And then there is "The Mother of Jiang Xu".

Jiang Xu, this name is very unfamiliar. Check the information and learn: Jiang Xu, the word Boyi, is from Ji County, Tianshui County. Active from the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty to the early Wei Kingdom. The official is General Fuyi.

Jiang Xu and Yang Fu are cousins, and Jiang Xu's mother is Yang Fu's aunt. First, Yang Fu joined the army for Jicheng and surrendered to Ma Chao. Later, he went to Licheng to say that he raised troops to resist the super. Syria linked Liang Kuan, Zhao Qu, Yin Feng, and Zhao Ang to cause trouble, defeated Chao, killed his wife and more than ten relatives, and captured Jicheng. Ma Chao defeated and walked through the city, washed the people in the city, and killed Jiang Xu's mother, Yin Feng, and Zhao Ang's family. After the war, Cao Cao rewarded meritorious deeds and named Jiang Xu as a liege.

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Needless to say, Jiang Xu's mother is also surnamed Yang.

In July of the sixteenth year of Jian'an, Cao Cao personally led a large army to conquer Guanzhong. In September, the armies of Ma Chao and Han Sui were defeated in Weinan.

Ma Chao was defeated and went to protect Zhurong. Later, Ma Chao made a comeback, not only did the people of Longyou, but also sent the general Yang Ang to help, with more than 10,000 troops.

At that time, all the counties and counties in Longshang responded to Ma Chao, and only Jicheng held on. Jicheng Taishou Weikang was very benevolent and righteous, and he couldn't bear the suffering of the people who were disabled and disabled, so he surrendered Ma Chao and sacrificed Jicheng. Ma Chao soon broke the promise to kill Wei Kang.

Everyone in Jicheng was sad and angry.

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Jiang Xu stationed troops in Licheng at this time.

Jiang Xu's aunt's son Yang Fu (Ziyishan) and more than ten other people originally belonged to Wei Kang, after Wei Kang surrendered, Yang Fu and others belonged to Ma Chao, but they secretly married each other, waiting for an opportunity to avenge Wei Kang, but they had no chance.

It happened that Yang Fu's wife died, and Yang Fu told Ma Chao that he wanted to bury his wife back to his hometown, Ma Chao agreed, and Yang Fu took the opportunity to go out of the city.

Yang Fu arrived in Licheng, visited his aunt, Jiang Xu's mother, and told Jiang Xu's mother about the murder of Weikang and Jicheng, Yang Fu said, couldn't help grief, and cried for a long time.

Jiang Xu's whole family was brought into sorrow by Yang Fu.

Jiang Xu's mother said to her son, "Bo Yi (Jiang Xu's character), Wei Kang Taishou was killed, not only because of the shame of a state, but also because you didn't do a good job, and the responsibility is not only on Yang Fu." Don't think about me, how can anyone not die? Dying for the loyalty of the country is what those who do great things should do. You send troops as soon as possible, and I will block it for you, and it won't affect you. ”

So Jiang Xu's mother asked Jiang Xu to discuss with Yang Fu, and sent someone to inform fellow villagers Yin Feng, Zhao Ang and Anding Liang Kuan (all in Jicheng), etc., so that Jiang Xu raised troops first, and Ma Chao would definitely attack Jiang Xu under his anger, Yin Feng, Zhao Ang, Liang Kuan and others took advantage of Ma Chao to attack Jiang Xu and closed the city gate, so that Ma Chao was blocked outside the city, and Jicheng was also lost.

After the agreement, Jiang Xu marched into the army, and Zhao Ang, Liang Kuan and others guarded Qishan.

After Ma Chao heard about it, he really attacked Jiang Xu, and Liang Kuan took advantage of the organ to go to the gate of Jizhou, and Ma Chao lost Jicheng.

Ma Chao passed through the halo land, guarded by Jiang Xu, and Ma Chao made a detour to Licheng.

When Ma Chao arrived in Licheng, it was already nightfall, and the guard thought that Ma Chao had gone to Hanzhong, and when he saw an army, he shouted, "You are General Jiang's army?" ”

Ma Chao took over the words and said, "We are General Jiang's army, open the city gate and let us in." ”

The guards ordered the city gates to be opened and Ma Chao's army into the city.

Ma Chao entered the city, restrained the officers and soldiers guarding the door, and went straight to Jiang Xu's mansion, and then arrested Jiang Xu's mother.

Ma Chao didn't want to kill Jiang Xu's mother, he wanted to use his mother as a lure to earn Jiang Xu. He knew that Jiang Xu was a filial son, and if he tied his mother to the city tower and put the knife on his neck, he was not afraid that Jiang Xu would not get off his horse and surrender.

Jiang Xumu saw Ma Chao's trick, she wanted to provoke Ma Chao, so she scolded Ma Chao and said, "You rebel son who betrays his father and kills the king, heaven and earth will not let you live too long." You're not dead, what else do you look like?! ”

Ma Chao was indeed enraged and killed Jiang Xu's mother with a knife.

Later, Yang Fu fought with Ma Chao, "the body was wounded five times, and seven people died in the Kundi clan." ”

It wasn't until Xiahou Yuan's army arrived and defeated Ma Chao that Ma Chao almost rode to Hanzhong alone and went to Zhang Lu.

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Longyou was pacified, Cao Cao discussed the merits of the crusade against Ma Chao, and eleven marquis. Yang Fu was named the Marquis of Guannei.

Cao Cao said in a report to Emperor Xian of the Han Dynasty, "Jiang Xu's mother, persuade Xu to start early, wise Naer, although Yang Chang's wife can't cover this." Virtuous, virtuous! The record of good history will not fall to the ground. ”

Hao Jing, the author of "Continuation of the Later Han Book", "Spring and Autumn Biography", and "Zhou Yi Biography", wrote, "Jiang Xu's mother and Zhao Yu's wife used death to favor righteousness, and Qiya also knew Yan Xin Ruan, and he was also a philosopher who became a city." "Graceful lady, side by side with the gentleman. To soft and rigid, Tong Guan Wei Festival. ”

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From the whole process of this battle, it can also be seen that Jiang's mother has two different attitudes towards her son and nephew:

The old man first blamed his son Jiang Xu for Wei Kang's death, and then criticized his nephew Yang Fu's behavior against Ma Chao. In this way, for Jiang Xu, he is speechless, fair and just; For Yang Fu, there is nothing to refute, and there is reason and evidence.

Second, the nature is different, and perfunctory surrender cannot be compared.

Wei Kang was killed by Ma Chao, and Jiang Xu was nothing more than perfunctory Wei Kang for fear of Ma Chao's prestige, and the protection of the master was ineffective, so that Wei Kang died at the hands of Ma Chao.

For Yang Fu, Wei Kang's death is not only perfunctory, but also a betrayal of the master, surrendering Ma Chao is a betrayal of the old master Wei Kang, opposing Ma Chao is also a betrayal of the new master Ma Chao, betrayal is very despised by the world in a society that emphasizes the beginning of the end, together with his relatives and friends, and even humiliates the entire family, which is a stain that cannot be erased from everyone's life.

To this end, the different behaviors and different natures of sons and nephews are analyzed in detail, and they are taught according to their aptitude, so as to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Third, the methods are different, and blame and sarcasm cannot be confused.

Wei Kang's death, strictly speaking, really has nothing to do with Jiang Xu.

But in order to educate his nephew, Yang first blamed his son for Wei Kang's death and blamed his son. Yang Fu followed Wei Kang, and after Wei Kang was killed, he still surrendered to Ma Chao and served for Ma Chao.

Now, Yang Fu has joined forces with the old department of Weikang to rebel against Ma Chao. Yang Fu's surrender to Ma Chao was purely an expedient measure, waiting for an opportunity to oppose Ma Chao and avenge Wei Kang, after all, it was a betrayal of the old master again and again, and without knowing it, it was certainly a capricious villain's behavior.

Therefore, Yang's education method of his nephew Yang Fu is sarcastic, and it is more appropriate to use the word "loss" to describe it. For the son, a lesson is a trivial matter, and it is not to be blamed for imposing it; For his nephew, the lesson is a big thing, and he can only use ridicule to express his inner dissatisfaction.

Therefore, the object is different, and the role of oneself is also different, and the way of criticizing education is also different.

While blaming his son and sarcastically mocking his nephew, Yang was able to change his identity as a mother and aunt in a timely manner, and educate his son and nephew in different ways, so that he would appear just and fair, set an example, and have super educational significance.

Jiang Xu's mother, Yang, adopted two different sets of standards for her son and nephew in dealing with Wei Kang's death, demanding high standards for Jiang Xuyan and low standards for Yang Fu.

Deeply understand the general righteousness, refer to the general situation, and take the overall situation into account.

Jiang Xu's mother, Yang, an elderly woman, was not swayed by family affection when Jiang Xu's old boss Wei Kang was killed by Ma Chao, but understood the general situation, blamed her son for the overall situation, damaged her nephew, and encouraged her son to rebel against Ma Chao.

The old woman, although she is old and frail, cannot go into battle to kill the enemy, but in the face of loyalty, she still understands the general situation and takes the overall situation into account.