Calm down and think about it for the past two days, although it is painful, it is actually a relief.

The story of me and her is very ordinary, very ordinary, with a sweet beginning, a tortuous process, and also an unhappy ending.

In 2016, we fell in love for three months and decided to recognize each other, so we met our parents. In fact, before meeting my parents, I was actually very resistant, because her family is a demolition household, and the location of the demolition is a scenic spot, and the current surrounding housing prices are about 35,000......

And I'm just a poor boy from an ordinary rural area, with no background, my parents are countrymen who have never seen much of the world, and the only achievement in my life is a decent house that covers a fairly large area in the village, and my own work is not very stable, and I am not afraid to tell the truth, Brother Xuanwu They all know my details, I am a gunman who hides behind the author, helps others write manuscripts, earns a meager manuscript fee, and has been unknown.

My salary that year was 180,000 yuan, although it sounded okay, but compared with her family's net worth of several million, it paled in comparison.

And my salary is unstable, there is a list coming, I earn 30,000 or 50,000 yuan a month, and without a list, I can only sit in a daze......

So I was afraid, afraid that her parents would look down on me as a poor boy, that her parents would not mind that they would marry their daughter to me until I actually met her parents......

At first, her parents were very nice to me and said a lot of heartwarming things to me, especially when buying a car......

We Hangzhou is limited, I shook the number for a long time did not shake the number plate, it happened that her father had a Zhejiang A license plate, that day her father came to ask me, did you plan to buy a car, I said I have not shaken the license plate, her father said that my license plate you take to use it.

At that time, I was grateful, so I took out my only savings, more than 90,000 yuan, and prepared to mortgage to buy a decent car.

It's a pity that my dad doesn't have any savings, whether it's buying a car or getting engaged, he can't help me too much, of course I don't blame him, I am very grateful that he raised me so big, it's not that he doesn't want to give me the best, he just can't afford it.

Since I was a child, I have tried not to put too much pressure on my parents, they have always suffered and have never enjoyed any blessings, not to mention that my father's health is not very good, he can support this family, and I really have no reason to blame him for not giving me too much for building such a big house for me.

So the matter of getting married, has always been my 96-year-old born poor boy in Zhangluo, her father heard about it and called me, saying let me not force myself too much, it doesn't matter if I can't afford a car, it doesn't matter if I'm poor, we don't sell our daughter, you don't want to borrow money to slap a swollen face and become fat, after borrowing the money, we still want our daughter to pay it back, anyway, our daughter will definitely give it to you, and you don't have to worry about the house, our family has a house, if your hukou moves over, You can also get a house, and we will pay for the house.

At that time, I was very, very moved, thinking that they were so good to me, I must try my best to give them enough face, and I took more than 90,000 yuan to buy a car for 160,000 yuan in installments. But because the license plate belongs to her father, the mortgage needs to be signed by her father, and her father didn't agree to it when he learned about it, so why should he mortgage a car worth more than 100,000 yuan?

Then her father added 100,000 yuan to me and bought a car worth more than 200,000 yuan, and I was quite moved at that time, thinking that her father was really good to me.

Others persuaded me to some extent, saying that you were on the set, the license plate was his, and the car was equal to his, not that he paid for you to buy a car, but that you paid for him to buy a car, but I refuted them all and ignored them, insisting that my father-in-law was afraid that I would have financial pressure to help me, and he treated me as his own son.

It wasn't until after buying the car that he was happier than I was and let me drive him to his friend......

I can't say to show off, but the car seemed to be bought for me by him, and I felt a little uncomfortable at that time, and I felt as if I was really the same as others said, and I paid 100,000 yuan to buy a car for her family, and I had to be regarded as a waste of soft rice.

One step is restricted, one step is restricted.

As soon as I drove back to my house in my new car, her father called me and said: Your mother-in-law is sick, you come back quickly, your wife is studying in college outside, and you can only worry about the affairs of our second elder, anyway, you are writing novels, very free, and you can write at my house.

Then I hurried there, and then I stayed at their house, and took my mother-in-law to the hospital every day, and even my own work was delayed, but fortunately, the business was okay for a while, and the money was not less, otherwise I am afraid that the bride price will be enough to crush me when I get engaged in the second half of the year......

The original negotiated bride price was 208,000 yuan, considering that I had spent 100,000 yuan to buy a car, and I really didn't have much money, her parents were also very generous to enlighten me, it doesn't matter if I don't have money, it would be good to have tens of thousands of yuan and take tens of thousands of yuan......

Then I was so moved that I was desperate to make money in those months, trying to get tens of thousands of dollars as much as possible, and then waiting until October to get engaged......

The introducer of her family spoke: No matter how little it is, it can't be less than 188,000, and our side is all 188,000 to 288,000, and some even 388,000.

On the table where the two families were discussing the bride price, her parents had a completely different attitude from the previous saying that they had tens of thousands of dollars to come over, and they said very strongly that they must be 180,000, and your family wants to marry a daughter-in-law, even if you borrow money, you have to make up this number!

My parents were speechless, so suppressed on the table that they couldn't lift their heads......

At that time, I felt like I was being hit by a bolt from the blue, very unbelievable, is this still the mother-in-law who I used to work tirelessly and risk almost losing my job to pick up and take care of me every day?

Is this still the old man who said, "It doesn't matter if you don't have money, if you have tens of thousands of yuan, you will be given tens of thousands of yuan, even if you are poor, our daughter will give it to you"?

In fact, I was very sad about that dinner, and when I came back, I said to my dad, Dad, I feel uncomfortable, can you not marry this family for the time being.

My dad had a big fight with me at the time, scolding me for not being human, and bringing other girls home to see my parents, how can I say don't want to, how will other girls be people in the future?

My dad's thinking is very feudal, he is the kind of person who thinks that as long as he kisses and brings it home to meet his parents, he must get married, I have talked to a few girlfriends before, but I have never brought them home, this is the first time, my dad decided it.

I didn't want my dad to be too angry, so I agreed to it, but then there was a question, I worked hard for more than half a year after buying the car, and I only saved 100,000 yuan, and they asked for 180,000 yuan, what should I do with the remaining 80,000?

Give me another half a year, 88,000 won't be a problem, but the money will be in a few days!

I, a poor boy who never owed debts, had a sense of embarrassment that I was forced to repay my debts by loan sharks......

Older readers and friends know that in 2016, my Niu Yun had a book of my own, called "Douzhuan Nine Heavens", the results were not bad, and it almost became popular, and then suddenly it disappeared inexplicably, just because I was getting engaged, and in order to raise money, I had to stop this book first.

But I know there is no way, I want to marry her, I can only try to satisfy her parents, but I really can't help it, I am a person in my twenties, and most of my friends of the same age around me are moonlight clan or even old clans, only others ask me to borrow money, there is no one I ask others to borrow money, I am the time to establish a network, where can the network borrow so much money for me to consume?

It just so happened that at this time I met a Canadian author friend, a native of Northeast China, we were very speculative, he even bought a plane ticket to come to Hangzhou to see me, we talked all night and hated each other, we both recognized each other as confidants, and made an appointment to write together, and made some achievements in this field.

He has a lot of money, let's just say that he has several Lamborghinis and cars of similar price......

At that time, I was desperate, so I thought about opening up to him, but we are good brothers who are not mixed with interests, we have cooperated before, and I have indeed made tens of thousands of yuan, and if we have been working together for a win-win situation, we can make a lot of money in the future.

But I knew that once I borrowed money from him, our strong relationship would inevitably break down, and he would think that I was befriending him for his money, and my high income would be cut off in the future.

But there was no way, I was really desperate at that time, so I called my mother-in-law, thinking that we would always have some feelings after getting along for more than half a year, so I told her to tell her the truth to discuss with her: Mom, I only have 100,000 yuan in my hand, my dad has no savings, you see if you can have less, I can't borrow money from my good brother.

Her answer is this: Of course you can't borrow money from him, once you borrow money and he is not in a reciprocal relationship, he will no longer treat you as a friend, it's okay, you let your father borrow it, your family wants to marry a daughter-in-law, you have to let him carry some pounds.

Then my dad was surrounded by small people in the countryside, and it was difficult for him to borrow nearly 100,000 yuan at once, but since my mother-in-law said so, I could only discuss with my father, and as a result, my father, who had never even received 100,000 yuan at one time, was sad at that time, and borrowed such a large amount of money, so how can I live this life, and then blame me for not saving some flowers, why can't I get the money at a critical juncture......

At that time, my donkey temper came up, and I had a big quarrel with my father, I said what do you blame me for this, I am genetically given by you, my ability is limited, I can only get 100,000 yuan, what happened to you as a father to share 100,000 yuan for me......

Now that I think about it, I want to slap myself twice, and I was really unfilial and ignorant at that time!

I have aspired to be independent since I was a child, but I didn't expect to grow so big, and I forced my family to ask for so much money to marry my daughter-in-law.

I had no choice but to borrow money from my Canadian confidant with a bit of luck, and the result was completely unexpected, he and I broke off the relationship very decently and completely......

In other words, I will make at least hundreds of thousands less in the next year, and my loss in the next ten years is immeasurable......

There is a saying that marrying a demolition household will save ten years of struggle, and I will use my painful experience to tell you that marrying a demolition household, you will not only become poor, but you may also fold into all the future prospects......

In this way, I not only stopped updating a book that might be a big hit, but also ruined my nobles and my future.

That incident made me depressed for a long, long time......

I've been looking for opportunities to publish my new book ever since, but as you can see, 2017 and 2018 have passed, and I haven't found a chance to publish a book.

At that time, my father saw that I was in too much pain, so he told me that he would find a way to get me the money and try to add 100,000 yuan to the marriage.

I didn't know how to feel so much pain in my heart at the time, so I begged my mother-in-law for mercy with a crying voice: Mom, otherwise, my father will borrow the money, but can you take this 180,000 80,000 and pretend to be there, you can return the 88,000 to my dad and let him pay off the debt, he is not in good health, I am afraid that he will be worried.

My mother-in-law reluctantly agreed, and then on the day of the engagement, she asked me to get back the 58,000 yuan bride price and the 30,000 yuan red envelope meeting money that the woman gave me, and I made up enough 88,000 yuan to give it to my father and pay it back on the same day.

At this point, the engagement has finally passed.

Blessings are incomparable, disasters do not go alone, and the difficulties of life follow.

After my confidant in Canada broke off relations with me, I lost a lot of financial resources and the opportunity to soar, and I returned to the days when I needed to watch the sky and eat.

Then at this time, my wife was wronged in college, because I bought her a ring, a mobile phone, and a brand-name dress (two years together, I bought her two mobile phones, one is a Samsung S7 curved screen, which seems to be quite expensive when it comes out, and there is an iPhoneX and ipad I bought last year), and she is decently engaged, in short, it attracted the jealousy of my roommate, I rented an apartment near her university without saying a word, and arranged for her to come out to live.

But the security around the place where she went to college is not very good, how bad it is, let's put it this way, in 2017, there are still tail-line idiots and street violence......

So, I drove 126 kilometers to where she went to college, lived with her, and drove her to and from school every day.

We may really have no fate, because I often took my mother-in-law to see a doctor, delayed my work efficiency, and I had a stiff relationship with an important partner, plus I broke off relations with a confidant in Canada, I lost most of my source income, and then moved out the next month of engagement, and after paying the rent and buying some furniture, I was so poor that I only had more than 10,000 yuan left......

At this time, the last straw that crushed me arrived, it was a phone call from my father-in-law, he had a colleague's son who wanted to buy a car, and he was short of money, he loved face and offered to lend the other party 10,000 yuan, afraid that his mother-in-law would not want to, so he asked me to borrow this son-in-law, saying that he would pay me back tomorrow.

Then I gave the last 10,000 yuan to my father-in-law......

Immediately after that, my mother-in-law called me and said: Your father-in-law loves face and lent out the money, and now I don't have much money in my passbook, and I have to keep it for the New Year, so I won't pay you back your 10,000 yuan for the time being......

At that time, I was completely confused......

I just took out all my savings and got engaged last month, and I just earned more than 20,000 yuan this month, and I went to live in a different place, when I was about to spend money on food and clothing, and the next two months at the end of the year are the off-season, and this 10,000 yuan is not good for me and my wife to eat in the next two months......

By the way, since my wife and I got engaged, my mother-in-law hasn't given her a penny of living expenses......

Fortunately, the business was unexpectedly good that month, and I finally got through a difficult time, and then I was very happy, Double 11 bought a lot of things for our little couple, such as boy's brand-name clothes, mobile phones, I bought her thousands of thousands of buys, and I bought hundreds of dollars for myself, it seems that the clothes are almost the same, but in fact, the dozens of clothes I bought add up to a few of her clothes.

And my clothes look boyish, but they are hundreds of dollars boy, and she can see at a glance that I am wearing a fake ......

Girls, they are very particular about brands, I buy cheap goods for myself, it's fine, but she is very particular about famous brands, and I am reluctant to let her dress badly so that her classmates can compare.

After that, my business was as cold as the weather, and the days of our sitting and eating began to be empty, and I began to worry, thinking about the various methods that my mother-in-law's family used against me, coupled with some inevitable friction in my wife's life, the hidden grievances began to slowly appear......

I asked her to ask my mother-in-law to get my money back, I can't live my life, what about the more than one million savings in the house of the demolition household, what are you doing with me as a poor boy with so much money? For example, if you have a dozen sheep in your family, why do you take the only one of my sheep and kill them to eat? We can't live anymore, I still want to start a business, do you still think I'm a family, don't you think I'm a son-in-law? Your family is so rich, you didn't reach out to pull me, but what did you do with my money so dead? What are I going to do if I take all my savings and make me a pauper? I love your daughter so much that I won't abandon her...... All kinds of anger eroded me, and my friends said that I had become a different person, anxious and irritable, and it took me a long time to recover.

Looking back now, I probably had mild depression.

Of course, she who lived with me became a victim of my mild depression, we had all kinds of quarrels, and I was all kinds of irritable, but at that time, although she was very willful and ignorant, at least she knew to be considerate of my difficulties, and it happened that I wanted to start a new stove at that time, so she went to her mother to ask for my bride price back, and her mother reluctantly returned me another 50,000 yuan......

Her mother has been suppressing this matter in her heart, and she is very unhappy with my son-in-law, and she is angry in front of me and says how the son-in-law of someone's family is not like it, and always cheats money from my mother-in-law.

And I'm very aggrieved, I just got my hard-earned hard-earned money back to live, why should you be so cheap......

And I'm not a door-to-door son-in-law......

Anyway, every time I go to her house, I look at my face in a variety of ways, all kinds of yin and yang weird words, I spent tens of thousands of yuan to rent a studio, she said: There is not much money to make, what are you spending so much money to shop the scene?

Meaning you're a big-tailed wolf.

In their hearts, I have become a little white-faced soft bone with an impure purpose of "driving her family's car, spending her family's money, and dying to save face and refuse to be humiliated by them", thinking that I must be going to the bottom of her family's demolition household, I can only say, hehe, is the demolition household very hanging?

Last summer, my wife did an internship in her senior year, returned to her hometown of Hangzhou, and interned at an educational institution near her relative's house where her family now lives, she can't drive, I can't bear her to be exposed to the wind and rain every day, plus my father-in-law always wants to use my car, so I let me go to her house to live, so I put my own home to decorate quite luxuriously 30 square meters of large room not to live (I write very particular about the comfortable environment, I was not satisfied with my father's decoration for me, I spent more than 60,000 yuan to repair the room decoration, and put a treadmill or something, the facilities are quite complete, it is the kind of grade that can stay at home until you die), run to her house to live in a simple small room of no more than 10 square meters (because their house has not been divided, it is to live in someone else's house, the conditions are very poor), and pick her up and go to work every day.

You know, I used to write all night, and I was writing all night, and before I could fall asleep, I had to get up and take her and her niece to work and school, and her twelve-year-old niece once gave me a look on the spot because I was two minutes late......

And all kinds of trivial matters in their family always have to bother me to drive out, who to run today, where to eat tomorrow......

I'm a freelancer, and I can't help but go, and if I don't go, they'll say, 'When can't you write a novel?' After finishing our business first, we will be busy with your own, after all, we are your elders, and we must be important in our affairs.

I was tempted to say, you won't let me calm down and work, and when you ask me about the money again, what will I give you?

At that time, I was still desperate to publish my own book, and I didn't want to write it for others, but because of all the trivial matters in their family, I couldn't calm down and write my own book at all.

If you miss my future, you will forget it, and now you will miss my career.

And I, a poor boy with no money but strong self-esteem, have endured their moral kidnapping for the sake of my beloved wife, and have hidden these words in my heart very deeply, very deeply......

But I have a disagreement with my wife, I have something to say, and the content of the quarrel is the same, I always reason with her: your parents are so prejudiced against me, I can only swallow my anger as a son-in-law, but you are their biological daughter, you must enlighten them, so that they don't always look at me as poor and treat me as a cow and a horse, respect is mutual, I don't ask them to respect me like their elders, but at least don't trample on me, occasionally trample on it I can be regarded as a beating on my son-in-law, But the family living together always tramples on me, there is no bottom line, and the clay people are also angry.

And the only thing I gained from arguing with her was to realize a truth: I can never make sense with a woman.

She is a mother, she listens to her parents in everything, and her parents put pressure on me on my parents: who made your parents useless and didn't give you money to get married.

It means that they don't look down on me because I don't have money, and I don't have money because I don't have a good parent, and I deserve to be trampled on by the woman.

And then every time she stupidly used this theory to retort at me: who let you have such a father, who refuses to help you share the pressure at all, and lets you carry everything by yourself.

But the problem is, my dad has done enough for me! He's done everything he can to give me the best of him! He can't help me, it's because his ability is limited! Can I still force my father to death like you forced me?

I'm very aggrieved, I feel very annoyed by their nose, I proposed that I shook the license plate myself, and I urgently need to buy a car, and now this car is considered to be bought by you, and I will return my 100,000 yuan, and I will buy another one, because it is rumored all around that this car is bought by my father-in-law, and I also think that I am very aggrieved, and I will pay 100,000 yuan......

But since my father-in-law thinks that he bought it, then return the 100,000 yuan I paid, and if you can, return the 70,000 yuan dowry I still kept, 170,000, plus the 200,000 I saved, buy an Audi A6, give you a decent son-in-law, and save half of my life to listen to others say that I eat soft rice every day.

Of course they don't want to......

I don't expect this kind of childish means to defeat them, I just want to remind them, don't mistake me for your son-in-law, relying on your family's prosperity and wealth, every penny I took back from you is my own hard-earned hard-earned money, and the car I drove was also bought by myself with all my savings, you either refund me, or don't say that you bought this car for me to drive.

But I never expected that they would turn me into an army, saying that I had no money and loved vanity, and actually reached out to ask my father-in-law for 100,000 yuan to buy a luxury car......

I'm so angry with my old blood.

Eldest brother! The money is my own!

Later, I found out that I couldn't explain the reason with their family, I was too young to play their moral kidnapping, so I coaxed my wife: Otherwise, I look really uncomfortable every day when I live in your house, anyway, you are married to me, you and I go back to my house, don't do the job your parents found for you for the time being, anyway, there is not much money to make, and I can afford to support you, you let me pick up and drop off work every day, I lose a lot more money than you make.

My wife listened to me at that time, so she went home with me, which completely annoyed my mother-in-law and father-in-law......

But I don't care, I'm marrying a wife, not a husband, and after getting a marriage certificate, my wife should have gone back to my house with me.

Her family's resettlement house is about to be divided, and if I move to her house, I will be able to take a set of demolition and resettlement houses for nothing, and according to the surrounding housing prices, I will be able to sell it for five or six million in the future.

Her parents persuaded me to move the hukou when the attitude returned to the previous so kind, always emphasized: we don't want you to be the son-in-law, we are to let you take this house, you let your parents rest assured, the child is with your surname in the future, don't think too much, the door-to-door son-in-law is so cheap we don't want it, anyway, the money will come out, you can see it yourself if you move or not, although your house is going to be demolished, but the location is not as good as ours, it must be cost-effective to get a house on our side, but say okay, not a door-to-door son-in-law, It's up to you to decide whether you move or not.

At this time, I didn't really listen to their rhetoric, but considering that my family was indeed rural, there was not much money to pay for the demolition, and the houses in the scenic spots over there were still valuable, so I moved my hukou over.

I know that after taking this house, they will definitely trample on me even more in the future, but I don't care, anyway, I brought my wife to my own house, and you can't step on me if you want to.

At the same time, I began to save money in order to prepare for my marriage in the second half of this year, and the investment in the work I am doing is a bit large, so I can only cut back on food and clothing, at least I can't spend tens of thousands of yuan to buy clothes or something like the previous year......

However, fortunately, my mother-in-law said that I don't need money for drinks, so I am very economical in my budget, and I can do it for a maximum of 100,000 yuan.

Just save a little bit and use it sparingly.

I made and saved and saved, and tried to lose weight back to my previous skinny guy before I got married, and to be her most handsome groom.

Then at this time, the mother-in-law came with the news, it was still the same old way: the demolition house came down, and it may cost more than 400,000 yuan to buy it, and your family wants to marry a daughter-in-law, and you can't afford to pay all the money, so you have to get at least half of it, let your father borrow money, it's not so easy to marry a daughter-in-law, you always have to carry some catties and two.

I'm confused again!

But after getting engaged, I wasn't too shocked when I got used to my mother-in-law's routine, I just thought that the boat would go straight to the bridge, and there would always be money to buy a house, but I comforted myself so much in my heart, and I was still very anxious......

In this anxiety, I reluctantly calmed down to prepare for "Earthlings Can't Be So Crazy", I don't want to be delayed by their family anymore to delay my own career, I am ruthless that I must publish a book this year!

But her parents didn't stop there, and let us go to her house for various reasons, arranging our itinerary on their own initiative.

First of all, a relative of her family was going to get married, and he asked us to run a few times, and then before that, there was nothing to do, but my father-in-law was born on the day I scheduled to send the book, that is, at the end of March, and said that he wanted me to drive the car to his house for him to use, and he would drive to Suzhou to run errands.

I was in a hurry, I finally finished other people's lists, I can have time to save my own book, I want to code words! Why do you want me to waste time at her house at such a critical juncture?

Then my anxiety exploded that day, I fidgeted, and then I broke my foot while kicking the toilet door......

That's right, the right foot thumb was comminuted, kicked the door......

All my friends around me wondered, how could anyone be so stupid as to kick the door and kick himself to the bone?

I also wonder what I was forced to do, I'm going to be crazy!

Then I went to the hospital, and the doctor said that I had to get a steel injection, and I would be hospitalized if I was hospitalized. I said that I would send out the book at the end of March, and I couldn't delay it, so I took a conservative treatment, which was to put on a plaster cast and go home to lie down and recuperate......

You know, the saddest thing is that I was a blessing in disguise even if I had a broken toe.

Her family finally had no reason to ask me to go out, and she used to ask me to drive to her house twice in three days, so that I could experience what it means to be a dog and a horse......

Now, I can finally code words at home, and I don't have to waste time when I go out.

So, there was the last book "Earthlings Can't Be So Crazy", but the matter is not over yet......

Everyone also saw "Earthlings Can't Be So Crazy", eunuchs......

One reason why the eunuch is because I have high hopes for this book, I quieted down and wrote a book of my own, and the price I paid was one of my own thumbs.

However, as everyone knows, even if our score data is so good (I haven't brushed it yet, it's purely a real grade), the fantasy editor still doesn't recommend it, even so, I'm still continuing to write, but then why can't I hold on to it?

You guessed it, it's my good mother-in-law's family.

After my hukou moved to her house, there was a transition fee of 1,600 yuan a month to take, and at the beginning of April, the demolition and relocation office called me to get my transition fee, and then I lay in bed because of my feet, and I didn't go, and it took a week for my wife to get it, and the result was that the money has been received by my father-in-law, we don't know, my wife went to ask my father-in-law to take it, and then my father-in-law was furious, so angry that he called me in the middle of the night to spray ah, saying that you are so vicious, so tight to ask for this money?

Then he urged me to send my wife back and not want her to stay at my house.

I was speechless...... The demolition and relocation office asked us to get it, we didn't know you had already taken it......

I thought that the second elder would always be good for a few days, but it turned out that the second elder was still angry for almost a week, and he made trouble for several days, and I also saw that my wife cried for several days, and I really didn't have the heart to write it again, so another book died.

Later, I thought about it for a long time and figured out the lifeline, so I called the second elder to coax the second elder, and listened to a weird insult, and then I explained to them in a good way, which means that we don't know that you have taken it, you love to take this money, you can take it, and they will dissipate their anger and no longer split our little two.

In the rare purity, this book "Looks Like a Great Demon King" began to be conceived and written.

Then, in mid-April, her cousin's wedding arrived, and my toe had only been broken for two weeks, and the swelling had not yet subsided, and my mother-in-law actually asked if I could remove the cast and remove the crutches first, and then come back to lie down and rest after the wedding......

What the hell am I ......

Although I didn't have to go home to write a book, it is undeniable that my injuries were indeed very serious, comminuted fractures, and the doctor told me to lie in bed for two months before I could get off the ground......

Of course I didn't agree, you don't care for my body, I have to love myself.

Later, it was her cousin who called me and said, "Since you are injured, I will not arrange for you to attend."

I breathed a sigh of relief, and I was finally able to lie down at home and code words.

I thought that was the end of the matter.

As a result, the next week, my mother-in-law asked someone to introduce someone to ask when my family would go to propose, my father was very concerned, and said that we would go to propose, I said that we will only get married in the second half of the year, what are you going to do now, you will give a specific date, when will you get married, we will call them to tell them, let them feel at ease, don't go now.

As a result, my wife said that my mother-in-law had already booked a hotel and waited for us to go, and my father was happy to think that my mother-in-law was so face-saving that it would not work if I didn't go, I meant that if you want to go, you can bring 100,000 yuan for wine and money.

My father said: Didn't you say that her family doesn't want money for drinks?

I said: Her family said that they didn't want so many dowries, and that her family would buy the resettlement house, and that I was not a son-in-law, but what happened later?

At this time, my father was still very naïve to trust their rhetoric: no, they said that they would not ask for alcohol money.

As a result, my father ignored my dissuasion and happily went to the Hongmen banquet, and then, without accident, he was slapped in the face......

When my mother-in-law saw that our family went, she didn't bring an introducer, and the most important thing was that she didn't bring 100,000 yuan, so she turned her face on the spot, and then she began to scold my father.

Then my father was inexplicably aggrieved, and broke out on the spot and quarreled with her.

This day is the day when I released the book "Looks Like the Great Demon King".

The parents of both sides had a big fight.

That night, when my wife was happily looking at the wedding dress, my mother-in-law called, saying that she wanted to regret her marriage, and did not agree with her marrying someone like us, saying that my father is such a beast temper, and she will definitely suffer if she marries into my family, and that I must also have my father's temper gene, saying that I am a bad seed, and I don't worry that my daughter will be with me, and I want us to divorce.

How ugly and ugly it was, how ugly it sounded, that night was the first night of my insomnia.

But I endured it, for her sake.

At the same time, my father-in-law also sent a WeChat message to my wife: You think about it yourself, you don't have a good life if you marry into this family.

My wife replied very aggrievedly: He is very good to me, and his father is his father.

My father-in-law replied: Is there anything to eat for you?

Oh, now the truth is revealed...... This is a blatant suspicion that I am poor.

I finally realized the crux of the problem, so much pride and prejudice actually stemmed from the wrong households, they are urban demolition households, and we are rural households that have not been demolished.

They made a fuss for a long time, and the next day it was still arguing, and I couldn't help it, so I sent my wife home.

Then he was scolded again at their house.

The mother-in-law said: You don't make any sense at all, at least 100,000 yuan of wine money should be put on the table!

I was stunned: Didn't your family say you didn't want the money for drinks?

Now the house is going to be bought by my family again, and the money for drinks is still needed, plus marriage, wouldn't it cost 600,000 yuan?

Where can I give you 600,000?

I mean I really don't have enough money, but I am sincere to your daughter, and I have decided that she in this life, they are still hard-hearted, and they insist on breaking us up.

On the way out of their house, I couldn't stop crying as I drove.

I knew we really couldn't go on this time.

But later, my mother-in-law was still very compassionate, and found an introducer to persuade me to apologize to them, bring tens of thousands of yuan for drinks, and maybe consider giving my daughter to me.

Everyone knows that people who are too hurt will die.

I've been so wounded by their family that I don't even have the strength to go against the grain.

But I still want to fight for it, I suppressed my anger, and said to my mother-in-law and the introducer for the last time, money, I only have 200,000 yuan, what do you want to do, buy a house, then my wine money and marriage money will be gone, if you want wine money, then I can't afford this house.

As a result, somehow, these words made my mother-in-law angry again, scolding me and my father for being virtuous, both of which are bad species, saying that we don't understand reason, and asking us if our wife is asking for nothing?

I'm just hehe, and it's the last time, taking care of both sides, and I endured it.

If the object is not my mother-in-law and father-in-law, who dares to scold my father in front of me, and scold my father for being a bad species, I can fight with him!

However, for her sake, I finally endured it again.

But I'm tired, I don't want to be entangled in these messy household chores every day, I want to write books wholeheartedly, I don't want to lose my dreams, my career, my soul for her.

You know, the happiest time of my day is to look at your comments and smile, these days, you are really my only consolation.

A few days later, the woman may have figured it out and said that I should apologize, and if I really don't have any money, I don't need the money for drinks.

But for the woman, it's a matter of money, and for my family, it's really not a matter of money.

I have to think about myself, too.

Every time I wanted to open a book, their family would always make a big fuss and force me to stop watching, forcing me to run for their family, and not have the heart to focus on work.

Whether it was unintentional, or they were afraid that I would not be able to control it in the future and suppress it intentionally, they all stepped on me too hard......

I'm tired, I've had enough.

I will never compromise again.

For you, for our "Looks Like the Great Demon King", this time, no matter what, I won't stop changing.

Therefore, I chose to listen to the woman's proposal and divorce.

Free yourself and obey them one last time.

Now, all I have is you.

Family, really, it's just you.

Thank you for always being with me.