Chapter 42 Once I was bitten by a snake for ten years, I was afraid of the well rope

Zhao originally thought that Xu Jiayi was here for the dowry returned by the Xu Mansion, but he didn't expect that the first question he asked was indeed about Qian Feng, so he couldn't help but raise his eyebrows in surprise, "Why do you say this?" ”

Xu Jiayi pinched her handkerchief and didn't say anything for a long time.

"You also saw Qian Feng outside Wan'an Hall that day, what do you think of him?" Seeing this, Zhao did not ask any more questions, but instead raised another question.

It turned out that her aunt had already discovered her that day, Xu Jiayi thought in her heart.

"Everyone in the world says that Qian Jiaerlang is knowledgeable and clean, and if he is in the spring next year, he will definitely be able to come out on top. Although his status is not high, he has great potential, and there are not a few people in Yanjing City who want to marry his daughter to him......" Xu Jiayi didn't want to directly say the outsider's evaluation of Qian Feng objectively, but before he finished speaking, he was interrupted by the Zhao family raising his hand.

Zhao looked at Xu Jiayi seriously, "I'm asking you to say what you think of him, not listening to you praise him." ”

Xu Jiayi was a little surprised, tilted her head and thought about it, "I only glanced at him from a distance that day, and I saw that he was indeed as gentle and elegant as outsiders said, but I don't know if I am not knowledgeable." I didn't think he was bad, I just wanted to ask my aunt but I found out about his situation. If something goes wrong with this family affair again, I'm afraid that outsiders will gossip. ”

Even if it is not Wang Yunxiu's fault, her husband's family is not good twice in a row, so Wang Yunxiu's reputation is also bad. So it must be safe and secure, otherwise even if there is anything at that time, my cousin can only suffer this dumb loss and marry it.

She didn't want her cousin to be wronged.

So even if she understands that these words should not be said today according to her identity, she has said them.

Only then did Zhao understand what Xu Jiayi was thinking, and couldn't help but sigh in his heart. Even though they spoil Yiyi to the fullest, they somehow still develop this sensitive temperament. I don't know how long these thoughts have been buried in her heart, and she secretly went to Wan'an Hall that day, because she was worried that her cousin was entrusted to someone else, and she wanted to see it with her own eyes.

This child has always considered others more than himself.

Zhao suddenly took Xu Jiayi's hand with some distress, "One by one, people really shouldn't fall twice in the same place, but don't be obsessed with it." You have to learn from it and learn to be able to do it. Once bitten by a snake for ten years, I am afraid of the well rope, this kind of thing is unacceptable. ”

"I understand, but I don't understand why my aunt is in such a hurry to set the marriage." Xu Jiayi said and hung her head, "My cousin has just reached the end of the year, and Shangshufu can't afford to raise a daughter......

Wang Yunxiu gently held Xu Jiayi's hand and smiled at her. Xu Jiayi held her hand back, "Cousin, I'm not trying to mess up your marriage, I'm just worried about ......"

"I understand." Wang Yunxiu smiled and touched Xu Jiayi's hair, "I understand, you and my sister, why do you need to say more?" ”

The two looked at each other and smiled.

Why should you be in such a hurry, Zhao didn't tell her two daughters about this matter, but she was in a hurry. If you want to say why, it is also related to the flower viewing banquet held by the eldest princess that day. The eldest princess left her to speak that day, hinting to herself that she had the intention to point Wang Yunxiu to the third or fourth prince.

In the place in the palace where people eat people and don't spit out bones, the Zhao family really can't bear to let their daughter suffer. Although the emperor is now in the prime of life, several princes are adults, and the position of the crown prince has been undecided. The situation above the court is changing rapidly, and the Zhao family doesn't want their daughter to get involved.

So I immediately found a reason, saying that Yunxiu was already looking at each other, although it had not yet been decided, but the two families were already tacit, and they just had to go through the later process. The eldest princess let her go back to the house with a little regret. Even she could see that the eldest princess was more intentional about it, but she didn't mention it for some reason.

As soon as the words had already been spoken, as soon as the Zhao family returned home, they included Qian Feng, who had been hesitant before, into the standby list, and immediately found the Qian family to explain that they wanted to meet Qian Feng before making a decision. Now that both sides are looking good, the Zhao family has also made up their minds to inquire, Qian Feng is indeed a good one.

This is also the reason why the Zhao family wants to settle down as soon as possible, because they are afraid that they will be late, and when the will comes from the palace, they will not be able to do it.

"I have my own plans for this." Zhao waved his hand, looking at the two little girls and didn't want to tell them the reason. glanced at Wang Yunxiu, and asked with a serious face, "Yunxiu, think about it seriously and tell your mother, are you willing to marry the Qian family's Erlang?" ”

The second lang of the Qian family is Qian Feng.

"Hmm." Wang Yunxiu blushed shyly, and responded weakly.

"That's good." Zhao's heart was slightly relieved, "But today I have a reason to tell you two." Yiyi, you haven't met Qian Feng, why are you prejudiced against her? ”

Xu Jiayi pursed her lips and looked at Zhao, and saw Zhao continue, "We have to meet different people every day, but some people have only heard his name and have not seen real people, so they can only piece together his image from the words passed down from outsiders. So how do we determine what kind of person this person is? ”

"Although we are women, each of us is different, and our attitude towards them is different. Like Xiao Xue'er, although she acts shamelessly, she can still be like a fish in water in the circle, do you know why? ”

"What do you mean?" Xu Jiayi looked at Zhao with some doubts.

Wang Yunxiu also looked up at Zhao with a confused expression, "So what does mother mean to learn to treat differently?" Even if you don't like it, you can't show it. ”

"That's right." Zhao nodded, "The more people you have around you, the more complicated the interpersonal relationships you need to maintain, and the more you can't simply treat them equally, and treat them differently to maintain balance." ”

Seeing that the two girls looked like they didn't understand, Zhao directly gave an example, "At the beginning, Chen Xuan's girl was also very unbearable by them, what do you think after you get in touch with it?" ”

Xu Jiayi looked at Zhao with her eyes open in some confusion, and she couldn't quite understand what she meant.

Wang Yunxiu looked at Xu Jiayi's flickering big eyes, stared at herself with a cute face, and couldn't help chuckling, raised her hand and pinched her face. Although her mother is teaching one by one, why is she not teaching her the principles of being a human being?

Xu Jiayi tilted her head and thought about it, "I thought Chen Xuan was a reckless and impulsive person, but after actual contact, I found that although she was impulsive, she would also weigh the pros and cons before doing things, and her actions would not make the slightest mistake. ”

"That's right, this is Chen Xuan's ability. When you're new to an environment or new to someone, it's hard to judge a person based on first impressions and hearsay from others. What you have to do is to reach out to him little by little and make your own judgment. ”

Zhao looked at Wang Yunxiu and Xu Jiayi seriously, and touched their heads, "Don't believe other people's mouths, believe in your own hearts." But more importantly, don't be too complacent, and you need to leave three points of leeway. ”

"People like Xiao Xue'er who cross the river and tear down the bridge are just cocooning themselves, and sooner or later they will ask for trouble. Though you do not like her in your hearts, you must not fall into her trap as she does, and if so, what is the difference between you and her? Holding high and stepping low, falling into the well, are all villains. ”

As soon as Zhao mentioned Xiao Xue'er, Xu Jiayi and Wang Yunxiu subconsciously glanced at each other, and they both remembered the incident at the eldest princess's flower viewing banquet. The faces of the two stiffened for a moment and then recovered instantly, Xu Jiayi glanced at Zhao, and saw that Wang Yunxiu shook his head slightly at himself and stopped his mouth.

Xu Jiayi blinked her eyes and nodded as if she didn't understand, "I understand what my aunt means, that is, when I see people, I talk about people, and I talk nonsense when I see ghosts." ”

"This kid!" Zhao was made to laugh and cry by Xu Jiayi's words.

It's a bit vulgar, but it's true. Seeing that it was getting late outside, the Zhao family couldn't stay long, so they sent Mama Zhao next to her to send Xu Jiayi back to Jiaxi Garden.

Cuiyun lifted the lamp, looked at Xu Jiayi's somewhat serious face, and whispered, "Girl, there is something that the slave doesn't understand. ”

All people have a strange temperament, that is, they are more interested in ugly and dirty things than those good things, especially these people in Yanjing City. Whoever has something ugly, they can always get the news as soon as possible, as long as it has nothing to do with their own interests, they will watch the excitement with relish.

As everyone knows, one day he may become a lively person in the eyes of others.

It's easy to put the icing on the cake, but it's hard to send charcoal in the snow.

Xu Jiayi fell into her own contemplation, and couldn't help but raise her eyes after listening to Cuiyun's words, "Huh? ”

"Why does everyone like to like to hold high and step low, and fall into the well?"

"Because people always like to use the misfortunes of others to set off their own luck, and the uncleanness of others to set off their own nobility."

Cuiyun suddenly realized.

After returning to Jiaxi Garden, Xu Jiayi lay on the bed and thought about what Zhao said tonight. Suddenly, something sounded like a call to the green clouds. Cuiyun immediately came in from outside, "What's the matter, girl?" ”

Xu Jiayi's eyes rolled slightly, and she raised her head and asked, "The eldest cousin can be in the mansion tomorrow." ”

"The eldest young master shouldn't be out of the house tomorrow, he should be reading and practicing calligraphy in the study." Cuiyun was a little flustered, and she didn't understand why she suddenly asked about the eldest young master. The young masters are kept in the front yard on weekdays, and several cousins and cousins are studying in Guozijian and don't come home often, so Xu Jiayi hasn't had much contact with them over the years.

There is a difference between men and women, and how many cousins and cousins end up becoming husband and wife. Xu Jiayi felt that she was only a brother and sister to several cousins, and there was no love between men and women, so she also paid attention to keeping a distance, so as not to cause gossip. What's more, now that her eldest cousin is married, she should pay attention to it, so as not to make her sister-in-law unhappy.

However, despite this, the relationship between the siblings has not weakened. Wang Ling would always send someone to bring a copy of what they got when they were outside.

Xu Jiayi nodded and asked Cuiyun to invite Wang Ling to sit down tomorrow. Cuiyun answered, retreated, and invited Wang Ling to Jiaxi Garden early the next morning.