"You mean, you want to propose to the Blue Maiden?" After listening to his friend's words, Chi Fei asked in surprise.

Jian Shuqi scratched his nose slightly embarrassed and said, "Yes, what do you think?" ”

"Honestly, I think the likelihood of her rejection will be high."

"Why? Could it be that she already has someone she likes? Jian Shuqi asked anxiously.

"As far as I know, there shouldn't be. The reason why I say this is because in the past few years, several large families have wanted to propose marriage to her, but she has refused.

I once asked her why, and she seemed to want to follow the example of my wife's personal guard, Red Shadow, and didn't plan to get married. ”

"Why? Is it because of the previous divorce? ”

There may be some of this, but the main reason is that she doesn't want to give up her status as a healer.

Once married, she could no longer go out to help people treat diseases and practice medicine as before, and could only be confined to her husband and children at home like an ordinary woman.

She didn't want to live like that, so she rejected other people's proposals.

She also wants to be like Red Shadow, adopt a few orphan girls as disciples, and pass on her medical skills.

Judging by her appearance, she really doesn't plan to get married. ”

She ......" Jian Shuqi really didn't know what to say for a while, but felt heavy in his heart.

Chi Fei sighed and said, "To be honest, I also hope that Miss Lan can have a happy family, but since this is her decision, I don't want to interfere with it." ”

"Is it true that there is no room for manoeuvre at all?"

"It's not that it's nothing, it's just that it's harder."

"Tell me about it." Jian Shuqi suddenly perked up.

"Since you have read the two books "Medical Fate" and "Counting the Lady", and you know that she is the author herself, you should be able to see that Miss Lan has a longing for the love between men and women, in fact, deep in her heart, and she is not completely indifferent.

But between the two identities of a doctor and a wife, she resolutely chose the former.

Coupled with the fact that she was divorced in her early years, she seems to have a deep shadow in her heart about marrying.

Her mentality can be described by the term 'fear of marriage', that is, she is full of panic and fear of marriage.

She feared that once she got married, she would be imprisoned at home like a caged bird.

I can't do what I want, and I can't go out as much as I used to.

She is different from Red Shadow, who rejects and hates men from the bottom of her heart, so she chooses to be celibate.

And she didn't want to marry because she was afraid of marriage.

As long as she dispels her worries and accepts the other person's words from the heart, it is very likely to win her heart.

But this is easier said than done.

First of all, the husband himself and his family must be able to accept her as a healer and be willing to let her go out to practice medicine after marriage.

This is the most important and crucial point. If that's not even acceptable, then there's no need to talk about it.

This alone has already made most families retreat.

Because the elders of few families can accept that the daughter-in-law of the family does not stay at home to preside over the feed, but runs out all day long to treat people.

The status of a skilled female doctor is a good reputation before marriage, but it is not necessarily after marriage.

Just as the identity of a talented woman is a good thing that can add fame to a woman before marriage, but few elders can accept that after entering the door, the daughter-in-law still recites poems all day long and ignores housework, the reason is the same.

Secondly, because Miss Lan is full of panic and fear about marriage, she needs the man to slowly familiarize herself with and have a good impression through daily contact and communication.

When both of them have the will, it will be considered a matter of course.

Miss Lan's parents are dead, there is only one brother in her hometown, and she has come to Jiujiang and has almost cut off contact with her hometown, so she is in charge of the marriage alone.

If she doesn't want to, no one can force her.

She is just like you, she is my friend in trouble, and I will never allow others to embarrass her.

I advise Brother Jane to think carefully before deciding, especially whether you can accept your wife's continued medical practice after marriage.

You are all my best friends, and I don't want you to regret or even resent. That's what I suggest. ”

"I see, I'll go back and think about it. Thank you, Ah Zhen. Jian Shuqi knew that his friend was telling the truth, and nodded seriously.

……………………

"It would be nice if Miss Lan and Brother Jane could be a couple, they are all so good, and they are good friends of your brother." After listening to Chi Fei's story, Ah Zhi, who was in confinement, said with feeling.

"I hope so, too. But the matter of marriage depends not only on fate, but also on how the parties make choices and trade-offs.

As outsiders, we are actually very limited in what we can help.

And Miss Lan's situation is quite special, I hope that Brother Jian will think carefully before deciding, so as not to make a real couple in the future, which will be boring. ”

"That's just as well."

Speaking of this, Ah Zhi suddenly said with a sweet face: "The marriage is indeed wonderful.

As the second daughter of the Guogong Mansion, I thought that I would marry a child of a family with a similar family background like my sister, and live some days of serving my in-laws, treating concubines, and being careful every step of the way.

As a result, I never expected that I would be able to marry my brother and give birth to a pair of children for you.

I—I'm really glad. ”

Although she has children, when she confesses to her sweetheart, Ah Zhi still feels shy.

Chi Fei hugged her body and said, "I'm also very lucky to be able to marry A Zhi."

Although those two little guys are our flesh and blood, Ah Zhi, don't forget, your primary identity is my wife, don't throw me aside when you have children, I can't stand being left out. ”

Chi Fei knows that many women in modern times will focus on their children after giving birth, and their husbands have directly become a dispensable tool. He didn't want to be dependent on his little wife all the time.

Hearing his obvious statement that he was jealous of the two children, Ah Zhi felt both funny and sweet, and couldn't help but put her face on his chest and said with a sullen smile: "No, my brother is the most important thing in my heart, and no one can compare to it." ”

"That's what you said, don't forget."

"Well, hee......" Zhi couldn't help but laugh.

It was the first time she had seen such a childish side of her sweetheart, and she thought it was so interesting.

Thinking of the letter he received yesterday, Chi Fei said to Ah Zhi: "My father-in-law said in the letter that he wanted to name his son's name Su Sheng, what do you think?" ”

"Su Sheng? It's a good name, it's easy to remember, it's good. "Ah Zhi is worthy of Ning Zhiyuan's own daughter, and even her taste is almost the same.

Chi Fei smiled: "My mother-in-law thinks this name is too straightforward, and she wants us to give the child a more elegant name."

It is said that the names of your brothers and sisters were given by your mother-in-law back then. She didn't think her father-in-law's name was good, so she told us not to listen to him.

I don't care, it's okay if my son is called Su Sheng, anyway, it's a boy, don't worry too much.

But the daughter's name can't be so straightforward, it's better to be elegant. ”

Ah Zhi thought for a while, and suddenly said on a whim: "Then how about putting our surnames together as the daughter's name?"

It's also nice to be called Suning, and it's a girl's name when you hear it. ”

"No, it can't be called by that name." Chi Fei refused with a black line on his face.

Although no one but him knew the meaning of the name, he didn't want his precious daughter to advertise for someone else.

In the end, after discussion, the two decided that their son would be called Su Sheng and their daughter would be called Su Yan.

Yan refers to the beautiful jade that has been carved and decorated.

The name implies the couple's expectation and cherishing of their daughter.

Judging from the solemnity of the names of the two children, it has basically laid the tradition of the Su family's preference for women over men in the future.