Originally, this chapter should have been posted yesterday, because I want to thank my Silver Alliance Leader.

I won't say anything extraneous, we're old friends, but I'm still very grateful to him, and I'm very happy to like my book.

So let's talk about my book, first of all, this book is realistic, and it is also my experience in the past few years since I was discharged from the army, and I want to write this chapter today to tell you about the recent story.

My editor chatted with me two days ago and talked about my book.

As I chatted, I found something very interesting, that is, I am a person who does things very planned, and I fail properly.

And doing things with an indifferent mood will often succeed.

As you all know, I wrote a book about the Dawning Army before writing this farmhouse.

The Dawning Army is actually the same book as this farmhouse, which is the background of daily plot and risk avoidance. As a result, in order to make the book more interesting, my editor and I worked together for nearly 4 months.

Eventually, huh.

I won't say much about the problems in the middle, there are many factors, and it is difficult to explain.

Later, I thought I might be more realistic, although it was possible to be 404, but I was good at this part, so I still extracted the realistic plot from the Dawn Resort, and then it was the farmhouse that everyone saw.

Of course, the farmhouse is my ultimate goal, and I'm still trying to get closer to it.

When the book was first released, an old reader came to me and said to me, 'Three hundred, the first three chapters of your farmhouse are good, much better than the one in the Dawning Army, how long have you been writing?' ’。

I'm too embarrassed to say, but I just wrote for half an hour.

The Dawning Army grinded for 4 months, and the farmhouse grinded for half an hour, which made me want to die at that time.

Why do I write these things in the first person today, in addition to telling you interesting facts about this book, but also why I wanted to write this book?

The beginning of the farmhouse was in 2016, and I wrote about being kicked out of my house at that time.

I write this because the timeline is clearer.

However, in fact, it was only in the past few months that I was really kicked out of the house.

My brothers in my book friends also know that I was kicked out of my house in the literal sense of the word about two months ago.

The reason why I was kicked out of the house, in fact, the book friends in the group know about it, but there are more new book friends recently, so I'll say it again.

The reason I was really kicked out of the house was because my parents didn't like my wife.

The reason is simple, my wife is older than me.

As for how old you are, I won't go into details here.

When I first met my wife, she had just fallen out of love. Before I met my wife, I never believed that it was love at first sight in this world, but the moment I met her, I began to believe it.

It was on that day that I decided that I was going to protect my wife for the rest of my life.

You can watch the process of my relationship with my wife, there is a detailed process in it, and I won't be verbose here.

Here, I will mainly talk about me and my dad.

The reason why I suddenly wanted to talk about this is because yesterday when I was at work, I met a mother and daughter on the street.

By the way, the girl's mother is in good shape, looks good, and looks more attractive than the little girl.

Okay, let's not talk about that, but the main thing is that yesterday that little girl had a sentence that touched my heart very much, and she said at the time, 'Why do you have to object to whatever I say?'

When I heard this sentence, I was very emotional, it turned out that parents in the world are almost the same.

When I was a kid, my dad was the same, and he was against whatever I did.

In fact, when I grew up, I could understand that my dad, as a member of the civil service, was very opposed to doing business. Since I was a child, he told me that doing business is not that simple, and I definitely can't do business.

But now that I'm older, I have another antidote to these words.

Don't consider the starting points of your parents, they say that these starting points must be good, which are all losses they have suffered, and they also want you to avoid detours.

However, people are different from person to person, and times are changing.

My parents' generation still thinks that state-owned enterprises, civil servants, and career editors are iron rice bowls.

But is that really the case? From the direction of the country in the past few years, we can see that state-owned enterprises, public institutions, and civil servants will definitely be reformed, and even in the future, even in state-owned enterprises, public institutions, and civil servants, if you don't work hard, you have no talent, and you will be eliminated. In this world, no one can spend the sun in a state of confusion.

In addition, people are also different from each other, and what is not suitable for our parents' generation may be suitable for us.

So I feel like as parents, they can tell us how hard and difficult these things are, but that shouldn't stop us from doing them. This road was blocked before you did it, maybe your child may be really talented, and it is very suitable for this road?

What's more, in this ever-changing world, it's always good to choose one more path.

Maybe some parents don't accept these words, they still think they are for the good of their children, but I want to say, you should fall on your heels, no one will be less.

Some people may have read my words and thought that I was counting down my parents.

So I'm going to talk to you about two things that I don't think my dad handled right.

The first thing was to kick me out of the house this time.

Over the years, sometimes I would feel that my dad was more headstrong than me, and many times my dad thought he was more like a son and I was more like a dad.

My dad is about to retire, but some things are really willful.

I didn't like my girlfriend, and then I didn't want to reconcile and just kicked me out of the door.

What is this solution? To scare me? He didn't think about it at all, I'm almost 30 years old, is it difficult for me to move out now? What's more, my wife and I are still two people.

I have a cousin who is the daughter of my father's brother, and my sister is still very supportive of me and my wife.

At the same time, she also felt that my dad had done something wrong, so she talked to my dad about it and told him that there was no point in kicking me out.

In exchange, my dad angrily beat my sister.

My grandparents couldn't see it either, and told my dad that getting married was my own business after all, and you could intervene, but you couldn't stop it. What's more, what's the point of kicking me out?

Because I don't like my daughter-in-law, I don't want a son, this logic seems a bit problematic, right?

However, my father's answer was that as long as I didn't listen to him, I would be a rebel, unfilial, and should die.

Then my grandfather looked at my dad and said, 'Then you don't listen to me, what?' Do you want to break off the father-son relationship with me? ’

And then I don't have a dad, and my dad doesn't have a dad anymore, hehe, willful.

A lot hard to believe, right? So let me tell you one more thing.

Anyone who has read my first two books knows that I broke a bone in the army.

And the time when I broke my bone happened to be the most chaotic period of our brigade

Why? As you know, at that time, our 558 was about to go to patrol Nansha.

At the same time, the brigade had two boats patrolling outside and did not return.

At that time, my fracture was also involved in a problem, that is, the conversion of the food supply relationship, at that time, my food supply relationship was not directly transferred to the brigade headquarters, but to the 516 ship next door to us.

I had a broken bone, so I don't know how they handed it over, maybe they were busy, so a lot of things didn't explain clearly, so there was a problem, I was lying in the health team, no one brought me food, and the health team didn't care about food, because my food relationship was in 516.

At this time, I had no choice but to tell my dad to pick me up, I hadn't eaten for three days.

As a result, my dad told me all afternoon about 'how sorry it is for me to accidentally break a bone and miss an important patrol mission in Nansha'.

I was blinded, Dad, I haven't eaten for three days, and my leg is broken, what are you doing with me? Are you kidding me?

As an adult, I wasn't that squeamish, and I was in the army at the time, so I could be considered to have exercised.

However, no matter how I explained it, my dad didn't believe that the army would really leave me alone.

Five days later, when I showed up in my brigade, when he looked at the empty health team and only cared about the staff officer of the brigade who was playing basketball, he believed me, this brigade, what a fuck.

Saying these things, it's not that I'm complaining about my parents now, in fact, I've always felt that children shouldn't blame their parents, after all, they gave birth to us and raised us.

But just because you don't complain doesn't mean you'll understand.

As the saying goes, knowing the son is better than the father. I don't know if my acting skills are really good, but my dad is really too confident, I was discharged from the army in 16 years and brought my wife to Shanghai, and without anyone's help, I found a store and settled my wife.

Writing, opening a store, going to work, and even my wife's ectopic pregnancy I carried it myself without letting my parents know.

However, I didn't deliberately hide it, and I wrote all these things in my novels.

In fact, as long as my dad looks at it, he will know what I have done in the past few years, but even so, he didn't even look at it.

Writing this, I suddenly felt very sorry, really sorry, I was sorry that my dad would not know me so well, and it is a pity that he didn't have a serious look at my achievements since I was a child.

In fact, I don't need him to prepare a wedding room for me, I don't need him to prepare a wedding and bride price for me, and I don't need him to arrange a life path for me.

All I want is his approval.

Unfortunately, in the end, I had to leave the house with my wife, and my dad still felt that he had nothing wrong with himself. Even if the whole family thinks he's wrong, some still feel they're right.

I have been verbose with you today, and I will officially resume the update tomorrow, and I will continue to talk to you about the bits and pieces I encountered on my entrepreneurial journey.