Every time I smell the faint fragrance of plum in the cold winter, I can't help but think of the person who influenced me - grandpa.

When I was in the first and second grades of elementary school, because I was white and petite, I was often bullied by some classmates, I was very innocent, and I came home to confide in my grandfather, and my grandfather only smiled and said, "Slowly, you will become stronger!" I was very annoyed, I didn't understand how my grandfather was so confident, I silently watched his every move, and grandpa, only through three things, made me suddenly realize - not to be bullied.

I remember one day, my grandfather took me to class, we sat in a taxi, there was talking and laughing, and when we arrived at the destination, the driver looked at us and smiled, sly, I vaguely remember that the driver said to my grandfather: "35 yuan," and my grandfather did not move for a long time, staring at the display screen thoughtfully, and then my grandfather told me: "It is marked 29." 5 yuan, "grandpa took out 30 yuan to find, instead of listening to the driver's words, blindly took 5 yuan more to him, I remember the scene at that time very clearly, the driver saw that the old man's head was quite bright, so he didn't say much." It wasn't until later that our grandparents and grandchildren recalled this incident again, and my grandfather said to me earnestly: "Granddaughter, there are many unscrupulous people in this society, you must carefully distinguish and not blindly obey the faith, otherwise you will be bullied!" I nodded, and my grandfather smiled knowingly.

Don't deceive yourself.

Grandpa was semi-literate, and in those days, there were not such good conditions for grandpa to be educated, so while he could still remember something, he would pick up magazines and newspapers on the desk, and read them word by word on the balcony, and sometimes he would ask me if he couldn't read the word, and I would tell him the pronunciation of the word. But I couldn't help but want to ask, "Grandpa, why did you ask me, instead of hiding this word in your heart, not letting us know that you don't know this word, and pretending to be a learned picture?" I smiled mischievously at my grandfather. "I don't know this word, I want to know its pronunciation, and the next time I meet it, I will understand the meaning. Besides, I also want to see for a long time in my lifetime. Am I not lying to myself when you say that?" I lowered my head in shame, thinking that I had found a mistake in the test paper before, and I corrected the answer myself without telling the teacher, but I really wanted to burrow my head into the ground. Grandpa seemed to see through my thoughts, and said with a smile: "You study for yourself, not for anyone, don't do things that deceive yourself, that can only lie to yourself." I nodded thoughtfully, and my grandfather touched my head, which can be regarded as an expectation of me!

Don't deceive.

Grandpa is very homely, busy with this and that for our family, cooking and mopping the floor, so uncomfortable! I remember one time- I followed my grandfather to buy vegetables, I took his hand, entered the vegetable market, when grandpa finished buying vegetables and counted the money, I don't know why I frowned, and counted again, I turned around anxiously, and hurriedly ran back to the vegetable field, I was inexplicably pulled by my grandfather to run, until later, I understood, it turned out that the uncle who sold vegetables found three more yuan from his grandfather, and his grandfather wanted to return it to the uncle, and the uncle cast an approving look at his grandfather's honest actions, and wanted to take a few potatoes to compensate for rewarding his grandfather, but he was rejected by his grandfather. On the way home, my grandfather seemed to be still immersed in the scene of being praised by everyone, showing a shallow smile, and I asked my grandfather, "Why don't you take it back yourself? How good is it to buy more ginger? and you don't have to spend your own money," I asked my grandfather evilly. Grandpa criticized me fiercely, and said righteously: "Be a man based on integrity, don't be a person who is greedy for small profits!" I was very ashamed, and I felt guilty for the idea just now!

It was my grandfather, it was my grandfather who taught me, it was that I was self-reliant, kind, and honest, it was my grandfather, it was my grandfather, it was my grandfather who influenced me......

Every time I smell the fragrance of plum blossoms blooming in the cold winter, I think of my grandfather who is self-reliant and independent, and I will think of the truth that my grandfather taught me - if you want to make yourself strong, you only need to do three things: not to be bullied, not to deceive yourself, and not to deceive others.