Chapter 175: How to Live in the Hearts of Others
"Why didn't my father die? Aren't they dead? Isn't it? ”
Peng Zhou explained: "They just changed a way of life, a way of survival, a different form, and a different world!" Before! He's human! Just like us, people. When the life of human beings is over, they change their form, and they live to our hearts! Isn't it? Are they still alive? ”
"Woooooo Peng Eel cried: "Yes! Daddy is still alive! Woooooo Live forever in my heart! Woooooo ”
"That's right! Daddy didn't die! So! Sister! Don't grieve anymore, don't cry anymore! Sister! lest weeping spoil the body. Oh? ”
"Hmmm! I don't cry anymore! Peng Eel agreed. Then he cried again and said: "But I can't see my father and mother anymore, and I can't be with my father and mother anymore!" Woooooo ”
"Why can't you see? Didn't you see it in your heart? In the heart! We're still in this together! Didn't you just say that? Are they still alive, just in a different form? As long as they are alive, what can we hope for? It's just a different form!
Person! It's going to die! Isn't it? Where is the immortal? Early death and late death are death! Isn't it? So! As long as you can live! Even if it's in a different form! But are they still alive? Isn't it? Peng Zhou persuaded.
"That? How can we live in the hearts of others? What about living in the heart of a stranger? And! Always live in the hearts of others. Just like Lao Tzu, Confucius, King Wen of Zhou, King Wu of Zhou, Duke of Zhou and others? Luo Gongzi couldn't help but ask on the side.
The truth is the truth: it seems to be like that: as a human being! It's dead, but it doesn't seem to be dead, it's still alive in our hearts.
So! Here's the problem! How can we live into the hearts of others?
Luo Gongzi's meaning: live to the heart of a stranger. And! Always live in the hearts of others.
Live in the hearts of others, as if everyone can do it. But! It seems difficult to live in the hearts of strangers.
In our hearts, there are only people we know. Those we know and know well, they are dead but still alive in our hearts. But what about those who don't know? Are they dead and dead?
Wrong? And some people! They are dead and still alive in our hearts. These people! We don't know them.
Why? Some people can live in the hearts of strangers, and they can live forever. And what about some people? They can live to the hearts of strangers, but! But it was short-lived, and it quickly disappeared.
"Good question!" Peng Zhou responded.
"Then you say!" Luo Gongzi asked.
I thought: My brother-in-law! I really underestimated him! Hey! He's really a little ghost! He understands everything! Do you know this? Seemingly? I really learned a little from Zhuangzi!
Zhuangzi said! We want to have a certain social impact, and then! We can live into the hearts of strangers. And! Always live in the hearts of others. ”
"What does it mean to have a certain amount of social influence?" Luo Gongzi asked.
"It's that everyone in society knows about you! It's called social impact! ”
"That?" Luo Gongzi asked suspiciously: "Being a good person and doing good deeds can have a certain social influence, and doing bad people and bad things can also have a certain social influence!" So? ”
Talking! Luo Gongzi looked at Peng Zhou. That means: Are we going to do good? Or do you do something bad?
Since they can all have a certain social impact, then? Isn't it? We can do both good and bad. Anyway! We can all live in the hearts of others, and we will always live in the hearts of others. Isn't it?
Zhuangzi said! One is called Liufang Baishi, and the other is called Legacy for 10,000 years! ”
"So? Do you mean that if you want to live forever in the hearts of others, you have to do evil? Only those who do evil can leave a stench for 10,000 years! Isn't it? Luo Gongzi looked at Peng Zhou.
Peng Zhou shook his head and said, "That's not what I meant!" Don't say I meant it! That's what Zhuangzi said to me! ”
"So? Is it the meaning of Zhuangzi? Luo Gongzi asked.
"What does Zhuangzi mean?" Peng Zhou said angrily: "That's how Zhuangzi explained it to me! He asked me! ……”
"What did he ask you?"
"What did he ask you?" Peng Eel also asked.
"Zhuangzi asks me!" Peng Zhou said in an accentuated tone: "Are you just a little person who will stay for a hundred years?" Or be a big man who has been stinking for 10,000 years and has been scolded for 10,000 years? ”
"This?" Luo Gongzi answered, but did not answer.
"And what do you say?" Peng Eel asked anxiously.
"I said? I said I didn't want to be scolded! Still scolding for 10,000 years! Got my head broken? I feel uncomfortable when others scold me, and I have been scolding for 10,000 years! Really bad head! Only people with broken heads can stand being scolded for 10,000 years! ……”
"Good!" When Luo Gongzi heard this, he couldn't help but cheer.
"Woooooo Peng Eel cried like a snort: "My brother is saying! He would rather be a man who will leave a legacy for a hundred years than a wicked person who will be stinking for thousands of years! Woooooo ”
Zhuangzi said! Although you can keep your name by being a wicked person or doing bad things, you can also keep your name for a longer time. But! That's infamy, it's a negative textbook.
So! Or do good deeds! Do good deeds for the benefit of future generations. That's the only way! Only future generations, generations and generations will remember you!
For example! The legendary Nuwa, Fuxi, Emperor Yan and Yellow Emperor, Dayu, Yao, Shun and others, they can live forever in people's hearts......"
"Hmmm! Reasonable! Reasonable! Luo Gongzi listened and nodded.
"We ordinary people can only live in the hearts of people who know you. For example! Although the parents and elders have no ability, but! They can live forever in the minds of their children. If they have the ability, they can live in the hearts of their children and grandchildren, and they can live for a long time! ”
"Yes, yes, yes!" Peng Eel understood, and nodded in agreement.
"Anyway! Ordinary people can only live in the hearts of those who know you. If you have a little ability, others will remember you for a longer time. If you don't have the skills, people may quickly forget about you. Even! You're not dead yet, and others have forgotten about you. Within a few years after death, he will disappear in the hearts of others. ”
"This?" When Luo Gongzi heard this, he suddenly felt terrible.
It seems like that's the case! We know so many people, how many can we remember at the end of the day? And how can we pass on the memory to others?
How there is no inheritance! So! The person quickly disappeared from the hearts of others. Even if! This person is your parent elder.
"Look! It's really not easy to be a person who will always be remembered and live in the hearts of others! Luo Gongzi couldn't help but sigh.
"Woooooo Peng Eel cried: "People like me may only live in the memories of their children!" They don't live long! I? As a mother, I don't bring my own baby, what kind of mother am I? I? Woooooo ”
As a noble woman, a noble lady, where do you need to bring it personally? If you don't bring a baby, you won't have family affection with your children. So! When your children grow up, they may not remember you very much!!
Only if you are kind to others, others will remember you! Only when you come into contact with people will others have an impression of you, and you can live in the hearts of others.
It is impossible for an unknown person, a person who has no contribution, to live in the hearts of others.