After Mrs. Guo met Daiyu that day, she asked Lu Zhiyu to call Daiyu many times in the next few days, and after many days of getting along, she became more and more happy with Daiyu.

On the seventh day after she entered Beijing, she began to talk about Lu Jing's marriage, wanting to finalize Lu Jing and Daiyu's marriage as soon as possible.

Because the Lu Lin family has already verbally agreed on the marriage, the next step is to complete the corresponding process of proposing, engaged, and getting married.

The first step is to find the official media to propose, there is a way that men have no matchmaker and cannot get married, women have no matchmaker and cannot marry, matchmakers also have official media and private media, generally official eunuchs will invite official media, and the people mostly invite private media.

In the past few days, Mrs. Guo has asked people to inquire about the reputation of those official media in Beijing, and on the other hand, she has asked the senior monks of Fayuan Temple to annotate numerology with Lu Jing's birthday.

When Mrs. Guo was looking for someone to approve numerology, Lu Jing began to prepare a gift list for the next appointment.

From marriage to engagement, and then to marriage, there is a total of three books and six ceremonies for the entire marriage etiquette.

The three letters are the letter of appointment, the letter of ceremony and the letter of welcome, and the letter of appointment is the letter of appointment handed over by the man to the woman when Najib is in charge. The Book of Rites is a document used to make a big gift, listing the items and quantities of the big gift. The welcome letter is a document given by the man to the woman when the bride passes through the door.

The six rites refer to Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Nazheng, inviting and greeting. Nacai is invited by the man to the official media to propose to the woman, and the man needs to prepare some auspicious gifts to the woman when Nacai. Asking for a name means that the woman's parents will give the woman's Nian Geng Bazi to the man's family after accepting the man's proposal.

Najib, also known as Wending, refers to the fact that after the man receives the woman's Geng post, he will put the Geng post on the statue or ancestor case to ask for good luck, so as to determine that the two sides have no signs of opposing each other, and after determining that the two sides have no signs of opposing each other, they will send a matchmaker to tell each other, and Wending is also known as Xiaoding.

Acceptance means that the man sends the letter of appointment and the letter of gift to the woman's home, and in the month of the wedding, prepares the bride price, gift money and dowry, and invites the two Quanfu wives and matchmakers to bring the bride price to the woman's home, and the woman also needs to return the gift.

The invitation period is for the man to choose a good day for marriage, and ask for the consent of the woman's family. Kissing means that on the occasion of marriage, the groom goes to the woman's home to marry the bride in person, along with matchmakers and relatives and friends.

On June 12, it is advisable to pay for wealth, ask for heirs, marry, collect, open the market, and pray for blessings.

After some screening, Mrs. Guo finally invited Mrs. Jiang, the most reputable official media in Beijing, to go to the Lin family to propose marriage for Lu Jing on the sixth day of the sixth month of June, and at the same time told Mrs. Jiang in detail about the situation of the two families in advance.

Aunt Jiang heard that it was for the champion Lang to propose, without thinking about it and agreed, since those noblewomen in Beijing learned that the champion Lang had not yet decided to marry, they kept making people spread the word, wanting to marry their daughter to the champion Lang, in her opinion, for the champion Lang is ironclad.

The most important thing is that the Lu family is generous, saying that if this family affair is completed, it will be one hundred taels just to thank the matchmaker, and she used to collect twenty taels for the media, and those who are generous will also pack fifty taels.

Early that morning, Aunt Jiang deliberately changed into new clothes, cleaned up neatly, and came to Lu's house with a smile.

She had already inquired clearly, the Lu family and the Lin family were both official eunuchs, and the woman's father was Lu Jing's teacher, and the two were both relatives and brothers and sisters, and they were just a good match, so she felt that this matter was even more stable.

Mrs. Guo had already prepared a gift: two wild geese, six silk horses, six Shu brocades, six head jewelry, and ten fruit boxes.

The wedding was issued, and the wild goose was adopted, and the wild goose belonged to the yang bird, which was obedient to the yang, north and south at any time, without losing its festival, implying loyalty, and the husband sang with the woman, and did not abandon it.

In order to show the importance of the Lu family to Daiyu, Lu Jing deliberately added brocade and jewelry.

After Aunt Jiang arrived, Mrs. Guo carefully advised, and then asked people to carry the gifts and follow Aunt Jiang to Lin's house.

Aunt Jiang saw the marriage ceremony prepared by the Lu family, and secretly said, this Lu family really values the Lin family girl, and the marriage ceremony is so heavy, when the time comes, the Wen Ding ceremony when Najib is in charge, and the dowry in the recruitment time will not be even more generous.

Lin Ruhai got the news of the Lu family yesterday, so he deliberately took a few days off and waited at home.

After Aunt Jiang drank a cup of tea at Lin's house, Lin Ruhai walked out.

Aunt Jiang hurriedly greeted and said, "The folk woman Jiang has seen Lord Lin!" ”

"No need to be polite, please sit down, I don't know why Aunt Jiang came this time?" Lin Ruhai said with a smile, although she knew in her heart that she was the official media invited by the Lu family, she still had to pretend to be face.

After Aunt Jiang sat down again, she said with a smile on her face: "If you go back to Lord Lin, the folk woman is the official media recognized by the imperial court, speaking of which, the folk woman has long heard that the daughter of Lord Lin's family is gentle and virtuous, and she is a top girl, how many people want to come to the door to ask for marriage, no, Zhuang Yuanlang heard about Miss Lin, so he asked the woman to ask for him to come for him." ”

Lin Ruhai asked, "Can you bring a birthday post?" ”

Aunt Jiang was overjoyed when she heard this, and asked about the eight characters of her birthday, and this matter was basically done, and she hurriedly presented Lu Jing's birthday eight characters with both hands, and said happily: "Look, my lord, this is the eight characters of Zhuang Yuanlang's birthday, and the numerology personally given by the senior monk of Fayuan Temple is a first-class good life." ”

Lin Ruhai took the order post, looked at it, and asked Qin Tianjian to approve the eight characters for Lu Jing and Daiyu a few days earlier.

Lu Jing is a long-term water life, Daiyu is a willow wood life, water and wood are combined, water and wood are born, wood is solid and water potential, there is no one who is strong and who is weak, the two can support each other and live in harmony, it is a match made in heaven.

After reading it, Lin Ruhai instructed the maid: "Go and ask the girl to come out, and let her prepare a thank you gift for Aunt Jiang." ”

Aunt Jiang was even happier when she heard this, and hurriedly asked, "My lord, did you agree?" ”

Lin Ruhai nodded and said, "Aunt Jiang will sit down for a while, and I'll go get Daiyu's Geng post." ”

"Adults don't have to worry about women." Aunt Jiang smiled and said, although she had long guessed that this matter was nine out of ten, she couldn't help but be excited when she heard the woman's consent at this moment, this trip not only completed the man's family's entrustment, contributed to a good marriage, but also got a lot of thanksgiving money.

"Girl, it's done, it's done!" Xue Yan has been inquiring about the news in the front yard, and after hearing that Lin Ruhai had gone to pick up Daiyu's Geng post, she happily reported the good news to Daiyu.

"Congratulations, girl!"

"The Girl's Joy"

Purple Juan, Red Lotus, a few maids are busy with joyful faces, congratulations to Daiyu.

Lin Daiyu was both ashamed and happy when she heard this, and after waiting for so long, her marriage with Lu Jing was finally decided, and then she breathed a sigh of relief.

Listening to Zijuan's jokes about her, she shyly covered her face with a veil, trying to cover the blush on her face.

Zijuan smiled: "If the girl wants to cover it, she should also cover her red head." ”

"you!" Lin Daiyu couldn't care about being shy, and hurriedly took off the handkerchief.

While speaking, the messenger of Lin Ruhai's faction also arrived.

Lin Daiyu endured her shyness, and while preparing a thank-you gift, she countered the maids' jokes about her.

After preparing the thank you gift, Lin Daiyu came to the main hall with a shy face, and at the first glance after entering, she saw a pair of geese sent by the Lu family, and her face was even more embarrassed.

Aunt Jiang was not surprised by this for a long time, and then praised Daiyu is praise, what looks like a fairy, a fairy descends to earth, like a flower like jade, beautiful and wise, virtuous and virtuous.

Especially when Daiyu gave her a thank you gift, she was even more happy, and she didn't care whether it was suitable or not, as long as it was a good word, she would put it on Daiyu's head.

made Daiyu cry and laugh a little, but she didn't have the shyness she had when she first came in, but it was difficult to withstand this kind of praise.

Fortunately, Lin Ruhai finished taking Geng Ti, returned to the main hall, and relieved Daiyu.

Mrs. Jiang took Daiyu's Geng post, and returned to the Lu Mansion happily, Mrs. Guo was busy sending the prepared thank you gifts, and Mrs. Jiang smiled happily, praising that the two families were made in heaven and made in heaven.

After Lu Lin's two families exchanged Geng posts, they each placed the Geng posts in front of the statue, if within three, there is no bowl broken at home, or the family quarrels, they will ask someone to line up the eight characters, if the two sides do not clash with each other, then the marriage is initially decided.

In the past three days, the Lu family and the Lin family, whether they are masters or subordinates, have been cautious, and they are afraid that something will go wrong, but fortunately, they have passed safely in three days, and everyone is relieved.

Later, the Lu family invited Qin Tianjian to approve the eight characters for the two, saying that the eight characters were compatible, and the two were destined for marriage.

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