"Good officer, why don't you know what's at stake?" Wu Qiaoer's worries are naturally justified, and the reason is also very correct.

Gan Qi sighed, some things still have to be faced after all, where is it so simple to have three wives and four concubines? Even in a patriarchal society, things between men and women still have their most basic etiquette and morals.

The Song Dynasty was an open society, women's rights were not so low, and everyone had basic mutual respect. The term divorce is not unique to later generations, divorce in the modern sense has appeared since the beginning of the Jin Dynasty, that is, both men and women have the right to divorce.

Li Qingzhao's second marriage was the woman's divorce on her own initiative, although Li Qingzhao almost faced prison because of the divorce, but Li Qingzhao successfully divorced himself in this era.

Of course, women's rights should be divided into three, six, nine and so on, which has something to do with household registration, and only good families have rights, and women with low nationality do not have these things.

Therefore, the daughters of those big families in the Song Dynasty, although the rights they have are much worse than those of women in later generations, but they are not a lot.

On the point of equal rights between men and women, the Tang and Song dynasties were almost the pinnacle of ancient times, and the Tang Dynasty was even worse, women cheating was a common thing, and there were no great consequences, in the ancient patriarchal society, this phenomenon was extremely rare, and there were many men who were afraid of their wives in the Tang Dynasty, and even the word jealousy originated from the Tang Dynasty. It was much worse in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, but it was actually a regression.

The overall social atmosphere in all aspects of the Tang and Song dynasties was extremely open. Therefore, in the matter of marriage, the woman's weight is very large. It should also be said that China has been monogamous since ancient times, three wives and four concubines are just common names, and Chinese have never had one wife. The issue of women's rights just mentioned only talks about the identity of the wife.

As for the identity of the so-called "flat wife", in fact, it was not a word that appeared until the middle and late Qing Dynasty, and this word does not refer to a wife, but a woman who has been away from home for a long time and is looking for a woman in other places. The flat wife of the Qing Dynasty is just a title, more like a man invented words to please the third lover.

In monogamous China, if a man wants to divorce his wife, it is not a simple matter, unless the wife really has any major problems that violate the norms and laws, otherwise divorce is impossible. This is especially true for literati or officials, abandoning the wretched wife who has no problem, once discovered, this is a moral mistake, and the officials will masturbate you.

In the monogamous system, except for the wife, other women are all property, which is 108,000 miles worse than the wife, and it cannot be compared at all. Even the emperor is like this, what kind of palace fighting drama, it's all nonsense, in the harem, the queen is the absolute authority, and other people can fight each other, fight with the queen, let you die today, and you won't live tomorrow morning. In fact, in reality, the referee of the harem battle is not the emperor at all, but the queen, the queen is the referee, and the other people are fighting in the palace, it is not for the emperor to see, the emperor can't see it at all, he can only fight for the queen.

Gong Dou is not a queen's business, and it is not even a woman's business. Gong Dou is actually a man's business, and it is the throne that fights. Those princes are not fighting in the palace, but outside the palace. Because the adult prince is difficult to enter the harem at all, and when he enters the palace to see his mother, he must be approved, not if he wants to enter, before dark, he must come out, and it is impossible to stay overnight.

A concubine, rolling her eyes, throwing her face, and mocking the queen? A slap to 108,000 miles, what? Do you dare to fight back? Hit the queen? I'm afraid that I don't know what etiquette is, and I don't know the consequences of violating etiquette, which is the same nature as my son beating his father. Not to mention that the son beat his father, scolded his father, rolled his eyes and shook his face, and mocked and ridiculed his father, it was all nonsense. What else does a concubine have to fight with the queen, the queen doesn't have to do anything, she can slap you ten times a day, and she can slap you to death.

Before the Tang and Song dynasties, things in palace fighting dramas were still more likely to happen, and after the Tang and Song dynasties, to the Ming and Qing dynasties, there was no need to think about it. The palace fight before the Song Dynasty, the consequences were also very scary, and this kind of thing was the consequence of provoking the queen. From the beginning of the Tang and Song dynasties to the Ming and Qing dynasties, the status of the queen is beyond doubt.

Therefore, China does not have three wives and four concubines, only monogamy.

The importance of a wife is self-evident.

said a thousand things and ten thousand, Wu Qiaoer's anger and worry at this time, at this point, that is, Gan Qi did not pay enough attention to the matter of marrying a wife.

Gan Qi actually didn't immediately want to redeem Zhang Shuyuan and buy him home, but someone did it for him.

Gan Qiwei stepped forward and pulled Wu Qiao'er and said, "Sister Qiao'er, I know what you are worried about, you really don't have to worry about marrying a wife, I have my own plans." ”

Wu Qiao'er followed Gan Qi into the study, but Zhang Shuyuan on the side also took the initiative to pour tea for Wu Qiao'er, standing aside cautiously, this kind of thing, she was expected, born like this, in this case, she can only be obedient, and she is not even qualified to speak, I only hope that her Gan Lang can feel a little distressed.

Wu Qiao'er didn't drink the cup of tea, but said: "Good official, now that the situation is like this, I'm afraid that everyone already knows it, what else can I care?" Which family will be willing to marry your precious daughter to you! Which family's daughter is willing to marry you? ”

Wu Qiao'er felt a little like a dead heart, this kind of big thing, she didn't take care of it, she didn't even have the face to die, how to see Gan Qi's serious father when she died?

Gan Qi looked at Wu Qiao'er's dead appearance, and said, "Sister Qiao'er, there are people who are willing to marry me." ”

"How could anyone want to? With such an identity as a good official, do you want to marry a woman who is illiterate and ignorant of family education? Wu Qiao'er was crying and wiped her tears.

Alas, in the era of three wives and four concubines, in the era of male supremacy, why is it so difficult? Gan Qi thought so, and replied: "Sister Qiao'er, don't worry, the daughter of the Wangfu family of Runan County is willing to marry me, just wait for me to invite someone to propose." ”

When this sentence was spoken, where would Wu Qiaoer believe it, and when she looked up, she asked: "Is this true?" Didn't you make it up to trick me? What kind of door is the palace? If it was the head, it was still credible, but now it ...... How is it possible now! Then how could the old prince marry his daughter into our family? ”

Wu Qiao'er asked questions again and again, and Gan Qi couldn't help but think a little more in his heart, but he didn't pay attention to it, and after thinking about it again, he suddenly felt that something was wrong with the problem.

What's wrong?

Zhao Xiaomei bought Zhang and gave it to Gan Qi, didn't Zhao Xiaomei plan this matter a long time ago? The purpose is to make Gan Qi unable to marry a wife?

Zhao Xiaomei is very smart, and there is really this possibility.

Thinking of this, Gan Qi smiled dumbly, he was afraid that he was really calculated by a little girl's family!

This kind of thing was calculated, Gan Qi was not angry, but laughed to himself, and said: "Good intentions, really a strange woman!" Inexplicably, he fell on the road. ”

The reason why Gan Qi is not angry is probably because Gan Qi has a very good impression of that Zhao Xiaomei, if he doesn't have a good impression, I'm afraid that Gan Qi will be so angry that he will slap the table at this time.

Men chase women in every possible way, and Gan Qi has seen a lot. It's the first time I've seen such a smart man chasing a man.

Clever woman, Gan Qi likes it, so Gan Qi can laugh. Nothing makes Gan Qi happier than marrying a very smart wife. A smart and good wife is the greatest wealth for a man, whether it is career or family, it is a huge help. Among the various cases, I don't know how many capable men have ruined the body of a stupid wife.

This is probably the so-called one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer.

"You're still laughing, can you still laugh?" Wu Qiao'er puffed out her face, huffing and puffing, almost wanting to die.

Gan Qi smiled, got up and raised his hand: "Let's go, Sister Qiao'er, let's go into the city to buy gifts, invite someone to say goodbye, and go to talk about the girl of the Wangfu family." ”

"Good officer, aren't you crazy? You...... You don't pull me, I'm ...... If I don't go, I'll die...... I'm going to see my uncle......"

"My father doesn't want to see you at this time, when my father is dying, he can ask you to look at me for the rest of my life, this life is still long, let's go and marry the daughter of the royal family, and we will definitely marry back." Gan Qi grabbed Wu Qiao'er's hand and walked out while laughing.

"Good officer, you can't really lose your mind and go crazy, I ...... I just said those ugly words just now, you can't be really stupid......" Vixen Wu Qiao'er, while being pulled out by Gan Qi, was really worried, worried about whether Gan Qi was stupid by himself, and had to go to the palace to say goodbye.

Gan Ba, who had been hiding at the door and eavesdropping, saw Gan Qi come out, and hurriedly took a few steps back: "Big brother, I'm ...... My mother told me to go home for dinner, and I left first. ”

"Don't go, go get a car." Ganchi was in a good mood.

"Big brother, set of cars? Big brother, you don't really want to bury me, do you? "Wronged Ganba, wronged Baba.

"Burial of what you want, follow me into the city."

"Oh, go into the city, that's okay, you can't bury people in the city, I'll go and set up a car." Gan Ba galloped away.

The frame rushed again, and Wu Qiaoer, who was crying and chirping, was pulled into the car by Gan Qi.

There was also Zhang Shuyuan at the door, slightly relieved, and watched the frame go away.

Xiao Chunxi stood aside, her face was still panicked, and she could hear Zhang Shuyuan's comforting words: "Chunxi, we are the sad people and the lucky people, as long as Gan Lang treats me well, it is lucky." ”

Chunxi nodded and replied, "Well, Mr. is the best." That Sister Qiao'er ......"

"That sister is also a good person. Later, you will understand that everything she does is only for Mr. Gan's good. Zhang Shuyuan said.

Chunxi looked at Zhang Shuyuan, seemed to understand or not, and said, "Sister, you are the best." ”

Zhang Shuyuan smiled a little, slowly turned around, closed the door, entered the study, and tidied up the messy desk for Gan Qi.