Chapter 10: Father-daughter friendship

Wan Kezhou returned to his daughter's room, Dong'er was writing, he sat down on the stool next to the table, stared at his daughter for a while, and asked, "Dong'er, do you like this Yang Gongzi?" ”

"It's okay." Dong'er didn't look up at her father, but answered while writing.

Wan Kezhou sighed and said: "Just looking at this kid himself, I also like him very much, but it's a pity that his background is too noble, and the gap between him and us is too big, I'm afraid that his family won't agree to ---the relationship between the two of you at all."

Dong'er didn't say a word as if she hadn't heard her father speak.

Wan Kezhou simply said more explicitly: "Daddy means, you just regard the encounter with this Yang Gongzi as an adventure, a surprise, just be happy for a while, don't take it seriously, vainly try to have any results with him, okay, kid?" ”

Dong'er complained: "How can I have parents like you, one persuades me to see through the red dust, and the other teaches me to act on the spot and have fun in time, I don't want to listen, Daddy, go out, I want to come up with my own ideas." ”

How can Wan Kezhou rest assured that his daughter will make up her own mind, he refused to leave immediately, but still calmly talked to his daughter: "I don't know what your mother taught you, but Daddy didn't teach you to act on the spot, I just hope that you don't expect too much from some people and some things, and even no expectations are the best, otherwise those people and those things don't meet your expectations, you will be angry and sad......."

Dong'er has been dependent on her father since she was eight years old, she trusts her father more than her mother, and she also likes her father's free and easy, she doesn't like her mother's boring, and she can listen to more of what her father says.

Wan Kezhou saw that his daughter was listening seriously, and he was even more courageous: "Child, as a father, he actually doesn't respect any lifelong events, the life of his parents, the words of the matchmaker, your own marriage, of course you have to have your own opinions, for the father to tell you my ideas today, if you agree with me, it is great, if you don't approve at all, the father will not force you to do anything." Anyway, I didn't set a good example for you, I'll talk about it for the time being, and you can listen to it for the time being. ”

"As for me, I really want to recruit Xiaoxu's child to be our son-in-law, you have known each other since you were young, and our two families know each other; Second, he lost his father since he was a child, mother and son depended on each other, his mother pulled him up with hard work, he also fought for his mother, and he became a big guy in the silk shop at a young age. ”

Dong'er was reluctant in her heart, she immediately responded: "Dad, I know that Brother Xiaoxu is a good person and a good son, but I am not practical with him, last year Grandma Feng celebrated her 80th birthday, and invited the troupe to sing a big opera, I sat next to Brother Xiaoxu, he said a few words and inevitably talked about his mother, the left mother worked hard, and the right mother endured humiliation and burden, saying that I was restless and cramped, it seems that his mother's hardships and humiliation are all caused by me, and I want to repay it. I was busy thinking about whether I had made his mother angry with what I had said and done since I was a child, and if it were, Brother Xiaoxu would probably be angry with me because of it, and it was better for me to stay away from their mother and son, I was afraid of blocking them. ”

Wan Kezhou knew that if his daughter didn't like it, no matter how she persuaded her, she would not reluctantly accept it, sighed, and stopped talking for a long time.

Dong'er saw that her father was unhappy and silent, she cautiously tested: "Dad, the child always laughs at you, saying that she is too big to be an old girl, in fact, the child is not joking, I really think that if you are with a person you don't like, it is better to be alone and live alone, and I am not alone, don't you still have a father?" It seems to feel good to be guarding you for the rest of my life!"

Wan Kezhou couldn't help laughing: "It would be nice if you thought like this forever, but people's hearts are fickle, including you and me." Since you want to make up your own mind, your father will not forcibly interfere with you, but you must know that in this life, some things can be controlled by yourself, and some things cannot be controlled by yourself, whether you are happy or sad, it is best that you will never regret it after you do it. ”

Dong'er nodded obediently, in fact, she didn't mean to touch her father carefully, but she just felt that what her father said was generally not wrong.