Chapter 501: Parents should grow up with their children
Lowering his head and looking at it thoughtfully, the little guy whose eyes were still rolling around saw that after the little guy heard what he said, his face gradually showed a big smile!
"Oh yes! It's finally time to hang out! ”
immediately ran over and hugged Xiao Changxiu and Qin E's thighs: "Dad, mother, Xiaoli can finally go out to play!" Xiaoli is really happy! ”
"Okay, okay, got it, don't shout so loudly, don't always chirp like this!"
Xiao Changxiu looked at this little guy who was a little too elated, and even a little carried away, and couldn't help but open his mouth to teach a lesson, but was signaled by Qin E's eyes and gently patted Xiao Changxiu's wrist.
"Now Xiao Li is happy, why do you say that? Don't ruin people's fun! Don't forget, the eldest princess reminded us just now, disciplining children is not leading soldiers to fight, why are you so strict? ”
Qin E shook her head at Xiao Changxiu as she spoke, as if looking at Xiao Changxiu as if he was a hopeless person.
Xiao Changxiu touched the back of his head helplessly, what's the matter, just say a few words like this, is it already very strict? You must know that when I was disciplined by the family, I didn't dare to do anything beyond the norm, and I didn't dare to mention anything on weekdays, so I could only follow the rules!
In comparison, this little guy is happy enough, okay?
But now, everyone feels that they are too strict and harsh on the little guy, which really makes Xiao Changxiu a little difficult!
Forget it, let them go, anyway, what will become of this little guy in the future depends on his own creation, no matter how much others say and discipline, after all, it is just some external factors!
What kind of person a person will become depends on what kind of heart he has in the end!
Xiao Changxiu thought so, and gradually relaxed his heart, keeping up with the pace of everyone, Xiao Changxiu was indeed busy some time ago, today taking advantage of this season, go out shopping with everyone, and see the lively scene outside, which can be regarded as a kind of relaxation!
"Hey." Qin E and Xiao Changxiu walked side by side, and suddenly poked Xiao Changxiu's wrist lightly with her arm, "Wait a minute, you remember not to be fierce anymore, okay?" Today's little guy is finally so happy, and the eldest princess and the king are still there, don't always say that kind of person spoils the fun! ”
"Yes, yes, I listen to my wife! Xiao Changxiu didn't dare to have the slightest disobedience! ”
Listening to Qin E's thousands of instructions, as if he was afraid that he was going crazy, Xiao Changxiu couldn't help but smile bitterly.
Could it be that in the eyes of everyone, including his closest daughter-in-law, he is such a selfless cold-faced man? Sighing helplessly, Xiao Changxiu also thought in his heart, he should really find a way to change this image, otherwise when people mention his name, they will think of his fierce face, which is indeed a little too wronged!
He's not that fierce at all!
Xiao Changxiu thoughtfully touched his thin and resolute cheeks on both sides, and pouted helplessly.
The little guy is running in front of him, and his little fleshy face is full of smiles, which is the purest innocence and immaturity of children.
When the little guy arrived on the street, he stopped and walked for a while, looked east and west, and saw what he wanted to eat, so he took Qin E's hand and pointed to his favorite object: "Mother, Xiaoli wants this ......"
Qin E could only bow her head and smile every time, and then walked over to pay, looking at the little guy holding her beloved things in her hands, as if she had won the whole world, Qin E could only smile.
Sure enough, people are the most innocent when they are children, and they will be very happy when they eat a bite of delicious food and see something fun. On the contrary, it seems that it is difficult for them, who have grown up, to feel happy because of these trivial things.
Qin E couldn't help but feel a little emotional, and could only silently bless this little guy in her heart, she could have more happy time, and she could maintain her innocence and kindness as always.
"Changxiu, you said, when you were young before, would it be the same as Xiaoli is now?" Qin E said thoughtfully, this little guy is getting bigger and bigger, and his eyebrows seem to be carved out of Xiao Changxiu's body one to one, one mold and one look!
However, this little guy's personality has inherited more from Qin E, the elves are eccentric, dare to love and hate, but they are also not afraid of heaven and earth!
"Me? I don't remember much when I was younger, and I don't remember any such carefree time! However, since I can remember, my parents have been very strict with me, I have to get up early every day, practice calligraphy, practice martial arts, and my whole day's schedule is full, if I can't finish it on time, my father will not let me eat! ”
Xiao Changxiu said and recalled the past, and his eyes gradually drifted into the distance, but thinking of his father's harsh criticism of him, Xiao Changxiu did not have resentment or remorse in his heart, but was extremely grateful to his father for being strict with him at that time.
If it weren't for his father's strict requirements for himself, how could he lead a young man to become a talent, and how could he get to this point?
On the contrary, it was my father's harsh criticism that made me who I am today!
Xiao Changxiu naturally has the same expectation of Jackie Chan for his own flesh and blood, although sometimes he may seem a little harsh in the eyes of others, after all, Xiaoli is only three years old now.
However, this is also what Xiao Changxiu experienced before, Xiao Changxiu also believes in his own flesh and blood, and can face it as strong and brave as himself!
Qin E listened to Xiao Changxiu say this, and also fell into deep thought: "So, do you think that Xiaoli should also be like you?" ”
Xiao Changxiu's thoughts were said by Qin E, although he didn't say it on the surface, and he didn't reply immediately, but Xiao Changxiu hesitated for a moment, and he had already told Qin E the answer.
"In fact, every child has a different path, and every child has his own choice...... Although Xiaoli is still very young, he is very assertive, and I believe that sometimes those of us who are parents impose on him will make him unhappy. ”
Qin E smiled slightly, looking into the distance with a long gaze. That is, when listening to the conversation between the little guy and Xiao Changxiu just now, Qin E figured out this truth.
"However, what we parents hope most is that our children can grow up safely and healthily, and don't we just hope that our children can be happy?"