Fang Xuanling smiled and comforted: "Why do you want to make such a dejected appearance? You've done well enough to be far ahead of others among your younger generation. As the so-called blessings and misfortunes lurk, misfortunes and blessings rely on, small setbacks, for the tempering of temperament has unexpected benefits. ”

At such an age, he is already a high-ranking official from the second grade, and the speed of promotion is too fast, and it is the right way to precipitate it.

Fang Jun smiled bitterly: "10,000 years is too long, my son is only seizing the day......

Of course, he knew that his rocket-like promotion speed was actually not a good thing, and his foundation was shallow and insufficient, mostly relying on the background of his father Fang Xuanling and His Majesty Li Er's holy family. But if he is allowed to calm down and be promoted step by step, when will he be able to hold the authority in his hands and take revenge in his chest?

In these years, the level of medical and health care is extremely low, not to mention that if you get a little sick, you may be doomed, even if there is no disease and no disaster, it is normal to live fifty or sixty years old, and you dare not expect to be seventy.

Life is rare for seventy years, should it really be fun?

Now that the situation is stable, it is not a time when there are a lot of meritorious deeds at the beginning of the founding of the country, and the stable promotion is too slow. Daddy Fang Xuanling followed His Majesty Li Er from King Qin to the emperor, as His Majesty Li Er's most trusted and core staff, he became a Zhongshu Ling at the age of forty-eight, and was promoted to the age of fifty-one when Shangshu's left servant shot......

That's the time of war, and there is also the skill of the dragon!

According to the steady speed of promotion, he may be able to enter the center at the age of forty, and he can enter the cabinet when his hair is gray......

When the time comes, why are you going to die, what can you do with the energy?

Rather than this, it is better to eat and wait for death now, and be a good gentleman, which can be regarded as living up to this life......

Fang Xuanling said unhappily: "Promotion Zuojin, the court has its own system, for my father, I don't know why you are so greedy for power, but if you are opportunistic and take the sword, even if you can achieve your ambition for a while, it will inevitably bury hidden dangers." It may not be obvious in normal times, but once there is an omission and a mistake, it is the end of no return! ”

Before you are twenty years old, you are already from the second grade of Jing Zhaoyin, steadily do a few terms, and then find a rich place to be released as two feudal officials, then have both the qualifications of the chief official of Gyeonggi, and the experience of local governance, when you are in your thirties, you will be transferred back to the Beijing division into the center, and then stay up for ten years and eight years to be a proper position of the chief assistant.

Such a speed of promotion is still appalling after the founding of the country, but you are still shouting "seize the day......

Why are you embarrassed by me?

Fang Jun has been an official in his previous life, so he naturally knows that his father's words are the safest way, step by step, he can not only inherit his father's political legacy, but also expand and stabilize his personal relationships.

"Isn't my son thinking about doing something, in this world, if you want to do something, you must have power in your hands, and you must endure it steadily, when will you be able to take revenge in your chest?"

"Your idea is not right, not only is it wrong, but it is even very dangerous!" Fang Xuanling withdrew his smile, stared at the proud second son in front of him with a serious face, and taught painstakingly: "The way of a gentleman, such as traveling far away, must be self-defeating; For example, if you ascend to the heights, you will feel humble. Whether you are a person or an official, you must not only be ambitious, dare to think and dare to do, but also start from the "humble" and "round" places, be down-to-earth, and step by step. This is the way of a gentleman, and it is the way of heaven! You are now in a hurry for quick success, blindly the sword goes sideways, the foundation has not been solidified, you will build a high-rise building, and one day you will eat the consequences of yourself, and it will be too late to regret! ”

These words were extremely serious, Fang Jun was startled and hurriedly reflected.

Seeing that his son realized the meaning of his words, Fang Xuanling's tone softened slightly, and said gently: "My father has always not commented on your style, but I actually hope that you can wake up and correct yourself, which is better than mentioning your father's life." In the past, the official position was not obvious, but in the eyes of the world, he was just a gentleman, he was irritable, he acted wantonly, and he didn't take it seriously. But now that you are in a higher position and more prosperous, it would be very inappropriate for you to continue to act as before. ”

Fang Jun hurriedly said: "My son knows that he is wrong. ”

He realized his mistake, he could beat the prince and the minister, but now he is Jing Zhaoyin, but he still beats people on the street and mutilates them, what is the nature of this?

How did the Manchu civil and military view him?

What do the people of the world think of him?

The main thing is...... What does His Majesty Li Er think of him?

Do you still have reverence in your heart, boy? Is it so inflated that it's about to fly?

He finally understood the meaning of what his father said, "You are going to suffer a loss this time", not that he did not handle it wrongly, nor how great the pressure of the family gate valve was, not to mention that His Majesty Li Er's trade-offs made him a sacrifice, but ...... His Majesty Li Er will feel that he is now uncontrollable!

How can a person who has no fear in his heart become a loyal minister?

Now that His Majesty Li Er is in the peak of the Spring and Autumn Period, it is natural that Fang Jun is not good, but if it is ten years later...... When the crown prince is stable and the kings rise, will Fang Jun still have the ambition of being loyal to the king?

Thinking about this, I suddenly felt fear in my heart, and cold sweat trickled down......

Seeing Fang Jun's expression, Fang Xuanling smiled and asked, "What's the matter, are you afraid?" ”

Fang Jun squeezed out a smile: "I'm so scared that Your Majesty can't cut off his son's head......"

"Hehe......"

Fang Xuanling chuckled, and actually picked up the teapot and poured a cup of tea for Fang Jun, Fang Jun hurriedly took it with both hands: "How dare you let your father pour tea for his son?" ”

Fang Xuanling waved his hand to show that he didn't care, and looked at his son with a smile and teased: "In the past few years, my father has been shocked by your performance, this is talented and skillful, and even his official position is soaring and he is about to catch up with his father...... As a father, he was even thinking, could it be that there was a demon in my family? ”

Fang Jun grinned, what did he say...... You're almost getting to the bottom of the story, Daddy!

"But there is one thing, what you don't do well, that is, you are too sharp and aggressive!" Fang Xuanling held the teacup in his hand and said slowly: "You always take advantage of everything, and you don't want to lose anything." If you get used to taking advantage of your father, you will feel that a small loss is a big loss in the future, which is very bad. In life, who can take advantage of all the advantages? ”

Fang Jun was silent and listened to this.

Since being reborn, everything has gone too smoothly for me, and I have unconsciously developed a stinky problem of extreme self. It's not a good thing to be angry, to suffer, to be impetuous, and to be obsessed with too much.

People who always think that they often suffer losses, the obsession in the hearts of such people is unknown to no one, and it is also painful, and no one understands this kind of person, and no one sympathizes with it.

And people who are willing to suffer a little loss on unimportant issues, there is a kind of open-mindedness and tolerance in their temperament, as well as some reason and self-restraint, such people are liked everywhere they go, who would like people who only take advantage and do not suffer losses?

Fang Xuanling continued: "Let you suffer, it doesn't mean that you don't speak or fight back when you are bullied, but that you don't let you be aggressive everywhere, and you have to be broad-minded." Always unwilling to suffer, no matter what the nature is, in the end it must be too calculating, too heavy on gains and losses, often for a little bit of trivial things, sacrificing everything. To be a man to be open-minded, know how to forgive, know how to retreat, forgiveness does not mean weakness, concession does not mean fear, show the enemy to be weak, to retreat as advance, this is the best art of war, but also the best way to behave. Understand this truth, will have personality charm, will have a broad mind, do not need to self-flaunt, let alone self-boasting, the world has eyes, peach and plum speechless, the next is its own. ”

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky!

This is the wisdom of the ancestors, and it is the wise saying between heaven and earth.

It is a pity that as a reborn, he has surpassed the people of this world for a thousand years in knowledge and learning, but he has lost his mind and gone astray.

Fang Xuanling's words were like Huang Zhong Dalu, which shook Fang Jun's brain, but it made him suddenly realize like an initiation!

What about losses?

Some losses cannot be eaten, but some losses are eaten, but they are blessings......

No one wants to be with someone who will never suffer, so a gentleman should be as gentle as jade, and a gentleman should not fight.

In this people-oriented society, as long as you know how to share benefits and know that suffering losses is a blessing, there will naturally be people around you, lifting you, helping you, and supporting you.

Tao Li is speechless, and the next is a strange ......

Fang Jun got up and left his seat, shook his robe, bowed uprightly and gave Fang Xuanling a big salute, and said: "Thank you for your father's teachings, the child will be inexhaustible in his life." ”

Fang Xuanling stroked his beard under his chin with his hand and laughed heartily: "The son can be taught!" ”