602 The Importance of Tutoring
In 194 AD, in the autumn of the third year of the Restoration, this day was very important for the Han Empire. It has been six years since Liu Tao entered Jinyang in 188 as a state pastor.
In the past six years, Liu Tao inherited the throne of the Han Empire, and with this, the empire of only the two states of Liangliang has occupied two-fifths of the territory of the world all the way to the present.
Of course, if you don't include the area south of Jiangdong's Wuyi Mountain, then three-fifths of it has arrived.
This year, it is very important for the nascent Han Empire, that is, Liu Tao has officially announced the relocation of the capital half a year ago. The capital of the new Han Dynasty will be moved from Jinyang back to Luoyang.
For this day, most people have expected it, relatively speaking, it is a little late. The most disappointed are the people of Jinyang, after all, they are the existence most affected by the matter of moving the capital.
It's just that everyone knows that a small place like Jinyang is not suitable as a national capital.
Let's just say that Liu Tao, the upper government entered the palace, and the lower government went out of the palace and returned to the house outside, no one had ever seen the emperor who had such a shabby life. It's just that in terms of the pattern of Jinyang Palace, if it is to be expanded, then the entire Jinyang will be affected.
This expense will be very huge, and everyone admires him very much for Liu Tao to maintain such a life for several years.
"Father, where are we going?" On the way south, Liu Cong had to ask. Because of the relocation of the capital, the class is temporarily on vacation, but fortunately, at this point in time, it can be used as a summer vacation.
"We're going to Luoyang, which was originally the capital of the Han Dynasty, and the palace is much larger than the palace in Jinyang." Liu Tao said with a smile, "It is so big that it is divided into the South Palace and the North Palace, the South Palace is the office, and the North Palace is the place where we live." ”
"Then why are we moving in?" Liu Cong asked.
"Because there is not enough office space, we need to change to a larger environment. Besides, staying in the North Palace, it is more convenient for the guards to protect us, and it will not disturb the surrounding neighbors. Liu Tao had to explain slowly.
Guided education is like this, you can't get angry, you have to be patient to explain, and even find a way to explain it in a language that the child can understand. When the child is dissatisfied, he should ask for the reason, and then guide and persuade.
This means that first of all, you can't put on a score, but you also have to stand in the child's position and guide the learning. This requires a lot of patience from parents, as well as cultural qualities.
This also means that if the cultural level of both parents is not high enough, playing guided education may be counterproductive.
When you are unable to guide your child, or even persuaded by him, then your child will look down on his parents. It's okay to endure it, but I can't help but finally transfer to violent education, but at this time, the more violence is used, the more the child looks down on his parents.
In this era, children have not yet been exposed to the Internet. In the later generations, in the case of contacting the Internet at any time, learning the skills of bars, and the Zu'an dialect, the difficulty of parental guidance and education does not know how much it will increase.
The sages said: teach according to aptitude and adapt measures to local conditions.
Without this level and conditions of education, it is necessary to look for a suitable educational policy. Blindly pursuing the 'best educational methods' is sometimes really self-defeating. At least, Liu Tao has a deep understanding of this in the past few years.
"Hmm!" Liu Cong understood, and when he was 'going to school' every day, he also noticed the panicked expressions of the people around him, driven by the guards, and left in a hurry. Every time I go to school, the Praetorian Guards actually work very hard.
If nothing else, Liu Cong, who is the eldest son, has a high probability of becoming the crown prince and then inheriting the empire. As long as there is no corruption in the heart, then it is the duty of all Praetorian guards to protect him.
It is precisely because of this that in the past few years, every time Liu Tao, the crown prince and the eldest princess are protected in and out of the palace, the soldiers of the Praetorian Guard have tensed their nerves every day.
They had to scrutinize everyone on the streets, and anyone who dared to approach could be an Assassin!
Liu Cong and Liu Qiong are also growing up day by day, and they naturally notice these details. Maybe they don't understand, they will ask Liu Tao, or Cai Yan. Then, in the communication with parents, little by little to build up cognition and understanding of this society.
Beginning to understand what good and evil are, and recognizing the difference in their own identities, is the lack of one or two crises that make them understand the malice of this society.
"The environment inside the North Palace is bigger, there are more places to play, and there are even special royal gardens near Luoyang, where you can ......go hunting in autumn," Liu Tao slowly recounted the beauty of that side.
"Father, if it's so good over there, why didn't we go before?" Liu Cong asked curiously.
"Because a few years ago, some bad people burned it. A lot of things were burned, and it took two years to restore them, but there are still a lot of things, destroyed in the fire, and it will take longer to recover. Liu Tao explained.
"Then why are they burning?" Liu Cong asked.
Liu Tao had no choice but to explain slowly, little by little, in words he could understand. When he came back to his senses, Liu Cong was already tired and asleep.
"Your Majesty, will you drink some water?" Cai Yan handed over the water bladder, she didn't expect that Liu Tao would be so patient and talk so much to Liu Cong, and her heart was very sweet.
If the father and the child have a good relationship and the family is harmonious, it is natural that the mother will be happy.
"I'm really a little thirsty......" Liu Tao smiled.
"Actually, there is no need to talk to him so much, he may not understand everything." Cai Yan persuaded.
"But I can't push everything to the teacher, what if one day, he won't take the initiative to ask me again?" Liu Tao sighed, "I don't even dare to get close to me, and the family relationship has become estranged." The disagreement between father and son, and the quarrel because of this, is the main reason for the problems in the inheritance of various dynasties! ”
After all, he gives everything to the teacher, but he doesn't teach anything himself. Over time, it is natural that what the teacher teaches, they learn. He didn't teach, but he still felt that the child was bewitched by Confucianism or Zhao Gao, and Emperor Qin himself was also responsible.
So Emperor Qin, for the direct failure of education, paid the price of losing the country...... At least one of the larger factors.
"I didn't expect Your Majesty to think so far, and the concubine is far inferior." Cai Yan was stunned when he heard this, and then flattered. It's not flattery, it should be said to be admiration, after all, there has never been an emperor who would think like that.
It is estimated that many people think that the prince went astray in the end, and that is just 'not worthy of himself', or 'stupid and incompetent'. What comes to mind is not guidance, but 'there are so many children, it would be good to change one to be the prince'.
There are many reasons for the replacement and demise of each dynasty, most of which are natural and man-made disasters. But Liu Tao feels that tutoring should also account for a part of the factor, and the proportion is not small.
"That's why I like to think crankily because I do this kind of thing......," Liu Tao laughed at himself.