Cao Cao, the famous flowery prime minister in the Three Kingdoms, his wife and side room, according to "The Biography of Wei Zhi and the Queen" and "The Biography of the King of Wuwenshi", there are 15 candidates who can be examined, and they are:

Mrs. Ding, Cao Cao's original wife, turned against Cao Cao because of the death of her adopted son Cao Ang, and Cao Cao wanted to welcome him back but couldn't.

Mrs. Bian, the concubine of the original Cao Cao, was promoted to the main room after Cao Cao and Mrs. Ding divorced, and gave birth to Cao Pi (the founding emperor of Cao Wei), Cao Zhang, Cao Zhi, and Cao Xiong.

Mrs. Liu, Cao Cao's concubine, died of illness at an early age, and had two sons, Cao Ang and Cao Shuo (铄shuò), and a daughter, Princess Qinghe.

Mrs. Huan, Cao Cao's concubine, had three sons, Cao Chong, Cao Ju, and Cao Yu. said that he also had a daughter Cao Xian with his ex-husband Bian Rang.

Mrs. Du, Cao Cao's concubine. and her ex-husband Qin Yilu have a son Qin Lang. and Cao Cao had sons Cao Lin and Cao Roll (衮gǔ

), daughter Jinxiang Princess.

Mrs. Qin, Cao Cao's concubine, gave birth to Cao Xuan (玹xuà

), Cao Jun's second son.

Mrs. Yin, Cao Cao's concubine. and her ex-husband He Wei have a son He Yan (Yan ya

), and Cao Cao had a son.

Wang Zhaoyi, Cao Cao's concubine, Cao Gan's biological mother died early, and Cao Cao ordered her to raise her.

Sun Ji, Cao Cao's concubine, had three sons, Cao Shang, Cao Biao, and Cao Qin.

Li Ji, Cao Cao's concubine, had three sons, Cao Cheng, Cao Quan, and Cao Jing.

Zhou Ji, Cao Cao's concubine, gave birth to a son of Cao Jun.

Liu Ji, Cao Cao's concubine, gave birth to a son of Cao Thorn.

Song Ji, Cao Cao's concubine, gave birth to a son of Cao Hui.

Zhao Ji, Cao Cao's concubine, gave birth to a son of Cao Mao.

Concubine Chen, Cao Cao's concubine, gave birth to a son of Cao Gan.

According to the wild history, there is another one: Lai Ying'er, a famous prostitute in Luoyang in the Eastern Han Dynasty, and later fell in love with Cao Cao's guard Wang Tu.

- I admire Cao Cao for this: What's the matter, I don't seek the throne, but I have to arrange my life according to the emperor's specifications, how many women I have, you all give me a clear record! Don't be ambiguous, historians!

is not like Liu Bei's kid, who is secretive.

Actually, Sun Quan is also a bit pretending to be P, and he didn't tell the truth.

From this point of view, Cao Cao is very affectionate, at least honest, daring to act, and a man!

Cao Cao was a fool when he was young, he often fooled around with Yuan Shao, a son of a rich family, often eating, drinking and having fun outside, teasing little girls, and molesting young women.

Legend has it that once, the two traveled together, saw a large family doing a happy event, marrying a daughter-in-law, Cao Cao and Yuan Shao made a mistake, they took advantage of the night, sneaked into the house, quietly hid in the bushes outside the new house, peeped at the bride in the house.

Seeing that the groom in the house was about to approach the bride, Cao Cao shouted, "There are thieves, there are thieves!" ”

When the bridegroom of the house heard this, he ran out in haste and ran up into the house.

Cao Cao and Yuan Shao took the opportunity to run into the new house, put the knife on the bride's neck, carried her on her shoulders, and walked out.

When the people found out that the bride was missing, they went out with torches and screamed to look for them.

Cao Cao and Yuan Shao, the two boys, when they heard the situation of the main family, their hearts were also weak, they panicked, lost their way, and the bride on their shoulders also made a fuss, Yuan Shao panicked, and accidentally fell into an abandoned vegetable cellar with the bride, unable to move.

Cao Cao saw that he was not moving, and shouted in a low voice, asking him to climb up quickly, he just didn't move, he was in a hurry, and shouted loudly, "The thief is here!" ”

When Yuan Shao heard this, he didn't care about anything, got up, climbed out of the waste vegetable cellar with three twists and two drags, and limped away with Cao Cao.

If the master is not in a hurry and lets them succeed, what can they do? That's obvious.

This matter did not reach the ears of Cao Cao's father, and his father discussed it with his mother and said, don't talk about it, marry him a daughter-in-law. His mother skimmed his father and said, follow the roots, if you have a daughter-in-law, you will be honest!

In this way, when Cao Cao was fourteen or fifteen years old, his family was eager to marry him a daughter-in-law.

Some people say that Cao Cao's first marriage was eighteen years old.

Impossible, from the Eastern Han Dynasty to the Three Kingdoms period, the marriage age of men and women was fourteen or fifteen years old, and no matter how late it was, they basically belonged to the gang that couldn't afford to find a partner.

Cao Cao's family is a family of eunuchs, and his grandfather Cao Teng is a prominent eunuch in the Eastern Han Dynasty. Father Cao Song, official to the captain. To find a daughter-in-law for him, you have to find a daughter who is almost the same family, right? At that time, the most important thing was to pay attention to the right door.

I found the girl from the Ding family.

"Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms, Wei Ji, Emperor Wen II" said: In May Wuyin, the Son of Heaven ordered the king to posthumously honor the emperor's ancestor Taiwei and called the queen, and his wife Ding said the queen mother.

Here Mrs. Ding is Mrs. Ding of Taiwei Cao Song, that is, the mother of Cao Cao. Instead of Cao Cao's Lady Ding, based on the fact that Lady Cao Cao has the same surname as Cao Cao's mother, it can be inferred that Cao Cao's wife is likely to be Cao Cao's cousin and the daughter of Cao Cao's uncle.

Some people say that the Ding family is not rich - Cao Cao drove Mrs. Ding back to her parents' house, and later went to pick it up, Mrs. Ding is weaving, if it is a rich family, still use her own weaving?

Dude, don't you know, Mrs. Ding's work is not normal, it is because of weaving, to pass away the quiet time and space without her husband by her side.

Mrs. Ding and the Cao family are related, and the family background is also okay, Mrs. Ding went to the Cao family and also brought a maid to marry, that is, "Mrs. Liu".

During the Three Kingdoms period, it was such a door: often the main owner's stomach was deflated, and the "big girl in the room" was happy again and again.

This girl's surname is Liu, and not long after she married the young lady, she became pregnant with amenorrhea, became pregnant in October, and gave birth to a boy. The Cao family named him Cao Ang, which was Cao Cao's first son and eldest son.

Subsequently, a son and a daughter were born. The son's name is Cao Shuo (铄shuò), and the daughter is unknown in history, and they all call her Princess Qinghe.

Some people say that Mrs. Liu died early, shouldn't it, no matter how early, at least six years with Cao Cao - to have three children, not six years? And a six-year couple, in the Three Kingdoms period, is okay.

You must know that the average life expectancy during the Three Kingdoms period (208-280) was only 26 years, which was mentioned in Yi Zhongtian's "Three Kingdoms".

So six years, a quarter of the average life expectancy is still strong, is it not enough?

Mrs. Ding has no children herself, but she likes Liu Yasheng's three children very much, especially the eldest child Cao Ang, who likes it and can't do it.

Cao Ang has also been very well-behaved since he was a child, and it is rare to recruit people. In his freshman year, he showed the characteristics of being sociable, polite, and eager to learn. At a young age, he was promoted as filial piety for the state and county.

Filial piety is a subject set up by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty to appoint officials, and filial piety is the meaning of "filial piety to the elders, honesty and integrity". In later generations, the title of "filial piety" has also become the nickname of the Ming Dynasty and the Qing Dynasty.

It seems that this kid is very promising.

However, in the second year of Jian'an (197), Cao Cao took Cao Ang, Cao Pi and his nephew Cao Anmin to fight against Zhang Xiu in Wancheng, and Zhang Xiu surrendered without a fight. Cao Cao got carried away and got involved with Zhang Xiu's widow, let Zhang Xiu know, and was very unhappy, thinking that he had humiliated him.

Zhang Xiu took advantage of the night to make a surprise attack, Cao Cao fled, and Cao Ang, Cao Anmin and the general Dian Wei were all killed by the rebels.

At this time, Cao Ang's biological mother had died, and Mrs. Ding was her adoptive mother. She was greatly annoyed when she heard that Cao Ang had died in the war, especially because of Cao Cao's troubles and troubles, which had caused the death of her beloved adopted son Ang'er, and she often rebuked Cao Cao.

Cao Cao knew that he was wrong, so he endured it at first and didn't squeak, but later, Mrs. Ding scolded too much, and she couldn't bear it anymore, so she sent her back to her parents' house, wanting her to calm down and welcome her back in the future.

A few days later, Cao Cao went to pick you up, Mrs. Ding was weaving, and his family told him that Ah Pu had come to pick you up.

Mrs. Ding was unmoved and continued to weave as usual.

Cao Cao had no choice but to enter the weaving room, stand behind Madame Ding, and say, "Look back and see who I am?" ”

Mrs. Ding did not look back and continued to weave her own cloth.

Cao Cao said, "Come home with me, right?" ”

Mrs. Ding was still unmoved and continued to weave as usual.

Cao Cao felt very shameless.

You must know that at this time, he is already the eldest brother among the ministers, and he has coerced the Son of Heaven to order the princes, who dares to disobey him? Seeing Mrs. Ding treat him like this, he turned his head and walked out. Cao Cao was about to leave, walked outside, and asked, "Is it really not good?" Still no response.

Cao Cao said, "This is really a farewell." ”

So he officially divorced her.

Cao Cao still has primitive feelings for Mrs. Ding, and is very concerned about her life in the second half of her life, and once ordered the Ding family to remarry her.

The Ding family was afraid of annoying Cao Cao, but they responded but did not act, and Mrs. Ding was unwilling to remarry.

In the past, Mrs. Ding was the main family, and she had an adopted son, Cao Ang, who had a bad attitude towards Mrs. Bian and her children.

When Mrs. Bian became the queen in the twenty-fourth year of Jian'an (219), regardless of the old grievances, when Cao Cao went out, she often gave things to Mrs. Ding several times, and sent people to greet her secretly.

Mrs. Ding apologized and said, "It's just a deposed person, why should Madame be like this?" ”

Soon after Mrs. Ding died, Mrs. Bian asked Cao Cao to bury her, and she was allowed, so she was buried in the south of Xu Cheng.

When Cao Cao died, he felt very sorry for Cao Ang - a man is about to die, and his words are also good.