A single chapter explains Lin Ruhai's helplessness

A book friend left a message that Lin Ruhai's decision to marry Daiyu to the Jia family was too mentally retarded, but it was not.

Lin Ruhai and the Jia family are separated by two places, the information is asymmetrical, and it is impossible to know the exact thoughts of the other party.

Lin Ruhai did know the original intention of the Jia family to send Daiyu back, and also knew that the Jia family wanted to plan the Lin family's property, but Lin Ruhai still made this decision, which was really helpless.

The main reason is his lifespan, Daiyu is still a few years away from getting married, and he knows that his longevity is not much, so he has to arrange everything for Daiyu.

Once he died, Lin Daiyu still had to send someone to the fence, the Lu family could not be trusted, and only the Jia family could accommodate Daiyu.

The second is that he has offended too many forces, when he is alive, he can still protect Daiyu, once he dies, in order to prevent someone from retaliating against Daiyu, he needs to find a powerful husband for Daiyu, the Lu family obviously does not meet for the time being, only the Jia family meets at present, as for Lin Ruhai's friends in Beijing, there will be an explanation later, and it is not suitable for Lin Daiyu.

The third is to take into account Lin Daiyu's reputation, Lin Ruhai is an ancient, his thinking is a woman with a damaged reputation, it is difficult to marry, in fact, this is true in ancient times, a woman's reputation is heavier than Mount Tai, once the reputation is damaged, it will inevitably be disliked.

What's more, Daiyu is the second of the "five don't marry", which is not a good match in ancient times.

Fourth, considering Lin Daiyu's married life, although in ancient times, although the family was right, it was basically the case that the high family married a woman and a low family married a woman.

If Lin Daiyu marries, it will be difficult for her husband's family to protect Daiyu, and if she marries high, the higher the portal, the more important she is to the woman's reputation and physical condition.

And married women, if there is no support from her mother's family, she will inevitably be despised, and even abused, after Jia Yingchun got married, her husband's family lost power, and the Jia family had no one to support her, resulting in her being abused to death.

A woman's status in her husband's family depends entirely on the power of her mother's family and her ability to reproduce children.

Jia Zheng and Mrs. Wang played the superficial husband and wife, but because of Wang Ziteng's power, the relationship with Jia Baoyu, Yuan Chun and others.

As for Mrs. Wang's dislike of Daiyu, Lin Ruhai wants to deal with her, so naturally there is a way.

As for the position of the Jia family, it is not a big deal, and it can be solved by severing the relationship between the Jia family, the Zhen family, and the Xungui.

Of course, Lin Daiyu, as the heroine, will definitely not marry into the Jia family.

After Lin Ruhai enters Beijing, the information barrier will be eliminated, the Lin family and the Jia family will collide, Lin Ruhai and Jia Baoyu and Shi Taijun will have conflicts, and then it will be time for the protagonist to rescue Lin Daiyu.

The plot preview, the story of Yangzhou is about to end, and a new map will be replaced below, and the emotional line between the protagonist and Daiyu will also slowly unfold, and Miaoyu, Xing Xiuyan and other characters will appear one by one.

As for the details of the reactions of other book friends, the subsequent chapters will also be revealed one by one, so I won't spoil them here.

In addition, a word for the Jia family, some of the choices of the Jia family, if they are considered from their standpoint, it is understandable, Jia's mother thinks about the family, and she can't help it, and Mrs. Wang thinks about Yuanchun and Baoyu, so she makes the corresponding choice.

Including Xue Baochai, Shi Xiangyun, Yingchun, Tanchun and others who will appear in the future, they all have their own positions and helplessness.

So there will be no pure good or bad guys, just different classes, different positions, and different angles of thinking about problems.

Take Lin Ruhai as an example, some of his behaviors are also great evil, the corruption of the entire Yandao Yamen, he has an unshirkable responsibility as the supreme leader, if it weren't for his indulgence, Gao Heng would not be so unscrupulous, but he is weak and helpless, only self-preservation, he made the decision to rectify the Yandao, not for the people, but out of political considerations.

The same is true of Jia Yucun, who was originally an aspiring young man in a small town, but ended up in the big dye vat of officialdom and became an arrogant bureaucrat.

This is still the case at the top, not to mention at the bottom, the servants of the dignitaries and nobles have a much higher status than the people, and those maids in Jiafu would rather be Baoyu's aunt than go out to marry, these are the characteristics of the times.

Finally, I hope that all book friends will continue to support "Red Mansion Hanmo"!