Chapter 1893: I can't be biased
Chen Xi did have some complicated feelings when he came out of the edict, and it was not uncommon in this era to use his life to find a way for the family, but Chen Xi like the Yang family always felt a little disappointed. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
Originally, in addition to the food given by the emperor to the ministers, there was actually a family banquet after the court meeting, but unfortunately now the royal family surnamed Liu is also withered, and the eldest princess is the regent, and many things have undergone some small changes.
To put it simply, it was originally a meal for the old ministers, and Chen Xi had to go with him, so after seeing Yuan Shu and Yang Biao in the edict, Chen Xi restrained his emotions and drove to the palace again.
At this time, Weiyang Palace was already brightly lit, and countless maids shuttled between them, and this time the etiquette was much more relaxed than other times, after all, this occasion was about the pleasure of monarchs and ministers.
Those who don't have it, basically don't pay much attention to it, as long as you don't get drunk and flirt with the emperor's concubines, or get drunk and flirt with the emperor, or even pounce on the emperor, generally speaking, it's fine.
It is said that if the emperor is drunk and molests the emperor's concubines, if the emperor is enlightened, sometimes he laughs it off, and if he teases the emperor, cough cough, if the emperor is also drunk, he may also be teased, as for the emperor, it's best not to do it.
But there is no emperor this year, only the eldest princess regent, naturally there are no concubines to tease, of course, whether the eldest princess can flirt or not, it really depends on the appearance, after all, Liu Tong's fuss about marrying is also widely spread, well, Sun Ce actually went up.
In short, this link is a happy one, a link of patting the emperor's ass, what's the interesting thing, the fun can go up, anyway, don't say those words that make everyone unhappy, as long as you don't die in this link, there will be no rudeness in front of the king.
"How, are you still used to it?" After Liu Bei and Jia Xu questioned Chen Xi one after another, Chen Ji also appeared in front of Chen Xi and asked.
"It's fine." Chen Xi nodded, on this occasion, Chen Xi was invited to drink a lot, there was no way to eat with the rice after all, how could he not come and be familiar.
"For the sake of the old Chen family." A smile appeared on Chen Ji's face and said, "What does it feel like to be tossed by the Yang family." ”
"It's just an annoyance." Chen Xi drank all the wine, sighed and said, "If there are no things behind, it is very easy for me to deal with them, but unfortunately knowing those things, if I have to deal with them ruthlessly, I will not be able to get over the hurdle in my heart." ”
"This kind of thing is all for my own family, and I get used to it when I see more, isn't Ciming still calculating for the family when he was dying." Chen Ji said very calmly, "These things are not a matter of right or wrong, good or evil, but relatives are distant and close, and the descendants are inherited." ”
"It's hard for you to come and explain this to me." Chen Xi nodded and said.
"Actually, Zichuan, you have to do that if you use a person, then even if that person does it wrong for the first time, you need to help him carry it, and you also need to be close to each other." Seeing Chen Xi nodding, Chen Ji sighed and said.
"It's good to treat everyone equally, but it will damage your prestige, you are human, you can't do it to the level of a god, you understand a lot of things, but you are trying to get as much as possible towards the impossible things, you also know that the best way to maintain a relationship is affection, interests and ideals, but you don't do these things, you let others do them." Chen Ji continued to admonish Chen Xidao.
"Your current position, every move, if you do it yourself, many people may have to think, to consider, even your words, a look, they need to think about it, in your words, it is over-interpretation, but this is a last resort." Chen Ji said solemnly to Chen Xi.
"If one day, the person behind you makes a mistake, or the person who supports you is attacked because of some problems, or the person you often instruct is hit, remember, don't ask anything, save the person first, then deal with it, and no matter how bad it is, you have to hand it over to a third party to deal with!" Chen Ji said to Chen Xi very seriously.
"Are you afraid that I will scatter people's hearts?" Chen Xi asked with a long sigh.
"You are very capable, but you don't know how to win people's hearts, you are using interests, ideals, and feelings to pull people into your team, and then rely on your ability to let them follow you forward, and your ability to ensure that those who follow you can get greater benefits, so the prestige is rising, but adversity sees the truth, and there is no guarantee without this affection." Chen Ji nodded silently and said.
"The biggest drawback of my current approach to treating everyone the same is that if they make a mistake, I don't care if they catch up and continue to follow me, but they will eventually get upset." Chen Xi said calmly.
"So, you know everything, but understanding doesn't mean you're going to do it." Chen Ji didn't care about Chen Xi saying what he was going to say.
"Since that's the case, then you just remember one thing, but if there is a problem with the person you use, you will hand it over to Taiwei Liu to deal with, and you don't want to deal with it." Chen Ji said with a slight sigh.
"It's fine." Chen Xi was silent for a while and said, sure enough, sociology has been like this for thousands of years, and this thing can't be said to be science.
After Chen Ji explained to Chen Xi, he turned to Chen Qun and gave Chen ** some matters, and after Chen Ji left, Chen Xi began to have an endless stream of toasters.
It wasn't until Chen Xi made a somewhat overwhelmed look that the rest came to an end.
After the meal was finished, under the escort of the army, after a group of people left the palace, Chen Xi and Jia Xu walked all the way out, and Chen Xi inevitably informed Jia Xu of the matter.
Jia Xu listened to it all the way and didn't answer, until Chen Xi finished speaking, he slowly spoke, "Zichuan, in fact, you also know these things, it's just that you don't want to do this, it's better for you to do it in the way your family said, see the truth in adversity, without this, everything is empty." ”
Chen Xi stopped asking when he heard this.
Jia Xu shook his head and didn't say anything again, in the future, Chen Xi would know how good Chen Ji's plan would be, after all, there were too many people, and it was inevitable that a few scum would appear, even if it was Chen Xi, it would be inevitable to be tricked.
In fact, Chen Xi also knows this, but he understands better that the people he uses are difficult, or it is almost impossible to have the situation that Chen Ji said, because his level is very high, and the people he uses have basically been verified by history, and he also uses the strengths of his people, but Yuan Shu reminded him of this.
[I must be upright and impartial, if I am just for a family and a surname, I can be more casual, but I need to gradually condense the strength of the entire Central Plains behind me, and then take that step, I must not be biased! Chen Xi sighed in his heart.