If you want to be popular, you can take it off, and if you want to be famous, you can take it off in the director's bed.

What are the "unspoken rules"?

"Unspoken rules" are relative to "meta-rules" and "explicit rules". As the name suggests, it is a rule that is invisible, unprescribed, conventional, but widely agreed, actually works, and people must "follow". Mr. Wu Si, who coined the concept of "unspoken rules", said that the so-called "unspoken rules" are "rules hidden under formal rules, but in fact they govern the operation of Chinese society".

The "unspoken rules" are neither open nor transparent, nor will they be the content of its "rules"? Knowing others, however, the content of its "rules" everyone understands, it is more powerful than the rules and regulations clearly stipulated, and more severe, people are silently abiding by it, tacitly maintaining it, and whoever does not follow this "rule", who will be excluded and punished by this "rule", the "unspoken rule" is very "lethal", therefore, the average person is very "afraid" of this "unspoken rule", and restrain each other, however, you must learn it, "respect" it, and implement it. Otherwise, you won't be able to enter the "circle" you want to enter at all, and even if you do, you will find that you can't survive, you can't be recognized by this circle, and you will soon be abandoned by this "circle".

Generally speaking, in areas where "unspoken rules" prevail, the rules and regulations ("meta-rules" and "explicit rules") stipulated in the explicit rules and regulations are a kind of ornament in the system.

Nowadays, "unspoken rules" are popular in society

Nowadays, "unspoken rules" are popular in society, and it can even be said that they have penetrated into all aspects of society, and they can be seen everywhere and everywhere.

For example, in the entertainment industry, the "unspoken rule" of "going to bed first, then playing" has been popular for actresses in this circle for many years. Young actresses who want to become famous as soon as possible often have to pay a price other than their "acting skills", and the investor bosses and directors in the entertainment industry have the power to become famous actors or not, and they have no scruples about doing whatever they want, and scandals in the literary and artistic circles often arise from this.

In the football circle, the Chinese people have been angry about the shady scenes and black whistles in the football circle for many years, but in the end it only exposed the case of Gong Jianping blowing a ball in the first B and taking tens of thousands of yuan. Is the "black whistle" just Gong Jianping? Where is its "main battlefield"? Some FA leaders know, but they won't tell you; The owner of the club knows, but he won't tell you; The coaches of the football team know, but he won't tell you; The big player knows, but he won't tell you...... Why? Because this is the lap? An "unspoken rule" that must be followed.

Education. In order to "pass" the test results, 300 college students from a university in Heilongjiang Province were asked to collect 50 yuan each and give it to Yu, a teacher of the "dialectics of nature." After receiving the money, Yu took advantage of his position to ask the marking teacher to increase the scores of the students, so that all the students who sent money passed the grades. The fact that 300 students paid such a large amount of bribes to their own teachers is probably unique in the history of Chinese education. In this process, there seems to be some kind of tacit understanding between the teacher and the student. The giver does not feel improper, the recipient does not feel ashamed, and the student's delivery is tacit with the teacher's reception. It's all about acting according to this "rule". Bribery would have been a very good thing. But here, it has become a kind of "rule" that many students generally recognize.

Government Agencies: Due to the lack of institutional norms and weak institutional awareness for a long time, what should be done to increase income? We can only rely on the so-called "income generation" of our own departments, rely on the power in our hands to set up corresponding "policies", and rely on "small gold", although everyone feels that it is a bit excessive, not very legal, and even a little illegal, but everyone recognizes, acquiesces, and even actively implements it. "Red envelopes", and at the same time stop offering "bad rules" and "common practices" to superiors. However, this was an unhealthy trend in the officialdom at that time, and "bad rules" and "common practices" had already become the lubricant for the operation of power.

The above are just individual examples of some sectors, a field, a circle? There are many "unspoken rules" than "sea". Today's "unspoken rules" have indeed penetrated into all areas of society.

Why is the "rule" in "unspoken rules" "uncovered"?

Why should the "rules" in "unspoken rules" be expressed by "unspoken"? This itself is a kind of "unspoken rule", and the reason for this is that this kind of "rule" is hidden under the table, hidden behind the Iron Curtain, very dark, very dark, very unbright, very immoral, and very ugly, although it cannot be put on the table, cannot be seen publicly, and can just affect the direction and final result of the development of the "game", so the final "winner" of the "game" is not the person who follows the "meta-rules", but those who are handy with the "unspoken rules". For example, in the entertainment industry, "flesh red envelopes"?? Sex Trafficking"?? It's an "unspoken rule", do pretty women want to be stars? Then you have to sacrifice your chastity, why? Because the power of whether you can become a star or not is in the hands of directors and producers who have "a little stone into a 'star'". Therefore, the old artist Bai Yunqin said very plainly: "If you want to be popular in the entertainment industry, you must be willing to 'practice it', the most important thing is to be willing to sacrifice your body, be willing to sleep with others, and sleep with others." Think about it, can such a "rule" make it public? Binghe "dives" it, this is the mystery of the "unspoken rules"!

Who made the "rules" in the "unspoken rules"?

Essentially, these "unspoken rules" are generally unclear and unspeakable. Who made the "rules" in the "unspoken rules"? According to what rules are these "rules" made? No one can tell, no one can say clearly. However, one thing is absolutely clear, that is, its formulation and implementation are all around the word "interests", all around the word "money", its interest tendency is very obvious, whoever does things according to its rules, who will profit, will get benefits, moreover, the "unspoken rules" of the final benefit of the people are some circles? The "leading boss-style figures" are some powerful figures, and the beneficiaries of the "unspoken rules" are not not one or two people, but a group of people, a group of people, and a layer of people (of course, the benefits are "distributed" according to the size of people's abilities). Therefore, this group of people, this group of people, and this layer of people are not only the formulators and defenders of the "unspoken rules", but also the "vested interests" of the "unspoken rules".

"Right to lawful harm" in the "unspoken rules"

Mr. Wu Si proposed the concept of "legitimate right to harm" in the book "Unspoken Rules: Real Games in Chinese History". It's a very good, wonderful, very high concept.

There are two questions that must be clarified in this "right to lawful harm": First, who is going to enforce this "lawful harm"? Second, who is the bearer of this "legitimate injury"? The former is the "vested interest gainer" in the "unspoken rules", there are two parts of people, one part is the "leading boss-style character", and the other part is a group of people who "share the interests of the 'unspoken rules', and the two will automatically form a bright and dark, consciously to maintain this "unspoken rules" evil force, this force is very powerful, invisible but let you feel it; The latter are the "breakers" (that is, the so-called "reformers" and "innovators") who try to break the "unspoken rules", they cannot tolerate the existence of the "unspoken rules", believing that as long as it exists, society will not be able to progress and develop, so as long as possible, they must find ways to destroy and transform this "unspoken rules". Therefore, once the "leading boss-style characters" and the "group of people who share the benefits of the 'unspoken rules'" find out that anyone does not follow or finds the existence of "breakers" who try to break the "unspoken rules", they will take various measures to make "them" feel uncomfortable and make them unable to survive in this circle. If this "they" still "don't know each other", and they still dare to compete with the "unspoken rules" or break this "unspoken rules", then they will create a certain "incident" to "embarras" you, and even ruin your reputation.

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