268 Pang Lin's wife
Pang Lin's wife's affair is recorded separately. However, Pang Lin is a small person, and Chen Shou did not set up a biography for him, but recorded it in his brother's "Pang Tong Biography". This is not uncommon in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
Pang Tong is a big celebrity, and Zhuge Liang is called "Phoenix Chick" and "Wolong" respectively, and whoever gets one can settle the world. Speaking of which, we are haunted by the guy with a broken beard and a boy scarf that is not very elegant.
Pang Tong's hometown is in Xiangyang, and the Pang brothers left their hometown and went to Liu Bei. After that, he entered Sichuan with Liu Bei.
Cao Cao waved his army south and occupied Xiangyang, and the Pang Tong brothers cut off contact with their families, just like "nostalgia is a small stamp".
Pang Lin's wife is Xi of Xiangyang County. After Cao Cao occupied Xiangyang, Xi lost contact with her husband Pang Lin, and the couple did not see each other for more than ten years.
Some people say that Xi's name is Xi Zhen, wrong. Xi is Xi Zhen's sister, what is her name, I don't know, what is the name of the women in the history books, and there is generally no full name. Then, Xi Zhen's sister is called "Xi's".
Xi Zhen, whose name is Wenxiang, is a native of Xiangyang, Nanjun (now Xiangfan, Hubei). An official of Shu during the Three Kingdoms period. Active from the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty to the beginning of the Shu Han Dynasty. It is the handsome man of the land of Jingchu.
"Xiangyang Ji" records: Xi Zhen is romantic, good at talking, his name is Ya Pangtong, and he is on the right side of Ma Liang. In the sixth year of Jian'an (201), Liu Bei defected to Liu Biao, and there were more and more heroes in Jingzhou who returned to Liu Bei, and Xi Zhen also defected to Liu Bei at this time. At that time, the world's best and brightest people went to celebrities and became fashionable.
In the sixteenth year of Jian'an (211), Xi Zhen followed Liu Bei into Shu. In the nineteenth year of Jian'an (214), Liu Bei captured Yizhou, and Xi Zhen successively served as the county commander of Ruxian County (now Guanghanbei, Sichuan), the county commander of Pi (PĆ) County (now Pixian County, Sichuan), and the Taishou of Guanghan (now Ruxian County, Sichuan).
Xi Zhen and Pang Tong are friends, before they defected to Liu Bei, the two had a very close relationship, maybe it was at this time that Pang Lin and Xi Zhen's sister met-here, we have to break the inherent understanding of young men and women in the Three Kingdoms period who knew and loved each other, and the mode of dislocation to the present young men and women who met and loved each other is appropriate.
Two people know each other and love each other, there may be dating, trysts, vows and so on, in short, the two are united because of love, not "the words of the matchmaker of the parents" glued together. Therefore, the two have been separated for more than ten years, and they still watch each other and are unswerving, one has not remarried, and the other has not remarried. This was rare in those days, especially when a man did not marry for more than ten years, which was relatively rare.
It is more reasonable to say this, because in the Eastern Han Dynasty, it was common for men to have three wives and four concubines; And it is not uncommon for women to remarry. People are very tolerant of women remarrying.
Liu Bei's queen Wu was remarried to Liu Bei in her second marriage; Cao Pi's original wife, Empress Zhen (posthumously sealed), was originally Yuan Xi's wife, and later remarried to Cao Pi; Sun Quan's wife, Xu, was originally Lu Shang's wife, and she also remarried Sun Quan in her second marriage.
The founding queens of Shu Han and Cao Wei were both remarried daughters, and Sun Quan's wife was also a second-married daughter. The ministers of Eastern Wu repeatedly asked Sun Quan to make Xu the empress, but the Xu family fell out of favor and was not canonized as the empress. Through the historical materials recorded in this official history, we can see the tolerance of public opinion in the Eastern Han Dynasty to women remarrying.
In the public opinion environment at that time, Xi and her husband had lost contact for more than ten years, and they could completely remarry, and no one could do anything to her; Pang Lin and Xi Zhen have been out of contact for more than ten years, and they can remarry.
However, Pang Lin and Xi have a sincere love, they both hope that the husband and wife can have a reunion day, so they are sticking to true love, Xi did not remarry, and Pang Lin did not remarry.
There is another reason, when Pang Lin entered Sichuan, he and his wife Xi had a daughter, and there was something wrong with this daughter, "Three Kingdoms" recorded that "the forest woman and the forest were separated, and the weak girl was raised for more than ten years".
The "weak girl" here is by no means "small" and "weak", if it is "small" and "weak", "guarded" and "more than ten years" will not be a big girl who has lost water? Can the big girl still be weak?
The "weakness" here is what kind of illness this girl has, Pang Lin knows that there is a wife in the north and a daughter with some kind of illness. His heart was always thinking about it!
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Guan Yu was careless, was attacked by Eastern Wu, was defeated and captured, and was killed, Liu Beixing rushed to Eastern Wu with the strength of the whole country, wanting to avenge his second brother (in fact, he also wanted to recapture Jingzhou).
Liu Bei took Huang Quan on the expedition, and Pang Lin was Huang Quan's advisor.
Liu Bei asked Huang Quan to divide his troops in Jiangbei, but he was defeated by Lu Xun.
Huang Quan's way back to Shu Han had been cut off, and it was impossible to surrender to Eastern Wu, so he discussed with Pang Lin and decided to surrender Cao Wei.
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"Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms" records that after Liu Bei heard that Huang Quan surrendered to Cao Wei, he said, "Alone Huang Quan, the right does not live up to the loneliness!" ā
Huang Quan surrendered to Cao Wei, and Liu Bei also felt that he was sorry for Huang Quan.
Pang Lin followed Huang Quan to Cao Wei together, and he was not a traitor seeking glory.
After Pang Lin defected to Cao Wei, he met his wife, who had been missing for more than ten years.
Xi has been raising her daughter alone for more than ten years, waiting for her husband to return. Xi's waiting, waiting for true love. Pang Lin's persistence also allowed him to reunite with his wife.
Give you three pages of imagination space, what will it look like after two people who have been looking forward to and loving each other for more than ten years meet? You will be given 50 exclamation marks and 50 question marks, which you are free to fill in.
The love story of Pang Lin and Xi Zhen's sister touched the scholars and doctors at that time.
After Cao Pi heard about the love story between Pang Lin and Xi, he rewarded Pang Lin and his wife with a set of clothes and quilts. No matter how good the clothes and quilts are, they are not worth much, but they are just a meaning, in recognition of Pang Lin and Xi's righteousness.
This incident is exemplified in "Pei Songzhi's Note on the Three Kingdoms", the original text is "Forest woman, Xi Zhen of the same county." Zhen Shi is praised by Yang Xifu Chen. Cao Gongzhi broke Jingzhou, the forest woman and the forest were separated, and the weak girl was raised for more than ten years. Emperor Wei Wen heard about it and gave him bed tents and clothes to show his righteousness. ā
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Postscript:
After Pang Lin defected to Cao Wei, he has been advertising for Cao Pi. Such a move made Shu Han very unhappy. Although the Shu Han Group did not kill Pang Lin's clansmen, the Pang family's future in Shu Han also came to an end. Pang Tong used his life to pave the way for his family, but as a result, his family was noble in Cao Wei, but declined in Shu Han.
This is called "being born in troubled times, creating and making people".
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Pang Lin's elder brother Pang Tong had a son named Pang Hong, who stayed in Shu Han.
He inherited his father's upright and straightforward character, and also liked to praise and disparage people, but he offended the powerful minister Chen Yi, so he had to stoop to be a taishou in Fuling County.
Soon, Pang Hong took a boat to work, but unfortunately encountered a rising tide and finally drowned. After a generation of celebrities, it is really embarrassing to die in this way.