten miles of manor and countless slaves for my husband!

What you have lost today will be rewarded tenfold to you. If I break my word and get fat, the sky will strike me! ”

- The flatbread still has to be painted, but the pie is painted differently for different objects.

Remember: don't promise too much to those who have small ambitions...... If you promise to someone with a monthly salary of 3,000, "Mix with me, and guarantee that you will have an annual salary of 10 million after three years"! Then you will definitely be taken for a liar.

If you promise an annual salary of 100,000 yuan, in the other party's heart...... That's logical! This person is reliable, let's resign and gamble with him!

Oops, it doesn't seem good...... I saw that Chen Wan was in tears, and her face was extremely moved-this fire, is it a little bigger?

Chen Wan was just about to get up and vote

Wen Cheng pressed Chen Wan's fragrant shoulder with a deep face: "Wan'er, you don't have to be like this. You and I are husband and wife, life and death together! I often sigh: There are few good wives and husbands in the family. If you have a wife like a Wan'er, what more can a husband ask for! ”

The last handful of firewood, added ...... It's done!

I saw Chen Wan's eyes deep and rainy, with an affectionate look of marrying a chicken and a dog and a dog, and marrying a root and carrying a shoulder:

"Husband......, uh-huh-huh (crying)...... Edifu Junna...... Wan'er, Wan'er's next life, the next life, will still follow you! You decide, Wan'er is up to you! ”

Alas...... Why bother to use routines on those closest to you! Sin, sin, what a baby! ……

That night, the little two fish were deeply affectionate, milky, and blended without mentioning - what do you want?

What are you worried about watering your own flowers? If someone has a certificate, it's your business!

Like later generations, the Ming Holy Land went to catch the little couple to watch action movies, and the frightened male protagonist withered in the end...... Lack of morality?

Wen Cheng actually has a choice: forcibly sell land. As the head of the family and the head of the Wen family's side branches, no one can really object to his decision.

The reason why it took such a great deal to convince Chen Wan was because the land sale involved had a bad reputation and had too much impact on traditional concepts;

With a conservative little lady at home like Chen Wan, the mental pressure will be very great.

"Home and everything is prosperous", it is the best policy to communicate well and obtain the understanding of the person next to the pillow.

……

When she woke up the next day, Chen Wan's face was clearly full of charming luster - the land at home was about to be sold......

I don't know where she got her excitement!

Wen Cheng is also in good spirits...... Let's go drink a bowl of mutton soup first, and today I want three taels of mutton and a lamb whip!

Others want one or two, at most two taels, let's have a luxury.

Wen Cheng came to the "Pu Ji" sheep soup shop, and the eighth master was not there; Wen Cheng asked for three taels of mutton by himself, and after drinking the mutton soup, the Pu shop did not accept Wen Cheng's copper coins.

I didn't think about Duan Baye's words, in this Han'an County boundary, it is really better than the holy decree.

Alas, it seems that I will have to change to a mutton soup shop in the future, which is cheap and cannot be greedy.

……

Wen Cheng entered the gate of the county temple refreshed, and the disciple actually bowed to himself today: "Erlang is still okay?" Wen Cheng also returned the salute.

Don't underestimate the doorman, if he is difficult for white clothes, when you ask to see the county temple such as the county prince and the county lieutenant, you will wait honestly!

As for whether the flowers will be grateful...... It depends on the mood of the doorman.

procrastinate and make excuses for you; Or when they know when the county governor and the county lieutenant are busy, they deliberately go to Tongyu, and they will naturally be driven out by the leaders!

Now Zimenzi is equivalent to getting the highest instruction: the county lord said that he is busy with official business and has no time to see! When can I have leisure?

Hehe, I don't know if it's a little one, just wait!

These yamen handymen are all guys who have not achieved enough things and have more than enough failures, and they are the best at giving you some eye medicine; You can't easily offend.

……

Wen Cheng turned back into the gate of the county temple, turned right is the public house of each division, and the left is the county prison; Enter the Gongcao Zhao Ying next to Zhao Jun, and the duty room of the assistant Wang Duan Wang Jun......

Wen Cheng went to thank Wang Jun, after all, he still needed to say thank you for his vacation; By the way, you will receive today's duty arrangement.

Entering Wang Jun's duty room, Wang Duan sat behind the desk, his face gloomy;

Wen Cheng said hello, Wang Zuo snorted, but did not answer, nor did he arrange Wen Cheng's affairs today.

Wen Cheng stood in embarrassment for a moment, then withdrew from Wang Zuo's duty room and returned to his sideroom.

Just when Wen Cheng wondered that the atmosphere was a little strange today, and he was guessing wildly, the miscellaneous servants in Gong Cao's room came to call, and Wen Cheng asked the miscellaneous servants, why did Gong Cao Zhao Jun summon himself?

The handyman looked left and right, and when he saw that there was no one around, he lowered his voice and said:

"Wen Zuojun, the villain congratulates you first! You have been respected by Kong County, and you have been promoted as a meritorious Cao Zuo. Gong Cao Zhao Jun called Wen Jun over, presumably to hand over the seal! ”

What? I'm going to be an official myself? This, this happiness, came so suddenly!

Although Gong Cao Zuo is just a subordinate official of the county order, with a rank of 100 stones, there is no directory in the imperial court, and there is no compilation in the Yamen of Yizhou.

It's just that the county temple reported to Qianwei for the county Taishou Mansion for the record.

But this is also an official, you can wear a copper seal instead of hanging a copper money bag!

…… The dead tombstone is engraved with rank, and his children and grandchildren also have face, don't they?

Children and grandchildren marry wives, the conditions are ...... Well, it can be raised a little bit...... Hee-hee.

There's no way, who let us be an official eunuch, we are qualified to be ha!

In the future, when we go out, hang copper coins on the left and copper seals on the right, that's a biao beier!

Well, it looks like we're going to have to change to a stronger belt.

……

In the Han Dynasty, there were only 400 stone officials, who could be regarded as "officials" in the true sense of the word, and could have a name in the central yamen.

Six hundred stones is also a big threshold, and it is extremely difficult for civilians in cloth to cross this hurdle throughout their lives.

Like Yuan Shu Yuan Shao, who was born with dignity, Cao Cao, who has a wide range of contacts and great power, and Kong Er, who is stunned, people don't need to be like the little scholars and white-clothed people to boil their qualifications and political achievements.

When a person reaches middle age, two thousand stones are high, and they are at their fingertips.

If you boil up your hair and start to turn gray, and your qualifications are old enough, the position of the third prince is waiting to be held!

It can't be compared, reincarnation is a technical job.

……

Wen Cheng farted, followed behind the handyman, and went straight to Master Gong Cao Zhao's mansion.

(There are so many forbidden words)