Chapter 280: Good love is a woman's highest level of skin care
The honey of love makes people beautiful because of love, and the arsenic of love. Frost makes people ugly with love.
Although Xia Xue is more than 44 years old, she looks like a 17-year-old beautiful girl, her hair is black and shiny, there is no wrinkle on her face, although she has given birth to 4 children, her figure is still slender and light, graceful, not only not out of shape, but more concave and convex, sexy and charming, standing with 46-year-old Li Shimin, she doesn't look like Li Shimin's knotted wife, but like his delicate daughter.
Many women from all walks of life in Datang regard the eldest grandson queen as their idol and goddess of immortality, and some people often consult Xia Xue because of love and marriage and other issues, and Xia Xue also enthusiastically answers if she has time.
"May I ask your majesty, why are you still so young and beautiful?"
"Because I have a good husband!" Xia Xue replied with a smile.
She gave many examples to show that good love has a great effect on a woman's beauty, good love is a woman's highest skin care products, and good love can make a woman rejuvenate and stay young forever.
Wang Fan was originally a beautiful girl with white skin and beautiful eyes, but after two years of marriage, she became thin and haggard, and her face was dark and yellow.
Her husband is tall and handsome, Wang Fan loves her husband very much, and her husband loves him very much before marriage, and will kiss her, hug her and care about her all day long.
Wang Fan is the kind of person who is wholeheartedly devoted to love and does not leave a way back, and she poured all her love into her husband after marriage. She felt that she loved her husband so much, and that he should love her the same.
But the results were disappointing to her. Wang Fan's meticulous care made her husband feel depressed, and her husband said: "You have enslaved me with your 'love' just like people kill widows with morality!" His husband felt unfree.
Wang Fan's love is red. Bare. Nude, vigorous, and her husband told her that 'just because you think a good dish in a restaurant doesn't mean you have to be a chef'. He admits that he has love for Wang Fan, but he doesn't know how to love. As for getting married, he is also half-pushed and half-knotted, how can such a husband give spiritual satisfaction to Wang Fan who loves him so deeply, needs security, and needs love?
On the day of the marriage registration, her husband didn't understand that Wang Fan's words 'do you regret it' were testing herself, and all she was looking forward to was her husband's sentence 'I don't regret it, I will take care of you for the rest of your life'. Her husband annoyed her and scolded her for being 'cautious', and the two began to quarrel on the first day of their marriage.
In order not to embarrass her husband, Wang Fan deliberately dressed up and went to her mother-in-law's house, but her husband said that she was a chicken! How can I not be heartbroken when my heart is trampled on like this? ……
Wang Fan waited for a day and finally looked forward to her husband coming home and greeted him happily, but because her husband was angry in the unit, he kept putting on a stinky face for Wang Fan after returning home. Wang Fan wanted to sit on his lap, but her husband was annoyed by her, pushed her away, and looked at Wang Fan who fell to the ground and bruised his knees, but his husband ignored him......
One night, the two had a big quarrel, and after the quarrel, the sad Wang Fan ran away in the middle of the night, but did not go far, to see if her husband came out to look for it, but saw that her husband, who had not been found for a while, actually went back to sleep and slept very soundly......
Once her husband and friends drank at her house until midnight, Wang Fan casually said, "It's too late, don't drink." His husband felt that she had slapped him in front of his friends, so he got up and gave Wang Fan a slap, Wang Fan wanted to defend himself aggrievedly, and then he gave two loud slaps, which made Wang Fan's face swollen and the corners of his mouth bleeding. His friends hurriedly dissuaded him, and he also said eloquently: "My wife is used to fight, and I won't go to the house for three days." ”……
But again and again, both sides can reconcile, almost every time Wang Fan said how can you be like this, her husband said why are you like this, and then Wang Fan said apologetically It seems that I was wrong again...... Yes, you are wrong...... So what to do? …… Change!
Her husband has always felt wronged and never thought he was at fault. It's ridiculous. And Wang Fan stupidly thinks that she is wrong in the end every time, and admits her mistake to her husband.
His husband is conservative and feudal, does not know how to give love, he has the traditional machismo of ancient men, he wants his wife to live a peaceful life, he thinks that he wants to kiss me sweetly when he gets married, he thinks that his wife should serve himself, cooking and doing housework that should be, of course he will be unhappy and don't want to say anything, that is normal, self-righteous, the most hated is that others doubt their ability, obviously they haven't done anything, but they are arrogant. He couldn't help why Wang Fan was so sharp and sharp, he thought that if she was gentle, he would be able to be gentle.
quarrel again and again, inflict the most vicious attacks on the people you love the most, and sprinkle salt on your lover's wounds again and again.
Maybe he really doesn't love Wang Fan, but for Wang Fan, falling in love with him and marrying him is indeed a disaster.
What's wrong with falling in love with someone? This statement cannot be used as an excuse.
But love can't solve everything.
The two finally broke up, and Wang Fan, who was deeply hit, became thin and haggard, with a dull yellow face, and also suffered from schizophrenia, and went crazy all day long.
A star of a Datang variety show, she is 44 years old this year, and her name is Huo Ling.
Dressed in a burgundy embroidered cheongsam, gentle and tranquil. Although she is middle-aged, her bright-eyed and kind appearance and bumpy figure are no different from the beautiful and playful she in the variety show more than ten years ago.
Among the female stars who are either young and beautiful or have a calm temperament, she may not be the best-looking, but she is the most contrasting in recent years.
Huo Ling, who has always been known for her beauty, is really ugly and unbearable when women are in full bloom in their thirties.
During her marriage to her ex-husband Guo Jia, Huo Ling, who was tired of clarification by the scandal of domestic violence and cheating during the man's pregnancy, was often photographed listless and with swollen eyes.
The divorce lawsuit that tore up for two years in order to earn custody of her daughter made the once charming female star cry into a greasy woman with a loose face, a bloated figure, and no image at all.
Just when many people thought that her heyday career came to an abrupt end, she came back with gorgeous beauty at the age of 40. The sister-brother relationship with Luo Quan, who is 8 years apart, makes her younger and younger and more girly when she is immersed in love.
This man, who is 8 years younger than her, accompanies her to work out, takes care of her daughter, and takes her on tours around the world to see the scenery.
will accompany and comfort her when she is tired, and cheer her up when she is frustrated, so that Huo Ling will become younger and more beautiful, and even many people say: From the outside, Luo Quan, who is eight years younger, is not worthy of Huo Ling, who is becoming more and more beautiful.
Qian Zhongshu, a famous writer in later generations, said: "In front of the beloved man, every woman has the skill of rejuvenation." ”
So, if you have met the right person, you can know by looking at the face.
Xia Xue told another story:
When Chu Jiao first joined the work, she had a relationship, and her mother was very opposed at that time.
Because, Chu Jiao, who originally had bright white skin and a ruddy complexion, not only lost more than ten pounds in less than a year, but also had sunken cheeks, dark yellow complexion, and acne marks all over her face.
Every time I go home, I always look weak and listless, and I often say that I have a sore mouth. Frightened, her mother thought she was seriously ill and forced her to go to the hospital for a check-up.
The results of the examination showed that Chu Jiao had breast nodules, and there was inflammation in the stomach and intestines. The doctor said that this is due to frequent sulking, which leads to stagnation of heart qi and lack of qi and blood. In addition, if you don't eat and rest well, your stomach and intestines will be damaged. In the long run, it will be very harmful to the body.
has always loved to laugh and make trouble, and Chu Jiao, who is bright and bright, has undergone such a big change. Her mother was shocked and angry, and after careful questioning, Chu Jiao confessed that she had a boyfriend. But the other party has a short temper and beats and scolds at every turn.
Once the gas is set, it is even more indomitable, and the quarrel and cold war must be won or lost. She was wronged in love, but she didn't get any pity.
Later, with the strong interference of her parents, the relationship ended without a hitch. After the breakup, Chu Jiao was not as sad and sad as she expected.
On the contrary, because he was no longer angry, his body and appearance miraculously recovered slowly under the feeling of comfort.
Now, Chu Jiao, who is married and has children, still has palpitations when she mentions that unbearable past. said that he was fortunate to be awakened by his parents back then, otherwise he would continue to practice himself like that, and now he would not be ugly.
Haruki Murakami, a famous writer in later generations, said,
"For people who love each other, the other person's heart is the best house."
But for women, the love of the other party is the highest skin care product in the world.
Because, in bad love, there must be someone who doesn't cherish you. You are coquettish, you cry is cowardly, and your anger is even more hateful.
Over time, emotions are depressed, heart qi is stagnant, and toxins are difficult to discharge. Naturally, his face is sad, his eyes are full of resentment, and he is extremely ugly.
And in the right love, there must also be someone who cherishes you, who respects, tolerates, understands and loves. Let you fall sweet, happy, and naturally smile and radiant.
Love with love is honey and oil, better and better. Loveless love is worse and worse.
Love is in people, cold and warm self-knowing.
But in any case, women must live in warm love, because that is the first prerequisite for living beautifully.
Good love is the highest level of skin care products
Boccaccio once said:
"True love inspires and awakens the dormant power and hidden talent within him."
Cao Lan is a female leader of a company, in her forties, and is still active at the forefront of the workplace. In her words, to live to old age is to toss to old age, so as to live up to the gift of time.
Cao Lan, who has been blessed by the years, is indeed as good as her name, her facial features are not very stunning, there are many fine lines left by the rings around the corners of her eyes, and her skin is not as shiny and tender as that of young people.
But she smiled softly and walked lightly. It seems that she is only a little more mature and stable than a girl in her early twenties.
Cao Lan once said that there is only one secret to her beauty and beauty, and that is her husband.
At first, everyone thought it was just a joke, but then they understood after listening to Cao Lan talk about it:
A right person, a good love, can really make people amaze the time and tender the years.
When I was young, who didn't meet a few scumbags. At that time, Cao Lan, who had just graduated, and her alumni of the same level confirmed a romantic relationship.
It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, but after they are really together, she knows how different their concepts of life are.
She wants to be more sophisticated in her business, and when she enrolls in the class for certification, he will say that it is a waste of energy and financial resources;
She loved flowers, paintings, and music, but he said they were useless things;
She worked hard and worked hard for the future life of the two, but he kept his dead salary, drank and played cards, and complained about the heavens, and finally was arrested and put in prison for alcoholism and injury.
In that love, she was often so angry that she washed her face with tears and stayed up all night to lose sleep.
One day, when I looked at myself in the mirror, I found that my skin was dry and peeling due to irregular work and rest, and my eyes were swollen and red due to long-term soaking of tears, not to mention the huge black bags under my eyes and the corners of my mouth that were dry and pulled, and the whole person seemed to be more than ten years old.
With the hard work and the persuasion of her family, she finally ended the love that made her uglier and uglier.
Later, she met her current husband, a man who was a year younger than her but made her look better and better.
What skin care product can be more nourished than the care of love.
He supports her in her career and will understand her busyness and take on household chores. She will be encouraged to pursue her hobbies, and will also discuss with her the good and bad of painting and music.
Occasionally, there are disputes, but they are also on the basis of facts, and never overnight.
In this love, she is becoming more and more relaxed and happy.
Later writer Lian Yue said:
"Love is unpredictable, but there is a basic law called 'addition'. Neither love nor marriage can allow women to detract from their independence and value, and they cannot detract from their own unique joy of existence. ”
That is, two people who love each other are stronger, funnier, happier, and more powerful to fight against the stupidity of the world than when they were independent.
Whether it's "addition" or "subtraction" is all up to our feelings and choices.
Love is certainly an infinite beauty that people yearn for, but it can't make us ugly because of love.
Therefore, what is more effective than skin care products in love is to find someone who does "addition" to make each other's world more exciting.
Xia Xue also said: "Good love will make you a better version of yourself!"
Liu Chen, who works in the entertainment industry of Datang, once posted a set of photos of his wife Tian Hong, called before and after love.
Although it is funny to be black, it is undeniable that before meeting Liu Chen, the appearance and state of the female star Tian Hong are indeed indescribable.
is obviously a popular little flower who is young and has a good future, but she always looks old-fashioned and cold, and she really can't be linked to the fashion aura of the "star".
This has a lot to do with the environment in which she grew up, due to the divorce of her parents, her mother has taken her to live in a fixed place since she was a child. Even when she entered the entertainment industry, she looked more dull and less talked than her peers.
Because of her single parenthood, she is extremely unconfident in her love marriage, and even threatened to be an "unmarried".
At a party, the lively and active Liu Chen suddenly broke into her backwater-like quiet life.
She doesn't like to talk, so he keeps talking; She doesn't like to drink and socialize, so he blocks in front of her and takes care of everything; She doesn't know how to get along with people, so he heats up the scene so that she has no distractions.
Tian Hong said: Before I knew him, I would tell myself in my diary not to do this or that in the future. After getting to know him, I learned to cry, tear off the mask of suppressed emotions, and no longer hide being my true self.
From interpersonal passivity to initiative, from emotional escape to face, from the small family jasper on the drama road all the way to the position of the big heroine.
After getting married, Tian Hong's appearance and clothes have skyrocketed, becoming more fashionable and beautiful. In addition to acting, yoga, painting, calligraphy, and handicrafts are all handy.
In her 40s, the mother of two children, she is still beautiful with short hair, and she has become the spokesperson of "reverse growth".
A famous person once said:
"What is the best love?"
"The most beautiful love is to become a better person because of one person."
What is a better love and what is a better person.
The Love Master Says:
"A good love should make your world vast, like walking on an endless grassland.
And bad love makes your world narrower and narrower, and finally there is only a square inch of shelter under the eaves. ”
Good love makes you, who have no ideals and no ambitions, become idealistic and ambitious, and know how to be tolerant and considerate.
And bad love will make you more timid, narrow-minded and selfish, and the death and life of love are nothing more than frogs at the bottom of the well.
When facing love, women will always have the confusion that the flowers are gradually entering the charming eyes, and they don't know whether the love they are about to enter is good or bad.
They will look for all kinds of proofs in books, they will waver under the rhetoric of relatives and friends around them, and they will ask themselves over and over again: whether the person in front of them is their lover.
Xia Xue told them:
"Good love is one that allows you to see the whole world through one person.
Bad love is when you give up the whole world for one person. ”
Xia Xue smiled and said elegantly:
"If you have doubts about love, the easiest way to tell the difference is:
In the eyes of others, are you getting uglier and uglier, or are you getting better and better-looking? ”